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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Old pics are generally felt to be OK as long as they're not unrepresentative, in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So as my older pics of E are vastly different from how she is now they would be no good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really see the point....why not recreate the old pics using the current model that way there is no confusion?

Either that or you should make it clear that are for illustrative purposes only and not to scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For people who just look at pics it won't matter. For people looking at pics to decide whether they want to meet you it could be misleading.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really see the point....why not recreate the old pics using the current model that way there is no confusion?

Either that or you should make it clear that are for illustrative purposes only and not to scale "

Id love to recreate them but its more difficult now we have the boys as a lot are outdoors and we are short of babysitters. Ive got plenty recent ones we just love some of the older ones and like sharing them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Put the older ones up and note it on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For people who just look at pics it won't matter. For people looking at pics to decide whether they want to meet you it could be misleading."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a shame you cant divide pics into sections on your profile, like folders, I could put one recent and one older lol, they are only about 5 years old by the way not talking decades ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you just can't beat a nice sensual pic be it old or new - it might be ur fav pic but be upfront bout it.

It's a swingers site so in a way you ve tk sell yourself. My bum pic is crap but others seem to like it.

Be honest repeat meets are the best

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its a shame you cant divide pics into sections on your profile, like folders, I could put one recent and one older lol, they are only about 5 years old by the way not talking decades ago lol"

Won't it be obvious that they're from different times? I don't think it'll be too much of a problem.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

You could put them in friends only and add a date on them to make it clear.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Put the older ones up and note it on your profile. "

This ^^^

I'm so agreeable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame you cant divide pics into sections on your profile, like folders, I could put one recent and one older lol, they are only about 5 years old by the way not talking decades ago lol"

You can write on them when they were taken.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a shame you cant divide pics into sections on your profile, like folders, I could put one recent and one older lol, they are only about 5 years old by the way not talking decades ago lol

Won't it be obvious that they're from different times? I don't think it'll be too much of a problem."

Obvious yes, but without plastering a date across our pics, clear which is the recent ones, no.

Ill look into adding a date to one or two of our favorites and adding them, thanks for all the input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please "

I wouldn't bother you will be attacked for false advertising

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we were asked by a guy we met if K had lost weight on her ass since a pic in January - he was trying to give a compliment but it came out like an insult bless him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please

I wouldn't bother you will be attacked for false advertising "

I know some would see it that way thats exactly why I was asking.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

keep them for yourselves OP and put recent ones only up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recent pics all the way ...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I was chatting to a guy yesterday who asked if I liked what I saw in his pics.....he said they were all of him but it looked like two different people as one was from "a year ago" ....just made me question his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please "

I don't think old pics are a good idea, iv spoke to a few people from fabs that go to clubs and they have told me that a lot of the people on here look nothing like there photos in real life.

Some are cause there old pics, some are pics taken from clever angles to make women look slimmer or cocks to look bigger.

Personally I don't see the point lying. A lot of people on here have busy lives and its not fair to waste there time or put them in a awkward position when you meet and look nothing like your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For people who just look at pics it won't matter. For people looking at pics to decide whether they want to meet you it could be misleading."

And for the record my 6 pack is in storage for the winter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have no intention of lying. If I was to put older pics up Id make it clear they were older.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please "

I knew a very very sexy lady who only put her worst pictures up .

She did this to keep the messages down to a manageable level and so she could shook the guys on the meet by that be better than they were expecting instead of the other way round .

I do the same for more or less the same reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a very bad idea...people want to meet the current version of you, not a past representation...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok We've decided to keep the older pics for a straight forward pic sharing site. New pics only on here. Best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no intention of lying. If I was to put older pics up Id make it clear they were older."

I just don't see the point in old pics?

It's like saying this is what you could of had, but your 4 years and x amount of dress sizes to late!

Embrace who you are and what you have now, not the past.

That's just my opinion, at the end of the day you need to do what's right for you and nobody else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know what you mean we were just thinking of putting them up for peoples enjoyment nothing more. As I said we will find a pic sharing site for the older ones

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please "

current upto date pictures are always the best option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My older pics from 6 months ago aren't relevant anymore because I've since lost over 5 stone. I love those pics but sharing them here wouldn't show anybody who to expect to be meeting.

I am very careful to try and portray a very accurate representation of who I am at the current moment in time.

However we are all here for our own agendas and nobody should dictate what you can or can't do... They can only offer advice and experience and the choice is yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well imagine if things were the other way around.

You make contact with a single guy and its what your both looking for so you arrange to meet him.

When he turns up you find he is nothing like what you had thought and hoped for.

Seams to me that if you wish to show pictures of times gone by then you should do so as long as the person your sending them to understands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well imagine if things were the other way around.

You make contact with a single guy and its what your both looking for so you arrange to meet him.

When he turns up you find he is nothing like what you had thought and hoped for.

Seams to me that if you wish to show pictures of times gone by then you should do so as long as the person your sending them to understands "

If they were his only pics we would be annoyed. But if 90% were recent and only 1 or 2 were older and stated as such then it wouldnt be a problem as we would expect him to look like the recent pics.

We thought some of the voyeurs might like to see the older ones. But the general consensus seems to be a no then I guess not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please "

Ask yourself this how would you feel if you turned up to meet somebody who was 4 sizes bigger than you expected

Personally I'd feel deceived and lied to

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please "

I don't quite understand this OP, having read the profile. Are you her partner or not? "While her partner and I watch"

Surely if there are three of you it must be possible? We manage.

As for old pics, this is why we leave the date stamp on ours.

As a newbie, if you are looking for meets rather than pic-swaps, I would just stick to up-to-date photos. What would be the point of me attracting women with a pic of me when I had hair? And all my own teeth? And cuban heels? And.. well, you get the picture

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are a married couple but I dont play on our meets. When it says she would like to play with a lady while her partner and I watch it means the other ladies partner and I!!

As for the pics, we love meeting AND we love people looking at her pics, new or old. If we shared some older pics we would state they are older. At no point did we suggest taking down recent pics and only sharing older ones.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"We are a married couple but I dont play on our meets. When it says she would like to play with a lady while her partner and I watch it means the other ladies partner and I!!

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Ahhh, with you now!


"As for the pics, we love meeting AND we love people looking at her pics, new or old. If we shared some older pics we would state they are older. At no point did we suggest taking down recent pics and only sharing older ones."

I never said you did, just advised that you might be better to use recent pics if you are more interested in meets. There are couples here who just like to swap pics, and sometimes it is easy to get written off as one of them if you are not careful. The suggestion of loading them as private pics seemed the best compromise.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Embrace what your wife looks like now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we are gonna put the older pics on a pic sharing site. Does anyone know a good one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Embrace what your wife looks like now "

I do shes gorgeous and sexy. But she was 5 years ago to. Nothing wrong with enjoying both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we are gonna put the older pics on a pic sharing site. Does anyone know a good one? "

Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lmao I can imagine our profile wouldnt last long if we did

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"I have many pics of E taken in the time weve been together. The older ones are before our two boys when she was a size 10 and very sexy, however these days shes a size 18, and from my point of view even sexier I dont put any of the older pics on here as I dont want people to see them and turn up expecting to meet a size 10. Am I right or would it be ok to share older ones too as it seems a shame not to. Advice please "

Newer the better.. Curvy ladies are sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I take my own pics an i always try to take pics every few months ie photoshoot of my my body etc clothed so im not misleading guys..an due to excercise im toneing up an looseing weight thats why on my profile i put im a size 14/16 an i have a date stamp on my pics..so guys can see my pics are recent..as i dont want to put pics on my profile that are years old..

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