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Been told my verifications are putting people off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/10/15 16:46:58]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 04/10/15 16:46:58]"
they seem ok to me but has anyone had the same thing happen

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they sell you in a very positive light

and advertising them hopefully will do the same

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

I wouldn't worry, some people will purposefully find something to not like.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


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and advertising them hopefully will do the same"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've had people comment on how many I have (they should see how many I've hidden! ) but I just ignore them. Anyone who judges me on how many people I meet is someone I don't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told by one of my female friends that if she notices a slut or as she put it 'One of the local bikes' as a veri on a guys profile she will not meet him.

There were a couple of reasons, but thats beside the point for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its the veri that sounds like just because it didnt work out this time, that makes me think you didnt perform as such so i dont know how that would make ladies think probbly whats off putting mate

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Having two verification s from the same person might be regarded as padding....I tend not to display more than one from each person or couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anything wrong with them.

Ignore and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the veri that sounds like just because it didnt work out this time, that makes me think you didnt perform as such so i dont know how that would make ladies think probbly whats off putting mate"

He doesn't want you to agree with 'the ones' that said they're off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had people comment on how many I have (they should see how many I've hidden! ) but I just ignore them. Anyone who judges me on how many people I meet is someone I don't want to meet."

Me too! There's too many judgemental people on here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've only got three I've only had one person say imhad to many verifications and it put them off in nine years, as you can imagine I lost lots of sleep over that

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Good advertising fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not a " look at my veris " is it ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't see anything wrong with your verifications - they are there as an indication that you're real and not a 'bot, you turned up and chatted and had sex.

I've got loads but big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a different perspective it could be the verifications you left. There are all sorts of angles that someone can make their judgment on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what pleases and works for you and fuck everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly is the problem with your veris? Although I do tend to get a sneaky feeling it might be a thread designed for us to see your profile and see how great you are in the sack? I could be wrong but as veris go, i wouldn't be concerned in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What exactly is the problem with your veris? Although I do tend to get a sneaky feeling it might be a thread designed for us to see your profile and see how great you are in the sack? I could be wrong but as veris go, i wouldn't be concerned in the slightest "

Or the person used this as a reason as they weren't interested in him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me a cynic but 3 veris, 2 off the same person, I struggle to see how they could put anyone off? It's not as though there's too many and they're certainly no better than many other veris I've seen (I've seen a lot more gushing ones for other people to be honest) so either:

(a) whoever told you that is using it as an excuse not to meet you as you're not their type;

or (b) this is an excellent piece of self promotion!

The cynic in me suspects (b), but if it isn't then I strongly suspect (a) is the case. If so, dust yourself down, ignore them, don't dwell on the rejection and move on

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had people comment on how many I have (they should see how many I've hidden! ) but I just ignore them. Anyone who judges me on how many people I meet is someone I don't want to meet."

My friend Nobbynobbs has been told the same...doesn't bother him or me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had people comment on how many I have (they should see how many I've hidden! ) but I just ignore them. Anyone who judges me on how many people I meet is someone I don't want to meet.

My friend Nobbynobbs has been told the same...doesn't bother him or me..."

Exactly, you're not going to meet people who are put off by them, they are acting as a filter so ignore them.

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands


"[Removed by poster at 04/10/15 16:46:58] they seem ok to me but has anyone had the same thing happen"

I, Miss D don't care what people think about my verifications, I'm here to meet people, verifications are to say people meet, dont get why people get hung up over them, just know anyone that does isn't type person I want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll only be putting off those people who aren't right for you. Hide nowt on here, then you don't need to pretend anything or remember they bollocks you told them when you meet.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've had people comment on how many I have (they should see how many I've hidden! ) but I just ignore them. Anyone who judges me on how many people I meet is someone I don't want to meet.

My friend Nobbynobbs has been told the same...doesn't bother him or me..."

He's in the VIP section of my '100 club'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd lose the most recent one, but that's just me

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"[Removed by poster at 04/10/15 16:46:58] they seem ok to me but has anyone had the same thing happen"

Well that's a original way to get your profile noticed if nothing else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was only a question guys, nothing more.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Ignore them OP and do your own thing. You'll never please everyone on here. Run your profile how you want to run it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ignore them OP and do your own thing. You'll never please everyone on here. Run your profile how you want to run it. "
cheers bud

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