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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London

My ex loved my cock because of the shape and size.She used to call it her bestfriend and usually washed it for me after we had sex.

But whenever we had deep penetrative sex,she often complained about pains just below the belly...like my cock used to press against it or something.And she's not the only one who's told me that before.

Just wondering what caused it cos I don't even have the biggest or longest cock out there

Jerry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me too, if I'm laid a certain way and he pushes in, it's nice and deep but can be sore. X Stephanie

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Position and intensity. You're probably bashing these ladies cervix and bruising it.

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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Oh jeez!didn't know it was their cervix I getting bashed and I bet they didn't even know that aswell.lol

@Stephanie...so am not alone then innit.lol.Anyway,u know what they say.Sex without pain is like food without taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't like bigger dicks. 5-7 is just fine for me. I don't like pain during sex. Though I know many women enjoy it.

You were probably hitting her cervix, as was said above. And it can hurt pretty bad depending on how hard you're going.

-Courtney

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There can be many reasons for painful sex. It may just be worth her having a word with a doctor.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh jeez!didn't know it was their cervix I getting bashed and I bet they didn't even know that aswell.lol

@Stephanie...so am not alone then innit.lol.Anyway,u know what they say.Sex without pain is like food without taste "

It isn't necessarily a good thing. Maybe you and your partners like it but best to check first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been into deep penetrative sex as it always causes a problem .. doggy style is worse for me...the reverse cowgirl works out best and gives me more control

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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"This is why I don't like bigger dicks. 5-7 is just fine for me. I don't like pain during sex. Though I know many women enjoy it.

You were probably hitting her cervix, as was said above. And it can hurt pretty bad depending on how hard you're going.

-Courtney"

Hi Courtney,to each their own u know.

Yeah.I guess I was,but it wasn't too bad though.I always follow a woman's body language during sex and go with the flow.Either nice and slow,or fast and reckless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from any gynae problems causing this.

You might find certain sexual positions make it easier and varying the amount of thrust.

Long and slow rather than banging really hard might solve the problem.

Also her state of arousal. If I'm very turned on I can take a harder pounding lol x

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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Never been into deep penetrative sex as it always causes a problem .. doggy style is worse for me...the reverse cowgirl works out best and gives me more control"

Seems u diverted a lil bit from my thread.lol,but still good to know your favourite sex position though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from any gynae problems causing this.

You might find certain sexual positions make it easier and varying the amount of thrust.

Long and slow rather than banging really hard might solve the problem.

Also her state of arousal. If I'm very turned on I can take a harder pounding lol x"

Loving the crotchless knickers x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Apart from any gynae problems causing this.

You might find certain sexual positions make it easier and varying the amount of thrust.

Long and slow rather than banging really hard might solve the problem.

Also her state of arousal. If I'm very turned on I can take a harder pounding lol x"

This.

Bradley hits my cervix but I quite like the pain, and the more into it I get (the vagina will elongate during arousal, therefore moving the cervix up), the harder pounding I can take.

- Amy. x

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Position and intensity. You're probably bashing these ladies cervix and bruising it."

This ^^^ ....depends a lot on a particular girls anatomy also...ie..how long her vagina is..some I hurt (by accident), some I don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be down to pcos, I've found sometimes it's pure agony where as other times it's just a little bit uncomfortable, all depends on where I am in my cycle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Position and intensity. You're probably bashing these ladies cervix and bruising it.

This ^^^ ....depends a lot on a particular girls anatomy also...ie..how long her vagina is..some I hurt (by accident), some I don't..."

I'm not into pain tbh - other than mild pain in kink - but I liken the pain during sex with a guy with a long penis to period pain - and find taking ibuprofen before and after helps ease it!!

Hope this helps?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Position and intensity. You're probably bashing these ladies cervix and bruising it.

This ^^^ ....depends a lot on a particular girls anatomy also...ie..how long her vagina is..some I hurt (by accident), some I don't..."

It does indeed. It's quite refreshing to read that you're aware of female anatomy too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally I get pain, not too often thankfully. The more turned on I am, i then love it harder and deeper, but don't like the pain. I just adjust position so its not so deep, but its frustrating lol as I'm lusting for deep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex loved my cock because of the shape and size.She used to call it her bestfriend and usually washed it for me after we had sex.

But whenever we had deep penetrative sex,she often complained about pains just below the belly...like my cock used to press against it or something.And she's not the only one who's told me that before.

Just wondering what caused it cos I don't even have the biggest or longest cock out there

Jerry"

I've never washed anyone's cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get pain sometimes in certain positions, or if I'm using my bigger toy x

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By *ral addict 13Man
over a year ago

lincolnshire

My wife likes it slow and deep, sometimes she holds me off until she orgasms because I go to deep inside, however, it's full steam ahead she when starts cumming,

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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Very different and interesting answers to this issue guys.Thanks for the feedback though.It's obvious different people have different tastes and reactions to situations

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By *HornyScotsUKCouple
over a year ago

dundee

I get the pains too, more intensed since having a c section but I take pain killer before a big hard sesh x

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Does your cock curve? I find certain positions and the shape of my cock cause this sometimes.

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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I get the pains too, more intensed since having a c section but I take pain killer before a big hard sesh x "

Oh bless u!

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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Does your cock curve? I find certain positions and the shape of my cock cause this sometimes."

Yeah.It is quite curvy.lol.Mostly get this reaction from doggy and lady on her back with feet on my shoulders

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Does your cock curve? I find certain positions and the shape of my cock cause this sometimes.

Yeah.It is quite curvy.lol.Mostly get this reaction from doggy and lady on her back with feet on my shoulders"

Yep! That's two very deep positions and your cock is curving round and up. (Well, I know mine does )

I've had ladies enjoy it but I've also been told that it can be quite painful.

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By *erryPervetto OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Does your cock curve? I find certain positions and the shape of my cock cause this sometimes.

Yeah.It is quite curvy.lol.Mostly get this reaction from doggy and lady on her back with feet on my shoulders

Yep! That's two very deep positions and your cock is curving round and up. (Well, I know mine does )

I've had ladies enjoy it but I've also been told that it can be quite painful."

Curving round and up.lol.I like that description mate.I usually just read their body language and go with the flow u know.If she is enjoying it then I keep going,but if she's in pains and discomfort,then I chill

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

I had this problem........ Gynae consultant took me off wheat and milk........ Not being gross but a lot...not everyone has inflamed bowel ........ Worked for me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She could also have Endometriosis this is a condition that is very painfull during sex.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I can't take big cock since having my coil fitted. Leaves me feeling like I've been punched in my foof and tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife likes it slow and deep, sometimes she holds me off until she orgasms because I go to deep inside, however, it's full steam ahead she when starts cumming,

"
single male but his wife likes it slow lol. You have to be bright to be a liar to remember your own lies

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"She could also have Endometriosis this is a condition that is very painfull during sex."

Could also be fibroids

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By *ral addict 13Man
over a year ago

lincolnshire

My partner pushes me away when we start fucking and holding me off, however when she starts coming she likes deep inside her and now i know why.

Thanks

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