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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Do you honestly think that there is one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing as a perfect first message.

Either the recipient will like you or they won't. That will determine whether you get a response or not.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Fancy a fuck

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Do you do anal?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Don't you feckin dare not reply you slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you feckin dare not reply you slag

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck "

Lol that's where I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a 3 sum ... Lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'll personally reply to anyone that I can tell have made an effort to read my profile even if it's just to say thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can get past the fact that I'm a complete tosser, you'll grow to love me."

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Don't you feckin dare not reply you slag

"

I never pass on dare so I'm ignoring you

Oh wait this isn't ignoring you whoops

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

We know where yous live (in best Northern Irish accent)

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

[Removed by poster at 30/09/15 11:29:58]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, Im a Millionaire with a heart condition

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Dont think they the answers his looking for but omg some replys are funny as fuck love em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I'm a really upbeat guy despite being HIV positive

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We always reply to all of our messages....however our response will be reflection of any effort made by the sender. So if we receive a one-word opener that's what they will get in return

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Oooo do you let people cum in your mouth lol

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By *om Tom 1969Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I would have written you a letter, but we aren't allowed pens in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Updated profile may help?

It says you are new...but been on over a year...?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"We always reply to all of our messages....however our response will be reflection of any effort made by the sender. So if we receive a one-word opener that's what they will get in return "

Exactly this!

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Generally look at profiles before replying but do prefer nice messages that aren't just straight out with fucking and cock measurements

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv been speaking to one women an she puts it down to my age... Take it age is a factor with most people ?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My last few meets have compared me to a supermarket... I thought wow. That's because I brought everything they wanted .... Turns out it's cos I'm lidl.

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Iv been speaking to one women an she puts it down to my age... Take it age is a factor with most people ?"

Some people are more age conscious than others and some just prefer to go with people of certain ages whether it's older, younger or the same age and some just don't care. I have had a look on your profile and I don't think you look to bad at all.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


""If you can get past the fact that I'm a complete tosser, you'll grow to love me.""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, wanna suck my cock tonight?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Just be yourself, say whatever comes to your mind at the time, don't just write what you think they want to hear, and never ever, cut and paste

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just ask directly, and say how much you'd love and appreciate it. Don't beat around the bush or hint, it's too open to misinterpretation. Don't rely on psychic powers either. Have a better offer in recompense too.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Try the Irish way;

Now I'm writing this very slowly because I know you can't read very fast....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Iv been speaking to one women an she puts it down to my age... Take it age is a factor with most people ?"

It could be and that will have an effect to some, you could be the age of their own children and that's a weird line to cross for them, or after chatting they may realise your slightly immature for them personally it's just something you need to accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, Im a Millionaire with a heart condition"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, us hermaphrodites often get told to go fuck ourselves but you seem like a nice person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wotcha shag, fancy a bit of Humpty Dumpty. Always works for me.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply? "

It may have more to do with the fact that people look at your profile before replying.....and that's a fifth the length of your post here...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply?

It may have more to do with the fact that people look at your profile before replying.....and that's a fifth the length of your post here..."

Hi did have more added to it originally

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By *enniwrenCouple
over a year ago

United Kingdom

I look at the age and the picture. I'm only attracted to older men so if under 40 it's a no-go whatever they say. If over 40 I need to like what I see. If I'm not attracted then why waste their time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha you tell me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All to do with pics

If a woman likes you she will reply, no matter how good your message is if she don't fancy you its not likely you will get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Greetings to you my God fearing friend! You have been chosen to be the recipient of 65trillion Nigerian dollars. To receive this money just message me back."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about comical msgs like "Do you believe in global warming?" abit off topic to sex, but fun lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have cookies and vodka

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""If you can get past the fact that I'm a complete tosser, you'll grow to love me.""

I like this funny messages grab me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Your profile is amazing. I would love to meet you.

Only kidding, I say that to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow! Your profile is amazing. I would love to meet you.

Only kidding, I say that to everyone."

You must have missed me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply? "
hello darling do you go like a rabbit ,it works for me

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply? hello darling do you go like a rabbit ,it works for me "

Really!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply? hello darling do you go like a rabbit ,it works for me

Really!!!!! "
well you were the exception

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply? "

£50 cash prize to the first person to reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I shit on your chest and power piss it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a point it doesn't matter what you say aslong as you are polite, don't write in text speak, and put a clue in the message that you have infact read there profile.

They either like you or they don't.

If this doesn't work then it's cause you're a monster

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"To a point it doesn't matter what you say aslong as you are polite, don't write in text speak, and put a clue in the message that you have infact read there profile."

And include a face pic, not a cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck "

Don't forget to include a picture of your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To a point it doesn't matter what you say aslong as you are polite, don't write in text speak, and put a clue in the message that you have infact read there profile.

And include a face pic, not a cock pic."

Absolutely, include a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv tried to figure this out at a few angles an nothing ever works, anyone know what is a good opening line that gets a reply? "

"I will swap you a twirl for a curly wurly" That was all I put and I got a reply today???

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By *ustus4uMan
over a year ago

closer then you think

Was your daddy a baker because you got great buns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could tell you the secret to a good first message that always gets a positive reply.

But then it would not be a secret.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I could tell you the secret to a good first message that always gets a positive reply.

But then it would not be a secret."

Don't tell him, Pike!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Don't you feckin dare not reply you slag

I never pass on dare so I'm ignoring you

Oh wait this isn't ignoring you whoops "

Get your coat you've pulled

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