FabSwingers.com forum: Men who are desperate for sex !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it quite funny that there are a lot of men on here who seem to be struggling to have sex.

I just do not get it to be honest, If any man wanna have sex , there are swinger clubs , naturist clubs , gang bang clubs , even prostitutes if the worst comes to the worst so I just don't understand some people who , if they are rejected , they get so frustrated and start all the tantrums.

I have read a few posts on the forum where some women have been subjected to a lot of abuse after rejecting the fellas , strange stuff

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not just men. Some people take this sort of thing very seriously. I just have a wank if I get too horny. It stops me from making poor decisions.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

tantrums are evident everyday on here......not just the menfolk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not just men. Some people take this sort of thing very seriously. I just have a wank if I get too horny. It stops me from making poor decisions."

Its quite funny coz , I must admit , I sometimes wank only if I am too tired to go to a club , it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree very easy to have sex if want to with clubs etc

Paradise spa Wednesday's private hire, I just stumbled on by mistake as I was in the area and new swingers club and wanted to try!!

Do you find easier to get the ladies as have big muscles and big black cock and women have the fantisy?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Do you find easier to get the ladies as have big muscles and big black cock and women have the fantisy? "

Not all of us do, plus I don't like big muscles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol."

There are a lot of cocks on here sadly

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

I'd say go to any city centre at weekend and find sex with someone...sites not necessary...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol."

Is there an equivalent "pussy fest" for you guys anywhere?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you find easier to get the ladies as have big muscles and big black cock and women have the fantisy? "

I consider myself lucky, let's put it that way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

Is there an equivalent "pussy fest" for you guys anywhere?"
No, don't think there is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not all of us do, plus I don't like big muscles"

I know , and I understand , that's why I don't really bother when someone says no to me , I move on very quickly , faster than I came actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

There are a lot of cocks on here sadly

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Thats right as well

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

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, faster than I came actually

Those must be on your "wank nights"

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

There's no point having a tantrum if your rejected you just have to move on. Be positive and believe in yourself and some one(s) will come along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

Is there an equivalent "pussy fest" for you guys anywhere?"

Yes it's called a brothel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it quite funny that there are a lot of men on here who seem to be struggling to have sex.

I have read a few posts on the forum where some women have been subjected to a lot of abuse after rejecting the fellas , strange stuff

So, in summary, if you want to pull go to clubs

Which is pretty much the advice every ranty single guy has been given since I joined the site, BUT then the same ranty single guys are told not to expect anything if they do go to clubs.

Some guys will also fare better others in clubs.. who is going to do well, the toned handsome big cocked chap or the chubby munter?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I find it quite funny that there are a lot of men on here who seem to be struggling to have sex.

I have read a few posts on the forum where some women have been subjected to a lot of abuse after rejecting the fellas , strange stuff

See you in the sauna then

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Its part an parcel of the site that people throw their toys out of their pram if they cant get a meet either put negative status es like oh why wont anyone meet me. Which sounds negative or they will resort to being abusive which to me is counter productive

either way its a put of to others an is it any wonder no one will meet them

if i dont get a meet to me it isnt the end of the world

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I find it quite funny that there are a lot of men on here who seem to be struggling to have sex.

I have read a few posts on the forum where some women have been subjected to a lot of abuse after rejecting the fellas , strange stuff

So, in summary, if you want to pull go to clubs

Which is pretty much the advice every ranty single guy has been given since I joined the site, BUT then the same ranty single guys are told not to expect anything if they do go to clubs.

Some guys will also fare better others in clubs.. who is going to do well, the toned handsome big cocked chap or the chubby munter?

Its obvious, isn't it? The chubby munter, ofcourse because his personality will shine through. Just like in the vanilla world

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

Is there an equivalent "pussy fest" for you guys anywhere?

Yes it's called a brothel

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

Is there an equivalent "pussy fest" for you guys anywhere?

Yes it's called a brothel

Is that free too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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, faster than I came actually

Those must be on your "wank nights"

Yes , they save money and time , and you get to shag all your fantasy ladies at the same time .

Just lock the door , switch the porn on , get your lubricant , set the room temperature and the lights , get your wipes out then check the door lock again and start imagining shagging Rihanna , Jolie , Beyoncé all on an 10 minute Orgy .....

Nothing can beat that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

Is there an equivalent "pussy fest" for you guys anywhere?

Yes it's called a brothel

Is that free too?"

You pay but you will certainly shag all you want , unlike in a swinger club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just men. Some people take this sort of thing very seriously. I just have a wank if I get too horny. It stops me from making poor decisions."

Agreed!

I've made some shocking choices and ended up in some situations lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find easier to get the ladies as have big muscles and big black cock and women have the fantisy?

Not all of us do, plus I don't like big muscles"

And besides, its all about the personality surely?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I find it quite funny that there are a lot of men on here who seem to be struggling to have sex.

I have read a few posts on the forum where some women have been subjected to a lot of abuse after rejecting the fellas , strange stuff

You make some a valid points OP but as your vanilla in your sexual habits the club scene works for you .but its not for everyone especially those who need more than a club offers to get there sexual needs met.

I for one don't find the club scene a turn on I've been I've been invited to play and you know what I found it all very very boring it the truth be told even the sex it was not stimulating enough for my tastes .

But hay each to there own i'd say only go to a club if you are easily turn on by just sex and the thought of sex .if you need more stimulation than that then the club scene may not be for you.

As for people turning nasty disrepectfull over not getting what they want that in my opinion has more to do with there true thoughts and feeling towards who their chatting to than frustration at not getting sex .

By that I mean if you have no respect for the person your messaging from the word go your not going to respect there decision on whether to met you or not .

After all look at it this way no one disrespects a person they have respect for do they unless it in a very heated argument where tempers are frayed and such behavior is often follow by a swift apology the minute tempers are calmed down .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it quite funny that there are a lot of men on here who seem to be struggling to have sex.

I have read a few posts on the forum where some women have been subjected to a lot of abuse after rejecting the fellas , strange stuff

What about normal busy pubs you are not guaranteed to pull but the challenge is more fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"-o

What about normal busy pubs you are not guaranteed to pull but the challenge is more fun

Personally , I would not pull from a local pub , I find it a little un fair for a swinger to randomly shag a non swinger , somehow.

I still have to tell them I am a swinger and I fuck strangers and if they agree , then yes , otherwise no .I have a different attitude to sex compared to a non swinger so , for that reason , I would rather pull in a swinger club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just men. Some people take this sort of thing very seriously. I just have a wank if I get too horny. It stops me from making poor decisions."

Hahaha a wank usually solves all the problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the Stags are rutting then there are likely to be casualties. I dont get excitied about it. I know that my chances of getting my dick wet on here are slim to non. If i feel horny i just have a nice long toss with lots of edging and shoot a big stream,,and then its all over..moving on..

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By *laire4UWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I hate desperate rude men, they have to be confident & know how to chat me up to get into my knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They expect something for nothing. Lazy, probably crap in bed too.

Why pay a willing person for sex, or send decent messages, or treat other people like they aren't meat, if you expect people to just jump on your cock as soon as offered it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you find easier to get the ladies as have big muscles and big black cock and women have the fantisy?

I consider myself lucky, let's put it that way ."

Those other locations must keep you happy then? Much luck via fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Those other locations must keep you happy then? Much luck via fab? "

I have not really met anyone via Fab , I don't expect to anyway.I normally meet them in clubs and we exchange Fab usernames and stuff .

I think it's quite hard for people to meet via Fab from what I read on here , looks like it's harder than people think.

I use Fab for the Forums mainly and if I get a meet then it's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those other locations must keep you happy then? Much luck via fab?

I have not really met anyone via Fab , I don't expect to anyway.I normally meet them in clubs and we exchange Fab usernames and stuff .

I think it's quite hard for people to meet via Fab from what I read on here , looks like it's harder than people think.

I use Fab for the Forums mainly and if I get a meet then it's a bonus.

I thinks that's a very grounded way to look at it. So many guys get frustrated by the reality of trying to get 'meets'.

It's pretty easy for the rest of us to find partners via here. As you know; it's a supply and demand thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Testerone !!!When you haven't released that sperm for days you become aggressive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on Tinder for 2 years and haven't had a single match yet let alone a meet. Pof is a joke and as for this site I've only been around for 4 months, so still early yo judge. I'm dissapointed but I'm not complaining....

Men who get upset and start ranting and raving over sex need a reality check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is a cock fest for women tho lol.

There are a lot of cocks on here sadly

Haha indeed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find easier to get the ladies as have big muscles and big black cock and women have the fantisy?

Not all of us do, plus I don't like big muscles"

Me neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was that desperate I'd pay a prostitute or better still take up the shit loads of offers I get from men to suck me dry.

I can't see how any man can be desperate on here. Yes women can be far more picky then they could out on the street but that's because everyone here is mainly after one thing without the bullshit of going to great lengths to bed someone.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Men are strange creatures...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

...but then women are not so different

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

plenty of twats out there ..why would anyone want to have sex with them

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"Not just men. Some people take this sort of thing very seriously. I just have a wank if I get too horny. It stops me from making poor decisions."

This ^

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"...but then women are not so different"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a real "beggars vs choosers" thing on this type of site, well indeed any type of dating/hookup site.

Typically, all men are beggars, all women are choosers. (speaking about cis, straight people mostly)

This means that, even the most minging female is gonna get attention - and even the best looking guy is gonna have to work for it.

So basically guys, stop behaving like you've got your internet beer goggles on and be a bit more dignified with who you contact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are any men out there who are desperate for pussy then simply go hire an escort. That way you are definitely going to shag and you wont have to spend hours on sites like this ingratiating yourself to f&ke female profiles.

Now i do discriminate between desperate men and men who are desperate for the two are not the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the ones who come across as desperate for sex on here are the ones using it as a sex on demand site - most of us are content

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are some real horny guys here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it quite funny that there are a lot of men on here who seem to be struggling to have sex. "

No, this is called a lack of empathy. You don't have a problem, so you can't see why anyone else should have a problem.

That's like me saying that I can do differential calculus by inspection and saying that it's fucking hilarious that I don't know why everyone else struggles with it.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I find that tall, good looking guys, rarely, if ever, comment negatively on threads such as these. Why aren't they desperate for sex?

I am more likely to have sex here with someone than I will ever have out there in the Vanilla world. Those guys who think that they stand a better chance out there, should seriously get a reality check

Out there, not only will I be looking at the physical attributes but will set the bar higher for a man because I will then include other compatibility criteria such as intelligence, education, family background, career, etc into the equation

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