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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ???" As one of what I believe is only a few lesbians on this site I know exactly what you mean! I am pleased to be able to say that I have met a handful of great women from here and have had great fun with them too but the amount of meets that I have had is a tiny percentage of the amount of women showing 'apparent interest' shown before they stop messaging. I realise that on a site like Fab that this is going to happen but I didn't think that it would be to this extent ... after all, aren't we all on here for more sex and fun times? I know I am I had wondered if the small percentage of actual women wanting to meet was down to me being 'lesbian' and not 'bi' and would be interested to know if that is off putting to people? Babilicious xxx | |||
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"The OP was talking about single bi women wanting just girly fun being like gold dust, not just single women in general. I see that your profile says that you're bisexual but you mainly talk about men and couples with no real mention of the kind of lady you would like to meet and so I don't think that this thread really applies to that Babilicious xxx" My profile doesn't have a description of fems I'd meet. It says Im Bisexual.. it also says I'm looking for women and men. I don't advertise it in bold writing because I don't see any point. It clearly says I seek Black Males only.. but do you know how many white guys mail me lol. There are alot of girls on here who lke the idea of meeting other females.. but when it comes down to it, they just can't. | |||
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"The OP was talking about single bi women wanting just girly fun being like gold dust, not just single women in general. I see that your profile says that you're bisexual but you mainly talk about men and couples with no real mention of the kind of lady you would like to meet and so I don't think that this thread really applies to that Babilicious xxx" I was answering the thread how it applies to me. Because I am more specific about the men and couples that I meet, it makes my opinion less valid? I don't think so. As I previously stated, I'm rarely in the right mood for purely girl on girl, so why bother wasting profile space when it isn't something that comes up very often. | |||
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"why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ?" "Some" couples love to be chased It's worth bearing in mind, not everyone is as experienced / upfront as “other” swingers, initially, some may well agree to meet via email, it takes a great deal of confidence to cross the line and actually meet up. Sadly, some label these people as “time-wasters” | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ???" Nice to see its not just single males who struggle with ditherers. Ok maybe nice isn't the right word but what i mean is it isn't just us single guys. | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ???" or maybe bi fem profiles = timewasters | |||
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"why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? "Some" couples love to be chased It's worth bearing in mind, not everyone is as experienced / upfront as “other” swingers, initially, some may well agree to meet via email, it takes a great deal of confidence to cross the line and actually meet up. Sadly, some label these people as “time-wasters” " Oh course it takes guts to cross the line and turn it into reality ...but be honest with your expectaions and desires ...and dont bloody waste my time with endless emails...some even so far as an hour before due to leave... waiting for the address to be emailed and then nothing !!!!! I've taken the time to get to 'know ' the people through emails , just as they have, set some boundaries, got childcare, spent hours getting ready only to be meet by a wall of silence. My major gripe is being so in demand on times i would need a month of sundays to meet everyone that took my fancy... but as soon as i am able to fit in a meet the scarper... only to return as i said 24 hrs later ... asking when i can meet !!! | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ??? or maybe bi fem profiles = timewasters " i must have missed the point here ?? | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ??? Nice to see its not just single males who struggle with ditherers. Ok maybe nice isn't the right word but what i mean is it isn't just us single guys." nooo definatly not just you guys who struggle lol x | |||
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"I find that as a.single.bi female with no partner hidden away at.all i do get chased lots which is lovely with people wanting to meet me. Problem is they chat with you and get to know me and then when i have a weekend.of sort of.swarm but when they realise i cant meet them that weekend.as.have just confirmed meeting someone they get the huff as if they are the only ones interested. or if i tell them that i want to meet for a coffee first and people Will always assume i Will accomodate they get a cob on. My turn for a grumble. Love to meet some people who Will accomodate for a change and happy to meet for a coffee first. My profile does say this i believe but as.normal it is often not read. I assume because they cant be arsed and just want a shag. I am a person too lol. As for saying us single fems are.gold.dust. I went to my local club recently and was dressed room impresa. I walked in and it was busy full of couples and very good looking ones. I got a drink and stood by the bar for a short while. No one looked at me. I moved away into an ideal position for people walking past me to the stairs.and play rooms and began tryinf to make eye contact with people. For some reason my confidence lwft me that eve. I think because i walked in and it was.full and normally go.early so it fills.around me. Anyway basically i spent the eve feeling like thwarting single guys do. With no eye contact and fewling like a spare.part. I did chat with a.few couples.but think i must have grown two heads that night! Lol. The owner who i know reasonably well came.over answer had a grumble with me as he thouht they with all mad to not chat with.me. I was very aware that i needed to go do the chatting too and did end up going home after visiting the ladies for hand cream a number of times lol. .Life as a single female.isnt always great and.can still feel like a spare.part.not in the click with couples." am feeling your pain hun ! lol x | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ??? or maybe bi fem profiles = timewasters i must have missed the point here ??" the point being nearly all fems as you know have bi tendencies/fantasies and maybe use such a pf for an extention of such but in the realworld.com they wouldnt ever meet up with another fm for sex | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ??? or maybe bi fem profiles = timewasters i must have missed the point here ?? the point being nearly all fems as you know have bi tendencies/fantasies and maybe use such a pf for an extention of such but in the realworld.com they wouldnt ever meet up with another fm for sex " right with you now ..... i suppose so whats the reasons for the couples acting the same tho ? | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ??? or maybe bi fem profiles = timewasters i must have missed the point here ?? the point being nearly all fems as you know have bi tendencies/fantasies and maybe use such a pf for an extention of such but in the realworld.com they wouldnt ever meet up with another fm for sex right with you now ..... i suppose so whats the reasons for the couples acting the same tho ? " probably hubby`s fantasy who knows? have you met any cos i dont know of any or ever even heard a bi fem rumour so where are they? | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ??? or maybe bi fem profiles = timewasters i must have missed the point here ?? the point being nearly all fems as you know have bi tendencies/fantasies and maybe use such a pf for an extention of such but in the realworld.com they wouldnt ever meet up with another fm for sex right with you now ..... i suppose so whats the reasons for the couples acting the same tho ? probably hubby`s fantasy who knows? have you met any cos i dont know of any or ever even heard a bi fem rumour so where are they?" and after seeing ur pics no wonder you become someones fantasy...its their loss | |||
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"Having a right old winge now, so please dont slate, just want to vent If single bi fems are 'gold dust' then why the hell is it so hard to get a meet???? Yes I know ive had my fair share but why do some couples and singles nag you to death to meet and then vanish off the face of the earth when u say yes ? Only to re surface 24 later and nag with gusto again ? Its soooo bloody frustrating ! Yes yes I know we all lead busy lifes and really dont expect anybody to drop everything to meet, but it really does make u wonder if they just love the chase ??? As one of what I believe is only a few lesbians on this site I know exactly what you mean! I am pleased to be able to say that I have met a handful of great women from here and have had great fun with them too but the amount of meets that I have had is a tiny percentage of the amount of women showing 'apparent interest' shown before they stop messaging. I realise that on a site like Fab that this is going to happen but I didn't think that it would be to this extent ... after all, aren't we all on here for more sex and fun times? I know I am I had wondered if the small percentage of actual women wanting to meet was down to me being 'lesbian' and not 'bi' and would be interested to know if that is off putting to people? Babilicious xxx" Would not put me off. Even though I am married my husband is genuinely happy for me to meet another woman alone without any involvement at all (no hiding in the closet, waiting for an invitation to 'join in'). However, I think there are a lot of bi fem couples where the fem isn't quite as 'bi' as they make out.. or rather, they like playing with another fem but only when there's male involvement as a kind of safety net. | |||
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"My profile doesn't have a description of fems I'd meet. It says Im Bisexual.. it also says I'm looking for women and men. I don't advertise it in bold writing because I don't see any point. It clearly says I seek Black Males only.. but do you know how many white guys mail me lol. There are alot of girls on here who lke the idea of meeting other females.. but when it comes down to it, they just can't." I guess so yes! Its a lot like me saying that I'm for couples to approach me if the lady is willing to play alone ... I still get asked if hubby can watch or join in which is frustrating. Hands up all those ladies that just love girl on girl fun Babilicious xx | |||
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"I had wondered if the small percentage of actual women wanting to meet was down to me being 'lesbian' and not 'bi' and would be interested to know if that is off putting to people? Babilicious xxx Would not put me off. Even though I am married my husband is genuinely happy for me to meet another woman alone without any involvement at all (no hiding in the closet, waiting for an invitation to 'join in'). However, I think there are a lot of bi fem couples where the fem isn't quite as 'bi' as they make out.. or rather, they like playing with another fem but only when there's male involvement as a kind of safety net." Pleased to hear it doesn't put you off! :D I can I just make it known that I don't need a safety blanket at all ... I just love ladies Babilicious xx | |||
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"Mrs H who is Bi said she would love to meet a single bi fem just fem on fem as often when we have met couples she has felt the fem is only being bi to make her man happy. so the chance to meet a single bi fem would be most welcome and n I would not be there watching!! lol" There is no fella here for me to keep happy | |||
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"The OP was talking about single bi women wanting just girly fun being like gold dust, not just single women in general. I see that your profile says that you're bisexual but you mainly talk about men and couples with no real mention of the kind of lady you would like to meet and so I don't think that this thread really applies to that Babilicious xxx I was answering the thread how it applies to me. Because I am more specific about the men and couples that I meet, it makes my opinion less valid? I don't think so. As I previously stated, I'm rarely in the right mood for purely girl on girl, so why bother wasting profile space when it isn't something that comes up very often. " I think that's fair and didn't mean for your opinion to sound less valid. My reply was to the previous post so apologies for that Babilicious xx | |||
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"I had wondered if the small percentage of actual women wanting to meet was down to me being 'lesbian' and not 'bi' and would be interested to know if that is off putting to people? Babilicious xxx Would not put me off. Even though I am married my husband is genuinely happy for me to meet another woman alone without any involvement at all (no hiding in the closet, waiting for an invitation to 'join in'). However, I think there are a lot of bi fem couples where the fem isn't quite as 'bi' as they make out.. or rather, they like playing with another fem but only when there's male involvement as a kind of safety net. Pleased to hear it doesn't put you off! :D I can I just make it known that I don't need a safety blanket at all ... I just love ladies Babilicious xx" That comes as SUCH a surprise!! lol | |||
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"That comes as SUCH a surprise!! lol" Sorry to be predictable, just want to make it clear :D Babilicious xx | |||
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