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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

I was a pro Dominatrix in my former life yet never had sexual contact with my clients (besides playing with their arses).

Now as fabulous as swinging is, there have been average to awful meets when I've thought 'might as well have got paid for that'.

There seems to be a bit of snobbery about sex workers on here. Is there something in our repressed British sexual morals that tells us charging for it is wrong yet giving it away is OK?

As a sexualy liberated swinger, would you consider it?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I would struggle to know which women are chosing it and which are coerced into it, so that is one of the main reasons why I wouldn't pay.

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Actually I started out swinging then made the transition to porn before returning to swinging.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't have a negative opinion of working girls/guys.... I do have of the ones who hide behind swinging to get mugs to pay for things....

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I have no issue with sex workers and as long as it's their decision all power to them....it's not something that I would consider doing myself though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider it as I don't see anything wrong with it if you're going into it fully informed and can pick and choose your clients. I do have a problem with those who out of desperation are forced to accept any client as it must sometimes be a very traumatic experience.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I don't have a negative opinion of working girls/guys.... I do have of the ones who hide behind swinging to get mugs to pay for things...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got no problems with them, but its when they think charging for sex on fab is ok, like its normal in the swinging world, they know there is a famous site they can be on which is for escorts. Don't mix work with swinging.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I sometimes paid for it years ago in West Germany...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it when i was younger and didn't lose my autonomy but i worked for myself. People need money.

But yeah i've had some rare meets where i've felt used and my needs weren't considered and thought the guy should retribute me in some way coz i wanted to enjoy it as well. I just don't meet them again.

Some guys even approach you on here like you're here to service them, selfish, boring and nothing could turn me on less. I've changed my profile to reflect what i want on here, many guys haven't read it and that's fine coz it s them out. Had a really nice night/morning with someone, he was exactly what i'm looking for and he enjoyed it as well so we both got what we wanted - which is how it should be.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I would struggle to know which women are chosing it and which are coerced into it, so that is one of the main reasons why I wouldn't pay. "

I should have mentioned consent. My moral compass is pretty damn strong on this.

The media likes to tell us that all sex workers are victims, some unfortunately are but there are a great many who make an informed choice and love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in a sex club, I do one event a week there, i do have a full time regular job but the sex club is ridiculously easy money for very little work

I have never nor would I ever do one on one meets due to safty but the club is a safe environment

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I did it when i was younger and didn't lose my autonomy but i worked for myself. People need money.

But yeah i've had some rare meets where i've felt used and my needs weren't considered and thought the guy should retribute me in some way coz i wanted to enjoy it as well. I just don't meet them again.

Some guys even approach you on here like you're here to service them, selfish, boring and nothing could turn me on less. I've changed my profile to reflect what i want on here, many guys haven't read it and that's fine coz it s them out. Had a really nice night/morning with someone, he was exactly what i'm looking for and he enjoyed it as well so we both got what we wanted - which is how it should be."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Providing there not using the money for drugs i dont have a problem, but i wouldent go out and pay for sex id simply look for a lady with the same interest as myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a pro Dominatrix in my former life yet never had sexual contact with my clients (besides playing with their arses).

Now as fabulous as swinging is, there have been average to awful meets when I've thought 'might as well have got paid for that'. U

There seems to be a bit of snobbery about sex workers on here. Is there something in our repressed British sexual morals that tells us charging for it is wrong yet giving it away is OK?

As a sexualy liberated swinger, would you consider it?"
charging for sex? No I wouldn't ,I wouldn't pay or charge ,it's a pleasure so it should be free as soon as you make something a chore or a bill paying event the desire goes out the window eventually ,ultimately we all pay ,hotels ,meals drinks, travelling expenses but limit the need to have it to desire rather than avarice

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

The site is to have fun only. Work must be left outside the swinging world, even if you have some bad experiences...which from what I was told they are not rare...

I just had a meet last night who made think: well what is this shit? I should have been paid for this service

I agree with the lady above: if you are aware of the services one provides and the provider is indipendent, there is nothing wrong

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By *erryPervettoMan
over a year ago

London


"I got no problems with them, but its when they think charging for sex on fab is ok, like its normal in the swinging world, they know there is a famous site they can be on which is for escorts. Don't mix work with swinging."

Well said mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a fair few on here that are on an escorting website doing escorting or just webcaming x

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

I think the term 'giving it away' implies getting nothing in return.

I assume that if you've arranged to meet someone that you want it just as much as they do and so you're not 'giving it away' at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps be more selective with your meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got no problems with them, but its when they think charging for sex on fab is ok, like its normal in the swinging world, they know there is a famous site they can be on which is for escorts. Don't mix work with swinging.

Well said mate "
Ty pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MISStress have you met Leonardelite think you may get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paying for sex, is something i would NEVER do. Unless i was old and lonley but then there are.plenty of women that like a more mature Gentleman.

I prefer tonhave sexual partners that want to be with me as much as i want to be with them.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, bad shags are bad enough without the additional embarrassment of getting paid for it.

I have no problem with people paying/getting paid for sex. However it adds a certain obligation that I would not be comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't have a problem with working girls or men for that matter, being on a swinging site.

As long as they are not touting for work. I have seen several profiles where if you read between the lines they are working girls and charging. Some may go for it to get the verification. For me a swinging site is just that. If you want to pay for an escort or charge people for sex there are other sites that cater for this.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We've got no problem with either male or female escorts. So long as it's their choice, we are totally fine - we have both been with independent escorts and had great times in the distant past.

Would we do it ourselves, no, but only because we enjoy other parts of our life and it wouldn't fit in! ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many swingers pay and get paid for sex but they are in denial about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have considered the idea as I love sex wirh strangers, but on here I choose who they are. Wouldn't get that choice at an "escort" agency.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I don't judge prostitutes/escort/sex workers- everyone is human and is someone's son/daughter. Some do it out of free will others find themselves forced into it (people trafficking, drugs, financial hardship).

There are three reasons why I would never pay for sex (also for personal reasons I think that sex and money should remain separate).

1) I would never want to actively fund people trafficking or drug habit or contribute to someone's misery.

2) When someone pays for sex often it is solely for their own gratification. As a man a big part of sex that I enjoy is giving a lady pleasure and making sure she has a good time too- when someone is paying for sex this side usually gets disregarded in order to keep the cost down.

3) I would never want to go to bed with someone who didn't find me attractive and was only there because I was paying.

I'm not judging anyone who does pay for sex/companionship but I think there is a difference between a widower who uses sex workers for (respectful) companionship and the d*unken, misogynist who only want to "bang some slags"

Apologies for the long post, just wanted to get my _iews across.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't pretend that I'm enjoying sex so I'd be a hopeless prostitute and have to keep giving refunds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't pretend that I'm enjoying sex so I'd be a hopeless prostitute and have to keep giving refunds "

I'd be skint!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd never do it but only because I only want fit , nice smelling , polite , pay upfront , disease and drug free, non sociopathic with murderous tendency punters......

Is that too much to ask ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone on here if they asked for money/fee....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd never do it but only because I only want fit , nice smelling , polite , pay upfront , disease and drug free, non sociopathic with murderous tendency punters......

Is that too much to ask ?"

That's a hell of a lot to put on that card in the phone box.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I'd never do it but only because I only want fit , nice smelling , polite , pay upfront , disease and drug free, non sociopathic with murderous tendency punters......

Is that too much to ask ?"

You could select your clients

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I can't pretend that I'm enjoying sex so I'd be a hopeless prostitute and have to keep giving refunds "

Ahahahah this is one of the funniest jokes I have heard recently

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Many swingers pay and get paid for sex but they are in denial about it.

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Especially single guys. We pay a hell of a lot compared to single girls

My opinion is that a night in a club is good if you get at least two girls to compensate the price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it being the oldest profession out they ,the problem we have with prostitution is lead to drugs pimps and the like seen so good friends over years be lost to drugs ,but this is only our opinion obviously each to there own

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'd never do it but only because I only want fit , nice smelling , polite , pay upfront , disease and drug free, non sociopathic with murderous tendency punters......

Is that too much to ask ?

You could select your clients "

I'd probably starve at the rate that that type of client would A come along and B have ME in mind..

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Ive done page 3 type ameteur glamour modeling several years ago nothing bad..but i loved it nothing wrong in that. Or being a mistress ive done photo shoots years ago as a mistress an it was fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a pro Dominatrix in my former life yet never had sexual contact with my clients (besides playing with their arses).

Now as fabulous as swinging is, there have been average to awful meets when I've thought 'might as well have got paid for that'.

There seems to be a bit of snobbery about sex workers on here. Is there something in our repressed British sexual morals that tells us charging for it is wrong yet giving it away is OK?

As a sexualy liberated swinger, would you consider it?"

The Brits are surely hypocrites about sex workers, many of them anyway. I don't object at all so long as people do it of their own free will. And I do love a nice escort couple.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work for a paper and we'd have sex workers come in each week and pay cash for their adverts, They were all really nice ladies. I personally would never do it, but as there is always a demand for the service there will always be women and men who are willing to supply it, so hey each to their own.

Even on here there will be people who are willing to pay for whatever reason and as long as no one is under duress to partake I see no problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree

I find there are many guys on this site staying in hotels with work etc who are simply seeking a 'service shag' as they are lonely..my answer is always the same..go and hire an escort and don't use folk. Itcis easy to feel used on this site and I feel that many guys on here have no respect for any of the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a negative opinion of working girls/guys.... I do have of the ones who hide behind swinging to get mugs to pay for things...."

These are my sentiments too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strictly talking about sex workers who have freely decided to enter this profession of their own free will, and aren't having to do it to feed a habit etc.

I have the utmost respect for sex workers, and get very pissed off at people who disrespect them.

I find, especially in the forums that a lot of British snobbery seems to be aimed at the punters/clients. Ie. You must be a real sad bastard if you can't get sex unless you have to pay for it etc etc.

I wonder if it has ever crossed people's minds that when a man takes a woman out for dinner (wine and dine her) in effect this is also a type of transaction?

I am offered this quite frequently on here. And have also been in the vanilla world, where I was expected to repay with fucking him.

Just saying guys!!

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many swingers pay and get paid for sex but they are in denial about it.

Especially single guys. We pay a hell of a lot compared to single girls

My opinion is that a night in a club is good if you get at least two girls to compensate the price "

Do single women leave with more money than they went in with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strictly talking about sex workers who have freely decided to enter this profession of their own free will, and aren't having to do it to feed a habit etc.

I have the utmost respect for sex workers, and get very pissed off at people who disrespect them.

I find, especially in the forums that a lot of British snobbery seems to be aimed at the punters/clients. Ie. You must be a real sad bastard if you can't get sex unless you have to pay for it etc etc.

I wonder if it has ever crossed people's minds that when a man takes a woman out for dinner (wine and dine her) in effect this is also a type of transaction?

I am offered this quite frequently on here. And have also been in the vanilla world, where I was expected to repay with fucking him.

Just saying guys!!

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Swinging couples do it too. Bless them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue "

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the term 'giving it away' implies getting nothing in return.

I assume that if you've arranged to meet someone that you want it just as much as they do and so you're not 'giving it away' at all. "

Good observation!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I was a pro Dominatrix in my former life yet never had sexual contact with my clients (besides playing with their arses).

Now as fabulous as swinging is, there have been average to awful meets when I've thought 'might as well have got paid for that'.

There seems to be a bit of snobbery about sex workers on here. Is there something in our repressed British sexual morals that tells us charging for it is wrong yet giving it away is OK?

As a sexualy liberated swinger, would you consider it?"

I'd never pay for a experience that by the fact I've paid for it becomes fake .

But that doesn't stop me believing it should be legalized and regulated to protect those in the industry from any criminal activity .

Nor do I look down on those who use there body to make money be it prostitution or laptop dancing what ever as long as it was their choice to pursue such career choices I'm fine with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid for sex on more than one occasion. When I was younger. There have been times recently where I have gave serious thought. To been an escort. However I would definitely be very particular about who I saw.

Claire

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

As a Pro adult producer and sex worker i come up against a lot of snobbery in the swinging world, the only difference between the two is i get paid when working.

Both parties have elicit sex so how one can frown down on another i really don't know, we are all swingers having sex with multiple partners and lepers to the rest of society yet some on here think themselves better than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a Pro adult producer and sex worker i come up against a lot of snobbery in the swinging world, the only difference between the two is i get paid when working.

Both parties have elicit sex so how one can frown down on another i really don't know, we are all swingers having sex with multiple partners and lepers to the rest of society yet some on here think themselves better than others."

Couldn't agree more. Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Providing there not using the money for drugs i dont have a problem, but i wouldent go out and pay for sex id simply look for a lady with the same interest as myself."
so because a person works in the sex industry and spends it on drugs makes it wrong . Ok . So if a parson is a shop workers and spends it on drugs, should we stop the working in a shop ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps . Rubbish typing on my part . I'm sure I got my point across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do webcamming sometimes and get very well paid...i neither need the money or am forced to do it ..i just enjoy it

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

I think somebody else hit on the problem here earlier on. OP be a bit more discerning with who you meet on here.

Just like a guy meeting a lady, some are better experiences than others. But at no point do I think I should be charging for it (unlikely anyone would pay for a start!!).

But for the guys willing to pay for it, why would they spend their time browsing and chatting on here, when they could just pick up the telephone or email from an escort site, and get whatever sexual desire they wish from an escort with no effort.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"So if a parson is a shop workers and spends it on drugs, should we stop the working in a shop ?"

There's a difference between drug use and drug abuse. When someone is only doing sex work to feed an addiction it becomes morally (in my book) wrong to pay- may as well put the money straight in the dealer's pocket.

Also sex workers in this situation are more at risk/danger as they will be likely out working on the streets rather than through a massage parlour or other premises.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I've paid for sex on more than one occasion. When I was younger. There have been times recently where I have gave serious thought. To been an escort. However I would definitely be very particular about who I saw.

Claire

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I don't think as an escort you really have that option. Once a guy is in your 'place of work' or your in his hotel room, there isn't much room for manouvering when he is paying for it. You could refuse on grounds of hygiene I suppose, But how do you tell a paying customer you don't find him attractive or consider him overweight etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they are doing what they do by choice and earning for themselves (not for a ponce) then i see no problem

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Whilst I have no issues with prostitutes, I would not consider it as an option for myself

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"As a Pro adult producer and sex worker i come up against a lot of snobbery in the swinging world, the only difference between the two is i get paid when working.

Both parties have elicit sex so how one can frown down on another i really don't know, we are all swingers having sex with multiple partners and lepers to the rest of society yet some on here think themselves better than others.

Couldn't agree more. Very well put "

Agreed.

As for choice, I've just come back from Copenhagen where I met a sex worker who led a very nice life. Only worked in the day, saw no more than two clients a day, knew her worth and charged accordingly. Wasn't a classic beauty but choose who she saw, no pimp, refused to do anal, swallow or let them cum on her face.

Far more honest than some chicks who try to ensnare footballers and rich chaps or those who use sex as a weapon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that."

Especially if a catholic priest is involved!

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that."

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily paid for sex and will do it again at some point.

They provide a service I'm willing to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking "

Did they like it in a sexual way?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?"

I very much doubt it for it was all on a purely intellectual level

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?"

I guess they did. If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact. Wasn't intimate. Difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?

I guess they did. If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact. Wasn't intimate. Difference."

its easy, was it pleasuable? if yes, was it sexual? answer: not intimate. Next question:

would you do it to your Dad?

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?

I guess they did. If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact. Wasn't intimate. Difference.

its easy, was it pleasuable? if yes, was it sexual? answer: not intimate. Next question:

would you do it to your Dad?"

Um what now?

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over a year ago


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?

I guess they did. If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact. Wasn't intimate. Difference.

its easy, was it pleasuable? if yes, was it sexual? answer: not intimate. Next question:

would you do it to your Dad?

Um what now? "

you said it wasn't intimate..

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I don't have a negative opinion of working girls/guys.... I do have of the ones who hide behind swinging to get mugs to pay for things...."

This!

Mind if I wasn't such a fussy fucker I could happily keep myself in shoes!

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp. "

Surely that then covers all Swinging Club owners too then ??...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp.

Surely that then covers all Swinging Club owners too then ??...

"

you don't have to have sex at a swinging club. no one is being paid to have sexual intercourse.

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By *bbyBiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

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By *bbyBiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking "

Naughty naughty girl

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By *bbyBiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I have used Pro dommes before. I think a good pro domme is worth every penny. I would not count it as prostitution as sex does not happen. I get accomodation and use of the equipment for the fee. I need a good mistress in Newcastle if anyone can help I'd be very grateful?

Abby

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?

I guess they did. If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact. Wasn't intimate. Difference.

its easy, was it pleasuable? if yes, was it sexual? answer: not intimate. Next question:

would you do it to your Dad?

Um what now?

you said it wasn't intimate.."

I see what you're getting at. Even if it is resorting to a grim analogy.

Did they see my pink parts? No. Did I use my mouth on them? No.

Did I play with their genitals? Only when it involved torture.

Did I fist and fuck them? Yes.

Is that sexual contact? Yes, I guess it is.

Did I find that sexualy intimate? No.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Naughty naughty girl "

Oh aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?

I guess they did. If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact. Wasn't intimate. Difference.

its easy, was it pleasuable? if yes, was it sexual? answer: not intimate. Next question:

would you do it to your Dad?

Um what now?

you said it wasn't intimate..

I see what you're getting at. Even if it is resorting to a grim analogy.

Did they see my pink parts? No. Did I use my mouth on them? No.

Did I play with their genitals? Only when it involved torture.

Did I fist and fuck them? Yes.

Is that sexual contact? Yes, I guess it is.

Did I find that sexualy intimate? No.

"

I'm sure they did..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact.

Did I fist and fuck them? Yes.

Is that sexual contact? Yes, I guess it is.

Did I find that sexualy intimate? No.

"

Well i guess some people *may* find that sexualy intimate. If they're "splitting hairs" of course.

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp.

Surely that then covers all Swinging Club owners too then ??...

you don't have to have sex at a swinging club. no one is being paid to have sexual intercourse."

You also dont have to have sex when meeting an escort...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp.

Surely that then covers all Swinging Club owners too then ??...

you don't have to have sex at a swinging club. no one is being paid to have sexual intercourse.

You also dont have to have sex when meeting an escort..."

An Escort. not a prostitute. Point well proved.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"If someone plays with my arse i consider that "sexual contact". You should probably be aware of that.

Ok..no intimate sexual contact. No wanking, only spanking

Did they like it in a sexual way?

I guess they did. If you're splitting hairs, yes, there was sexual contact. Wasn't intimate. Difference.

its easy, was it pleasuable? if yes, was it sexual? answer: not intimate. Next question:

would you do it to your Dad?

Um what now?

you said it wasn't intimate..

I see what you're getting at. Even if it is resorting to a grim analogy.

Did they see my pink parts? No. Did I use my mouth on them? No.

Did I play with their genitals? Only when it involved torture.

Did I fist and fuck them? Yes.

Is that sexual contact? Yes, I guess it is.

Did I find that sexualy intimate? No.

I'm sure they did.."

Did they? Probably. Jolly good.

I've admitted it's sexual contact. Not sure what it is you're grasping at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

|I was just worried that you didn't think that what you were doing was sexual contact. Happy to help.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"|I was just worried that you didn't think that what you were doing was sexual contact. Happy to help. "

Yeah....um thanks for your concern.

Now back to the original question. Would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd consider it, but its a bit like using a warm toilet seat isn't it.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I worked as an escort, and still doon the odd occasion. Nobody forced me to do it, it was entirely my own doing but I had pressing financial problems at the time and needed a quick way to get cash.

I'm a middle class mother of three, you'd never guess that's what I did. I don't take drugs or steal, lie or beat people up! I'm just the girl next door making a few extra pounds for a particular project or bill.

The difference for me was that I work for nobody but myself, I choose who I meet: I turn lots of guys down and I keep it totally separate from my identity on here. My swinging and working lives never collide and that's an important point.

Admins will ban you if you're found to be selling sex on here; be very careful.

If you're thinking of entering the profession take these tips from me:

1.Let somebody know where you're going

2. Meet only at client's homes

3. Talk to them on the phone before arranging a meeting

4. Get paid in advance

5.Keep an eye on the time!

6. Massage can take a very long time

lol

7. Set the ground rules at the very outset.

Making the leap from swinging to prostitution isn't very big. The guys tend to get it over and done with and don't bother lying to you. In swinging I've heard so many lies I could write a book! They know you're only there for half or an hour, that they'll only come once and then show you the door. NEXT!

Good luck if you are trying it. I didn't like the emptiness of it; it wasn't for me. I much prefer to meet the guys I fancy, no pressure, and have actual fun.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I worked as an escort, and still doon the odd occasion. Nobody forced me to do it, it was entirely my own doing but I had pressing financial problems at the time and needed a quick way to get cash.

I'm a middle class mother of three, you'd never guess that's what I did. I don't take drugs or steal, lie or beat people up! I'm just the girl next door making a few extra pounds for a particular project or bill.

The difference for me was that I work for nobody but myself, I choose who I meet: I turn lots of guys down and I keep it totally separate from my identity on here. My swinging and working lives never collide and that's an important point.

Admins will ban you if you're found to be selling sex on here; be very careful.

If you're thinking of entering the profession take these tips from me:

1.Let somebody know where you're going

2. Meet only at client's homes

3. Talk to them on the phone before arranging a meeting

4. Get paid in advance

5.Keep an eye on the time!

6. Massage can take a very long time

lol

7. Set the ground rules at the very outset.

Making the leap from swinging to prostitution isn't very big. The guys tend to get it over and done with and don't bother lying to you. In swinging I've heard so many lies I could write a book! They know you're only there for half or an hour, that they'll only come once and then show you the door. NEXT!

Good luck if you are trying it. I didn't like the emptiness of it; it wasn't for me. I much prefer to meet the guys I fancy, no pressure, and have actual fun."

Great post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I started out swinging then made the transition to porn before returning to swinging. "

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree

I find there are many guys on this site staying in hotels with work etc who are simply seeking a 'service shag' as they are lonely..my answer is always the same..go and hire an escort and don't use folk. Itcis easy to feel used on this site and I feel that many guys on here have no respect for any of the ladies."
and another one another one bites the dust

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp. "

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp.

Surely that then covers all Swinging Club owners too then ??...

you don't have to have sex at a swinging club. no one is being paid to have sexual intercourse."

Exactly my point.. The ladies attend because we have a laugh and they feel safe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd consider it, but its a bit like using a warm toilet seat isn't it."

Clem, and doesn't that also describe swing partners???

Or do you only fuck virgins?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd consider it, but its a bit like using a warm toilet seat isn't it.

Clem, and doesn't that also describe swing partners???

Or do you only fuck virgins?"

Precisely. Personally I prefer the MUCH more experienced person, private or professional.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I have used Pro dommes before. I think a good pro domme is worth every penny. I would not count it as prostitution as sex does not happen. I get accomodation and use of the equipment for the fee. I need a good mistress in Newcastle if anyone can help I'd be very grateful?

Abby"

Sorry Abby but that is a bit of a delusional ideaology.

If you are paying somebody to get your rocks off sexually, then it is prostitution as far as I'm concerned. It matters not a jot if they penetrate you or you them.

Using your desritpion of paying to use their equipment, That would be fine if they weren't with you. But as you are expecting them to use the stuff on you, it cannot be _iewed as anything but hiring an escort.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I worked as an escort, and still doon the odd occasion. Nobody forced me to do it, it was entirely my own doing but I had pressing financial problems at the time and needed a quick way to get cash.

I'm a middle class mother of three, you'd never guess that's what I did. I don't take drugs or steal, lie or beat people up! I'm just the girl next door making a few extra pounds for a particular project or bill.

The difference for me was that I work for nobody but myself, I choose who I meet: I turn lots of guys down and I keep it totally separate from my identity on here. My swinging and working lives never collide and that's an important point.

Admins will ban you if you're found to be selling sex on here; be very careful.

If you're thinking of entering the profession take these tips from me:

1.Let somebody know where you're going

2. Meet only at client's homes

3. Talk to them on the phone before arranging a meeting

4. Get paid in advance

5.Keep an eye on the time!

6. Massage can take a very long time

lol

7. Set the ground rules at the very outset.

Making the leap from swinging to prostitution isn't very big. The guys tend to get it over and done with and don't bother lying to you. In swinging I've heard so many lies I could write a book! They know you're only there for half or an hour, that they'll only come once and then show you the door. NEXT!

Good luck if you are trying it. I didn't like the emptiness of it; it wasn't for me. I much prefer to meet the guys I fancy, no pressure, and have actual fun."

Can I kindly suggest you to meet in hotels in future? Clients homes are not safe at all. Hotels have CCV and they show the ID to the reception for the room...and you know the room number

Anyway swinging, high class escorting and professional porn are three TOTALLY different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have used Pro dommes before. I think a good pro domme is worth every penny. I would not count it as prostitution as sex does not happen. I get accomodation and use of the equipment for the fee. I need a good mistress in Newcastle if anyone can help I'd be very grateful?

Abby

Sorry Abby but that is a bit of a delusional ideaology.

If you are paying somebody to get your rocks off sexually, then it is prostitution as far as I'm concerned. It matters not a jot if they penetrate you or you them.

Using your desritpion of paying to use their equipment, That would be fine if they weren't with you. But as you are expecting them to use the stuff on you, it cannot be _iewed as anything but hiring an escort."

What an interesting concept.

So a guy paying for a hotel room/ bottle of wine, meeting a woman and they fuck... that makes the woman the escort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd consider it, but its a bit like using a warm toilet seat isn't it.

Clem, and doesn't that also describe swing partners???

Or do you only fuck virgins?"

No. Swingers generally fancy the person they'll play with. Prostitutes don't have to fancy the client. I work with a guy who pays for sex. He is so fat, he, by his own admission, can't wipe his ass properly. Yet, women will fuck him for money. I don't want that warm toilet seat Thankyou. Plus i don't swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a sexless marriage and struggle to meet women on here. I'd consider paying the right woman. I'd definitely pay for a black girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have used Pro dommes before. I think a good pro domme is worth every penny. I would not count it as prostitution as sex does not happen. I get accomodation and use of the equipment for the fee. I need a good mistress in Newcastle if anyone can help I'd be very grateful?

Abby

Sorry Abby but that is a bit of a delusional ideaology.

If you are paying somebody to get your rocks off sexually, then it is prostitution as far as I'm concerned. It matters not a jot if they penetrate you or you them.

Using your desritpion of paying to use their equipment, That would be fine if they weren't with you. But as you are expecting them to use the stuff on you, it cannot be _iewed as anything but hiring an escort.

What an interesting concept.

So a guy paying for a hotel room/ bottle of wine, meeting a woman and they fuck... that makes the woman the escort. "

If the woman leaves with some of the man's money in her purse yes.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Sounds okay to me, maybe if I were younger I would have taken this route

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I have used Pro dommes before. I think a good pro domme is worth every penny. I would not count it as prostitution as sex does not happen. I get accomodation and use of the equipment for the fee. I need a good mistress in Newcastle if anyone can help I'd be very grateful?

Abby

Sorry Abby but that is a bit of a delusional ideaology.

If you are paying somebody to get your rocks off sexually, then it is prostitution as far as I'm concerned. It matters not a jot if they penetrate you or you them.

Using your desritpion of paying to use their equipment, That would be fine if they weren't with you. But as you are expecting them to use the stuff on you, it cannot be _iewed as anything but hiring an escort.

What an interesting concept.

So a guy paying for a hotel room/ bottle of wine, meeting a woman and they fuck... that makes the woman the escort. "

Can you explain the thinking that came to that conclusion? What I was talking about was a submissive meeting a dominatrix and paying for their services.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I

If the woman leaves with some of the man's money in hr purse yes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I run gangbang parties.. All the ladies who attend my parties are swingers.. But I still get told.. I'm not paying for sex from the guys... It's not paying for sex... Ur paying for the apartment I have to rent, the supply on condoms, wipes, fresh towels, bottled water and soft drinks.. And the time I put in arranging these.. Some folks just don't have a clue

If they are paying for your time you are earning money from sex. If you're making a profit from men paying for sex for the women you are providing for the men you're a pimp.

Surely that then covers all Swinging Club owners too then ??...

you don't have to have sex at a swinging club. no one is being paid to have sexual intercourse.

Exactly my point.. The ladies attend because we have a laugh and they feel safe.. "

Clubs,as far as I am aware have different rules. They aren't supposed supply ladies for men or couples. Obviously someone makes a profit and sex does sometimes occur with women who are being paid to be there. Your ladies aren't paid,they aren't prostitutes. If you don't make money from your parties,after overheads,you aren't a pimp. You're just a bunch of ladies having a free sex party,sounds like a great idea to me if you can pick and choose who comes. I don't know what the law is about charging for private parties,I don't know if you need a license like clubs do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds okay to me, maybe if I were younger I would have taken this route "

I would have made a fortune

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Sounds okay to me, maybe if I were younger I would have taken this route

I would have made a fortune "

Knowing my luck I would of been charged with tax evasion and had prison time

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds okay to me, maybe if I were younger I would have taken this route

I would have made a fortune

Knowing my luck I would of been charged with tax evasion and had prison time

x"

Call yourself a therapist and pay the tax

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Sounds okay to me, maybe if I were younger I would have taken this route

I would have made a fortune

Knowing my luck I would of been charged with tax evasion and had prison time

x

Call yourself a therapist and pay the tax "

Hmmm I like your mind lol x

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By *bbyBiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I have used Pro dommes before. I think a good pro domme is worth every penny. I would not count it as prostitution as sex does not happen. I get accomodation and use of the equipment for the fee. I need a good mistress

Sorry Abby but that is a bit of a delusional ideaology.

If you are paying somebody to get your rocks off sexually, then it is prostitution as far as I'm concerned. It matters not a jot if they penetrate you or you them.

Using your desritpion of paying to use their equipment, That would be fine if they weren't with you. But as you are expecting them to use the stuff on you, it cannot be _iewed as anything but hiring an escort.

What an interesting concept.

So a guy paying for a hotel room/ bottle of wine, meeting a woman and they fuck... that makes the woman the escort. "

Thatd just treating a lady nice if you ask me.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I work in a sex club, I do one event a week there, i do have a full time regular job but the sex club is ridiculously easy money for very little work

I have never nor would I ever do one on one meets due to safty but the club is a safe environment

"

Good on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now as fabulous as swinging is, there have been average to awful meets when I've thought 'might as well have got paid for that'.

There seems to be a bit of snobbery about sex workers on here. Is there something in our repressed British sexual morals that tells us charging for it is wrong yet giving it away is OK? "

Why would I want to fuck someone who didn't want to be there, wasn't attracted to me, didn't care about the meet, didn't respond to what we did, and was there purely to make some cash?

Sex is mental and emotional as well as physical: that's how we can get turned on by the sound of a voice, a hint in a message or the catch in someone's breath as they are about to cum. It's why the moments after feel more satisfying than having a wank.

It's nothing to do with repressed morals or snobbery; I'd be bored.

"here's fifty quid, rub my cock, cheers pet"... No thanks.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

South East London


"Providing there not using the money for drugs i dont have a problem, but i wouldent go out and pay for sex id simply look for a lady with the same interest as myself."

If they have earnt the money, who are you or anybody else to say how they spend it?

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I've been paid a few times. Like petrol money or being made dinner. One bought me a new tie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a pro Dominatrix in my former life yet never had sexual contact with my clients (besides playing with their arses).

Now as fabulous as swinging is, there have been average to awful meets when I've thought 'might as well have got paid for that'.

There seems to be a bit of snobbery about sex workers on here. Is there something in our repressed British sexual morals that tells us charging for it is wrong yet giving it away is OK?

As a sexualy liberated swinger, would you consider it?"
not snobbery but why pay for something you can achieve for nothing ,makes sense to me ,we all ultimately pay in some shape or form

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Big fantasy of mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fantasy of mine x"
what is to pay me for sex ?

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central


"Big fantasy of mine xwhat is to pay me for sex ? "

Lol no, to be a hooker lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fantasy of mine xwhat is to pay me for sex ?

Lol no, to be a hooker lol x"
why do you love fishing ,I've never caught a fish in my life x

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol x"
hey you look dead sexy am sure you would be successful at it x I used to meet a deaf woman

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

My deafness doesn't hold me back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My deafness doesn't hold me back"
no it didn't her ,were still friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My deafness doesn't hold me backno it didn't her ,were still friends x "
we're still

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Good your still friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would consider it as I don't see anything wrong with it if you're going into it fully informed and can pick and choose your clients. I do have a problem with those who out of desperation are forced to accept any client as it must sometimes be a very traumatic experience."

This I do find the idea quite a turn on actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd charge, but noone would be willing to pay lol. I'd be an escort anyway so it gives the option of going to all kinds of social events if that's what the customer wants, then give them a happy ending

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By *bbyBiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I think you do not have the faintest idea what a pro domme is. A pro domme does not interact sexually with a sub, to do so would be prostitution. I admit she gets paid not for sexual services.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Actually I started out swinging then made the transition to porn before returning to swinging.

Totally agree with this "

You agree that he did that ?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Are the women turned on by this because they are empowered or demeaned? Jizzabelle has a prostatution fantasy as she loves the idea of her having no choice, of being degraded cum on and me collecting the money as she showers the cum and piss off her body.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I'd charge, but noone would be willing to pay lol. I'd be an escort anyway so it gives the option of going to all kinds of social events if that's what the customer wants, then give them a happy ending"

As a guy I've been offered money for sex by momen a lot. Every one of them was a hottie. I did them for free.... Mug!

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By *eaven17Man
over a year ago

Preston

I don't think that most people who are prostitutes feel its degrading, they wouldn't do it if that was the case.

Most people get into prostitution for the money, some for the sex. Lots of people think that prostitution in the UK is illegal (escorting), when infact it is legal and a taxable income (you can't tax somebody legally if it's money obtain illegally.. HM Gov aren't stupid are tjhey? Go figure haha). Street walking is Illeagal and so is pimping and madaming making money from other people having sex for money.

I saw a documentary about webcam girls. This girl was working from home doing webcam shows earning 70K a year that she declared as a business and had an accountant. She also did escorting making around 35K a year undeclared pocket money she called it. And she definately didn't feel degraded.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I think you do not have the faintest idea what a pro domme is. A pro domme does not interact sexually with a sub, to do so would be prostitution. I admit she gets paid not for sexual services. "

How incredibly naive. I assume a submissive gets his or her rocks off by the actions of the dom. So to think it isn't a form prostitution is delusional.

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By *bbyBiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You assume wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think guys could make money like this.

Just shows how naive i can be

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By *lim_jim1964Man
over a year ago

peterborough


"Strictly talking about sex workers who have freely decided to enter this profession of their own free will, and aren't having to do it to feed a habit etc.

I have the utmost respect for sex workers, and get very pissed off at people who disrespect them.

I find, especially in the forums that a lot of British snobbery seems to be aimed at the punters/clients. Ie. You must be a real sad bastard if you can't get sex unless you have to pay for it etc etc.

I wonder if it has ever crossed people's minds that when a man takes a woman out for dinner (wine and dine her) in effect this is also a type of transaction?

I am offered this quite frequently on here. And have also been in the vanilla world, where I was expected to repay with fucking him.

Just saying guys!!

"

Agree with this so much, I have had couples say meet would be on if paid for hotel, meal and wine etc, one had cheek to say I pick up tab for meal but eat at a different table!

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By *ob55Man
over a year ago

PE13

I worked as a driver for an escort agency for about 2 years.

The girls were normal nice girls none as far as i was aware were using.

They just liked sex and loved getting paid for it lol

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"You assume wrong"

Forgive me here then, But what is it you get from the submissive act other than some kind of sexual turn on?

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin

Seems to be a big fantasy for a lot of women, me included most however still want to be able to choose their partners lol!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a pro Dominatrix in my former life yet never had sexual contact with my clients (besides playing with their arses).

Now as fabulous as swinging is, there have been average to awful meets when I've thought 'might as well have got paid for that'.

There seems to be a bit of snobbery about sex workers on here. Is there something in our repressed British sexual morals that tells us charging for it is wrong yet giving it away is OK?

As a sexualy liberated swinger, would you consider it?"

I would be delighted if some of the people on here approached my in a professional capacity. Paying for it is one of my kinks and not a substitute for them. Ahem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think if you go to a club meet then you are paying for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think if you go to a club meet then you are paying for sex"

How are you when it is not guaranteed, when you pay for car insurance are you guaranteed to have an accident?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You assume wrong

Forgive me here then, But what is it you get from the submissive act other than some kind of sexual turn on?"

Do the research, it's rather comlicated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have used an adult escort before and it was the most fulfilling experience i have had. I have her on my phone .

I think they provide a unique and relaxing experience so i have no problem with them.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Personally I think if you go to a club meet then you are paying for sex"

That is why many single men are dissapointed with clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my first escort in august and I have no negative feelings towards them I had a brilliant time but it's far too much money for someone as young as me especially if you take longer in bed to finish then it's even more but I see it as they are choosing what to do with their body and I have 0 problems with that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that most people who are prostitutes feel its degrading, they wouldn't do it if that was the case.

Most people get into prostitution for the money, some for the sex. Lots of people think that prostitution in the UK is illegal (escorting), when infact it is legal and a taxable income (you can't tax somebody legally if it's money obtain illegally.. HM Gov aren't stupid are tjhey? Go figure haha). Street walking is Illeagal and so is pimping and madaming making money from other people having sex for money.

I saw a documentary about webcam girls. This girl was working from home doing webcam shows earning 70K a year that she declared as a business and had an accountant. She also did escorting making around 35K a year undeclared pocket money she called it. And she definately didn't feel degraded. "

Webcamming can be very lucrative for a girl or couple tbh...and its a safe way of doing things and getting paid

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I matched with a girl on a dating site. Knew it was unusual because she was beautiful...am absolute stunner.

So she messaged and said she is an Escort. £60 an hour. Now forgive me for this but I thought it was fantastic value for money.

Never have paid and probably never will. But I was tempted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be the first time or the last happy to pay to have a young fem entertain me

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I went to my first escort in august and I have no negative feelings towards them I had a brilliant time but it's far too much money for someone as young as me especially if you take longer in bed to finish then it's even more but I see it as they are choosing what to do with their body and I have 0 problems with that at all."

Was it a fantasy thing? You can't have been gagging for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that most people who are prostitutes feel its degrading, they wouldn't do it if that was the case.

Most people get into prostitution for the money, some for the sex. Lots of people think that prostitution in the UK is illegal (escorting), when infact it is legal and a taxable income (you can't tax somebody legally if it's money obtain illegally.. HM Gov aren't stupid are tjhey? Go figure haha). Street walking is Illeagal and so is pimping and madaming making money from other people having sex for money.

I saw a documentary about webcam girls. This girl was working from home doing webcam shows earning 70K a year that she declared as a business and had an accountant. She also did escorting making around 35K a year undeclared pocket money she called it. And she definately didn't feel degraded.

Webcamming can be very lucrative for a girl or couple tbh...and its a safe way of doing things and getting paid "

Until your videos turn up on porn sites and people watch for free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a big fantasy for a lot of women, me included most however still want to be able to choose their partners lol!!!!!!!! "

You get to choose who you fuck. It's not like a normal job where you have to do shit things for money coz there's always a client base in the things you enjoy and plenty of them.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Personally I think if you go to a club meet then you are paying for sex

That is why many single men are dissapointed with clubs"

Yes we are paying for Sex in clubs and to make new friends. Who says the contrary lies to himself. Not even good sex as far as my short experience.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

From what I've seen its not prostitution people have a problem with but the fact that women use this site to prostitute themselves out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work in a sex club, I do one event a week there, i do have a full time regular job but the sex club is ridiculously easy money for very little work

I have never nor would I ever do one on one meets due to safty but the club is a safe environment

"

What do you do in there , have sex with clients ? Is it a brothel or a massage parlour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to my first escort in august and I have no negative feelings towards them I had a brilliant time but it's far too much money for someone as young as me especially if you take longer in bed to finish then it's even more but I see it as they are choosing what to do with their body and I have 0 problems with that at all.

Was it a fantasy thing? You can't have been gagging for it?"

It was more I wanted to try being with a woman that was a good bit older than me for the first time and the thrill sneaking away from home to see her. She was a fab girl but I spent £50 for 15minutes and it wasn't anywhere close to enough time for me. Been fighting the urge ever since to go back.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Seems to be a big fantasy for a lot of women, me included most however still want to be able to choose their partners lol!!!!!!!!

You get to choose who you fuck. It's not like a normal job where you have to do shit things for money coz there's always a client base in the things you enjoy and plenty of them."

It depends. If you work as independent you can select clients. If you work in agencies you cannot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would struggle to know which women are chosing it and which are coerced into it, so that is one of the main reasons why I wouldn't pay.

I should have mentioned consent. My moral compass is pretty damn strong on this.

The media likes to tell us that all sex workers are victims, some unfortunately are but there are a great many who make an informed choice and love it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was an escort for a brief period of time. Not once did I ever sleep or have any sexual contact with anyone. The furthest I ever got was holding hands and the occasional peck on the cheek. I only ever offered companionship and was never short of people looking for just that. Not everything that is classed as a sex worker actually involves sex. It is peoples perception and judgement.

I think sex workers should be cut slack. Regardless of what they are being paid for, they have made the choice to do what they are doing.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I think I could x

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"From what I've seen its not prostitution people have a problem with but the fact that women use this site to prostitute themselves out.

"

Think that is pretty much spot on. If that is what you want, there are sites devoted to it. Advertise your services there and don't use a swingers site.

To any of you thinking ladies offering sexual services have much choice in who they see, I suggest you speak to ladies actually doing it. They will see the customer for the first time at their front door or hotel room. There is very little wiggle room to get away once there.

If you think there is much work escorting men to swanky dinner parties, again I think if you spoke to any of them on adult work, you would find it few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swinging site for like minded individuals to have fun. Not a business small ads and other sex sites are for that sort of arrangement and all power to you. On here I meet if they like me we play and if not it's a social not for them to have paid sex if they don't find me attractive no obligation just fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That took a turn, it's not an advert, the thread is asking if people would, not an offer or invitation

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I couldn't, the moment that money is brought into sex is the moment it ceases to have sexual appeal for me. The same goes for lap dancing etc - although I have been to clubs on stag dos and whatnot, I find it utterly unsexy, Its about the fetishisation of money, not sex.

This is not to say that I have no respect for sex workers, I certainly think it should be fully legal/unionised, it's just to say that it actively turns me off, sexually speaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stand corrected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the reason I have the _iews I have about paid sex work is that the service provider would _iew me as a client, nothing more.

With swinging you know that the other person _iews you as a friend, and hopefully enjoying you as you enjoy them.

Saying that if I had the opportunity to get paid sometimes I'd take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I matched with a girl on a dating site. Knew it was unusual because she was beautiful...am absolute stunner.

So she messaged and said she is an Escort. £60 an hour. Now forgive me for this but I thought it was fantastic value for money.

Never have paid and probably never will. But I was tempted. "

Sounds a great deal to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the reason I have the _iews I have about paid sex work is that the service provider would _iew me as a client, nothing more.

With swinging you know that the other person _iews you as a friend, and hopefully enjoying you as you enjoy them.

Saying that if I had the opportunity to get paid sometimes I'd take it."

I think in reality, Most people would take the money if it was offered I I did say MOST not all )

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I'd love to be paid just for the naughtiness of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be paid just for the naughtiness of it "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers taking the moral high ground.

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