FabSwingers.com forum: Racist?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it when everyone says they only want to meet white people they feel the need to say they're not being racist but when people say they only like meeting black people they don't feel the need to mention it.

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea

Not right arsed either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say it so it works like a filter

like people say no bbw no tv/ts no men etc

so people that do read profiles can see it not for them, so they Don't waste time messaging that

I changed some of my profile, thought how strange I'm getting alot of messages of white guys this week.daft me just off to write 'black men only' on it again as this thread just made me read it and realise it gone tut.

no I'm not racist I'm just a bmfc addict

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't want people to think they are racist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why comment then?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Why comment then?"

He's entitled to that opinion.

It's a public forum

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Stupidity. There's a fair amount of it about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually because the way they express that preference could be construed as racist by others so they feel a need to justify. I've never felt a need to justify anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's usually because the way they express that preference could be construed as racist by others so they feel a need to justify. I've never felt a need to justify anything. "
me neither

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

put anything you want on profile, i find a lot dont read them anyway, if you put bbc wanted you will still get white guys mailing you, just delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of pc. White people cant say shit with offending someone

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Why is it when everyone says they only want to meet white people they feel the need to say they're not being racist but when people say they only like meeting black people they don't feel the need to mention it.

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

It's only a guess but it could be that "generally" the white majority don't see themselves as racially discriminated against. On the other hand, all of the "non white" minorities have grown up with (some) racial prejudice and are taught/encouraged to highlight it.

For that reason, people may feel the need to defend their choices. You could of course suggest that "BBC" and black guy only preferences are a form of positive racism.... but I personally would rather just let people get on with enjoying their lives in the ways that suit them best.

For the record, we have no preferences for skin colour. What lies beneath is of much more interest.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Because of pc. White people cant say shit with offending someone"

I'm offended by that suggestion .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May as well be. Everyones offended by something

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

Because they know that colour prejudice is a form of racism as they differentiate based on colour and they feel they have to justify themselves.

That does not mean they have to fuck everybody no matter what their skin tone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a person or colour... I do think it's offensive in the sense, they have made an assumption that a particular race is going to contact them in the first place.

And singling out a specific race is nasty. NO BLACKS sign is something I would expect to have seen in the 1950's. Even if it's a black person saying NO WHITES

Who the fuck do they think you are?

If I am into a particular race, and I get a message from someone I am not into, I just say "No thanks" or ignore it.

It considered offensive to put NO FAT PEOPLE, NO UGLY PEOPLE, NO DISABLED PEOPLE, NO MUSLIMS e.t.c

So why is it okay to put someone's race?

People should be emotional sensitive to how it will affect other people. Just say someone had a bad day, they didn't get a job even though they had the qualification, but less qualified person got it based on race, then they go called a "N****" on the street and then they come on here and see "NO BLACKS"

We all have our preferences but we need to be sensitive towards other peoples emotions by just ignoring or saying no thanks, it is more polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not racist at all to state preference imo. I have over time worked out What I personally want, and I'd hope it wouldn't offend anyone but If it does... Well I see it as there own agenda if they wish to be offended.

I've seen profiles that state "fit people only " which didn't offend me , we just didn't contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a person or colour... I do think it's offensive in the sense, they have made an assumption that a particular race is going to contact them in the first place.

And singling out a specific race is nasty. NO BLACKS sign is something I would expect to have seen in the 1950's. Even if it's a black person saying NO WHITES

Who the fuck do they think you are?

If I am into a particular race, and I get a message from someone I am not into, I just say "No thanks" or ignore it.

It considered offensive to put NO FAT PEOPLE, NO UGLY PEOPLE, NO DISABLED PEOPLE, NO MUSLIMS e.t.c

So why is it okay to put someone's race?

We all have our preferences but we need to be sensitive towards other peoples emotions by just ignoring or saying no thanks, it is more polite"

What do you mean who do they think they are. Some people juat wanna anyone of that ski colour. It's not like anyone's being made to sit at the back of the bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it racist to have a sexual preference on colour...No

Is it offensive to start staing it on profile, yes it is

As said above would you state No Disabled, No muslims, e.t.c I bet you wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh phone autocorrect.

That is state it on profile ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not? Saying no disabled is a bit extreme. Could be anything from a missing hand to downs syndrome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the comments on this exact thread is why people say they are not racist. Sadly racism exists and I seriously doubt it'll end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not? Saying no disabled is a bit extreme. Could be anything from a missing hand to downs syndrome"

haha so I take it you have different preferences on disabled lol

And because it can hurt peoples feelings

Basically comes down to being a DICK or emtionally aware it can offend other people

We live in a world where we need to co exist, otherwise we will end up like ISIS and beheading everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it racist to have a sexual preference on colour...No

Is it offensive to start staing it on profile, yes it is

As said above would you state No Disabled, No muslims, e.t.c I bet you wouldn't"

Why is it? If there was an option to block people based on their race/colour/creed then people wouldn't feel the need to state it! But then in turn would that be a racist thing for the site to do?

Is it sexist to state no single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not? Saying no disabled is a bit extreme. Could be anything from a missing hand to downs syndrome

haha so I take it you have different preferences on disabled lol

And because it can hurt peoples feelings

Basically comes down to being a DICK or emtionally aware it can offend other people

We live in a world where we need to co exist, otherwise we will end up like ISIS and beheading everyone"

So in effect your saying people should fuck everyone and not have be entitled to a preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not? Saying no disabled is a bit extreme. Could be anything from a missing hand to downs syndrome

haha so I take it you have different preferences on disabled lol

And because it can hurt peoples feelings

Basically comes down to being a DICK or emtionally aware it can offend other people

We live in a world where we need to co exist, otherwise we will end up like ISIS and beheading everyone"

Yes id fuck someone with a limp or a missing hand. But i couldn't possible ever do it with someone with downs syndrome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol hahahaha u kill me

If you read my previous post I said it's not racist hun

And no we don't have to fuck everyone but we should be aware that it can hurt other people emotions, if you don't like someone don't respond or say no thanks, it's more polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im man on this site. U honestly think id get to reject anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol hahahaha u kill me

If you read my previous post I said it's not racist hun

And no we don't have to fuck everyone but we should be aware that it can hurt other people emotions, if you don't like someone don't respond or say no thanks, it's more polite"

Or give them an option to not waste their time to start with. As stated by miss adoresblackmen, as her profile and name states there would be no point me messaging……am I offended??? No because it's her preference and I didn't waste my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol hahahaha u kill me

If you read my previous post I said it's not racist hun

And no we don't have to fuck everyone but we should be aware that it can hurt other people emotions, if you don't like someone don't respond or say no thanks, it's more polite"

That's right you did say it wasn't racist but you basically called anyone who puts it on their profile that they are a DICK and a racist.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I know of somebody who dreaded having to go into hospital because they didn't want Polish people touching them in any way, would it be ok for them to state that on admission?

On here you have a chance to see a photo before you meet somebody and as most of the race or origin preferences seem to be based on colour it should be fairly easy to filter that way. I don't like to see "no Asians" or "white British only" on a profile and admit that we use that as a filter ourselves so maybe it's useful anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I know of somebody who dreaded having to go into hospital because they didn't want Polish people touching them in any way, would it be ok for them to state that on admission?

That sounds wrong, I mean we won't meet people who have that on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, i just think people who are emotionally insensitive are DICKS lol

Like for example Robert Mugabe is a COCK

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, i just think people who are emotionally insensitive are DICKS lol

Like for example Robert Mugabe is a COCK"

And calling people dicks IS emotionally sensitive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, i just think people who are emotionally insensitive are DICKS lol

Like for example Robert Mugabe is a COCK

And calling people dicks IS emotionally sensitive?"

Apperently so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Someone dosent want to meet blacks,Muslims,Jews ect ect it's their personal choice which they are entitled to same as the blacks and other minorities have the choice to msg them or not most of people who write that stuff in my opinion is not worth messaging anyways but I do think some people need to think about how what they portrays them to the public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it racist to have a sexual preference on colour...No

Is it offensive to start staing it on profile, yes it is

As said above would you state No Disabled, No muslims, e.t.c I bet you wouldn't"

It is not offensive to state it on your profile (as it saves time). Yes racism does exist everywhere and on fab and after a bit you become thick skinned to it, but the racism label is thrown around so easy nowadays by all colours.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

"Because of pc. White people cant say shit with offending someone"

What would you like to say that you feel you can't?

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

"It's usually because the way they express that preference could be construed as racist by others so they feel a need to justify. I've never felt a need to justify anything. "

Maybe it's to clarify rather than justify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is an inherent problem for any race to have an issue like this. No Asians request at private parties must be particularly offensive to read if you are Asian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because of pc. White people cant say shit with offending someone"

Ain't it booting up? Or try a pen and paper?? Also are you suggesting white people can't do anything without a pc?

Whatever you say here will get twisted up but tbf it's the same for any colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is an inherent problem for any race to have an issue like this. No Asians request at private parties must be particularly offensive to read if you are Asian. "

It would be more offensive to turn up there and have everyone look at you like you have three heads.

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

Genuine question.

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it time and time again, as a nation we're so scared of offending someone we feel we need to say shit like not being racist/sexist/no defence meant etc. Trouble is it starts to become offensive trying not to be offensive. Like today I need to ask my manager why she feels I said something slightly racist at work… I have no idea what I have said!

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

I will only shag woman.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"I will only shag woman.

But for the record I'm not sexist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always struggle with these posts. I have a liking for brown rice as white grain does nothing for me. That said I would not consider my self ricest? Ricism is something we all have to live with from time to time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

you're right in a way but people have their own choices in who they like to meet but that not the only thing wrong here most of the here seem to go for sexy looks fit big cocked men too which i would say is unfair that life for honest men with great personalise who nevery get lucky..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a person or colour... I do think it's offensive in the sense, they have made an assumption that a particular race is going to contact them in the first place.

And singling out a specific race is nasty. NO BLACKS sign is something I would expect to have seen in the 1950's. Even if it's a black person saying NO WHITES

Who the fuck do they think you are?

If I am into a particular race, and I get a message from someone I am not into, I just say "No thanks" or ignore it.

It considered offensive to put NO FAT PEOPLE, NO UGLY PEOPLE, NO DISABLED PEOPLE, NO MUSLIMS e.t.c

So why is it okay to put someone's race?

We all have our preferences but we need to be sensitive towards other peoples emotions by just ignoring or saying no thanks, it is more polite

What do you mean who do they think they are. Some people juat wanna anyone of that ski colour. It's not like anyone's being made to sit at the back of the bus"

Exactly its only offensive if you choose to be offended. Theres no insult intended its just something the person doesnt find attractive. No different from saying no people over a certain size, no blondes or no people over or under a certain cock size. Why allow people you have no sexual interest in to waste thier time contacting you when they can read your profile (those who bother) and know in advance they will be turned down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

Being a darker shade myself (Indian). Comments like this on a profile do touch a nerve for a split second and then for another split second for the but I am not racist comment haha

Then I just move on to my movie lifestyle outside of fab, not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always struggle with these posts. I have a liking for brown rice as white grain does nothing for me. That said I would not consider my self ricest? Ricism is something we all have to live with from time to time?"

I laughed and shook my head at the same time

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I don't consider myself racist but I do prefer the shorter middle distances such as 1500 metres, mile and 5K.

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

"As a person or colour... I do think it's offensive in the sense, they have made an assumption that a particular race is going to contact them in the first place.

And singling out a specific race is nasty. NO BLACKS sign is something I would expect to have seen in the 1950's. Even if it's a black person saying NO WHITES

Who the fuck do they think you are?

If I am into a particular race, and I get a message from someone I am not into, I just say "No thanks" or ignore it.

It considered offensive to put NO FAT PEOPLE, NO UGLY PEOPLE, NO DISABLED PEOPLE, NO MUSLIMS e.t.c

So why is it okay to put someone's race?

We all have our preferences but we need to be sensitive towards other peoples emotions by just ignoring or saying no thanks, it is more polite"

Nail on head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a person or colour... I do think it's offensive in the sense, they have made an assumption that a particular race is going to contact them in the first place.

And singling out a specific race is nasty. NO BLACKS sign is something I would expect to have seen in the 1950's. Even if it's a black person saying NO WHITES

Who the fuck do they think you are?

If I am into a particular race, and I get a message from someone I am not into, I just say "No thanks" or ignore it.

It considered offensive to put NO FAT PEOPLE, NO UGLY PEOPLE, NO DISABLED PEOPLE, NO MUSLIMS e.t.c

So why is it okay to put someone's race?

We all have our preferences but we need to be sensitive towards other peoples emotions by just ignoring or saying no thanks, it is more polite"

I'm offended you have an age range that doesn't include my age. Please be sensitive to us oldies

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

Its fantasy OP if we say everyone here is looking to explore and indulge a fantasy we can then separate real life from the equation .

If your fantasy fucks a black man or woman is it racist to say so in your profile which is your way of advertising the fantasy your looking for. No.

If your fantasy is for a blond blued eyed man or woman is it racist to state this .no

This sex dating world is mostly about fantasy fulfilment a fantasy is just that and there for separate from the real world so you can't always or really apply real world rules to fantasy fulfilment.

That my take on what I read in profiles if I don't fit the fantasy that's no slight on me or anyone its just we don't fit the fantasy experience their looking for nothing less nothing more .

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

It's not what you say, it's the way that you say it. If someone has a preference, it's fine. But when people use hurtful or negative terms to state their preferences, it's not cool.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think people put no Black etc. in their profile to try and filter out all the "You should be sucking on my BBC now" messages

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"It's not what you say, it's the way that you say it. If someone has a preference, it's fine. But when people use hurtful or negative terms to state their preferences, it's not cool."

Totally agree

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Is good people should state their preference. It save time and effort for readers.

Also remember racist and bigoted minded hide under the pretence of choice and preference as well.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"Is good people should state their preference. It save time and effort for readers.

Also remember racist and bigoted minded hide under the pretence of choice and preference as well. "

True. But that becomes more apparent in social settings. No point worrying about it when looking at a profile onine. Whether it's sinister or not, you won't meet so move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people put no Black etc. in their profile to try and filter out all the "You should be sucking on my BBC now" messages

How funny - my preference is for black and mixed-race men, and I have never received anything like this.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

So in effect your saying people should fuck everyone and not have be entitled to a preference?"

No that is not what anyone is saying.

A meet does not guarantee a fuck people meet and if they then feel inclined to go further they may play.

That may include fucking or it may not.

Your claim is the last resort of those who cannot justify that discrimination based on colour is racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in effect your saying people should fuck everyone and not have be entitled to a preference?

No that is not what anyone is saying.

A meet does not guarantee a fuck people meet and if they then feel inclined to go further they may play.

That may include fucking or it may not.

Your claim is the last resort of those who cannot justify that discrimination based on colour is racist

That's not at all what I'm getting at. I have no problem with race at all. And not all people who prefer a certain colour for sexual pleasure are racists.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

"Because of pc. White people cant say shit with offending someone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol hahahaha u kill me

If you read my previous post I said it's not racist hun

And no we don't have to fuck everyone but we should be aware that it can hurt other people emotions, if you don't like someone don't respond or say no thanks, it's more polite"

Your profile says 18-30 age range. You have hurt my feelings as I'm to old for you

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Because of pc. White people cant say shit with offending someone

So do you think people renting rooms should be able to have a sign saying No Blacks No Dogs, No Irish like they used to do in the past?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because of pc. White people cant say shit with offending someone

So do you think people renting rooms should be able to have a sign saying No Blacks No Dogs, No Irish like they used to do in the past?"

I don't think that's at all what he is suggesting. And besides lots of places say no dogs allowed is that speciest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say it so it works like a filter

like people say no bbw no tv/ts no men etc

so people that do read profiles can see it not for them, so they Don't waste time messaging that

no I'm not racist I'm just a bmfc addict

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"As a person or colour... I do think it's offensive in the sense, they have made an assumption that a particular race is going to contact them in the first place.

And singling out a specific race is nasty. NO BLACKS sign is something I would expect to have seen in the 1950's. Even if it's a black person saying NO WHITES

Who the fuck do they think you are?

If I am into a particular race, and I get a message from someone I am not into, I just say "No thanks" or ignore it.

It considered offensive to put NO FAT PEOPLE, NO UGLY PEOPLE, NO DISABLED PEOPLE, NO MUSLIMS e.t.c

So why is it okay to put someone's race?

We all have our preferences but we need to be sensitive towards other peoples emotions by just ignoring or saying no thanks, it is more polite"

Frankly, to me that is you being over sensitive. If I see a black girls profile that says no white guys, I accept and move on. If I see a profile saying no over 35's again I accept and move on.

Does that mean I'm a victim of ageism or racism? Not at all. It just means that person has made it clear what he or she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a person or colour... I do think it's offensive in the sense, they have made an assumption that a particular race is going to contact them in the first place.

And singling out a specific race is nasty. NO BLACKS sign is something I would expect to have seen in the 1950's. Even if it's a black person saying NO WHITES

Who the fuck do they think you are?

If I am into a particular race, and I get a message from someone I am not into, I just say "No thanks" or ignore it.

It considered offensive to put NO FAT PEOPLE, NO UGLY PEOPLE, NO DISABLED PEOPLE, NO MUSLIMS e.t.c

So why is it okay to put someone's race?

We all have our preferences but we need to be sensitive towards other peoples emotions by just ignoring or saying no thanks, it is more polite

Frankly, to me that is you being over sensitive. If I see a black girls profile that says no white guys, I accept and move on. If I see a profile saying no over 35's again I accept and move on.

Does that mean I'm a victim of ageism or racism? Not at all. It just means that person has made it clear what he or she wants."

this is exactly what I'm trying to say, but annoyingly people always want to see racism.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

this is exactly what I'm trying to say, but annoyingly people always want to see racism. "

I totally agree. If we want a tolerant society, We all have to accept each others likes and dislikes. We cannot just shout it's 'racism', 'ageism', etc etc if a person doesn't like us.

I'm a Scot and have heard the tight stingy Jock joke many times. Do I feel racially abused? No! I just laugh and say well get the bloody drinks in as I've forgot my wallet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go on this subject again each and every one has their own preference on what they like and nowt to do with being racist

Would you wear gloves if you had no hands ??

Simple innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Attraction V's Attention. Where do you draw a line. When I see "I'm not racist." I just think it's the people expressing themselves. I have had people just blocking me without reason. Some may think it could be a racial thing. personally, I could not care less. They can do what they want. Until they stand directly toe to toe in front of me and treat me in a negative manner. They are free to do what they want. They're some people on here I don't find attractive but I would never draw attention to this fact.

"Nobody can hurt me without my permission."

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

I just laugh at it and move on it's like their go to word really. no point in wasting you're time with people like them just leave them be in peace really...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think the language used is powerful either way. Many black men experience racism on a daily basis (women too, but I know from my experience with my partner and sons what they experience). I think if you write in the tone of 'no x, no x, no x' then you are being offensive and harking back to an age where it was accepted. If you don't see it, maybe you have not experienced it on a day to day basis and know what it is like to live with. I experience it second hand, when we go to the supermarket they get funny looks (mainly my partner, as my boys are light skinned) and I just tell anyone who gives us a strange look that I am letting my house slave out for the day on good behaviour - ie call them on their attitude. Mr Law is so mellow and has just accepted it for years ... but I think we have a responsibility to challenge it, for the next generation at least.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"I think the language used is powerful either way. Many black men experience racism on a daily basis (women too, but I know from my experience with my partner and sons what they experience). I think if you write in the tone of 'no x, no x, no x' then you are being offensive and harking back to an age where it was accepted. If you don't see it, maybe you have not experienced it on a day to day basis and know what it is like to live with. I experience it second hand, when we go to the supermarket they get funny looks (mainly my partner, as my boys are light skinned) and I just tell anyone who gives us a strange look that I am letting my house slave out for the day on good behaviour - ie call them on their attitude. Mr Law is so mellow and has just accepted it for years ... but I think we have a responsibility to challenge it, for the next generation at least."

Please don't think me insensitive, But could experiences from years back be prejudicing what you percieve people are thinking?

For example, There was a stunning black woman getting into a car at my local Tesco couple of weeks ago. I gave her a second look, not because she was black but because she was attractive.

But getting back to the original question, The site allows us to search on basis of age, sex and ethnicity. Why should it be considered a racist statement to say you don't want to meet a certain ethnicity? It doesn't mean you don't like people from that group, it means you don't fancy them. That isn't racism, that is personal preference that we should all be allowed without being branded racist.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Why is it when everyone says they only want to meet white people they feel the need to say they're not being racist .....

To preempt attacks from professional offendees and the PC brigade

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By *estless in batterseaCouple
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Don't know why people get hung up on racism! Frankly i couldn't give a toss if some person didn't like black people or me specifically for that matter.

The truth is racism and prejudice is natural and in all of us if we wanted to be honest. For me it doesn't bother me if you have your opinions and you keep them to yourself, or at least directly away from me, ur direct that shit to me and i will raise HELL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no racist. Just preference. I would rather hear someone's not interested than waste my best chat up lines. I do think there's no point in stating ur not racist cause that in a way highlights u were thinking along them lines when u pointed. Simply not attracted to black men is good enough. I no a lot of black guys that aren't into black girls but their not racist, just preference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."
It could be racist both ways.

If it's merely a preference then that's not a problem ... but if you're fetishising a race because of some preconceived stereotype you have about that race, then you're potentially reducing them to an object for your own entertainment.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Stating your ethnic preference isn't racist it's maybe a bit insensitive to write what you don't like in a harsh tone, but not racist. This site is about attraction, so why waste anyone's time, be specific in what you want. If you don't match with the criteria, jog on... filters and stating what you want gets you what you want. Who wants an inbox full of unwanted messages from people outside your personal preferences whether age, sex, etc?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"is it racist to have a sexual preference on colour...No

Is it offensive to start staing it on profile, yes it is

As said above would you state No Disabled, No muslims, e.t.c I bet you wouldn't"

Yes, I would. I am not interested in sex with disabled people, short men, fat men, old men or muslims

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it racist to have a sexual preference on colour...No

Is it offensive to start staing it on profile, yes it is

As said above would you state No Disabled, No muslims, e.t.c I bet you wouldn't

Yes, I would. I am not interested in sex with disabled people, short men, fat men, old men or muslims"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the gent who wrote under your original post I mean no offence at all, but not all people are staring at you and your partner because your a interracial couple. And as a white guy I've been a victim of racism on a daily basis too. Often getting some horrendous looks from people of different skin colours/races I ignore and carry on with my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here we go on this subject again each and every one has their own preference on what they like and nowt to do with being racist

Would you wear gloves if you had no hands ??

Simple innit "

Yes I would! To keep my stumps warm.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

A lot of people mix up sexual preferences with racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of people keep harping on about sexual preference..but there are people on the scene who wouldnt be seen dead talking to someone outwith their preference for even social interaction...

and in the latter case, the person(s), will often have some derogatory view of a said group,be it bi/gay/tv/asian/black..

but for fuck sakes get real, asians are having almost the worst time of any group in my opinion..and none of its to do with sexual preference...lets work out what thats called?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether excluding people on the basis of their skin colour is racist is (perhaps) debatable.

What is not debatable is that those who practice such exclusion are foolishly missing out on some fucking incredible people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but for fuck sakes get real"

Most people don't understand that racism is more than just race-hatred.

For examlple, how many profiles are full of "bbc wanted"? That's not a preference - to me that looks like using a stereotype to fulfil a fantasy ... in other words, reducing someone to a product for your own (or your partner's viewing) pleasure.

Don't get me wrong - if you've got enough dick to do a girl a damage then great

- but it's still displaying a prejudice to expect every black dude out there to be packing a monster and whatever other characteristics you might attribute to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but for fuck sakes get real

Most people don't understand that racism is more than just race-hatred.

Don't get me wrong - if you've got enough dick to do a girl a damage then great

- but it's still displaying a prejudice to expect every black dude out there to be packing a monster and whatever other characteristics you might attribute to him.

i do have a huge black lens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i do have a huge black lens"
Yeah but what about the aperture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i do have a huge black lensYeah but what about the aperture?

depends on the depth they require

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I did not say it was all of the people - just certain ones who look and say things - I can tell because sometimes these are the same people who have made monkey noises when watching my son play football- yes in this day and age. I am not oversensitive in any way, and as I have lived in the black community in the USA, I would have presumed people here in the UK don't have such stereotypical ideas - well many of them do ... you guys may not, but honestly, its out there.

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

scotland

It's not racist either way, but was just wondering."

Your pointing out pointless things on fabs... Sounds a bit like this thread- not offering anything either. Just let people feel comfortable by saying their desires are based purely on desires.

Your bbc seekers argument while correct, is naive and you know it. If your looking to challenge racism you can do more than this thread as it's just a waste of time when we all know the answer mate...happy hunting (be it black, white or anywhere in between)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed it does happen, but I can guarantee that black people, Asian people and other white non British people are also racist. It's often only seen one direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a nation of apologists

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

scotland

"We are a nation of apologists "

I blame myself for it, sorry mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a nation of apologists

I blame myself for it, sorry mate "

I forgive you my friend

Sorry

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Agreed it does happen, but I can guarantee that black people, Asian people and other white non British people are also racist. It's often only seen one direction"

Totally agree as I have been 'chastised' on here for being a white woman who does not know about the 'black community' - but there you go, that's sexism for you - or maybe just not wanting to hear other people's opinions - I like to have a good discussion about things

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

I am honestly astounded and disgusted to hear that is still going on.

I cannot speak for where you live, But I live in a fairly small town with a very much majority white & conservative population. I am friends with an Asian guy in a mixed marriage and cannot ever recall anyone saying that to his face or behind his back.

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By *estless in batterseaCouple
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Let's call a spade a spade, almost always when people on here state that they do not want to meet a particular race IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST!

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Let's call a spade a spade, almost always when people on here state that they do not want to meet a particular race IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST! "

No... not necessarily.

Although it would probably be best for people to say what they are attracted to rather that what they aren't. Positive statements rather than negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's call a spade a spade, almost always when people on here state that they do not want to meet a particular race IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST!

No... not necessarily.

Although it would probably be best for people to say what they are attracted to rather that what they aren't. Positive statements rather than negative. "
look although you believe what you are saying and that the person you quoted could also be deemed to be racist " a spade a spade" anyone who discriminates against a person or race because of their colour can be deemed to be racist surely it would be better to put that you are not interested in ugly personalityless money worshippers at least that is less likely to offend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's call a spade a spade, almost always when people on here state that they do not want to meet a particular race IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST!

No... not necessarily.

Although it would probably be best for people to say what they are attracted to rather that what they aren't. Positive statements rather than negative. "

I Agree

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Let's call a spade a spade, almost always when people on here state that they do not want to meet a particular race IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST!

No... not necessarily.

Although it would probably be best for people to say what they are attracted to rather that what they aren't. Positive statements rather than negative. look although you believe what you are saying and that the person you quoted could also be deemed to be racist " a spade a spade" anyone who discriminates against a person or race because of their colour can be deemed to be racist surely it would be better to put that you are not interested in ugly personalityless money worshippers at least that is less likely to offend

Not wanting to have sex with someone because one does not find them attractive is not racist. It is a fact that people of one race have similar facial features; otherwise, how would one know that they belong to a certain race

Similarly, not wanting to have sex with an older person is not ageist or with a fat person (whatever category that falls into) or with a gay man is not homophobic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's call a spade a spade, almost always when people on here state that they do not want to meet a particular race IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST! "

So may I ask if a black guy puts on his own profile that he doesn't meet black women or an Asian who wouldn't meet other Asians would they be racist too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)? "

Each race looks different from the other. And within each race, people have similar facial features. That is how I know the difference between an Oriental person and an Indian person and a Caucasian person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

scotland

"Let's call a spade a spade, almost always when people on here state that they do not want to meet a particular race IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST! "

You say 'almost always'...it would be nice if you stuck up for the ones that fall into this category with your loud caps lock button!

Next preferring blondes, big boobs, big bums on people will be a sign of discrimination...maybe you are discriminating against non big cock men in your profile when shortlisting your meets- does that make you a hypocrite or are you allowed to pick features that turn you on? I'd say the latter but by your reasoning your just as guilty!!!

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Similarly, not wanting to have sex with an older person is not ageist or with a fat person (whatever category that falls into) or with a gay man is not homophobic"

Well put Josie.

Those who claim different do the Race cause no good whatsoever by claiming discrimination in a case of personal choice.

Save the battles for real cases of Racial hatred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people keep moaning on and making a big deal about racism ??? I've fucked plenty of black and mixed race pussy my first girlfriend was black !! But if a black girl said said she didn't want my white cock I wouldn't be crying about it that's the girls preference !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its getting fucking ridiculous what you can and can not say...if you don't like the physical 'look' of a black..white..whatever colour person...its YOUR right to state it without being accused of something..the world is going crazy with do-gooders wanting us all to watch every word we say...and furthermore if you dont like certain races again...thats YOUR right..its always the people who arent directly affected that have to stick their spoon in..i am not attracted to albinos..they might be great people and i dont mind having many albino friends but i will not fuck an albino..i just do not find them physically attractive..but thats MY choice..im sure albinos around the globe wont lose any sleep...however...the albino rights group will be tracking me down as i type...

Get a grip people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit."

If an Oriental woman does not look similar to other Oriental women but looks similar to Caucasian women then I would think that she was a Caucasian woman and not an Oriental woman and in that case, her facial features are likely to be appealing to me

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism."

From your profile:

"No single white or asian guys.

Bbc's welcome."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?"

well I could look at my family...I dont really have a hard time understanding the similarities of peopes ideas on what makes someone look like they belong to a race...I do have trouble with people who dont understand, in a scientific manner that of all the 6billion or so people on the planet there are people of different races that actually dont look the stereotypical view of what defines that races facial features.

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though..."

Facial recognition technology and forensic science will not agree with you

Whilst there will be some who will not display facial features within a certain set of parameters, the vast majority do

Most Indian people look vastly different from most Oriental people. Yes, there could be some Indian people who look like Oriental people but those will not be the majority

But what has it all to do with choice, I hear you ask. Simple, I only want to have sex with people I find attractive. This doesn't mean that others are not attractive; they would be attractive to other people

I have found with experience that facial features of certain races (Black and White) are attractive to me whilst others are not

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism."

To the very best of my knowledge, none of these profiles say they don't like eg black people or wont speak in public to an eg Asian person?

What they are saying is they have no interest in having sex with a certain group of people. This could be for any number of reasons, including as Josie says, finding certain features prominent in one group of people unappealing.

Now lets look at your profile brummies. You are holding a party and have invited couples, single women and the only men with a chance of an invite are those that are black with big cocks. Why not white men with big cocks?

At this point I could get all worked up and claim discrimination. I don't because I don't for one moment think you are prejudicing against me as a person. It is simply for your sexual desire this is what you want.

Some people of non white British ethnicity need to take the chip off their shoulder, and stop thinking every time they don't get what they want it is a racist incident. Harsh, but true.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Jeepster, whilst I agree some of your opinions may be right, there is an element of experience in life which means certain groups experience racism every day. I see it - I am the white mum of mixed race kids. There is sometimes o's much they try to do - but they are never looked on the same way as their peers. I mentioned a football incident - or being told 'you should not be in the top set', being called a penguin or a zebra (I did not know this was a derogatory term until it was explained to me that certain members of the younger community use these terms against mixed race children) - interestingly, where we love, many more children are mixed race than anything else - so I do wonder (and hope) that there will be more acceptance but in some ways, I see people becoming more and more entrenched at our 'melting pot' and building walls up around themselves and looking at others through stereotypes portrayed by the media and government (for their own reasons). Take attitudes towards people of certain faiths - there is so much prejudice there - from all sides. I sometimes think I may be being idealistic, hoping that people will get on - but other times think, if children of all races and backgrounds can get on, why not adults?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though...

Facial recognition technology and forensic science will not agree with you

Whilst there will be some who will not display facial features within a certain set of parameters, the vast majority do

Most Indian people look vastly different from most Oriental people. Yes, there could be some Indian people who look like Oriental people but those will not be the majority

I have found with experience that facial features of certain races (Black and White) are attractive to me whilst others are not"

I hope you dont look forensically at people you shag...

So this is why I mentioned not ALL people of a race will have the same facial features.

I've seen very narrow eyed black men,white men..some with really defined cheekbones..you could say almost oriental etc etc...it's pretty inescapable not to find commonalities in all races..as we are the one species. Whether people find parts of the races 'facets' attractive is not an issue..but to generalise is..especially if its combined with an assumption of some sort of human sub-species....

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"Jeepster, whilst I agree some of your opinions may be right, there is an element of experience in life which means certain groups experience racism every day. I see it - I am the white mum of mixed race kids. There is sometimes o's much they try to do - but they are never looked on the same way as their peers. I mentioned a football incident - or being told 'you should not be in the top set', being called a penguin or a zebra (I did not know this was a derogatory term until it was explained to me that certain members of the younger community use these terms against mixed race children) - interestingly, where we love, many more children are mixed race than anything else - so I do wonder (and hope) that there will be more acceptance but in some ways, I see people becoming more and more entrenched at our 'melting pot' and building walls up around themselves and looking at others through stereotypes portrayed by the media and government (for their own reasons). Take attitudes towards people of certain faiths - there is so much prejudice there - from all sides. I sometimes think I may be being idealistic, hoping that people will get on - but other times think, if children of all races and backgrounds can get on, why not adults?"

It did genuinely surprise me when you said that previously. Especially given how diverse the area you live in is.

As I previously said, where I am is far and away majority white British. Yet any time I have been in the company of non whites, I have never heard them be treated any differently.

What you touch on about there being so many different ethnicities, Could it be the lack of integration on their part. Along with the desire to change the area to what they want, That is fueling a renewed racism especially among second generation non white Brits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism."

Its actually "they're" as in they are...

May i suggest aside grammar you Google

Choice

Freedom of speech

Opinions

Personal Selection

Forced opinions

The bullies of today are the 'mobs' who yell racist at the drop of a comment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism."

And again from YOUR profile...

"Prefer Mediterranean/Natural tans and bbc's

sorry just our preference."

Oh the uneducated hypocrisy...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though...

Facial recognition technology and forensic science will not agree with you

Whilst there will be some who will not display facial features within a certain set of parameters, the vast majority do

Most Indian people look vastly different from most Oriental people. Yes, there could be some Indian people who look like Oriental people but those will not be the majority

I have found with experience that facial features of certain races (Black and White) are attractive to me whilst others are not

I hope you dont look forensically at people you shag...

So this is why I mentioned not ALL people of a race will have the same facial features.

Sub-species??? Where did that come from??? This is moving from the sublime to the ridiculous

And whether I look at people I 'shag' forensically or not is my business and the 'shagees' business but nobody elses

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Why not? Saying no disabled is a bit extreme. Could be anything from a missing hand to downs syndrome

haha so I take it you have different preferences on disabled lol

And because it can hurt peoples feelings

Basically comes down to being a DICK or emtionally aware it can offend other people

We live in a world where we need to co exist, otherwise we will end up like ISIS and beheading everyone

So in effect your saying people should fuck everyone and not have be entitled to a preference?"

That's not what she said at all. What she said was that it is insensitive to state that sort of preference and it would be better & nicer not to state it but simply to ignore those who you don't find attractive based solely on the colour of their skin.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"Why not? Saying no disabled is a bit extreme. Could be anything from a missing hand to downs syndrome

haha so I take it you have different preferences on disabled lol

And because it can hurt peoples feelings

Basically comes down to being a DICK or emtionally aware it can offend other people

We live in a world where we need to co exist, otherwise we will end up like ISIS and beheading everyone

So in effect your saying people should fuck everyone and not have be entitled to a preference?

But if the site had a high proportion of people with eg Downs and you were getting a number of emails from this group, Would it not be entirely reasonable if you don't want to meet them, to politely say in your profile No users with Downs Sydrome?

Now this is the case for a lot of users, especially women on here. They get ridiculous amounts of attention. Is it unreasonable for them to state no Black men, no white men etc etc depending on what it is they are seeking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though...

Facial recognition technology and forensic science will not agree with you

Whilst there will be some who will not display facial features within a certain set of parameters, the vast majority do

Most Indian people look vastly different from most Oriental people. Yes, there could be some Indian people who look like Oriental people but those will not be the majority

I have found with experience that facial features of certain races (Black and White) are attractive to me whilst others are not

I hope you dont look forensically at people you shag...

So this is why I mentioned not ALL people of a race will have the same facial features.

Sub-species??? Where did that come from??? This is moving from the sublime to the ridiculous

And whether I look at people I 'shag' forensically or not is my business and the 'shagees' business but nobody elses"

the forensic part was a joke ffs!

Whats so ridiculous to imagine that some people find other races as a sub-species?..I dunno you keep talking to me like I'm some kind of idiot...I know what the experiences are personally, many others do also, there's been examples above already given.

You have already contradicted yourself regarding racial features, in agreeing and disagreeing with what I've said regarding the diversity of people,even in one particular race.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Why not? Saying no disabled is a bit extreme. Could be anything from a missing hand to downs syndrome

haha so I take it you have different preferences on disabled lol

And because it can hurt peoples feelings

Basically comes down to being a DICK or emtionally aware it can offend other people

We live in a world where we need to co exist, otherwise we will end up like ISIS and beheading everyone

So in effect your saying people should fuck everyone and not have be entitled to a preference?

I didn't say I totally agreed with the poster's comments, I simply pointed out that she hadn't said what the other poster claimed she had said.

But anyway, I've just realised that the was replying to a post that was already 2 days old.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though...

Facial recognition technology and forensic science will not agree with you

Whilst there will be some who will not display facial features within a certain set of parameters, the vast majority do

Most Indian people look vastly different from most Oriental people. Yes, there could be some Indian people who look like Oriental people but those will not be the majority

I have found with experience that facial features of certain races (Black and White) are attractive to me whilst others are not

I hope you dont look forensically at people you shag...

So this is why I mentioned not ALL people of a race will have the same facial features.

Sub-species??? Where did that come from??? This is moving from the sublime to the ridiculous

And whether I look at people I 'shag' forensically or not is my business and the 'shagees' business but nobody elses

the forensic part was a joke ffs!

You have already contradicted yourself regarding racial features, in agreeing and disagreeing with what I've said regarding the diversity of people,even in one particular race."

I think it is you that is incorrect on Racial profiling fucktographer.

Using the UK police as an example, In radio communications (and I presume statements) they use a template that groups certain Countries into groupings to allow identification.

This is a link that explains it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IC_codes

Now if it is good enough for the police of the land to use this type of system to describe a race, It sure as hell is ok for a swinger to put it on his or her profile!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

...

You have already contradicted yourself regarding racial features, in agreeing and disagreeing with what I've said regarding the diversity of people,even in one particular race."

The 'diversity' within races is a very small number of people. With almost 100 messages on some days, these do not have any real impact on my selection. I am only going to meet one (perhaps) two new people a month; the other 1000's of messages are just that; 1000's of other messages

Most Chinese people look like other Chinese people. Maybe a few don't; so bl**dy what. I am not conducting a science experiment

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism.

Its actually "they're" as in they are...

May i suggest aside grammar you Google

Choice

Freedom of speech

Opinions

Personal Selection

Forced opinions

The bullies of today are the 'mobs' who yell racist at the drop of a comment..."

Actually, on a point of grammar, "their" could be, and probably was, the better choice as I think the meaning behind it was "the favouring that belongs to them".

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism.

Its actually "they're" as in they are...

May i suggest aside grammar you Google

Choice

Freedom of speech

Opinions

Personal Selection

Forced opinions

The bullies of today are the 'mobs' who yell racist at the drop of a comment...

Actually, on a point of grammar, "their" could be, and probably was, the better choice as I think the meaning behind it was "the favouring that belongs to them"."

Stop making sense; go away to wherever you were for the past 2 days

xxx

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Their favouring one race over others.

Only white people would think that's not racist.

Please Google racism.

Its actually "they're" as in they are...

May i suggest aside grammar you Google

Choice

Freedom of speech

Opinions

Personal Selection

Forced opinions

The bullies of today are the 'mobs' who yell racist at the drop of a comment...

Actually, on a point of grammar, "their" could be, and probably was, the better choice as I think the meaning behind it was "the favouring that belongs to them".

Stop making sense; go away to wherever you were for the past 2 days

xxx"

Wa j mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some idiots in fab need a good slap doesn't matter if we want to meet black or white people every one has their own preferences what they like

It's like would you wear gloves if you had no hands

Simple innit Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though...

Facial recognition technology and forensic science will not agree with you

Whilst there will be some who will not display facial features within a certain set of parameters, the vast majority do

Most Indian people look vastly different from most Oriental people. Yes, there could be some Indian people who look like Oriental people but those will not be the majority

I have found with experience that facial features of certain races (Black and White) are attractive to me whilst others are not

I hope you dont look forensically at people you shag...

So this is why I mentioned not ALL people of a race will have the same facial features.

Sub-species??? Where did that come from??? This is moving from the sublime to the ridiculous

And whether I look at people I 'shag' forensically or not is my business and the 'shagees' business but nobody elses

the forensic part was a joke ffs!

You have already contradicted yourself regarding racial features, in agreeing and disagreeing with what I've said regarding the diversity of people,even in one particular race.

I think it is you that is incorrect on Racial profiling fucktographer.

Using the UK police as an example, In radio communications (and I presume statements) they use a template that groups certain Countries into groupings to allow identification.

This is a link that explains it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IC_codes

Now if it is good enough for the police of the land to use this type of system to describe a race, It sure as hell is ok for a swinger to put it on his or her profile!

an IC2 can look like an IC4, I used to work in a Pakistani restaurant a couple of the guys had passed themselves off as dark europeans(lets say Italian?)..

You've given me a description on what the police use to generally identify the race of a person...

remember the Brazilian shot in the subway?..he 'looked' like a terrorist I suspect...from the middle east most likely...he wasnt asian I'm sure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...

You have already contradicted yourself regarding racial features, in agreeing and disagreeing with what I've said regarding the diversity of people,even in one particular race.

Most Chinese people look like other Chinese people. Maybe a few don't; so bl**dy what. I am not conducting a science experiment"

my word..is bloody that bad a word!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Which 'race' are you taking about? Or are you just being generic and saying that all people of a 'race' other than yours (what ever that might be) look the same (to you)?

no..

they all dont.

underline the 'all' bit.

Which part about "similar facial features within a race" are you having great trouble understanding?

simple fact...look it up.

thanks for the patronising response though...

Facial recognition technology and forensic science will not agree with you

Whilst there will be some who will not display facial features within a certain set of parameters, the vast majority do

Most Indian people look vastly different from most Oriental people. Yes, there could be some Indian people who look like Oriental people but those will not be the majority

I have found with experience that facial features of certain races (Black and White) are attractive to me whilst others are not

I hope you dont look forensically at people you shag...

So this is why I mentioned not ALL people of a race will have the same facial features.

Sub-species??? Where did that come from??? This is moving from the sublime to the ridiculous

And whether I look at people I 'shag' forensically or not is my business and the 'shagees' business but nobody elses

the forensic part was a joke ffs!

You have already contradicted yourself regarding racial features, in agreeing and disagreeing with what I've said regarding the diversity of people,even in one particular race.

I think it is you that is incorrect on Racial profiling fucktographer.

Using the UK police as an example, In radio communications (and I presume statements) they use a template that groups certain Countries into groupings to allow identification.

This is a link that explains it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IC_codes

Now if it is good enough for the police of the land to use this type of system to describe a race, It sure as hell is ok for a swinger to put it on his or her profile!

an IC2 can look like an IC4, I used to work in a Pakistani restaurant a couple of the guys had passed themselves off as dark europeans(lets say Italian?)..

You've given me a description on what the police use to generally identify the race of a person...

remember the Brazilian shot in the subway?..he 'looked' like a terrorist I suspect...from the middle east most likely...he wasnt asian I'm sure.."

It's very often the exceptions that prove the rule. You said it yourself... he looked like he was from the middle east... That sort of says that there is a general look that most people from the middle east have.