FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest annoyance on fab???

By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think its acceptable to be rude and abusive when you politely say you're not interested.

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By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

Absolutely. No need for rudeness! If you can't handle rejection, then this lifestyle is not for you. x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yous 2 luk gr8 2 me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word messages

One line messages

Unsolicited friend requests when we've not even exchanged a hello

People who manipulate their profiles to try to fit our criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who send friend requests and have never spoke to you, or dont bother speaking if you did accept them.

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Men who message me and expect me to come and meet them in their truck/hotel/bed.

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who ask for a face pic having not sent one first. I believe if you make first contact and ask for a face pic then its only courteous to attach one first.

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By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

" Yous 2 luk gr8 2 me

Grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough free time to meet sexy fuckers and go to some of the great events listed.

The rest of the negative we can cope with its only words on a screen

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By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

Agree, agree, agree!!! Thank god we are not the only ones! xx

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By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

"Not enough free time to meet sexy fuckers and go to some of the great events listed.

The rest of the negative we can cope with its only words on a screen "

Oh, we can cope with it, but it's still bloody annoying. Perhaps we are just easily annoyed.........all these sexy people constantly bother us.........oh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who say they are looking for quality over quantity .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who say they are looking for quality over quantity ."

Much prefer a high quantity of quality fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not enough free time to meet sexy fuckers and go to some of the great events listed.

The rest of the negative we can cope with its only words on a screen "

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Mine have been mentioned-those who don't read, one liners and one worders. Those who ask for a face pic when they made first contact. Oh. And cheats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding someone who meets all your requirements only to realise they live too far away. ..

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

ME!!!

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By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

"People who say they are looking for quality over quantity .

Much prefer a high quantity of quality fun

Not rejecting a high quantity of quality, just a preference of quality (in our eyes). Everyone sets there own standards....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters and nob jocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who send another message literally minutes after seeing you've read their previous message but not replied saying something along the lines of have I said something wrong or are you not interested then??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your list, plus young single guys - younger than my son - who get all arsey when we politely turn down their offer. Which is usually about 6 words and a cock shot.

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By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

so everyone seems to have the same experience as ourselves.......thank god for that lol x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

People who don't read threads... who are so keen to air their point of _iew that they don't consider the argument.

Those are annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who say they are looking for quality over quantity .

Much prefer a high quantity of quality fun

Not rejecting a high quantity of quality, just a preference of quality (in our eyes). Everyone sets there own standards.... "

Yes , a high quantity of quality is our motto .

We reject three quarters of offers , yet still have a massive quantity of quality meets .

And our standards are very high ( in our eyes )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so everyone seems to have the same experience as ourselves.......thank god for that lol x

We don't

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By *ecktheHalls OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

"so everyone seems to have the same experience as ourselves.......thank god for that lol x

We don't

Great stuff, good for you guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a couples profile comes on and the guy says only he meets. Why do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not enough spare time is our only problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a couples profile comes on and the guy says only he meets. Why do that? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to be so negative but, in our opinion, the site is great but the people on it are spoiling it now. Way too much 'chat' and not enough meeting - compared to a couple of years ago. Just seems to be the way it's gone - a site for 'chatters' rather than 'do-ers' - just our opinion - feel free to slate us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People contacting you saying how much they want to meet you then when you say ok they are suddenly busy and cant make it till further notice. Plus most of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the one that gets me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"People who say they are looking for quality over quantity ."
I like loads of quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nasty comments and people purposely looking to start arguments.

General lack of respect and discretion at times

Lastly and possibly my biggest annoyance is how everyone has an opinion on how other people use the site. If you don't like something that doesn't concern you then move on.

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By *punkyWifeWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

People who don't read profiles.

People who constantly ask for more pics or to chat on kik etc.

People who beg for a meet until one is offered and then you don't hear from them again for weeks.

Shitty one line opening messages.

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Messages like the one I've just received...

"well i move lower , turn you over slide 2 of my long fingers into your tight wet pussy till they find your g spot , i start moving them so your pussy starts to contract around them your breath getting shorter .

i lean forward and take your clit into my warm mouth and start to suck on the tip of it till your now begging me to slide my large hard cock inside you .

i dont stop but suck harder and finger you stronger till you cant help but come over my fingers as you are i slide my fingers out and slam my large throbbing cock deep into your tight wet pussy

if you want me to carry on text me we can start talk and maybe i will tell this over the phone or we can act it out xx

love your pic"

Never know what to do with messages like these!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The attention seekers grrr.

The people who change their status but say same shit.

ie " blocked 40 people today , bet iv blocked more by weekend ". or someone who puts age preference of 18- 30

then complains about everyone being immature lol x

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

Agree with first, second doesn't apply and agree with the third.

But it is definitely the ones who Don't read my profile that loss me off the most

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"Messages like the one I've just received...

i lean forward and take your clit into my warm mouth and start to suck on the tip of it till your now begging me to slide my large hard cock inside you .

i dont stop but suck harder and finger you stronger till you cant help but come over my fingers as you are i slide my fingers out and slam my large throbbing cock deep into your tight wet pussy

if you want me to carry on text me we can start talk and maybe i will tell this over the phone or we can act it out xx

love your pic"

Never know what to do with messages like these!"

PMSL anddo they really expect that to work?

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By *erryPervettoMan
over a year ago

London

-Timewasters

-Immature and snobbish women who think all single guys on here are desperate

-Friends who never say a work(like we on Facebook)

-Obese women who call themselves curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three things:

- blanket emails

- people that don't read your profile

- the Sydney University warning (BUGS me)

- the phrase 'happy swinging' ... Makes me wonder whether you can have sad swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three things:

- blanket emails

- people that don't read your profile

- the Sydney University warning (BUGS me)

- the phrase 'happy swinging' ... Makes me wonder whether you can have sad swinging

Oops that was four things... People who can't count is another annoyance

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"One word messages

One line messages

Unsolicited friend requests when we've not even exchanged a hello

People who manipulate their profiles to try to fit our criteria"

And cock pics

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Not enough free time to meet sexy fuckers and go to some of the great events listed.

The rest of the negative we can cope with its only words on a screen "

This.

It's only Fab. It is just fun.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

The people who look at my Profile, then send a message. Fair enough, but they are over 300+ miles away in the North of Scotland, Ireland or in one recent instance, they were in the USA!

Eh? What? Do they expect me to say I'm on the first flight out of Heathrow?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"The people who look at my Profile, then send a message. Fair enough, but they are over 300+ miles away in the North of Scotland, Ireland or in one recent instance, they were in the USA!

Eh? What? Do they expect me to say I'm on the first flight out of Heathrow?

Guys who get messages and then whinge because they are too tight to travel for the sex they are on here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

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no not by a long chalk are you ,theirs grumpier but it's like with everything on here you have to have some give bad grammar as much as you hate it goes hand in hand with texting or even sexting the new word for it ,so get used to it as a selection of badly chosen words with spellchecks untimely additions strung together in little essays ,expect to get only the gist of what's being said and just enjoy it for what it is BS that gets you through the day and hopefully to your next meet which is what its all about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who agree to a social then tell you to come in a miniskirt, stockings and a lowcut top...to Starbucks

Copy and paste messages after they clearly haven't read your profile

The million and one forum posts a day from (mainly) single guys wondering why after 2 days, 1 cock shot and a 5 word profile that they are not inundated with offers

But in general I love this site!

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

"Finding someone who meets all your requirements only to realise they live too far away. ..

This is the worst thing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Replying to messages politely then they moan that we've wasted their time gggrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Replying to messages politely then they moan that we've wasted their time gggrrrrr

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hehe who did that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the other men, I reckon I'd do better if I was the only man in the UK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And its mainly couples lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Cheats

Barebackers

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And its mainly couples lol"
Awwww hey it's just a patience thing ,they havnt got any hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheats

Barebackers

LOL"
had a guy asking us to meet who was married wife didn't know and he even had a fb lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And its mainly couples lolAwwww hey it's just a patience thing ,they havnt got any hehe

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none what so ever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who want me to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheats

Barebackers

LOL"

We got a message recently that said "we are happy to meet you guys but it must be bare back fucking". Butterflies in the tummy before a meet is lovely but butter oozing from your Mary after a meet?.......we passed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three things:

- blanket emails

- people that don't read your profile

- the Sydney University warning (BUGS me)

- the phrase 'happy swinging' ... Makes me wonder whether you can have sad swinging

Oops that was four things... People who can't count is another annoyance

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I really get annoyed when the toast doesn't fit in the toaster ,when the pepper won't come out the pot and when the tin opener doesn't take all the lid off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a guy messages asking to seduce his wife/girlfriend but they must not know that they put me up to it.

Ive had two messages like that already on this site and numerous replies saying the same thing when I had a craiglist ad up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough women in the US on here and all you sexy European women are too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

All valid points actually and I've been guilty of not reading profiles and forgetting I'm actually talking to two people not the lady more than once.

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By *hiterabbit69Man
over a year ago

Romford

Women with 0 pictures and a profile text that states "will fill in later"

That doesn't really piss me off, the fact the get more messages does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I just remembered mine "I haven't got a face pic on here but if you give me your number I can send you one"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys who agree to a social then tell you to come in a miniskirt, stockings and a lowcut top...to Starbucks

Copy and paste messages after they clearly haven't read your profile

The million and one forum posts a day from (mainly) single guys wondering why after 2 days, 1 cock shot and a 5 word profile that they are not inundated with offers

But in general I love this site!

Ha ha I've had that cos the guy wanted to finger me whilst we were there, or we could come back to my work and find a cupboard to fuck in

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Sending longer messages to avoid single line ones then getting ignored or blocked for no reason anyway. Should have sent just a quick polite introductory one line message in the first place!

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Ladies who insist on a face pick but have no intention of supplying one of their own

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

"When a guy messages asking to seduce his wife/girlfriend but they must not know that they put me up to it.

I have just had one like this - it's the first. I didn't get the feeling it was a scam though ( though it was 1am when I read it, lol )

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By *em4femxxWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

"People who send another message literally minutes after seeing you've read their previous message but not replied saying something along the lines of have I said something wrong or are you not interested then??!"

That's the one

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

That's the one

Absolutely right- very annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

Mine is people asking if I have Kim and join Kim groups! No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

Mine is people asking if I have Kim and join Kim groups! No! "

KIK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really an annoyance but a

moment, people who message asking if you'd like to meet, you say yes then they go quiet, you never hear from them again but their status updates say things like this site is shit, no one meets, blah blah!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get annoyed very often. I have a few sigh moments,usually when someone doesn't want a chat to establish some sexual and mental connection,claiming "It's a sex site!" Or words to that effect. I just shake my head,smile to myself and find someone who does give a shit who they stick their dick in.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

message boards. and chat rooms full of wanking single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually going to say not much. This site has been good to me so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who say they are looking for quality over quantity ."

And when they turn you down, as they have thousands of others, you know you are not quality!

Arrogant shits!!

OK, cue Fab cliche no 1 - "Personal preference".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my "unread" messages get deleted before I get to them.....

Had 9 last night that didn't get round to looking at.

This morning I had 7....but 5 of them were new....so 7 others have disappeared from the planet......what happened?

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

'Person Above' type threads, the blokes all agree to anything if they think it gives them a chance with a woman and the women/couples are honest - too many of these posts though.

All of the 'look at my profile - i need help' type threads.

Overall though, site is very good, the few nuances that wind me up, I can live with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty same as MOST above....

Biggest annoyance to us

1. People who don't read profiles

2. Copy and paste messages

3. People who demand face pics and refuse to send theirs

4. People who wink and wink and wink and do nots end message

5. Couples where only one member is running profile

6. When we send a polite 'no thanks' people get nasty!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really an annoyance but a

Yep had that myself a few times

What is the point .

And there's one young woman who's age restrictions are 50-25

..so does this mean she wants very old men and extremly young boys

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Women wanting you to write an essay for introduction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really an annoyance but a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it has to be the one line opening message people often send. Usually how are you ? Or how's your day been ? Or more recently the fabulously imaginative got much planned this week ?

We don't even reply anymore they just end up in the delete bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women with 0 pictures and a profile text that states "will fill in later"

That doesn't really piss me off, the fact the get more messages does

(Some(many)) guys logic is 'these women have no pics therefore don't care what people look like and will definitely fuck anything'. That's why.

People who don't read profiles piss me off a bit, so is the fact that you can't be deep on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message you but have left the site before you even get the chance to read the message !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

Yous is the pronoun of Youse, which is an actual word...

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh and timewasters.

I vet people pretty intensively before agreeing to a meet. I've had three in the past three days fuck me over with the lamest excuses.

I give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the single woman who want to meet me

or is it just me that is having this problem

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Drama

The needy, not true genuine need, but superficial shit...... get a fucking grip.

apart from that, very little

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

People who send unintelligible / grammarless one-liner messages along with a crap face pic and who then get shitty when you refrain from sending them a face pic in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who post on forum threads about films, gaming, tv, science, the news. With.

"Never seen it"

Or some othe pointless non-statement that interests absolutely no one and contributes nothing to the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one word messages, the "i cant say im bi because then women wont meet me line", friend requests without chatting, the scenario message, the same boring forum posts over and over, the myth that only single men are pushy, the large amount of profiles using porn pics, the "i met bob forty years ago" verifications, the fab my pics begging statuses, the nothing but demands profiles, people coming back on then leaving then coming back on,and a few more as well.

but other than that we are having a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry to be so negative but, in our opinion, the site is great but the people on it are spoiling it now. Way too much 'chat' and not enough meeting - compared to a couple of years ago. Just seems to be the way it's gone - a site for 'chatters' rather than 'do-ers' - just our opinion - feel free to slate us !

Well I can't comment on what it was like before as I've only just joined 3 weeks ago...had one meet for coffee and they were not why they discredit in their profile...and yes no one wants to meet any more ....lengthy ping pong chats and no action. Woman who ask for a pic but don't attach one when they reply???? Have I missed something? So many have their heads up their arse about conditions....I've had more success on Badoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it will never change as there is a small percentage of people in general and that's men,ladies and couples that will always do this. Just have your block button ready and don't let it ruin both of your experiences here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People contacting you saying how much they want to meet you then when you say ok they are suddenly busy and cant make it till further notice. Plus most of the above

Exactly! !!! No one seems to meet or they say only meeting existing friends...we'll get their number and get off this site then lol. Btw where are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste messages sent to you 4 or 5 times word for word but are original according to the sender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three things:

- blanket emails

- people that don't read your profile

- the Sydney University warning (BUGS me)

- the phrase 'happy swinging' ... Makes me wonder whether you can have sad swinging

Oops that was four things... People who can't count is another annoyance

people who say 3 things and then add an extra one

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

No complaints so far. As a singleton I don't get meet requests... Lol!

Had one meet in 2 months, and so I consider myself lucky!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the expectation that we are all one big happy non judgemental family.......

fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Copy and paste messages sent to you 4 or 5 times word for word but are original according to the sender

Surely this never happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Hello, or face pic. Just a one liner saying " I am hard as fuck, come to my place now so I can fuck you hard"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No Hello, or face pic. Just a one liner saying " I am hard as fuck, come to my place now so I can fuck you hard""

And then two pumps and a squirt later your let feeling bemused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The negativity of this 'fab' community!

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

My biggest annoyance is guys that send pics of their cocks, I would rather see a friendly face anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in your area messages...and what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My biggest annoyance is guys that send pics of their cocks, I would rather see a friendly face anyday

and lets face it, who wants to meet a cock anyway?!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

People who moan about life on a sex site

If its that bad piss off

or take a brake maybe

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

People who think that, just because I post something on the forum, I want to meet them. I have no problem with people PMing me about my post/reply, but why message me for a meet from the post? They're even less likely to have read my profile in that case so are more likely to get their message deleted unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Yous 2 luk gr8 2 me

Smooth talking ??

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

(1) people who complain about time wasters - is your time really that precious?

(2) people who start "BBW/Skinny is best" debates on the forum when after all its just a matter of taste

(3) people who have utterly awful pictures on their profile but claim to be professional photographers willing to take photos for free (presumably with one hand)

Other than that a grateful sit which we thoroughly enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favorite is when a couple agrees to a meet.

Then the wife can't make it. But the husband wants to meet anyway

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

People who read the message you send, and then never reply. A simple 'Thanks but no' would suffice.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

only thing that annoys me on fab is people being rude/zero manners etc but you get that anywhere really..

that and one or two other things but no need to bother going into em.

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

"People who think that, just because I post something on the forum, I want to meet them. I have no problem with people PMing me about my post/reply, but why message me for a meet from the post? They're even less likely to have read my profile in that case so are more likely to get their message deleted unread."

That's a very good point. Has happened to me a few times- usually guys too!

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Fakers, liars, bullshitters, the usual wrist artiste's.

Self importance, narcissists, needy attention desperate profile status updates, profiles describing the polar opposite to the real person/s behind it.

But to find diamonds in life you've got to sift through S#!£

Horses for courses of course. Not everyone is for each other but there's someone for everyone

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Massages/friends request/winks to my hidden profile: why?!!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"(1) people who complain about time wasters - is your time really that precious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys who agree to a social then tell you to come in a miniskirt, stockings and a lowcut top...to Starbucks

Copy and paste messages after they clearly haven't read your profile

The million and one forum posts a day from (mainly) single guys wondering why after 2 days, 1 cock shot and a 5 word profile that they are not inundated with offers

But in general I love this site!

Ha ha I've had that cos the guy wanted to finger me whilst we were there, or we could come back to my work and find a cupboard to fuck in

A cupboard worked for Boris Becker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Massages/friends request/winks to my hidden profile: why?!!

I was just thinking about that seeing as i'm hidden too. Maybe they think they can see your profile/pics once they're friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cunts...

and i dont mean genitalia...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest annoyance for me is people taking this site or themselves too seriously. Sex and talking about sex should be fun. Should be no reason for anyone to get nasty but sadly it happens too often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

"
people who nag

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

My biggest annoyance is meets when your let down, why arrange then cancel. Latest being tonight half hour before meet. Leaves you feeling distraught and annoyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who repeat themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who read the message you send, and then never reply. A simple 'Thanks but no' would suffice."

So today I'd have to reply to 671 messages??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who read the message you send, and then never reply. A simple 'Thanks but no' would suffice.

So today I'd have to reply to 671 messages??????"

Yes! Yes you do. With a minimum 500 word reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's those, "Most annoying things about fab"threads on the forum that really get my goat up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who read the message you send, and then never reply. A simple 'Thanks but no' would suffice.

So today I'd have to reply to 671 messages??????

Yes! Yes you do. With a minimum 500 word reply.

Honestly some of u lot expect that :p

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"People who read the message you send, and then never reply. A simple 'Thanks but no' would suffice.

So today I'd have to reply to 671 messages??????"

Well if you did 100 today, there'd only be 571 tomorrow, 100 tomorrow 471 the next day, etc etc, and it would stop the repeat mailers

Either that or change your location to the Outer Hebrides......

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

There would be 100 more the next day

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

Our biggest annoyance?

Liars!

Guys (We are sorry, but this is reality) who pretend to be couples wo coax you into sending "Face" pics and the disappear or block you!!

Are we that ugly??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who don't look at profiles.

Or add you as a friend before speaking to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitchy couples that think men should b grovelling at their feet....although I would sexually

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think probably people moaning on the forums about:

Lack of meets

No replies to messages

Rude people

Time wasters

Block/delete/ignore/move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finding someone who meets all your requirements only to realise they live too far away. ..

This, or being sent a wonderful message by a woman or couple, who like you, and you like back - fit every criteria, yet they are too far, or become inactive.

Also, a pessimistic note. Those individuals who come on here, chat, add you as a friend, then either block you or delete their profile.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"One word messages

One line messages

Unsolicited friend requests when we've not even exchanged a hello

People who manipulate their profiles to try to fit our criteria"

Shit!! That's me buggered then. (sighs)

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Timewasters and nob jocks"

What's a nob jock?

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By *ojo1964Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

1. People who say "send photo of face", when they don't have any photos at all.

2. Profiles that state that they'll only reply to messages with a photo attach, then they don't reply.

3. When you write a message with a photo, they block you

4. Hidden profiles. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tribute pics,only discovered this "phenomenon" tonight but I'd already put it in the annoyance category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know what pisses me off my memory I can't remember what pisses me off

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

Totally agree with the sentiment in this post. You win the forum today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal pet hate is " single women ' profiles that within the first paragraph mention a boyfriend, partner, lover. ... So basically a couple, or worse, a man using a photo of an ex to play with couples or ladies. Argh! Honesty is so important and feeling used such a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older people that look down on younger people and tell them to go out clubbing like normal young people.

Men that message over and over when you haven't replied to the last 1000 messages they've sent.

Being miles away from all the people I want to fuck.

Snidey messages about my pics and fetishes.

That's about it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(1) people who complain about time wasters - is your time really that precious?

Er yes it is. I'm working pretty much non stop for the next three weeks. A potential meet knew this, I cleared another appointment for him and still bailed on me. That time could have been spent with someone else."
Totally agree with this. Having a young family trying to coordinate availability,baby sitters and mother nature is not easy, then for some fuckwit to let you down last minute it so frustrating, as it may be months before we get another opportunity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(1) people who complain about time wasters - is your time really that precious?

Er yes it is. I'm working pretty much non stop for the next three weeks. A potential meet knew this, I cleared another appointment for him and still bailed on me. That time could have been spent with someone else. Totally agree with this. Having a young family trying to coordinate availability,baby sitters and mother nature is not easy, then for some fuckwit to let you down last minute it so frustrating, as it may be months before we get another opportunity..."

I totally agree however, many that moan about time wasters haven't really had their time wasted ie they've been chatting then nothing comes of it. That's all part of the selection process and they'd probably be on here chatting to other people anyway. There seems to be a few that wrongly assume if you're chatting you're guaranteed a meet. I assume and expect nothing on here.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"(1) people who complain about time wasters - is your time really that precious?

Er yes it is. I'm working pretty much non stop for the next three weeks. A potential meet knew this, I cleared another appointment for him and still bailed on me. That time could have been spent with someone else. Totally agree with this. Having a young family trying to coordinate availability,baby sitters and mother nature is not easy, then for some fuckwit to let you down last minute it so frustrating, as it may be months before we get another opportunity...

I don't 'expect' a meet if I've been chatting with someone, but I don't appreciate being let down at the last minute if we've arranged to meet. That is definitely time wasted in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(1) people who complain about time wasters - is your time really that precious?

Er yes it is. I'm working pretty much non stop for the next three weeks. A potential meet knew this, I cleared another appointment for him and still bailed on me. That time could have been spent with someone else. Totally agree with this. Having a young family trying to coordinate availability,baby sitters and mother nature is not easy, then for some fuckwit to let you down last minute it so frustrating, as it may be months before we get another opportunity...

I don't 'expect' a meet if I've been chatting with someone, but I don't appreciate being let down at the last minute if we've arranged to meet. That is definitely time wasted in my opinion."

Yes it has but I'm referring to so many who think chatting then nothing coming from it is time wasting, its not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(1) people who complain about time wasters - is your time really that precious?

Er yes it is. I'm working pretty much non stop for the next three weeks. A potential meet knew this, I cleared another appointment for him and still bailed on me. That time could have been spent with someone else. Totally agree with this. Having a young family trying to coordinate availability,baby sitters and mother nature is not easy, then for some fuckwit to let you down last minute it so frustrating, as it may be months before we get another opportunity...

I don't 'expect' a meet if I've been chatting with someone, but I don't appreciate being let down at the last minute if we've arranged to meet. That is definitely time wasted in my opinion."
Ok t

Lets rephrase it as ' the time and availability to play wasted' rather than wasted time...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Friends requests, when you have not even spoken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who clearly state preferences in their profile only to change their mind when you tell them you don't share interests etc.

Such as guys who say they are submissive and then say they aren't really when you tell them it's not your thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who clearly state preferences in their profile only to change their mind when you tell them you don't share interests etc.

Such as guys who say they are submissive and then say they aren't really when you tell them it's not your thing. "

Or guys with a 9 inch cock that suddenly shrinks to 6 inch when you say you don't like big cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People misusing words like Athletic and Slim.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

23 year old swingers looking for 6 packs with a Brad Pitt face and a supermodel to meet with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a message from a couple while your'e online. Then sending a reply and it turns out to be just the man, saying wife is working and hes feeling horny and can you just talk dirty to him while he wanks!

Makes me wild and NOT in a horny way!

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

"People who clearly state preferences in their profile only to change their mind when you tell them you don't share interests etc.

Such as guys who say they are submissive and then say they aren't really when you tell them it's not your thing.

Or guys with a 9 inch cock that suddenly shrinks to 6 inch when you say you don't like big cocks

I wish I had a 9 inch cock, instead of this huge great big thing I've got!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One self opinionated single bi woman turned me down because I did not have an 8" cock. I told her straight, I am not having 2" cut off for anyone!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Timewasters and nob jocks

What's a nob jock?"

I get annoyed when I don't get a simple question answered. Grrrr. !!! POP!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters, veri hunters

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with what annoys you, but would like to add the following:

People saying they will only meet good looking/attractive people- how can this be defined? What one person claims to be attractive another won't. It's really off putting for me, especially if i receive a message saying they want someone attractive...

Or another one would be them claiming to be good looking/attractive, as much as I respect their opinion of themselves it's like they're saying no one else can say differently. They may claim to be good looking, but to me they may not be. It feels like it's arrogance coming across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Timewasters and nob jocks

What's a nob jock?

I get annoyed when I don't get a simple question answered. Grrrr. !!! POP!!!"

It's a knob jockey. Which someone who literaqlly rides someone elses dick. But not in sex, it's a euphamism for something normal but i can't remember what.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Getting a message from a couple while your'e online. Then sending a reply and it turns out to be just the man, saying wife is working and hes feeling horny and can you just talk dirty to him while he wanks!

Makes me wild and NOT in a horny way!

This really happens sad so sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with what annoys you, but would like to add the following:

I'm convinced that some people actually start to believe their own hype. Because they are getting lots of sexual attention they assume its because they are stunningly attractive. They forget that we are on a swinging site and most people are not here to go fishing and eat donuts. Were here for sex. Hence the increased level of sexual attention.

Whenever I see "very attractive" witten on a profile I take a look at the pics. More often than not I assume that beauty truly must be in the eye of the beholder. Either that or Jabba the Hutt has just hijacked all of their photos

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over a year ago

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By *carlett696969Couple
over a year ago

shropshire/london

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"Ok, so e might have a couple.

1. People (usually men), who don't bother reading profiles......straight to pics, wink, invite, message with a pointless 'how are yous'. (yous is not a word!!!!).

2. Failure to notice that we are a couple. It says fairly clearly that we are, so why refer to us in the singular?

3. Text speak!!! The odd word here or there shortened is fine, but an entire sentence! It takes us old ones a lot longer to determine what is being said.

Ok, so we are grumpy gits, but we surely aren't the only ones.........are we? xxx

All of the above (especially number 1).

People not taking no for an answer. I really don't like blocking people but I've had guys after specifically being told no carry on messaging.

I've started getting more offers in exchange for money lately, this is so rude and disrespectful. I don't know what they're thinking?

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