FabSwingers.com forum: Being turned down because of having a beard?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What!? That is just shallow.

Do NOT change who you are to suit someone else.

Wear your beard with pride, brother.

It would be ironic that you'd shave it off, and your next meet would be a true pogonophile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quite partial to some face fuzz..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What!? That is just shallow.

Do NOT change who you are to suit someone else.

Wear your beard with pride, brother.

It would be ironic that you'd shave it off, and your next meet would be a true pogonophile.

Cheers dude

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have been turned down because I have pubic hair. I won't remove it completely to suit a meet and don't think you should remove your beard.

If we're not acceptable as we are then we clearly aren't suitable for each other.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"What!? That is just shallow.

Do NOT change who you are to suit someone else.

Wear your beard with pride, brother.

It would be ironic that you'd shave it off, and your next meet would be a true pogonophile.

Couldn't have said it better myself

I love a guy who is happy with how he is, bearded or not. My playmate has a full on beard, and.. well, fair to say I fucking love it. Specially when he is down on me and it is tickling between my bum cheeks

oops sorry, got distracted there.

As you were!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard "

This was a constant problem for my ex Mrs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't all beard wearers mad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their loss. You sound right up my street, shame you're so far away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain brother!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A few years back I and a friend met a Tgirl who sprang a full on ZZ Top beard on me without ever mentioning that to my friend when she arranged the meet. It was, different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about preferences...we all have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am. "

Noway your not fat. A lot of people seem too judgemental on this site too

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

How many beard threads are you gonna do?

I like beards.

I like people who suit themselves.

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard

This was a constant problem for my ex Mrs too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard

This was a constant problem for my ex Mrs too

Hahaha top lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a beard but not as a fashion statement but because I'm lazy when it comes to shaving, so I'll happily shave for a meet if that's what they prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am.

Noway your not fat. A lot of people seem too judgemental on this site too

Meh. ..i let it wash over me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it Groundhog Day?

Lol, just teasing OP.

I'm sure your beard looks great, keep it as it is, there are lots of women who will like it, and indeed love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beards are hot, the hells wrong with these people?x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes

I hate beards but that's just me

I say keep it if you like it and don't change for no one otherwise you're not being true to yourself!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"How many beard threads are you gonna do?

I like beards.

I like people who suit themselves.

He's back! Needs to even up with his tattoo thread count...!

Welcome OP, happy to bump this thread to help you get your end away....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beards are hot, the hells wrong with these people?x"

Its all about preferences...like age ranges and size etc etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Beards are hot, the hells wrong with these people?x"

They don't like beards, it's not compulsory...yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

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ask yourself do I look handsome or like a down and out and their lies your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get turned down by a particular girl if I wasn't clean shaven. Not any stubble allowed. I didn't mind as it was well worth the shave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like beards at all so I would turn a guy down if he had one. Choice is a fabulous thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am.

Noway your not fat. A lot of people seem too judgemental on this site too

Meh. ..i let it wash over me."

Haha mail me

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

They need help to overcome their pogonophobia symptom..lot of people's dread looking at beard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

We all get turned down for different reasons, dont change to suit other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its all about preferences...we all have them "

This. I am not keen on facial hair at all... And yes would refuse a meet because I wouldn't feel comfortable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you're obsessed with beard threads!!! I wouldn't change a thing about myself physically to get a meet. Do what makes you happy and sod everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am. "
sorry but how the hell are you fat ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beards are sexy as fuck, especially combined with tattoos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am. sorry but how the hell are you fat ?

Exactly what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't change who you are to suit someone else. Just wait for the ones that want you, beard and all

With reference to the post earlier about someone insisting on someone being clean shaven with no stubble, I have done this before but purely because I have really sensitive skin and it burns like hell.

That slightly longer stubble/beard is soft enough to not bother me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will you do if they turn you down for being too tall and too young?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't change who you are to suit someone else. Just wait for the ones that want you, beard and all

That slightly longer stubble/beard is soft enough to not bother me though.

Yeah I put oil on my beard and its longer than just stubble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh you're a local guy too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

The answers will probably be the same as the umpteen other threads you have started about your beard or your tatts. It's ridiculous to change the way you look just for a fuck.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"What will you do if they turn you down for being too tall and too young?"

Make a thread about beards of course!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Don't worry mate, there's quite a few girls on here who state on their profile that they want a man with a beard.

Haven't seen any yet who are looking for a a short, ginger bloke though.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you be however you want to be - if others dont like it or accept you - then those are the sort of people you wouldnt want to meet anyway

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like clean shaven, stubble and a short beard.

Some women can't stand beards but that just means you're not for them. Doesn't mean you should change

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I give people an inestimable number of reasons not to meet me...

And yet some weirdos still decide that they should...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am.

Noway your not fat. A lot of people seem too judgemental on this site too

It's not judgemental its just preference, I've been turned down a couple of times because I'm not English, I was actually told by one guy that he didn't fuck foreigners

what can you do

People get turned down all the time for verious reasons, its not their loss because they didn't want you I'm the first place, you just move onto women who like beards and I move onto guys who don't care where you come from so long as they get a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like beards would never kiss a woman with one sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

+1 for the bearded here haha. Love a bit of face fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your user name gives the fact you have a beard away really

Don't change for anyone !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More likely you were turned down for CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUT YOUR DAMN BEARD!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More likely you were turned down for CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUT YOUR DAMN BEARD!! "

I have to admit when I read the opening post I though...yeah like you'd really shave your beard off

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

We only meet guys with hipster beards if they promise to turn up on their Penny farthing

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By *tallionExoticaMan
over a year ago

Islington

A great beard is an awesome beard!

Don't lose hope man! There are women out there who love a man with an awesome beard!

I usually keep my beard short and stubbly, But I do shave it at times (And that happens once in a few months. haha).

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What!? That is just shallow.

Do NOT change who you are to suit someone else.

Wear your beard with pride, brother.

It would be ironic that you'd shave it off, and your next meet would be a true pogonophile.

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why is it shallow? It's called personal preference just like each and everyone of us have preferences

I myself prefer clean shaven guys but would make the odd exception for the right people.

Good luck op just remember your entitled to have personal preferences just like the people who don't like guys with facial hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

Stay as you are. I'll accept my loss

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

No OP once the beard gone it maybe something else then what .

Be who you are be true to yourself don't try to fit in try to stand out that's my motto.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just find the beard lovers and it's easy. If someone had sensitive skin at the time, or a rash, I can see them not meeting. Or a married female cheating might not want to have tell tale beard impressions on her skin.

Keep searching and perhaps ask sensitively why someone wouldn't meet you, though that is usually a no-go, after being rejected, as it could be seen as being a nuisance. Maybe they'll hint at their reasons. Otherwise we can only guess etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only meet guys with hipster beards if they promise to turn up on their Penny farthing

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god man I don't know what a hipster beard is but I would do yours in that style for this one ,I don't have a beard and have no plans to grow one at least until courtney has analysed me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

This far you have 1 meet and that was a cam .

So the answer is there .

If it's just because of the beard then get rid of it , and you may get some joy .

Is it their loss ? No ... They will have got meets with clean shaven guys , so it's your loss .

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol "

Absolute bollocks ... how exactly is it their loss ?

He sits at home alone while the ones who won't meet him are having fun !

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By *an n wife18Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love a nice beard

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

This far you have 1 meet and that was a cam .

So the answer is there .

If it's just because of the beard then get rid of it , and you may get some joy .

Is it their loss ? No ... They will have got meets with clean shaven guys , so it's your loss .

Simple

Or complete the look with a top hat, satchel, and Penny Farthing

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

This far you have 1 meet and that was a cam .

So the answer is there .

If it's just because of the beard then get rid of it , and you may get some joy .

Is it their loss ? No ... They will have got meets with clean shaven guys , so it's your loss .

Simple

Or complete the look with a top hat, satchel, and Penny Farthing

One out of three ain't bad right?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gilly hates beards so alway a no here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol "

If somebody turns you down how is it their loss?

if they wanted to meet they would have said yes, they said no because they didn't want to meet so how is it their loss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a nice beard

Hi ya!!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

Absolute bollocks ... how exactly is it their loss ?

He sits at home alone while the ones who won't meet him are having fun !"

What makes you so sure those who turn down people go on to have fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shaved, ie fresh stubble I don't like as its like sand paper when he goes down on me.

Beard is nice but I do think it ages some men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

Absolute bollocks ... how exactly is it their loss ?

He sits at home alone while the ones who won't meet him are having fun !

What makes you so sure those who turn down people go on to have fun? "

Just a reasoned guess tbh ...

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

Absolute bollocks ... how exactly is it their loss ?

He sits at home alone while the ones who won't meet him are having fun !

What makes you so sure those who turn down people go on to have fun?

Just a reasoned guess tbh ...

TBH, I have turned down meets even though I had nothing lined up and no one was taking the bait. If for instance, your tits were smaller than my balls, it wouldn't happen. If you were shorter than my chest height, ......

Now to the main thread: sometimes you just have to breathe iiin and outttt. Dread locks, tatts, smoking, skin colour, height, etc are some of the choices you can make in terms of selecting meets.

Live and let live; fuck and let fuck.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

It is not shallow it is personal preference but for goodness sake don't mutilate yourself for that.

If it helps, Lu will generally only go for men with beards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!!! Find someone who like you as you are!!! X

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

If somebody turns you down how is it their loss?

if they wanted to meet they would have said yes, they said no because they didn't want to meet so how is it their loss?

Good heavens what is this?

If someone gets turned down they are entitled to feel as if it is the other party's loss. What state would their self esteem have to be in for them to think "yea these guys were lucky as I am a real fucking munter."

Give a person a break.

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By *ark-1Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Yea been there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

If somebody turns you down how is it their loss?

if they wanted to meet they would have said yes, they said no because they didn't want to meet so how is it their loss?

Good heavens what is this?

Give a person a break.

It's all relative .

The guy with a beard is asking what we think .

We can all say he should stay as he is , not change for anyone , and those who won't meet him are losing out .

Fat lot of good that does him ....

He still has no meet but at least has his self esteem so it's all good huh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should someone change who they are just to get a shag ??

I seen stories on here about meets and the which have gone bad because the person is dull as fuck.

It's not all about looks but personality.

This guy might be a really nice guy who would have loads in common and click really well.

So someone turns him down just because of a beard ? Kinda shallow if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should someone change who they are just to get a shag ??

I seen stories on here about meets and the which have gone bad because the person is dull as fuck.

It's not all about looks but personality.

This guy might be a really nice guy who would have loads in common and click really well.

So someone turns him down just because of a beard ? Kinda shallow if you ask me "

They probably used it as an excuse as they didn't fancy him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be worse... You could be a women turned down for having a beard

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

If somebody turns you down how is it their loss?

if they wanted to meet they would have said yes, they said no because they didn't want to meet so how is it their loss?

Good heavens what is this?

Give a person a break.

It's all relative .

The guy with a beard is asking what we think .

We can all say he should stay as he is , not change for anyone , and those who won't meet him are losing out .

Fat lot of good that does him ....

He still has no meet but at least has his self esteem so it's all good huh ?

Nothing can change the past. But the suggestion that he should see himself as unsatisfactory generally simply for having a beard is rather risible.

It could well be one of a million reasons or just bad luck. But the only real advice is perseverance and patience.

Beards are not exactly avant garde or niche. They are widely accepted as facial decorations. People are within their rights to not like a beard and turn people down based on the presence of facial fungus but that does not mean the owner of said dial should be made to feel like they are deficient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tatts and beards mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should someone change who they are just to get a shag ??

I seen stories on here about meets and the which have gone bad because the person is dull as fuck.

It's not all about looks but personality.

This guy might be a really nice guy who would have loads in common and click really well.

So someone turns him down just because of a beard ? Kinda shallow if you ask me "

So you will fuck absolutely anyone, no matter if you find them attractive or if they have a beard?

Call me.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's a fucking outrage...... European Court of Human Rights..... you didn't get your leg over because of a hairy chin...... beggars belief

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well.... This went down well haha... People are way too judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking hell...been a while since we've had a "beard and tats" thread...oooh...at least an hour or two...

Really are all men with beards and tattos extremely insecure..if you men are in doubt or questioning your sexual futures then stop colouring yourselves in and buy a bic..OR..crack on and be happy with yourselves without baying for reassurance...

Jeez..i remember when having a beard meant you were manly..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fucking hell...been a while since we've had a "beard and tats" thread...oooh...at least an hour or two...

Jeez..i remember when having a beard meant you were manly.."

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things got serious.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Don't think I've ever turned anyone down for having a beard. For being a twat, yes.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't mind stubble but a full on beard turns me off....just not for me, whether people think that is shallow or not? Tough!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"it's their loss" is just a Fab saying that comes out when someone wants to really say "so they didn't meet you, never mind, let's move on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to have no beards written on my profile, I just didn't like kissing santa sorry

however a guy with a beard hunted me down came to a club to meet me as saw I was going, we had a laugh about my beardism, and got on so well, he had a neat beard, he totally changed my mind and we met loads times for over a year, even this year he came to a club to catch up and be socialable with me and some friends

morale of story there was a lovely man behind that beard, so don't shave it off be yourself as it's part of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""it's their loss" is just a Fab saying that comes out when someone wants to really say "so they didn't meet you, never mind, let's move on"

Yeah it's a saying...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't mind stubble but a full on beard turns me off....just not for me, whether people think that is shallow or not? Tough!

Ha I don't think that's shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuff them babe. ..tats and beards hell yeah xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just meet people who like beards. I've been turned down for not being blonde, actually I haven't but it could happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just meet people who like beards. I've been turned down for not being blonde, actually I haven't but it could happen. "

Wow... That's crazy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

In the past ive always turned down guys with a beard. Met guys with a bit of stubble until I met one with a beard. Nice guy, in all departments, but as I cant see yours I cant really comment on it. Not that you asked for comments, I know.

Never say never to me possibly meeting a bearded guy again, depends on the beard though.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"If its part of you're identity I wouldn't change for anyone !

There loss

P.s real men have beards lol

If somebody turns you down how is it their loss?

if they wanted to meet they would have said yes, they said no because they didn't want to meet so how is it their loss?

Good heavens what is this?

Give a person a break.

It's all relative .

The guy with a beard is asking what we think .

We can all say he should stay as he is , not change for anyone , and those who won't meet him are losing out .

Fat lot of good that does him ....

He still has no meet but at least has his self esteem so it's all good huh ?

You could turn it on its head and say that attaching importance to "getting meets on Fabs" is probably n to the best way to remain sane or to get any self-esteem.

Re: beards - beards did used to mean that you were either a) manly or b) an old man (or c) both)... Now it seems they have been made all fashionable and metrosexual (beard oil anyone?

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See above thread for further details.

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

See it as their loss... dnt ever change to fit in

But then again I'm guessing you got the beard to fit in with the trend

Just do what you want either people like or they dnt ... of they dnt sod em move on

Simples

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

Meeting men who are clean-shaven is my preference just as you having a beard is yours. I wouldn't change my preference for anyone; why would you think of changing yours for someone

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Beards can look great on some guys. I've met a man with one and he was hot but then I saw a guy at work with one and I immediately thought 'ewwwwwww'. It was a bit long for my liking, had grey in it and bits of food. Well it didn't really but that's all I could think about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Beards can look great on some guys. I've met a man with one and he was hot but then I saw a guy at work with one and I immediately thought 'ewwwwwww'. It was a bit long for my liking, had grey in it and bits of food. Well it didn't really but that's all I could think about

Hahah mine doesn't have food nor grey bits in it

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

If you love your beard so much, keep it, or shave it off if you think its stopping you getting a fuck, but make a choice and stop complaining that it's ruining your fun, if you don't want to shave.

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By *un247365Man
over a year ago

birmingham

You get turned down because of a beard i get turned down because im indian lol oh well there loss mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you love your beard so much, keep it, or shave it off if you think its stopping you getting a fuck, but make a choice and stop complaining that it's ruining your fun, if you don't want to shave.

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where's you're dignity man keep the beard sod the fuck who needs it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I cant stand many of the crazes that are going on..and beards are one of them...as well as stupid fashion orientated hairstyles that look a fucking mess..literally.

people appear to be trying to show how unique they are by following a fashion...

I guess I'm just not a dedicated follower of fashion

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am. sorry but how the hell are you fat ?

She's not, but her ego gets massaged, so job done.

I don't like beards: so what? We all get turned down for one reason or another. Some of us accept we'll not be to everyones taste and get over ourselves, some will struggle with that concept and start numerous threads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send two face pics, one with a beard and one without. If I get a comment saying "eeeew beard!" I'll reply, "you're in luck, just shaved it" and then go and shave it if a drink was secured.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I send two face pics, one with a beard and one without. If I get a comment saying "eeeew beard!" I'll reply, "you're in luck, just shaved it" and then go and shave it if a drink was secured.

Hahaha

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Grey hairs are disgusting. All Grey hairs should be dyed.

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By *endrix100Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Be yourself..beard for prime minister!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be yourself..beard for prime minister! "

Hahaha

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Grey hairs are disgusting. All Grey hairs should be dyed.

Once I get past 50/50, it'll be time to start banishing the dark ones!

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over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool....

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over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool...."

breads

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over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool....

breads"

Now we have something worth talking about. ....I've been experimenting with baking all different types of bread

....would never turn someone down if they had bread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool....

breads

Now we have something worth talking about. ....I've been experimenting with baking all different types of bread

....would never turn someone down if they had bread

Bake off final tomorrow mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been with a man with a beard but I have to say I find them very very sexy on a man ...... x

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over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool....

breads

Now we have something worth talking about. ....I've been experimenting with baking all different types of bread

....would never turn someone down if they had bread

I know where my french sticks going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool....

breads

Now we have something worth talking about. ....I've been experimenting with baking all different types of bread

....would never turn someone down if they had bread

I know where my french sticks going"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool....

breads

Now we have something worth talking about. ....I've been experimenting with baking all different types of bread

....would never turn someone down if they had bread

I know where my french sticks going"

Is it covered in brie? If so, it's coming nowhere near me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never change who you are for others that's the great thing about this site and the world we're not all in to the same thing life would be boreing if we all liked the same thing keep the beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently started growing s beard and I have to say I've had more attention since I started growing it than when I was clean shaven

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

breads and ink my kinda thing, but your under my age limit. Love the arms..... drool....

breads

Now we have something worth talking about. ....I've been experimenting with baking all different types of bread

....would never turn someone down if they had bread

I know where my french sticks going

Is it covered in brie? If so, it's coming nowhere near me!

Cheddar all the way!!

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

My beard has been turned down a few times because of me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My beard has been turned down a few times because of me.."

Aye??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I've been turned down a few times now because I have a beard... Now I'm thinking do I change to suit other people or just see it as their loss?

Haven't read the whole thread, but I'd do whatever YOU wish to do, stay true to you buddy.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm not keen on beards but I've never turned someone down because of it, seems shallow, but we all have preferences, so I suppose you don't like beards that strongly it is a reason to reject someone.

OP if you like your beard keep it bugger what anyone else feels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a CDT teacher in school who always had food (i hope) on his! I always think big thick bushy beards would be great for hiding things in and a lot of people look amazing with them. Abe Lincoln, Santa, george clooney , gandalf, darwin, jim morrison, john lennon.

I did get freaked out when the good looking girl on the kids programme "queens nose" grew a beard. That changed my teenage bedtime routine!

Always be yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been turned down because I have pubic hair. I won't remove it completely to suit a meet and don't think you should remove your beard.

If we're not acceptable as we are then we clearly aren't suitable for each other."
I agree with you be yourself limit your options and be happy with your lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos... "

And those that do ... Some men like blondes, others brunettes, some like gym bunnies, others like BBWs. Some are into BDSM, others are horrified by it .... Wouldn't it be boring if everyone liked the same thing?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos... "

...or negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

...or negativity. "

Or maybe they're using them as an excuse to say no? Either way, just use your energy on the people who are at least open to meeting

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos... "

I don't beard, but I have literally never met anyone on here who doesn't like tattoos. I've met plenty who don't care either way, but no active dislikes...

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos... "

Both do wonderful things for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

Both do wonderful things for me!

"
harlot x

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

Both do wonderful things for me!

harlot x

You called?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

Both do wonderful things for me!

harlot x

You called?

Well... Wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

...or negativity. "

This.

Seriously - how many times do you have to ask/moan/complain/etc?

Sooner or later people are just going to stop bothering and you'll get a rep as a PITA - although at least then the thread titles might have a different theme.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep the beard! You sound pretty good to me!

You'll be surprised how many women that doesn't like beards or tattoos...

...or negativity.

This.

Seriously - how many times do you have to ask/moan/complain/etc?

Sooner or later people are just going to stop bothering and you'll get a rep as a PITA - although at least then the thread titles might have a different theme....."

Relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am. "

Your not a fat fucker! Your gorgeous

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over a year ago

"I've been turned down because I'ma fat fucker. I don't care. I'll meet those that want to meet me the way i am.

Your not a fat fucker! Your gorgeous

I said that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you still Got that beard don't you listen to anything I say ??

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Plenty of folks like a beard.

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By *aughtywifeyWoman
over a year ago

Keep it keep it keep it.

Don't change for anyone.

XXXX

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By *isKinkedKuntsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Never change for a meet!

I find those who like them are less vocal than those who don't anyways so be plenty out there. My FWB says if I didn't have one I'd probably not be with her haha

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Love me . love my beard .. Or piss off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love me . love my beard .. Or piss off

Haha great quote!

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