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"I hate all that screaming and shouting it just sounds fake, (not saying it is fake) I prefer a lady to more sort of moan and be breathless, lots of panting and sharp in takes of breath, maybe the odd swear word " yes for me this but for 5 or 6 hours xx  | |||
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"You should be precisely as quiet or noisy as you like to be. If someone else doesn't like it, screw 'em! Or not, as the case may be."  lol ..giggles at that xx | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx" He has probably been watching too much porn with all the fake shouting! I think you have the right idea! | |||
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"I hate all that screaming and shouting it just sounds fake, (not saying it is fake) I prefer a lady to more sort of moan and be breathless, lots of panting and sharp in takes of breath, maybe the odd swear word " Big like | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx" awww hey don't be upset he's just made a thoughtless observation is all  | |||
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"I had a meet and we had what I thought was a very good sex session. .. but I've been told today I'm too quiet during sex. This has slightly upset me as I don't orgasm very often but I do totally still enjoy myself. Yours views would be great please as I've never had complaints before but now feel like perhaps I'm the only one who doesn't scream and shout lol ???" People have preferences, but knowing the person you've been with has had fun is enough for others | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He has probably been watching too much porn with all the fake shouting! I think you have the right idea!"
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"I like some breathlessness some simpering moaning and lots of dirty talk "I suck at dirty talk, I just get the giggles plus it sounds ridiculous in an Irish accent I think  | |||
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"I like some breathlessness some simpering moaning and lots of dirty talk
I suck at dirty talk, I just get the giggles plus it sounds ridiculous in an Irish accent I think "Even better in an Irish accent more like! | |||
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"I like some breathlessness some simpering moaning and lots of dirty talk
I suck at dirty talk, I just get the giggles plus it sounds ridiculous in an Irish accent I think
Even better in an Irish accent more like! "Agreed | |||
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"This thread goes to prove how just the smallest ill thought out comment can have a negative effect on the recipient. Take note guys and girls" Totally agree with this
I'm fairly new to this scene as I was in a couple on here before so my confidence has just took a fall ... thinking a club may be more up my street ... not sure  | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx" I think it's quite rude to critique a meet unless it's requested but at least he did it privately. | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx I think it's quite rude to critique a meet unless it's requested but at least he did it privately."  yes I guess that's true...he's not verified | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx I think it's quite rude to critique a meet unless it's requested but at least he did it privately. yes I guess that's true...he's not verified "I think you have to have quite strong self belief if you're going to do this kind of thing and don't allow anybody else's opinion of how you should be knock that. It can be quite difficult to maintain in the face of all the threads proclaiming that men or women should be or look a certain way. If we all went with majority opinion on here all women would be hair free from the neck down, size 16 or above and love pronged oral sex and that just isn't so. In other words ignore, move on and continue being you. | |||
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"I like some breathlessness some simpering moaning and lots of dirty talk
I suck at dirty talk, I just get the giggles plus it sounds ridiculous in an Irish accent I think "Can i test to make sure | |||
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"I hate all that screaming and shouting it just sounds fake, (not saying it is fake) I prefer a lady to more sort of moan and be breathless, lots of panting and sharp in takes of breath, maybe the odd swear word " Yup...that's me  | |||
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"I had a meet and we had what I thought was a very good sex session. .. but I've been told today I'm too quiet during sex. This has slightly upset me as I don't orgasm very often but I do totally still enjoy myself. Yours views would be great please as I've never had complaints before but now feel like perhaps I'm the only one who doesn't scream and shout lol ???" Some guys like a sexually vocally woman it's just a preference nothing to be upset over | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx" He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. | |||
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"I hate all that screaming and shouting it just sounds fake, (not saying it is fake) I prefer a lady to more sort of moan and be breathless, lots of panting and sharp in takes of breath, maybe the odd swear word " | |||
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"I hate all that screaming and shouting it just sounds fake, (not saying it is fake) I prefer a lady to more sort of moan and be breathless, lots of panting and sharp in takes of breath, maybe the odd swear word "The shouting seems like it's a performance for me. Which is unnecessary. I'd rather the lady to just be enjoying herself | |||
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"I hate all that screaming and shouting it just sounds fake, (not saying it is fake) I prefer a lady to more sort of moan and be breathless, lots of panting and sharp in takes of breath, maybe the odd swear word
The shouting seems like it's a performance for me. Which is unnecessary. I'd rather the lady to just be enjoying herself "(but when you know someone who's relatively quiet and you get THEM to shout or squeal, that's fun ) | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving." Thank you | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving." Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself" Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him " Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex?" Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different " And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh? | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh? "I actually am it's why I don't have many verifications after telling them I don't want to meet them and why they don't usually like me for it very much | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh?
I actually am it's why I don't have many verifications after telling them I don't want to meet them and why they don't usually like me for it very much "A lot of people say they appreciate honesty no matter how blunt, very few actually do | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh?
I actually am it's why I don't have many verifications after telling them I don't want to meet them and why they don't usually like me for it very much "? Whats that got to do with it? | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh?
I actually am it's why I don't have many verifications after telling them I don't want to meet them and why they don't usually like me for it very much
? Whats that got to do with it?"I miss read what you said to be Am I that honest with people, so to respond to what you did say, yea they could be brutally honest if they wanted to be I'd actually respect them more for it | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh?
I actually am it's why I don't have many verifications after telling them I don't want to meet them and why they don't usually like me for it very much
? Whats that got to do with it?
I miss read what you said to be Am I that honest with people, so to respond to what you did say, yea they could be brutally honest if they wanted to be I'd actually respect them more for it "And feel better about yourself? Ok, fair enough | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh?
I actually am it's why I don't have many verifications after telling them I don't want to meet them and why they don't usually like me for it very much
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I miss read what you said to be Am I that honest with people, so to respond to what you did say, yea they could be brutally honest if they wanted to be I'd actually respect them more for it
And feel better about yourself? Ok, fair enough"Wouldn't bother me I'm not meeting them again so I don't need to care, do I? | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about it, if he hadn't said that he would probably have picked fault with something else, instead of just having the balls to say it was good but he didn't want to see you again. Just carry on as you are enjoying yourself Why would he find fault elsewhere as an excuse? It could be a very honest reason for all you know, the only person that truly knows is him Why feel the need to give a reason? And why say something that would make someone feel self conscious while having sex? Quite simply in the case of honesty, you can never know how anyone will react to what we say, it as upset the OP, whereas it's not something that would upset me, I see it as nothing more than a preference. That's the beauty of us all being different And I am sure that you would liike everyone to be honest with you about why they don't want to fuck you again eh?
I actually am it's why I don't have many verifications after telling them I don't want to meet them and why they don't usually like me for it very much
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I miss read what you said to be Am I that honest with people, so to respond to what you did say, yea they could be brutally honest if they wanted to be I'd actually respect them more for it
And feel better about yourself? Ok, fair enough
Wouldn't bother me I'm not meeting them again so I don't need to care, do I? "I'm not however saying that because I'd feel that way the OP doesn't have the right to feel the way she does over the issue | |||
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"I had a meet and we had what I thought was a very good sex session. .. but I've been told today I'm too quiet during sex. This has slightly upset me as I don't orgasm very often but I do totally still enjoy myself. Yours views would be great please as I've never had complaints before but now feel like perhaps I'm the only one who doesn't scream and shout lol ???" Controversial opinion coming up here ....as you asked for a opinion please don't take it the wrong way or let what I'm about to say upset you . He just didn't want to see you again he just wasn't that into you . That's what I think( sorry ) the sex was most likely good better than his right hand but the truth is he got what he wanted thought he had given you what you wanted and that was the end of that as far as he was concerned . Now at this point I'm assuming you contacted him about another date so he made a excuse which he knew would piss you off just enough to guarantee you leaving him alone from that point on with out to much drama. Sorry but as a man that's what I honestly think about this . as a man if you not really into a woman your not going to bother after the first fuck that is the plain truth of it as I see it . you then have only two options open to you ignore her or make up a excuse as to why your not into her that avoids saying I just don't really fancy you. which after all is a hard thing to say to a woman after you've fuck her . come on how many guys are going to say look I used you for a bunk up didn't really like you past the point of that maybe i'd get sex from you if I chatted you up sweet talked you now I've had that frill of the chase I'm not interested anymore . Sorry said it would be controversial and I feel for you but we are all human and selfish to one degree or another . | |||
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"Why did he tell you you where to quiet, what brought the conversation round to it? Did you message and ask for another meet or did he just send you a message stating you where to quiet. It depends on context. If someone messages and said thanks but I don't think where compatable because of bla bla then I'd be happy with it, " Well last night he said he wanted to see me regularly. ..then this morning he came out with that | |||
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"Why did he tell you you where to quiet, what brought the conversation round to it? Did you message and ask for another meet or did he just send you a message stating you where to quiet. It depends on context. If someone messages and said thanks but I don't think where compatable because of bla bla then I'd be happy with it, Well last night he said he wanted to see me regularly. ..then this morning he came out with that "Maybe he was trying to say that he does want to see you again but could you be more vocal next time as that's what he's looking for, if you can't then he's not interested | |||
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"Maybe he was just a little insecure about how much you enjoyed it and needs the noise to give him that reassurance that you're enjoying yourself?" I did think that also but surely he could tell from my face that I did enjoy it. As someone did point out perhaps it was he excuse not to see me again even though he had said he wanted to meet regularly before I left last night. ... NEXT | |||
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"Why did he tell you you where to quiet, what brought the conversation round to it? Did you message and ask for another meet or did he just send you a message stating you where to quiet. It depends on context. If someone messages and said thanks but I don't think where compatable because of bla bla then I'd be happy with it, Well last night he said he wanted to see me regularly. ..then this morning he came out with that
Maybe he was trying to say that he does want to see you again but could you be more vocal next time as that's what he's looking for, if you can't then he's not interested"Maybe. .. I feel like I failed the practical test at an interview...starting to think it's quite funny now actually... My previous references are all excellent lol | |||
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"Maybe he was just a little insecure about how much you enjoyed it and needs the noise to give him that reassurance that you're enjoying yourself? I did think that also but surely he could tell from my face that I did enjoy it. As someone did point out perhaps it was he excuse not to see me again even though he had said he wanted to meet regularly before I left last night. ... NEXT "Not necessarily. I can not read expressions very well. Hence I tend to enquire how it was for someone unless it's obvious from how we interact in the cool down after sex. That being said, a lot of noise is no guarantee of a good time as if it's fake to make someone happy, the person faking enjoys it less... Or at least, that's my experience of it | |||
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"I had a meet and we had what I thought was a very good sex session. .. but I've been told today I'm too quiet during sex. This has slightly upset me as I don't orgasm very often but I do totally still enjoy myself. Yours views would be great please as I've never had complaints before but now feel like perhaps I'm the only one who doesn't scream and shout lol ???" Problem is these day's guy's expect every woman to be like a porn star and women expect guy's to be hung like one. Reality is we are only human and all different. Viva la difference. That's what I say Besides all that wailing and screaming seems a bit OTT. As long as you had fun don't stress. | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? " I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. | |||
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"I had a meet and we had what I thought was a very good sex session. .. but I've been told today I'm too quiet during sex. This has slightly upset me as I don't orgasm very often but I do totally still enjoy myself. Yours views would be great please as I've never had complaints before but now feel like perhaps I'm the only one who doesn't scream and shout lol ??? " I personally love it when the girl is making minimal noise, I hate loud females lol | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe." Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. .. | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. .. "Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are | |||
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"Why did he tell you you where to quiet, what brought the conversation round to it? Did you message and ask for another meet or did he just send you a message stating you where to quiet. It depends on context. If someone messages and said thanks but I don't think where compatable because of bla bla then I'd be happy with it, Well last night he said he wanted to see me regularly. ..then this morning he came out with that
Maybe he was trying to say that he does want to see you again but could you be more vocal next time as that's what he's looking for, if you can't then he's not interested
Maybe. .. I feel like I failed the practical test at an interview...starting to think it's quite funny now actually...
My previous references are all excellent lol "I'm not sure why this has dented your confidence, you say all your other references are excellent yet you take to heart one person your not compatable with. Also saying he wants to see you again while hour still there is different to saying it in the cold light of day.. Men and women say all kinds of funny stuff when they've just cum | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe." That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths " Make your mind up | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. ..
Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are"Absolutely | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up "I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. ..
Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are"He maybe didn't mean for it to sound like he was being a dick you've just all labelled him it regardless | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. ..
Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are
He maybe didn't mean for it to sound like he was being a dick you've just all labelled him it regardless "Yep. We have one version of events and as ever many people are using that one sided account to accuse him of all sorts. The ladies confidence has been knocked but now restored, if he's reading this lets hope his confidence hasn't been knocked by what's being said about him because it's odds on that if he started a thread about it he'd be told to man up and get on with it. As I said earlier at least he made his comments privately, he hasn't been afforded that courtesy. | |||
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"thats a guy who is watching too much porn "How on earth do you know that? All we know is he said the op was too quiet. | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was "The guy never mentioned common sense though, you did. | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was
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"I had a meet and we had what I thought was a very good sex session. .. but I've been told today I'm too quiet during sex. This has slightly upset me as I don't orgasm very often but I do totally still enjoy myself. Yours views would be great please as I've never had complaints before but now feel like perhaps I'm the only one who doesn't scream and shout lol ???" I hate girls who are screaming and shouting. Just sounds fake. As long as it looks like the girls enjoying herself that's all that matters. You being quiet but enjoying yaself will be such a turn on for me. So don't worry about what other people say | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. ..
Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are
He maybe didn't mean for it to sound like he was being a dick you've just all labelled him it regardless
Yep. We have one version of events and as ever many people are using that one sided account to accuse him of all sorts.
The ladies confidence has been knocked but now restored, if he's reading this lets hope his confidence hasn't been knocked by what's being said about him because it's odds on that if he started a thread about it he'd be told to man up and get on with it.
As I said earlier at least he made his comments privately, he hasn't been afforded that courtesy." | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. ..
Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are
He maybe didn't mean for it to sound like he was being a dick you've just all labelled him it regardless
Yep. We have one version of events and as ever many people are using that one sided account to accuse him of all sorts.
The ladies confidence has been knocked but now restored, if he's reading this lets hope his confidence hasn't been knocked by what's being said about him because it's odds on that if he started a thread about it he'd be told to man up and get on with it.
As I said earlier at least he made his comments privately, he hasn't been afforded that courtesy."I have not named and shamed....I asked for people's views and advice as I'm still a newbie being single on here as was with a partner on here before ! | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was
The guy never mentioned common sense though, you did.
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. ..
Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are
He maybe didn't mean for it to sound like he was being a dick you've just all labelled him it regardless
Yep. We have one version of events and as ever many people are using that one sided account to accuse him of all sorts.
The ladies confidence has been knocked but now restored, if he's reading this lets hope his confidence hasn't been knocked by what's being said about him because it's odds on that if he started a thread about it he'd be told to man up and get on with it.
As I said earlier at least he made his comments privately, he hasn't been afforded that courtesy.
I have not named and shamed....I asked for people's views and advice as I'm still a newbie being single on here as was with a partner on here before !"But he can recognise himself. The comments made by other people aren't your responsibility though but I do wish people would think before they make comments about others......as you've discovered. | |||
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"been thinking about this whilst ive ben out and about - and this says more about him than you - his insecurities probably - if you dont see him again at least you had a good time "I did giggle that you was thinking about this while you was out n about...I hope I didn't distract you from what you was doing. Thank you for your words xx | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was
The guy never mentioned common sense though, you did.
That's true but I feel it was implied that's what he was saying
Why was it? Ok if thats what you feel so maybe in your mind its common sense not to be insensitive after all?"No I still don't think he was being insensitive he's certainly being portrayed that way | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. Yeah he has...especially as I didn't just lay on my back for the whole session. ..
Just because he has a dick, doesn't mean he has to be a dick. It is hard to block out these damages to confidence, but there's better people out there who will appreciate you as you are
He maybe didn't mean for it to sound like he was being a dick you've just all labelled him it regardless
Yep. We have one version of events and as ever many people are using that one sided account to accuse him of all sorts.
The ladies confidence has been knocked but now restored, if he's reading this lets hope his confidence hasn't been knocked by what's being said about him because it's odds on that if he started a thread about it he'd be told to man up and get on with it.
As I said earlier at least he made his comments privately, he hasn't been afforded that courtesy.
I have not named and shamed....I asked for people's views and advice as I'm still a newbie being single on here as was with a partner on here before !"You don't need yo name and shame for him to read this and know it's about him, considering your username is showing | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was
The guy never mentioned common sense though, you did.
That's true but I feel it was implied that's what he was saying
Why was it? Ok if thats what you feel so maybe in your mind its common sense not to be insensitive after all?
No I still don't think he was being insensitive he's certainly being portrayed that way "But all the guy said was that he shouldn't have said anything to her. You are the only one who has mentioned common sense and being more sensitive and putting his foot in it. So that must have been what was going through your mind | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was
The guy never mentioned common sense though, you did.
That's true but I feel it was implied that's what he was saying
Why was it? Ok if thats what you feel so maybe in your mind its common sense not to be insensitive after all?
No I still don't think he was being insensitive he's certainly being portrayed that way
But all the guy said was that he shouldn't have said anything to her. You are the only one who has mentioned common sense and being more sensitive and putting his foot in it. So that must have been what was going through your mind"Why is it so hard for you to grasp I only said it as I thought is was implied. His opinion of common sense would differ to mine and others. Sorry you're having so much fun twisting everything I say but that says more about you than it does me, so cheerio | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was
The guy never mentioned common sense though, you did.
That's true but I feel it was implied that's what he was saying
Why was it? Ok if thats what you feel so maybe in your mind its common sense not to be insensitive after all?
No I still don't think he was being insensitive he's certainly being portrayed that way
But all the guy said was that he shouldn't have said anything to her. You are the only one who has mentioned common sense and being more sensitive and putting his foot in it. So that must have been what was going through your mind
Why is it so hard for you to grasp I only said it as I thought is was implied. His opinion of common sense would differ to mine and others. Sorry you're having so much fun twisting everything I say but that says more about you than it does me, so cheerio "Meant to add, if it wasn't implied in sure he can correct me for himself | |||
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"I did enjoy myself and that's why I'm shocked that he's said I'm too quiet.....each to thier own but I would much rather be natural than try and get an Oscar for theb best screaming ... First time anyone has ever complained so I guess that's why I'm upset over it xx He's obviously got no class,takes himself too seriously and thinks too much of himself. You probably have more about you then he does,keep on moving. Why is he that way? Liking a sexually vocal woman is nothing more than a preference, would you like to be told you have no class because someone doesn't agree with one of your preferences? I don't believe he should have told OP,that's the point really. It's clearly damaged her confidence I believe. That's fair enough then, but you need to appreciate he didn't and couldn't know she would feel that way, you can argue that common sense should have told him to be more sensitive, but not everyone has common sense so they have a way of putting their foot in their mouths Make your mind up
I'd not changed my opinion I was merely saying he's arguing that the guy should have had more common sense. Not that I think he should of had it as I've made the fact it wouldn't knock my confidence to be told what the OP was
The guy never mentioned common sense though, you did.
That's true but I feel it was implied that's what he was saying
Why was it? Ok if thats what you feel so maybe in your mind its common sense not to be insensitive after all?
No I still don't think he was being insensitive he's certainly being portrayed that way
But all the guy said was that he shouldn't have said anything to her. You are the only one who has mentioned common sense and being more sensitive and putting his foot in it. So that must have been what was going through your mind
Why is it so hard for you to grasp I only said it as I thought is was implied. His opinion of common sense would differ to mine and others. Sorry you're having so much fun twisting everything I say but that says more about you than it does me, so cheerio
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"Boys/girls. I'm at work lol. For me personally I think what he said was damaging to the OP. I think it's quite a cold thing to do,and if we read through all the comments again some agree and some don't. That's the beauty of an active forum.....opinions. This guy hasn't been damaged in any way,OP said she had a great time with him so he's done a good job. OP has been upset on the other hand and I can see her point,she's Not auditioning to win the next Shagfactor. It won't help OP by this guy saying she wasn't loud enough,she'll just ask questions of herself that really don't need answering.Behind that profile pic is a heart and soul,cherish it cos it's very real. Oh and by the way OP i've noticed you've changed your profile pic and I'd like to let you know it's in the bank for when I get home "Thank you .. I appreciate your view on this as yes I did not critise him I was asking views on the fact of noise in the bedroom etc x | |||
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