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"Had a lot of response from people on my posts and they have seen her , chatting to gen people is nice , not really interested in the people who just want to make snide remarks so if you are not interested don't bother" If you always get a lot of response, why need to keep posting the same subject? Anyone in the forums admit to seeing her? | |||
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"Had a lot of response from people on my posts and they have seen her , chatting to gen people is nice , not really interested in the people who just want to make snide remarks so if you are not interested don't bother" OP, these always go the same way | |||
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OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!  | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. " Everyone? Not me. I hate those threads. From what I have seen, people often react to the OP's posts with a certain amount of cynicism and there never seems to be much of a counter to that. If he gets his fun, that is absolutely fine by me. Live and let live. But he does know that he will get a bit of ribbing. | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. Everyone? Not me. I hate those threads. From what I have seen, people often react to the OP's posts with a certain amount of cynicism and there never seems to be much of a counter to that. If he gets his fun, that is absolutely fine by me. Live and let live. But he does know that he will get a bit of ribbing." Same, agree | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. " not everyone takes part in those threads let alone 'laps' them up.. | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. Everyone? Not me. I hate those threads. From what I have seen, people often react to the OP's posts with a certain amount of cynicism and there never seems to be much of a counter to that. If he gets his fun, that is absolutely fine by me. Live and let live. But he does know that he will get a bit of ribbing." Exactly, live and let live. If it's not to anyone's liking just pass on by - there's plenty of room on here for everyone.
It's funny though exactly which type of person always tends to get this kind of 'ribbing' and which don't
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. Everyone? Not me. I hate those threads. From what I have seen, people often react to the OP's posts with a certain amount of cynicism and there never seems to be much of a counter to that. If he gets his fun, that is absolutely fine by me. Live and let live. But he does know that he will get a bit of ribbing. Exactly, live and let live. If it's not to anyone's liking just pass on by - there's plenty of room on here for everyone.
It's funny though exactly which type of person always tends to get this kind of 'ribbing' and which don't
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were! "I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums. If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve. That's my take on it, anyway. -Courtney | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!
I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums.
If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve.
That's my take on it, anyway.
-Courtney"Then the mods must move it even if just to protect the op from further judgement, surely. | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!
I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums.
If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve.
That's my take on it, anyway.
-Courtney"I hear you Courtney but there's a nightly 'nocturnal' thread and a daily 'good morning' thread. There's a weekly 'Face Pic Friday' thread. Nobody seems to have an issue with the repetition of those (you could cut and paste one from one day to another and nobody would notice the difference) I would argue that most people on here are fantasists in some way, shape or form. My take on it is this: this guy may well be a fantasist, but he's harming nobody. I never see him being rude or malicious to anybody. What I see (not just in this thread but in any thread where the OP might have their own niche interests) is a mild form of bullying because what they're interested in might not fit to the conventional norm. I doesn't happen to everyone, just a particular type. If the OP was rude, ignorant, arrogant etc then I could understand the negative reception. But leave him to indulge his fantasy - as I said before if people don't like it, leave him be! Anyway, it's Friday, it's been a long tiring week so maybe I'm being overly sensitive on this!  | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!
I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums.
If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve.
That's my take on it, anyway.
-Courtney
I hear you Courtney but there's a nightly 'nocturnal' thread and a daily 'good morning' thread. There's a weekly 'Face Pic Friday' thread. Nobody seems to have an issue with the repetition of those (you could cut and paste one from one day to another and nobody would notice the difference)
I would argue that most people on here are fantasists in some way, shape or form.
My take on it is this: this guy may well be a fantasist, but he's harming nobody. I never see him being rude or malicious to anybody. What I see (not just in this thread but in any thread where the OP might have their own niche interests) is a mild form of bullying because what they're interested in might not fit to the conventional norm. I doesn't happen to everyone, just a particular type.
If the OP was rude, ignorant, arrogant etc then I could understand the negative reception. But leave him to indulge his fantasy - as I said before if people don't like it, leave him be!
Anyway, it's Friday, it's been a long tiring week so maybe I'm being overly sensitive on this! "I see your point. I'll raise you a 'Happy Friday!' -Courtney | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!
I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums.
If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve.
That's my take on it, anyway.
-Courtney
I hear you Courtney but there's a nightly 'nocturnal' thread and a daily 'good morning' thread. There's a weekly 'Face Pic Friday' thread. Nobody seems to have an issue with the repetition of those (you could cut and paste one from one day to another and nobody would notice the difference)
I would argue that most people on here are fantasists in some way, shape or form.
My take on it is this: this guy may well be a fantasist, but he's harming nobody. I never see him being rude or malicious to anybody. What I see (not just in this thread but in any thread where the OP might have their own niche interests) is a mild form of bullying because what they're interested in might not fit to the conventional norm. I doesn't happen to everyone, just a particular type.
If the OP was rude, ignorant, arrogant etc then I could understand the negative reception. But leave him to indulge his fantasy - as I said before if people don't like it, leave him be!
Anyway, it's Friday, it's been a long tiring week so maybe I'm being overly sensitive on this! "I get where you're coming from and I hate those threads so never bother but what might annoy people with this one is not so much the fantasy but the lying. (Disclaimer - possibly lying) | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!
I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums.
If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve.
That's my take on it, anyway.
-Courtney"Exactly Courtney! Thank you! And for the record - banal or not - I quite like the silly, lighthearted threads like kiss pass f**k and other silly game threads! The whole point of the forums, surely, is that there's something to fit whatever mood you're in? Xx | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were! "Well said Some people have nothing better to do than put everyone and everything down. Like a school bully who puts people down and embarrass someone. You crack on op, post what you want. Site rules say people cannot tell you what to and not to post. If they don't like it don't read the bloody thread Simple. | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!
I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums.
If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve.
That's my take on it, anyway.
-Courtney
Exactly Courtney! Thank you!
And for the record - banal or not - I quite like the silly, lighthearted threads like kiss pass f**k and other silly game threads! The whole point of the forums, surely, is that there's something to fit whatever mood you're in? Xx"Agreed and I have no problem with those types of thread at all and often join in myself but then, having said that, is it then fair game to mock / ridicule someone else's preference for a forum thread that suits them? | |||
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"See if a popular Forumite wants to start a kiss, fuck, avoid thread or any other sort of banal thread eg fantasies about celebs they fancy etc then everyone dives in and laps it up. A guy wants to start a thread about HIS fantasy and find likeminded people to chat to (which he is perfectly entitled to do) then rather than just let him get on with it in peace he gets ridiculed / scorned. It's ok though, there are no double standards or forum hierarchy on here, honest guv!
OP, it may not be for everybody, but ignore the naysayers and carry on as you were!
I don't think this has to do with popularity. People always seem to use that as a straw man argument on the forums.
If the OP actually has a wife, and would like to discuss her and her penchant for older men, then power to him. But the dissonance of his posts with his profile suggests a fantasist (note, I say 'suggests'), in which case the repetition of this post in this forum (as opposed to a different forum) is hitting a nerve.
That's my take on it, anyway.
-Courtney
Exactly Courtney! Thank you!
And for the record - banal or not - I quite like the silly, lighthearted threads like kiss pass f**k and other silly game threads! The whole point of the forums, surely, is that there's something to fit whatever mood you're in? Xx
Agreed and I have no problem with those types of thread at all and often join in myself but then, having said that, is it then fair game to mock / ridicule someone else's preference for a forum thread that suits them? "Ok point taken Dan! I just think people should limit themselves as to the number of threads on the same topic that they start! That being said - I've probably posted more than one kpf thread - so I guess I should bow out on this one! Happy Friday my lovelies!  | |||
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"Wine o'clock already  "Blimey that's a bit early even for a Friday! | |||
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"Op you post so many of these threads I'm not sure you have any wife - let alone a young one! Guessing you just want some attention - but surely there are other ways to do it? " | |||
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"Chat anyone , pt me" Ok so I take others points about bullying. And I obviously don't go in forum often enough to notice that the OP posts similar threads like this. But can I ask what it is the OP is actually asking?....because the above makes no sense to me? At least the kiss/fuck/avoid threads make sense, and its easy to understand what the OP is inviting on their thread!  | |||
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"Chat anyone , pt me" OP get permission from regular posters before posting please. Stop this autonomous harmless use of a public resource. | |||
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