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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, seeing a new guy who has asked me if I could be more dominant.

It's not something I've ever done (I'm really sub) but I'd really like to please him by doing this.

So all you lovely fabbers, what kind of things can I do? I've watched some FemDom porn but it's all a bit extreme.

I'm just not very good at being bossy

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

tie his balls up - ride his now stiff cock

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

Tell him to stick the bins out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice makes perfect if your a natural sub think of the things that the dom does to you that gets you going and just give it a bash xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a strap on

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Have a search on the internet there are a ton of scenarios available.

As you are naturally submissive, treat it like a game and that you are assuming a role. It sounds stupid but practice your voice commands before you meet just like any other actor. You can change the way you act for a short period of time but ultimately you won't be for filled...

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

P.s make him wait a long time for his irgasm it will drive him nuts.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Orgasm even stupid phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a strap on "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sub and found it awkward trying to be Dom in fact it upset me trying to do something so unnatural

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By *ixFoot2nFun4UMan
over a year ago

gosport


"P.s make him wait a long time for his irgasm it will drive him nuts."
search the Internet for edging or orgasm denial. These a both good ways to start and they provide you all the control.

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By *ixFoot2nFun4UMan
over a year ago

gosport

Up side is it feels great for him and done right provides a spectacular ejaculation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to ask him what he means. He may just want to experience you 'in control' in a mild way. Probably best not to impale him on a strapon unless you know for sure it's what he wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You pushing him onto his back and riding the fuck out of him is being more dominant.

Asking for what you want sexually and making him do that is being more dominant.

Things like when he's licking you out don't just lie there, grab the back of his head and push him into your pussy, or sit on his face and grind on it.

All the stuff us women hate having done to us basically, they like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are by nature a sub you may find it hard to take more control and be the dom, although there is no harm in trying, you may discover a switch side you never knew existed and it could be a new role for you, if not you've tried and probably had a bit of fun anyway, enjoy your role whatever it turns out to be

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont try amd be what you are not comfortable at , tell him its not you and he should accept thats who you are

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

tell him to stop being a lazy *******er

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the great replies, really helpful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find out what turns him on in terms of domination. Everyone has different levels so you need to find where his are. One person might want to be made to crawl behind on a collar and lead - that's way to extreme for someone else. They may just want you to take the lead(not collar type) in the bedroom. Plus it can all be built on, so start slowly. Reading erotica can give you good ideas and talking to other submissive guys and Dominatrix. Just treat it all as a new experience and just have fun with it.

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