FabSwingers.com forum: Orgasms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After a rather unpleasent few comments on chat the other night I thought I would put this to the room.

Can you orgasm without any physical stimuli.???

Now I can, It is something Master and I found we are now very good at..( annoyingly Master can induce this affect in me any time he wants)

now we are talking full on body reaction here.. mostly because we know each others bodies so well.. Master can tell me what he would would be doing to me, and my body reacts same as if Master was actually doing it.. now this is a great thing to be able to do.

However got accused by a rather nasty member of faking it because you cant orgasm from not touching..

So can anyone else do this??

I do know of a few girls in the BDSM world that can cum at their Masters commands.. and I know you can train that sort of reaction.

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have not experienced this before, however, that's not to say I can't.

I did not think I can gush until a few months ago, so goodness know whatelse my body is capable of.

Another one on my "to explore" list!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have not experienced this before, however, that's not to say I can't.

I did not think I can gush until a few months ago, so goodness know whatelse my body is capable of.

Another one on my "to explore" list!

It shocked me the first time it happened... as I gushed too.. is very good, helps with the fact that Master works away alot..and means that Master can still give me a very good time without laying a finger on me. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you obviously know each other extremely well so would never question as to if it is possible or not.The thought of making Amy orgasm in public without touching her is rather interesting I have to say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well you obviously know each other extremely well so would never question as to if it is possible or not.The thought of making Amy orgasm in public without touching her is rather interesting I have to say."

We had never done it in front of anyone before.. Master decided that as he had me on cam in directing room that I should cum.. it was not a big one by normal standards but it was good to be made to do that in front of the room.. but there is always one that can be nasty.

When I said would my wet knickers prove I had really cum, got told pissing myself didnt count..

How rude.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its not happened to me but i have an idea i could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard about it and believe it can happen with the right couple. Would love to train someone to cum on demand one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Katie just ignore the idiots, you know it works ao you don't have to prove to anyone else.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i have never had this happen but would love to get into relationship where it does

am also liking the suggestion of being mde to cum in public

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you.. for me being the loyal little slave I am I saw it as someone suggesting my Masters control over me was not real..

and yes while I know I can.. I was just wondering who else can.. It is a good thing though. mmmmm

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like training someone up with a trigger phrase that sets them off. That could be fun in public!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't quite got the hang of being able to send send vibrations to Amys clit with my mind yet but maybe with a lot more practice! Till then I guess I'll have to stick with the magic fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about using one of those remote controlled clit stimulators while repeating the trigger phrase to her. Help her connect the words to the stimulas, then the possibilaties are endless!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Bit like training someone up with a trigger phrase that sets them off. That could be fun in public!"

whats a trigger phase??

i know someone who has a remote estim device that he wants to use in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no doubt whatsoever that it is possible.A physical stimulus causing a reaction in the brain can work the other way too.What you need to be is in someones head for that...and the results are phenominal when you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no doubt whatsoever that it is possible.A physical stimulus causing a reaction in the brain can work the other way too.What you need to be is in someones head for that...and the results are phenominal when you are."

I think that is the point.. Master is very capable of getting into my head. we have a very close and trusting relationship, and I find that I am capable of doing things that I would never have believed before.

Its about being open to the power of suggestion I think.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people that don't understand it now never will! An open mind and trust in another person bring extraordinary results.Patience, however, is not gifted to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its amazing, well done, I wish I could. It must take a couple that are close and a very good imagination to be able to do it. It sounds fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never come across it pardon the pun,

but i dont see why you'd fake it, as you wouldnt gain anything from it, if its true and you can then fair play to you and you are lucky to have a rare thing, just think alot of guys dont know how to make a woman orgasm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe it is possible. I've never done it myself however have been pretty close!

Sex for me is as much in the mind as it is physical so I do believe it would be possible to be so turned on that your body reacts in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its about being open to the power of suggestion I think.

Katie."

Now i agree with that line "open to the power of suggestion" anything is possible, i do believe one can encourage and teach someone to cum without touching them though its not something i can do, only starting gushing since i started to swing but will keep plodding on

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I can cum when sucking a man without any touching of me. And from nipple play - but that IS touching of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting. I believe this. If we can get aroused (get wet/hard) at certain things then what's to say we can't go all the way?

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

yes...there is someone who can make me do this....it was a bit scary the first time as i wasnt expecting it....but he can now pretty much cause me to do it at will....complete with gush !!!!!......so far he has only done while we are indoors playing.....but he has threatened to do it while out.....which could be a bit embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a rather unpleasent few comments on chat the other night I thought I would put this to the room.

Can you orgasm without any physical stimuli.???

Now I can, It is something Master and I found we are now very good at..( annoyingly Master can induce this affect in me any time he wants)

However got accused by a rather nasty member of faking it because you cant orgasm from not touching..

So can anyone else do this??

I do know of a few girls in the BDSM world that can cum at their Masters commands.. and I know you can train that sort of reaction.

Katie.x "

An interesting story, but I have yet to meet anyone who can cum on command like a dog would sit at the word SIT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An interesting story, but I have yet to meet anyone who can cum on command like a dog would sit at the word SIT. "

I can not do this myself but I know a few Masters that have slaves that do seem to be able to do this.. The power of the mind should never be underestimated.. and sex is more than just the body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An interesting story, but I have yet to meet anyone who can cum on command like a dog would sit at the word SIT.

I can not do this myself but I know a few Masters that have slaves that do seem to be able to do this.. The power of the mind should never be underestimated.. and sex is more than just the body."

The power of the mind is immense and shouldn't be underestimated. Often it emerges when one person wants to be bigger or better than another. I have come across what you have said a few years ago. What transpired later was an admission of faking it to try and boost her partners image. Needless to say I remain sceptical although I know both males and females who have achieved an orgasm without a physical stimulus but by audio or visual stimulation alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To compare it to telling a dog to sit is to misunderstand it completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to the nature of our relationship, Master and I perfected this technique quite some time ago..and it works very well for us.. but then.. we are a very close couple..

I wouldnt have believed it if anyone had told me a few years ago it was possible.. same as I never got how someone could get anything from phone sex.. :D

I am a convert. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To compare it to telling a dog to sit is to misunderstand it completely"

A pointless comment I have to say, are you vying for attention or just in a yapping mood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To compare it to telling a dog to sit is to misunderstand it completely

A pointless comment I have to say, are you vying for attention or just in a yapping mood?"

to be fair I think the psychology behind it is very similar, as is the training. There are many ways in which I sometimes think obedience training in any way can be likened to dog training.. however my Master knows I would be a pampered pooch.. lol and respond best to treats. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to the nature of our relationship, Master and I perfected this technique quite some time ago..and it works very well for us.. but then.. we are a very close couple..

I wouldnt have believed it if anyone had told me a few years ago it was possible.. same as I never got how someone could get anything from phone sex.. :D

I am a convert. :D "

A lot can be achieved in a close relationship. A phone call possibly in a work situation where no physical contact is possible can heighten the experience for some, the power of the voice from some individuals can achieve much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To compare it to telling a dog to sit is to misunderstand it completely

A pointless comment I have to say, are you vying for attention or just in a yapping mood?"

Rather your own post seemed pointless...you said you had come accross it before then that it had turned out to be faked...then, It would seem, you haven't come accross it in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please guys, dont argue.. the thread has become quite a good one..

I am asking you to not get personal.

Thanks.. Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To compare it to telling a dog to sit is to misunderstand it completely

A pointless comment I have to say, are you vying for attention or just in a yapping mood?

Rather your own post seemed pointless...you said you had come accross it before then that it had turned out to be faked...then, It would seem, you haven't come accross it in fact."

Read again properly and stop yapping for attention. On second thoughts do your own thing your not worth my attention.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

ok boys, take your issues private or ignore each other please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please guys, dont argue.. the thread has become quite a good one..

I am asking you to not get personal.

Thanks.. Katie. x"

Your thread is indeed fascinating...I hope it continues in that manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I go without for long periods of time it happens or after a good session i get long after shocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please guys, dont argue.. the thread has become quite a good one..

I am asking you to not get personal.

Thanks.. Katie. x"

No you have a good point although the specific's are grey in your initial post.

Orgasms can be stimulated by different methods of stimulation. Some visual, some audible, some touch and in most cases a combination of the three. I have come across people who claim they could orgasm on command without any further stimulation and find it implausible, however i do know some women who have a mental scenario in their head and go through it will orgasm without physically touching. Thats different to coming on command though as i see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you have a good point although the specific's are grey in your initial post.

See now I can do that.. If Master suggests that I think about him doing something to me, I can recall it in total detail, complete with how it feels.. I can do this in a fraction of a second.. almost like an instant day dream.. I can cum very quickly like that..

The girls that I know that will seem to cum on command are in an aroused state pretty much all the time the command may be given. So maybe that is why..

Either way for me, my Master being able to do it to me is bloody great. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a rather unpleasent few comments on chat the other night I thought I would put this to the room.

Can you orgasm without any physical stimuli.???

Now I can, It is something Master and I found we are now very good at..( annoyingly Master can induce this affect in me any time he wants)

However got accused by a rather nasty member of faking it because you cant orgasm from not touching..

So can anyone else do this??

I do know of a few girls in the BDSM world that can cum at their Masters commands.. and I know you can train that sort of reaction.

Katie.x "

I think you just encountered some "nasties". There are some on chat and webcams so I never go there.

I can make myself orgasm by thinking about erotic moments. (Useful on a boring train journey for instance.)Orgasm is more important to me than the "so-called" cum which may or may not happen with an orgasm and would be difficult to differentiate from lubricating wetness. (Without a specialist on hand?)

I think it is quite different from the release moment, when squirting or gushing occurs, which is good but nowhere near the ecstacy of orgasm; especially when shared with a soul-mate near or far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone had a really erotic dream and woke up cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is sometimes achieved through a delivery of an expectation...or recall of events leading to orgasm but likewise can be achieved through the altering of an expectation...that's really where knowledge of the other person comes in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have woken up in orgasm, yes but as said before I believe the "cumming" expression is a mis-nomer as the two do not always occur together.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a rather unpleasent few comments on chat the other night I thought I would put this to the room.

Can you orgasm without any physical stimuli.???

Now I can, It is something Master and I found we are now very good at..( annoyingly Master can induce this affect in me any time he wants)

However got accused by a rather nasty member of faking it because you cant orgasm from not touching..

So can anyone else do this??

I do know of a few girls in the BDSM world that can cum at their Masters commands.. and I know you can train that sort of reaction.

Katie.x

I think you just encountered some "nasties". There are some on chat and webcams so I never go there.

I think it is quite different from the release moment, when squirting or gushing occurs, which is good but nowhere near the ecstacy of orgasm; especially when shared with a soul-mate near or far.

I think you hit it on the nail with the reference to the cammers in chat. They relish the visual stimulation and often need than and unfortunately for them cannot or will not accept that there are other methods of achieving an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, if "wet dreams" are possible, then this is. It's simply a case of being open to suggestion, hard work and patience

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

And yes it is possible, had it done to me, and also a sub I know her Master can do the same to her. It is all down to how much you trust and know the person.

so Katie do not worry about what some people say, lots can understand things if it is not physical. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you to all..

I dont often take things to heart.. but needed to rant a little and find out those that could, those that were wanting to try etc..

I love it.. although found it a little off putting on cam to the chat room.. because others were messaging me.. lol

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum lots of times before the big O ...... I can sit here read posts or profiles on my cam flirting and find i am starting to have small ones ..... some days thats all i will have .... not feeling myself at all... jo xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

It's a shame that some people feel the need to be nasty when they can't understand something, I haven't experienced this but am sure that it's possible and i can imagine it being totally mind blowing! I wouldn't worry about the close minded folk who are nasty, you cary on having fun! Z

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