FabSwingers.com forum: What's wrong with just licking?

By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

An open question here peeps.

I know every man says it, but I adore licking and rubbing a woman to orgasm...in fact I'm mainly up for meetings where we do just that and not penetrative sex.

But, I can't seem to find women up for that, or, who actually believe that's all I want to do...by that I do mean all the caressing, stroking etc too.

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every woman is into it. I'm not really a fan of it if I'm honest.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"An open question here peeps.

I know every man says it, but I adore licking and rubbing a woman to orgasm...in fact I'm mainly up for meetings where we do just that and not penetrative sex.

But, I can't seem to find women up for that, or, who actually believe that's all I want to do...by that I do mean all the caressing, stroking etc too.

Why?"

I would have no problem with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to have someone come round and just Lick and play with _y pussy and not have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Licking is my fave and can understand what you are saying op

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Variety is what works for me. I would find that boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for people's information I find this incredibly sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An open question here peeps.

I know every man says it, but I adore licking and rubbing a woman to orgasm...in fact I'm mainly up for meetings where we do just that and not penetrative sex.

But, I can't seem to find women up for that, or, who actually believe that's all I want to do...by that I do mean all the caressing, stroking etc too.

Why?

I would have no problem with that

I adore licking a woman to orgasm it gives me great satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd find it frustrating; if you'd got me all worked up with foreplay and then it's a "thanks for the meet love, tarraa"

Licking is foreplay, foreplay is to get the pussy swollen to receive something inside, cock/dildo. Well that's how I see it anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for people's information I find this incredibly sexy "

SoSINsational So do I, by the way you have fantastic legs and pink shoes wouldn't mind getting my tongue to the top of those legs mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for people's information I find this incredibly sexy

SoSINsational So do I, by the way you have fantastic legs and pink shoes wouldn't mind getting my tongue to the top of those legs mmm

Iv in the past just requested this of a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for people's information I find this incredibly sexy

SoSINsational So do I, by the way you have fantastic legs and pink shoes wouldn't mind getting my tongue to the top of those legs mmm

Iv in the past just requested this of a meet

Would be happy to offer my services if your ever up in Leeds

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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I use to have someone come round and just Lick and play with _y pussy and not have sex

I've managed to only find that twice in all the years I've been a swinger.

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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

for people's information I find this incredibly sexy "

Have you had meets to do just that?

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I'd really like that too, love being played with for ages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'd find it frustrating; if you'd got me all worked up with foreplay and then it's a "thanks for the meet love, tarraa"

Licking is foreplay, foreplay is to get the pussy swollen to receive something inside, cock/dildo. Well that's how I see it anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love this. Any women in Hull who just want to be played with and licked, give me a shout x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use to have someone come round and just Lick and play with _y pussy and not have sex

I've managed to only find that twice in all the years I've been a swinger."

If you would travel as far as Daventry I wouldnt say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women just aren't a fan. I really don't enjoy receiving oral.

Having said that, there are quite a few soft swing couples on here who might like a guy who would meet for a soft threesome. Just an idea.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An open question here peeps.

I know every man says it, but I adore licking and rubbing a woman to orgasm...in fact I'm mainly up for meetings where we do just that and not penetrative sex.

But, I can't seem to find women up for that, or, who actually believe that's all I want to do...by that I do mean all the caressing, stroking etc too.

Why?"

I'm genuinely with you OP, absolutely love it and have done this in the past!

I can personally get just as much enjoyment from the whole 'foreplay' thing as anything else, some people say 'yeah but what fun do you get out of it?' - it's the doing it that is the fun!!

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

mmm this is perfect, any ladies in Dundee area up for this??

( sorry for hijacking lol )

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I have to admit I like it but its as frustrating as hell

I squirt alot and over and over again, so a guy licking n playing will get soaked and yes its amazing... But I get to a point when I dnt wasn't his tongue or finger there no more and really really want full sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An open question here peeps.

I know every man says it, but I adore licking and rubbing a woman to orgasm...in fact I'm mainly up for meetings where we do just that and not penetrative sex.

But, I can't seem to find women up for that, or, who actually believe that's all I want to do...by that I do mean all the caressing, stroking etc too.

Why?"
that would suit me fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to admit I like it but its as frustrating as hell

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

I jst love a good licking start of slow and make it a long long very long time before u come up for air hmmmm

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

Good idea bro I'd love if it a woman requested only this off me but in my experience they prefer penetratiom after a certain amount of this so it wud be difficult to keep within the limits!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I've tried until last night lol no sex, just oral and I was very surprised

Would certainly do it again especially for just all the teasing

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

for people's information I find this incredibly sexy "

Ohhhwaaaa.......we can't message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find a woman that would just like to get off with oral and mutual masterbating.

Tbh a woman who just wants to ride my face will do me most days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to find a woman that would just like to get off with oral and mutual masterbating.

Tbh a woman who just wants to ride my face will do me most days lol"
lol now u sound desperate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to find a woman that would just like to get off with oral and mutual masterbating.

Tbh a woman who just wants to ride my face will do me most days lol lol now u sound desperate x"

Lol Just tired and horny right now haha. Issue with my job. Long hours and when I'm tired for some reason I become super horny.

If I could turn it off I would believe me because it does make me look that way haha. Ffs now I'm just another desperate perv pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all the foreplay, to be honest I'm not really that bothered about penatrive sex I prefer meets where we don't, I'm more than happy to meet for just oral, both ways thought I like to give back too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my favourite indulgence...

So erotic, so uncomplicated and so mutually enjoyable.

Slow, sensual licking by appointment here for any ladies who desire it!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

That's not enough for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to find a woman that would just like to get off with oral and mutual masterbating.

Tbh a woman who just wants to ride my face will do me most days lol lol now u sound desperate x

Lol Just tired and horny right now haha. Issue with my job. Long hours and when I'm tired for some reason I become super horny.

If I could turn it off I would believe me because it does make me look that way haha. Ffs now I'm just another desperate perv pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An open question here peeps.

I know every man says it, but I adore licking and rubbing a woman to orgasm...in fact I'm mainly up for meetings where we do just that and not penetrative sex.

But, I can't seem to find women up for that, or, who actually believe that's all I want to do...by that I do mean all the caressing, stroking etc too.

Why?"

Couldn't think of anything more boring .

Would rather stay in and read a book or wash my hair to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I have a fantasy of been used by a group of ladies for there oral pleasure a bit like a bukake in reverse lol love to see a female orgasam and I think I would like the femdom side of been denied my orgasam. But having said that I would be happy to end with full sex to or to be the prep for a cpl so he can enjoy the super sensitive wet pussy of his wife after I have worked her up to demand fucking

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I love licking pussy, and I have licked a girls pussy for a good 2 hours. My mouth on her clit and my fingers inside her, Iv made her cum over and over, after 2 hours she is done, sometimes she doesn't even want to have sex

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Think I'd get bored after a while, and very frustrated if there was nothing else

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By *mba sweetWoman
over a year ago

suffolk.

I love it. Get your head down there, a little break then lets start again and no I dont get bored if its good. Hmmm whos close lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it. Get your head down there, a little break then lets start again and no I dont get bored if its good. Hmmm whos close lol"

If only I was close, would be there in a flash

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By *mba sweetWoman
over a year ago

suffolk.

A flash is no good I want it for hours, days even lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A flash is no good I want it for hours, days even lol"

wrap those legs round my head, and make me stay there for days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A flash is no good I want it for hours, days even lol"

I adore it. Last time I licked pussy I was so turned on a came with anything touching me.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Yeap, would work for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find that boring and it would leave me a tad frustrated!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"I have to admit I like it but its as frustrating as hell

Yes I agree too

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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

wow..this licked off a good amount of debate...and very split views....doesn't seem to be much middle ground in the opinions..either yes it's fine now go down...or it's too boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love all the foreplay, to be honest I'm not really that bothered about penatrive sex I prefer meets where we don't, I'm more than happy to meet for just oral, both ways thought I like to give back too"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely go for a meet like that. Would be more than happy with just giving oral for the right woman.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral can be very pleasurable. However I get most of my kicks from the reactions from my partner. If he was really into it then yes. However I'd start to feel pretty selfish and wouldn't be comfortable with that.

I agree it doesn't always have to be about penetrative sex. Foreplay and sensuality is often very underrated. Variety is key I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use to have someone come round and just Lick and play with _y pussy and not have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring to be honest, like someone says, its part of foreplay, would feel like I was being used for your own satisfaction and not mine (as I don't orgasm), and would leave me incredibly frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it for a short time. And sometimes a little horny frustration can help. But as a full time thing...... No way. Not when I look at my mans lovely cock daily.

Mrs x

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

I'm with you OP, theres nothing better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it....

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

If we arrange to meet some people for soft swap, then we expect to have oral for longer than normal, but there are so many other things to do as well. Innuendo mailed back to a guy who said "I would love to go down on you for hours". She sent back, "Hours?? If you haven't managed to get me to orgasm in 30 minutes, you would need to try something else!"

Neither of us is a big fan of oral, we prefer meets with lots of snogging and fumbling. Teenager stuff (Well, it was like that when I was a teen!) One of my partners for the night plays along with it and tries to stop me getting too far. Great fun and beats oral by a country mile (for us!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is lovely and if you can bring a woman to orgasm through it then it is a very special feeling. Wouldn't want to stop there though but wouldn't be put out if it did. All feels part of a more sensual experience that involves touch and kissing - a progression.

However, if that's "all" that's on offer then I'm still happy.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Not every woman is into it. I'm not really a fan of it if I'm honest. "

Then I suggest you leave the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There used to be a girl I'd see regularly ... we had fucked, but it became more about the oral as time went by.

I'd turn up at her place, we'd exchange some smalltalk and she was like "Sorry, but aren't you here for a reason?" which meant time it was time for me to get busy!

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

As long as the woman I am with cums many more times than me then I am a happy bunny. If thats through finger and tongue play then so be it...

It's not all about dipping the wick but its hard to deny wanting to if the invitation presents itself

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By *y PussyWoman
over a year ago

Crickhowell

I used to meet a guy who would lick and leave.... I would phone him up and he would come to lick me ....occasionally it would turn into more if i felt like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in exactly same boat as OP, used to do it with my ex all the time, shame I cant find anyone who would be up for it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Booooooooring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Booooooooring."

each to their own I guess :p

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I adore licking a pussy too using my mouth and fingers .

Telling how well I’m doing by the noises she makes and feeling her hips pushing her pussy into my mouth

Teasing and alternating my touch until orgasm

But the taste always makes my cock so hard

I’d need some relief too

Even if it’s to have a wank

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By *orny in BrightonMan
over a year ago

Brighton

My other half would certainly be up for that kind of meet.

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