FabSwingers.com forum: Sleep over's

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you encourage these? I guess this is a question for singleton's mostly but all opinions welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you encourage these? I guess this is a question for singleton's mostly but all opinions welcome. "

I can answer this from two sides as I was on here when single for a while.. and no I would not encourage a sleep over. For me its about the sex, not interested in cuddling up before or after.. its hi, play and seeya..

As a couple I most definately would not even though I meet most of the guys alone without Master there in person. I would not ever have someone stop over.

To be fair stopping for more than an hour is more than I would have.

Katie.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

we dont have people stayiing over and we dont stay over with others.somehow we feel it would spoil the fun that we have after a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a playmate who lives in Wilmslow. As I live in London I stop over at his. The thing is from the moment he picks me up from the station on a Friday, until he returns me to the station on Sunday he is totally and completely my slave. Being in control of someone in their home is amazing.

Outside of that, as the rest of my playmates are local no...they can sleep in their own beds.

Besides, most nights one or more of my daughters will be at home and I don't intend having a strange man bump into them on the way to the bathroom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had someone stay overnight once, it seemed right and he did travel some distance to meet me, nice gentleman too

but i only let him because my son wasnt home, wouldnt do it then. Ive also stayed at someones home too overnight, sex for breakfast, what a lovely way to wake up

i guess it depends on the person, most of the time i prefer to go home to my bed

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We do have sleep-overs, but only with good friends, not on first meets. We've tried sleeping 4 to a bed, but even in a king-size it's not practical, so we swap into separate rooms, although we always all get back together in one bed the following morning. Sleep-overs add an extra dimension; it's actually very erotic to fall asleep with someone else, just like having an affair as R says. And it's great to be woken up in the night by the noises of sex in the next room, which always sets the other couple off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's actually very erotic to fall asleep with someone else, just like having an affair as R says. "

See that for me sums up what a sleep over would be.. it would be the same as an affair.. I could not imagine ever falling asleep with a man other than Master. Even if it was Master and another man.. other man would always get sent out after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do have sleep-overs, but only with good friends, not on first meets. We've tried sleeping 4 to a bed, but even in a king-size it's not practical, so we swap into separate rooms, although we always all get back together in one bed the following morning. Sleep-overs add an extra dimension; it's actually very erotic to fall asleep with someone else, just like having an affair as R says. And it's great to be woken up in the night by the noises of sex in the next room, which always sets the other couple off.

I think you hit the nail on the head there. Falling asleep with someone for me borders on the 'affair' thing which is something I'm not looking for. A good friend of mine on here laughs when I say to her that I am the origional fuck and run girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you hit the nail on the head there. Falling asleep with someone for me borders on the 'affair' thing which is something I'm not looking for. A good friend of mine on here laughs when I say to her that I am the origional fuck and run girl!! "

I like to do that too though.. and for me that is how it should be.. They know what you want, you know what they want.. you both get it and bye bye. :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like to do that too though.. and for me that is how it should be.. They know what you want, you know what they want.. you both get it and bye bye. :D "

A girl after my own heart!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Depends really... I generally travel to meet the people I play with at the moment (hence the search for someone local) or they come to me. I don't have any issues about sleepovers... I'm horny in the morning so having someone there is sometimes a bonus.

I could really do with a local fuck and fuck off sort though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you encourage these? I guess this is a question for singleton's mostly but all opinions welcome. "

I dont encourage it, but I have had sleepovers, since I generally accommodate, its tends to be a coffee before play, then bye bye. Though if someone is driving to mine say on a Friday/Saturday night and we are having a drink, I dont mind them staying over, but the minute I open my eyes in the morning, its time for them to go, if im in a good mood, I will make them a cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you encourage these? I guess this is a question for singleton's mostly but all opinions welcome.

I'll bear that in mind!!

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By *anzellMan
over a year ago

Essex

I love all night fun...sleep or no sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the longer the distance traveled, I would maybe and this is just a maybe, give you a slice of toast with that tea.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not very many but a couple of my really good friends stay over sometimes. They all live miles away so sometimes its the sensible option. Also if they want to have a beer as they only got to have 3 to be over the limit. But there are very few that i will let see me first thing in the morning

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We wouldn't say we 'encourage' it but we have had people stay over in the past and one couple in particular stay when they meet us as they live such a long way away. Usually though people are within driving distance so it's not a problem. We don't all share the same bed though, and we sleep with our own partners! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the longer the distance traveled, I would maybe and this is just a maybe, give you a slice of toast with that tea.

Can I have the toast buttered?!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"We wouldn't say we 'encourage' it but we have had people stay over in the past and one couple in particular stay when they meet us as they live such a long way away. Usually though people are within driving distance so it's not a problem. We don't all share the same bed though, and we sleep with our own partners! Z"

We have done that a couple of times, but have Grandchildren some weekends so can be a no no... Have no problem with people staying for breakfast once the building work is done and the bedrooms completed, BUT...

Even if a couple stay overnight, we still like to start playing at a reasonable time and not at 2am! We think it can be nice to have a lazy breakfast and a chinwag before they or we (if we travelled) head for home

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Not really a sleep over - but a guy we met stayed at the same hotel overnight! Not in the same room

- but we had breakfast together then played again for another couple of hours!!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We have on our profile:

Thanks, but no thanks to any offer to stay overnight, we're looking for sexual fun, and not really up for social interaction the morning after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are we talking here...

Sleepover in same bed as your play mate (I guess mainly for singles) or a sleepover in a seperate room?

We have slept over at couples houses before in their spare bedroom, don't see an issue with it as long as all agree. No way would I, Steve sleepover while playing alone unless an emergency and a spare bed/couch was available. I guess it depends on situation and what people are looking for from the site.

We have had a couple stay at ours for a weekend while they were visiting Scotland, stayed on a sofa bed but we did play in the evenings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last sleepver i had was in the 3rd year at school. My mate moggy got his chemistry set out and we set fire to his duvet...his mum wasn't happy.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"Last sleepver i had was in the 3rd year at school. My mate moggy got his chemistry set out and we set fire to his duvet...his mum wasn't happy."

What a coincidence! I had a moggy that was chased by Mum and it knocked over a test tube with sulphuric acid over onto the fire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is freaky...Sulphuric acid eh? haven;t had any dealing with that since science in school. When we used to flick on the gas taps before the lesson ended

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I can play solo but find the idea that I would sleepover at a playmate's slightly weird (and I'd have to explain it to the kids in the morning..) I arranged a meet last week and was rather surprised that they expected me to sleep over and have fun in the morning - a nice idea, yes, but something I could only do with prior planning.

I do, however, have a semi-regular friend with benefits and I always sleep over with them if I possibly can - and, yes, it's more affair-like than fuck-and-flee scenarios except for the fact that therapy is aware and that there's no romance involved, just lots of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single I've shared hotel rooms with a playmate, mainly down to cost, but I don't like it at all. I am too used to sleeping alone, I fidget really badly, sleep on both sides of the bed and snore too. I love sex first thing but want to be able to have a shower and brush my teeth first as ever since a man told me big birds smell I am totally paranoid about hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like having people over to stay but sleep in our own beds.

We usually play until around 3 or 4 A.M and would never dream of expecting guests to drive home at that time, especially if they've had a drink.

Besides, there may be more fun to be had in the morning as well as a nice fry up before they depart.

However, we can well understand single women being more wary.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"As a single I've shared hotel rooms with a playmate, mainly down to cost, but I don't like it at all. I am too used to sleeping alone, I fidget really badly, sleep on both sides of the bed and snore too. I love sex first thing but want to be able to have a shower and brush my teeth first as ever since a man told me big birds smell I am totally paranoid about hygiene

You sound like a woman after my own heart... it's been alleged that I snore and even occasionally talk in my sleep - I think it's all bollocks personally. I also have to brush my teeth first thing in the morning... there's few things worse than a bad case of morning breath to make someone instantly less attractive.

ps - I think you got it wrong, the man was referring to Big Bird, y'know the large, yellow, fluffy animal from Sesame Street. Apparently he smells quite bad... something to do with him living on a street near all those dustbins.

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By *ohnsusCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We have a couple who we meet regularly who travel a long way and sleep over. As others have said, it's only right if people are travelling a long distance to offer them the opportunity to sleep over if they want.

With this particular couple we have a nice meal together and then we all play together after which we do swap into separate bedrooms for more fun/sleep. This allows for additional fun both during the night and in the morning. When we get up we have breakfast together and then they head home. With them this scenario works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stayed over with a couple the second time they invited me to there place. We ended up good friends for 5 years, and always stayed over. We were 100 miles apart, so it made sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people are coming to us from afar we always offer for them to stay over if they wish, that way we can all play for as long as wanted and then relax have a drink and a chat, maybe a meal and then to bed to sleep before breaky next morning. What beeter than a good fuck sess then a good breaky next morning. x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i have a couple of play maes that i let sleep over at mine eve hough they only live locally - why?? because morning sex is the best way to start the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a friend who lives in Essex and time to time we do go and spent a weekend together, its about friendship but lately has bee more about sex

so last few times its been sex from the min i walked in to the min i walked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have playmates who live a long way away, so sleepover is a must for them.

Now that I no longer entertain at home, playmates are welcomed to stay at the hotel room while I head back home to tend to the pets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have holiday homes here i rent out and if free and i know the person ,, i am happy for them to sleep over even go in the hot tub and pool sauna,, lol x as long as i can go with them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have holiday homes here i rent out and if free and i know the person ,, i am happy for them to sleep over even go in the hot tub and pool sauna,, lol x as long as i can go with them x"
as my house gests .. nice having my friends over x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how well i knows the person

Fa one off meets then no very likely xx

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