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"Are there many people within their BMIon here? We have never played with a couple with a perfect BMI. Would love to meet up and play with one. Being a within BMI couple it's a turn on the thought of well balanced BMI against well balanced BMI. Am I on my own here or do other guys and women feel the same? " BMI can be really deceptive.... you tend to find that most sportsmen tend to be outside the BMI as you tend to have to be freakishly sized to do anything.... for example... rugby players... probably only the scrum half and fly half's are in the BMI... everyone else would be considered obese... like ya to say that to their face though!! | |||
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"Are there many people within their BMIon here? We have never played with a couple with a perfect BMI. Would love to meet up and play with one. Being a within BMI couple it's a turn on the thought of well balanced BMI against well balanced BMI. Am I on my own here or do other guys and women feel the same? " bang on me | |||
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"BMI as mentioned above isn't really accurate if you are a sports person. However for most individuals it is an ok guide. Fat mass/percentage is a better guide: http://www.linear-software.com/online.html The old adage pinch an inch comes to mind. I do think however most people should be able to go, "yes I am over weight", or "I'm not overweight". Although women apparently are using the "average" to indicate they are not overweight, when in fact the average is actually over weight! http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-11811304 Cheers" and men don't? | |||
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"BMI as mentioned above isn't really accurate if you are a sports person. However for most individuals it is an ok guide. Fat mass/percentage is a better guide: http://www.linear-software.com/online.html The old adage pinch an inch comes to mind. I do think however most people should be able to go, "yes I am over weight", or "I'm not overweight". Although women apparently are using the "average" to indicate they are not overweight, when in fact the average is actually over weight! http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-11811304 Cheers and men don't? " Maybe, but it still doesn't invalidate the fact women do. I'm not having a go, just stating how it is. YMMV. | |||
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"I am well within mine but I exercise regularly which many others on here don't seem fit to do. " Yeah I agree. Not that I hate people who are overweight or anything, just I'd like to be/go with someone who is in reasonable shape like myself. Not expecting perfection of course, since I am not! | |||
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"I am well within mine but I exercise regularly which many others on here don't seem fit to do. " dangerous thing them assumptions.... funny enough so do i... but I wouldn't fit anywhere near my BMI... the one thing I wouldn't do is "presume" because there is where I have made more than one person with a "6 pack" look foolish is a sprint... or a long distance run... | |||
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"I am well within mine but I exercise regularly which many others on here don't seem fit to do. Yeah I agree. Not that I hate people who are overweight or anything, just I'd like to be/go with someone who is in reasonable shape like myself. Not expecting perfection of course, since I am not! " ooh... another one..... tut tut tut..... | |||
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"I am well within mine but I exercise regularly which many others on here don't seem fit to do. dangerous thing them assumptions.... funny enough so do i... but I wouldn't fit anywhere near my BMI... the one thing I wouldn't do is "presume" because there is where I have made more than one person with a "6 pack" look foolish is a sprint... or a long distance run... " Bet I can eat more pies than you | |||
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"It's not about doing a sprint, although you never know. It's a case of what you find appealing and attractive. Someone who is heavier+ than me isn't physically appealing to me. (although it may be a fun way to go - crushed to death in bed while having sex ). " absolutely... but what I do find quite funny is that people with 6 packs with talk about there 6 packs rather more than larger people will talk about being large I know I am larger... I know I keep fit... I just laugh at the assumptions people make | |||
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"The problem with BMI is it doesn't take into account body frame/build etc. That is why the "range" exists. Take myself for example, I'm 5ft4 (and a HALF!!!) and I weigh 8 stone. My BMI is around 19, so lower end of range. However, If i was to put on a further 2.5 stone I would still be within the "heathly" bmi range, albeit at 25 top end. The point I am (badly) trying to make is that the tone of the OP was that to meet "in range" people would be fab, all those lovely svelte bodies. If you met "skinny" me at the moment against 2.5 stone heavier me, but still within my BMI range I think you'd have concrete proof that BMI and body shape are not related too closely... " Yup, this is why a few of us previously said fat mass/percentage is a better indicator. Anyhow women can carry a bit more weight gracefully than men, it's those hips you see | |||
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"Yup, this is why a few of us previously said fat mass/percentage is a better indicator." Yes, I was more elaborating on the "using" the range average to make you feel you were A ok slant. | |||
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"How is BMI calculated?" Divide the weight by the height squared | |||
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"You don't need to splash out on fancy gadgets ... there are some excellent pieces of equipment at hand to measure whether or not you're carrying extra or too little weight. They're called eyes and common sense. Theres also a place to chill out and enjoy being yourself it's called the personal comfort zone.... has this world gone mad introducing BMI as an indication of stamina in the bedroom? I go like a train and am a very fast runner and strong as an ox but you wouldn't think it to look at me. BMI means nothing. If your internal organs aren't up to scratch it doesnt matter what outer coating you wear..... look at Cyril Smith who died recently in his 80's in comparison to a lot of very young sportsmen and women who have died at a very young age ... some while taking their BMI I assume... " I generally don't care what people look like in themselves, (although I may not find them attractive of course), each to their own. The only things that makes me slightly annoyed are (and no I'm not starting a flame war or having a go at someone, just saying what I think): 1 It's my genetic makeup. Less than 1% actually have a genetic reason, unless you call hand-cake-mouth genetic 2 I don't eat much. Fantastic, let's plug you into the national grid for free energy, since you obviously generate free calories from somewhere! (or is that salad with that chocolate cake == no calories!) 3 I can't help myself. I have to avoid certain foods which is hard as I do like them, but have resisted so far for almost 10 years. It's possible, but maybe the pain and pleasure need to be closer together. Hey a punch if you eat something you shouldn't, would work with smoking too! 4 I wonder how many calories of food we over indulge in and throw away, and how many would actually help people who are starving around the world. If a person says "Yeah I'm overweight" I have a huge amount of respect for them, as I can understand it's not easy. End of the day, weight is one of the few things we can control about ourselves, unlike hair loss, too short etc etc. Right, best get the flame retardants on! | |||
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"I'm within mine but I've never thought of it within the context of playing. 'when mailing please tell us your BMI' doesn't really have a ring to it! " You seem fine from your pictures! I think I'm like most guys, we don't like women who are stick thin and you can see their ribs; I feel like calling the UN to fly some food out to them. But going the other way I don't want someone who I have to fight for my food over! (Funny story about a mate and his large wife... if they go out anywhere she steels his food! lol). Anyhow larger women do tend to have large puppies too! | |||
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"LOL it says doggy!!!" OH erm I'm all sweet and innocent and don't know the difference! :P | |||
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"LOL it says doggy!!! OH erm I'm all sweet and innocent and don't know the difference! :P" Ah well one starts off with a high BMI and the other finishes with a one!! | |||
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"I'm definately what you might call stocky, but I can pass the British Army combat fitness test (8 miles in 2 hours carrying 15 kilos), and the personal fitness test (1.5 miles timed run, plus minimum number of press ups and sit ups in 4 minutes), plus any assault course they throw at me.... something which many skinnier guys (and gals) struggle with lol! Fitness cannot be judged by body shape, and funnily enough (for us anyway) neither can sexiness!!! " Snigger.......... You said stocky .... fnarrrrrrrrrr | |||
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"LOL it says doggy!!! OH erm I'm all sweet and innocent and don't know the difference! :P" mmmmmmmmmmmmm | |||
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"LOL it says doggy!!! OH erm I'm all sweet and innocent and don't know the difference! :P mmmmmmmmmmmmm " Well let's say you wouldn't want to get them confused on your CV... | |||
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"Not sure what fitness has to do with it all, its like a central heating system, the more radiators you add the more pressure on the pump " What do you do about air locks and everything has gone cold? | |||
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"Not sure what fitness has to do with it all, its like a central heating system, the more radiators you add the more pressure on the pump What do you do about air locks and everything has gone cold? " fanny farts | |||
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"I'm definately what you might call stocky, but I can pass the British Army combat fitness test (8 miles in 2 hours carrying 15 kilos), and the personal fitness test (1.5 miles timed run, plus minimum number of press ups and sit ups in 4 minutes), plus any assault course they throw at me.... something which many skinnier guys (and gals) struggle with lol! Fitness cannot be judged by body shape, and funnily enough (for us anyway) neither can sexiness!!! Snigger.......... You said stocky .... fnarrrrrrrrrr " Erm.....??? | |||
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"lol, just done that test on the website, and got told i'm in the category Protein-calorie malnutrition. Does that mean i can eat more at christmas time?" Lots of protein drinks.... | |||
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" Lots of protein drinks.... " If only they were strawberry flavoured and i'd have them all day | |||
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" Lots of protein drinks.... If only they were strawberry flavoured and i'd have them all day " Banana ones are good too! | |||
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"Actually, weight isn't always something that can be controlled. There are conditions which make weight loss extremely difficult." totally understand this and sympathyse, my mum has a major problem with her thyroid, she is going to have to be on medication for it for the rest of her life, and it totally screws with her body | |||
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" Lots of protein drinks.... If only they were strawberry flavoured and i'd have them all day " This is where the cliche'd male response is "mine is strawberry flavoured, actually...." | |||
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" Lots of protein drinks.... If only they were strawberry flavoured and i'd have them all day Banana ones are good too! " now if i didnt know better, i would think your trying to lead my astray with all your talk of long yummy bananas! | |||
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" Lots of protein drinks.... If only they were strawberry flavoured and i'd have them all day Banana ones are good too! now if i didnt know better, i would think your trying to lead my astray with all your talk of long yummy bananas! " | |||
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"Are there many people within their BMIon here? We have never played with a couple with a perfect BMI. Would love to meet up and play with one. Being a within BMI couple it's a turn on the thought of well balanced BMI against well balanced BMI. Am I on my own here or do other guys and women feel the same? " do excuse me here....and i'm not being a fatty up in arms about this - play with whom ever you see fit and all that but that is the oddest selction criteria ever lol just play with who you think is sexy!!! | |||
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"do excuse me here....and i'm not being a fatty up in arms about this - play with whom ever you see fit and all that but that is the oddest selction criteria ever lol " Nope. | |||
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"do excuse me here....and i'm not being a fatty up in arms about this - play with whom ever you see fit and all that but that is the oddest selction criteria ever lol Nope." nope what??? | |||
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"IQ / shoe size?" Yoiks!! How low is yours? Actually I thought this thread was going to be about cheap Winter holidays... | |||
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"IQ / shoe size? Yoiks!! How low is yours? Actually I thought this thread was going to be about cheap Winter holidays... " baby ......... | |||
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"IQ / shoe size? Yoiks!! How low is yours? Actually I thought this thread was going to be about cheap Winter holidays... " baby ......... | |||
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"do excuse me here....and i'm not being a fatty up in arms about this - play with whom ever you see fit and all that but that is the oddest selction criteria ever lol Nope. nope what??? " Not the oddest criteria. | |||
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"IQ / shoe size? Yoiks!! How low is yours? " 20.58 based on that. | |||
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"do excuse me here....and i'm not being a fatty up in arms about this - play with whom ever you see fit and all that but that is the oddest selction criteria ever lol Nope. nope what??? Not the oddest criteria." what is then? | |||
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"do excuse me here....and i'm not being a fatty up in arms about this - play with whom ever you see fit and all that but that is the oddest selction criteria ever lol Nope. nope what??? Not the oddest criteria." Nice save... | |||
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"IQ / shoe size? Yoiks!! How low is yours? 20.58 based on that." 28.5 for me which is probably close to my bmi !!! | |||
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"IQ / shoe size? Yoiks!! How low is yours? 20.58 based on that." Then you got tiny feet... | |||
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"do excuse me here....and i'm not being a fatty up in arms about this - play with whom ever you see fit and all that but that is the oddest selction criteria ever lol Nope. nope what??? Not the oddest criteria. what is then?" See thread "random selection criteria" | |||
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"Then you got tiny feet..." and matching cock. | |||
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"Then you got tiny feet... and matching cock." Get back on the tatoo thread and tell her, from me, you arent that slow... | |||
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