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By *emel9 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Ok maybe the subject is a little misleading.

Many profiles here say no cock pics, some say please include cock pics, some say nothing and then moan when you don't include one, or you do.

Is it as simple as....wait to be asked...or is it REALLY that bad to get one in a message?

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By *om Tom 1969Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I prefer to have them on my profile, then if the person wants to see them, then they have a choice. I can fully understand why some people are offended if you just send one, especially in your first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe the subject is a little misleading.

Many profiles here say no cock pics, some say please include cock pics, some say nothing and then moan when you don't include one, or you do.

Is it as simple as....wait to be asked...or is it REALLY that bad to get one in a message?

"

I like to receive one in a message BUT along with a face picture and a body picture please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really like cock pics. I would prefer if guys just send a face pic. If they send both, then fine, I'll just ignore the cock pic. If they just send a cock pic, then I'll likely reject them.

-Courtney

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By *emel9 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

ok interesting...I'd of thought just sending a cock pic is strange, but I get the impression some guys do just that...no face pic as well...

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By *eddevil555Couple
over a year ago

essex

We prefer to see a cock pic to a face pic in the first instance, but were more shallow about what we want than other folks are, truth is everyone is looking for different things so there's no real right or wrong way unless specifically set out by the person your messaging, but just a face is far less likely to offend anyone, or no pic at all, perhaps just asking what they would like to see?

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

For me (Elle) I'm a picky girl, I prefere length an girth, for me there's no point in seeing a face pic an thinking "oh he's nice" then to find out that the size of his cock doesn't match what I like. Call it shallow, but as Red devil said above, is that everyone has there own wants, I'm looking for a good fuck, not a life partner, a good sized cock gets me wetter than a picture perfect poster boy. Just my preference, I've had small an it doesn't do much for me,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok maybe the subject is a little misleading.

Many profiles here say no cock pics, some say please include cock pics, some say nothing and then moan when you don't include one, or you do.

Is it as simple as....wait to be asked...or is it REALLY that bad to get one in a message?

"

What about you ask if and when they want to see one?

I can well understand that it's difficult to know what to do so taking matters into your own hands so to speak could be the way forward.

I would never send out the female equivalent though, even if I was asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to read this, I don't understand women hating a cock pic when surely the reason shesshe's on here is for some cock? Is it not better to have a look and pic exactly what u want, its like shopping blindfolded, makes no sense, I even privated my Dick pic on advice of a cpl women on here but now I'm feeling that's just them and their probably not the kind of woman I'm tryna meet. Gosh

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have no cock pic on display.

Many meets later it has never been a problem.

On a very rare occasion I have been asked for one. But that is very rare.

Ladies don't think like men and unless it is extreme in size (either way) it means little in the overall experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad to read this, I don't understand women hating a cock pic when surely the reason shesshe's on here is for some cock? Is it not better to have a look and pic exactly what u want, its like shopping blindfolded, makes no sense, I even privated my Dick pic on advice of a cpl women on here but now I'm feeling that's just them and their probably not the kind of woman I'm tryna meet. Gosh"

I'm not on here for cock. I don't know about other women. I'm here for sex and sexual experiences. Cock is part of that, but it isn't everything. I've never asked to see a cock pic, and I've never left a meet because I didn't like a guy's cock.

His body is a different matter. But that's just me. You should run your profile as you see fit.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to see a cock before I meet a man. If I get a message with a cock only attached I'm very rarely interested. I'm not here for the cock,I'm here for memorable encounters with men who use more than their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rules on this are simple. If a woman messages me, and she has a cock, I'd at least like some pre warning. It doesn't have to be a pic, but just tell me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what I hate is if a guy messages me and I see there are pics attached...I read the message then scroll down to find 7 or 8 pics of him receiving BJs off 7 or 8 different women!! WTF is that all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile says no cock pics,then don't send a cock pic,if they don't mention cock pics you got to make a judgement call n hope you get it right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok interesting...I'd of thought just sending a cock pic is strange, but I get the impression some guys do just that...no face pic as well...

"

I delete these messages, i'm looking for more than a dildo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really like cock pics. I would prefer if guys just send a face pic. If they send both, then fine, I'll just ignore the cock pic. If they just send a cock pic, then I'll likely reject them.

-Courtney"

Same here!! Far more interested in the face, body and personality than I am in the appearance of the cock! X

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"For me (Elle) I'm a picky girl, I prefere length an girth, for me there's no point in seeing a face pic an thinking "oh he's nice" then to find out that the size of his cock doesn't match what I like. Call it shallow, but as Red devil said above, is that everyone has there own wants, I'm looking for a good fuck, not a life partner, a good sized cock gets me wetter than a picture perfect poster boy. Just my preference, I've had small an it doesn't do much for me, "
What is your perfect size?

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By *emel9 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Glad to have generated some debate, and nice to see responses from couples, women and men...interesting thoughts.

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon


"For me (Elle) I'm a picky girl, I prefere length an girth, for me there's no point in seeing a face pic an thinking "oh he's nice" then to find out that the size of his cock doesn't match what I like. Call it shallow, but as Red devil said above, is that everyone has there own wants, I'm looking for a good fuck, not a life partner, a good sized cock gets me wetter than a picture perfect poster boy. Just my preference, I've had small an it doesn't do much for me, What is your perfect size?"

Between 7-11" I like deep penetration

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon


"Glad to have generated some debate, and nice to see responses from couples, women and men...interesting thoughts."

In fairness virtually all questions ever asked in these forums usually results in generally the same answers, but will always land on personal choice as the bottom line, a good post is one where people will explain an answer, not just yes or no it.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I don't have a cock pic and was recently blocked by someone who didn't believe me. Happily send a face pic and I ave body shots on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad to read this, I don't understand women hating a cock pic when surely the reason shesshe's on here is for some cock? Is it not better to have a look and pic exactly what u want, its like shopping blindfolded, makes no sense, I even privated my Dick pic on advice of a cpl women on here but now I'm feeling that's just them and their probably not the kind of woman I'm tryna meet. Gosh"

I'm not on here for 'some cock'. I have several of those in my bedside drawer. Many of them vibrate too, unlike the real thing.

They are however, pretty crap at conversation.

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon


"

They are however, pretty crap at conversation."

Guess it's our luck but most of the guys we've tried to speak to only end up using one word answers. Again I'd say it entirely depends what a person wants. I want to fuck not talk about my week, I do that enough in my vanilla life, but as long as they have an easy going attitude I'm happy.

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By *uby_xWoman
over a year ago

funky town

When reading a message with pictures attached i will usually look at the face pic only. I've had meets without seeing any cock pics before, makes it a nice surprise....well most of the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever sent a cock pic & don't plan to start anytime soon. Missed out on a meet recently as she asked for one in her second message but I won't lose sleep over that one.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"ok interesting...I'd of thought just sending a cock pic is strange, but I get the impression some guys do just that...no face pic as well...

"

Along with the riveting message Hi or howz use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its fine to have one on your public pics but you shouldnt attach it to your first message or set it as your avatar. Doing either will pretty much get you ignored by us. If its in your public pics its up to us if we want to look at it or not then. Plus guys really dont need countless cock pics. One or two is plenty. Each to thier own but thats my view.

Her.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I think its fine to have one on your public pics but you shouldnt attach it to your first message or set it as your avatar. Doing either will pretty much get you ignored by us. If its in your public pics its up to us if we want to look at it or not then. Plus guys really dont need countless cock pics. One or two is plenty. Each to thier own but thats my view.

Her."

I've only got one cock so I only took one picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe the subject is a little misleading.

Many profiles here say no cock pics, some say please include cock pics, some say nothing and then moan when you don't include one, or you do.

Is it as simple as....wait to be asked...or is it REALLY that bad to get one in a message?

"

I used to have cock pics on my profile but now there all friends only or private. If a woman wants to see your cock she won't hesitate in asking. I recommend you read the profile before messaging and if it doesn't ask for one don't send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe the subject is a little misleading.

Many profiles here say no cock pics, some say please include cock pics, some say nothing and then moan when you don't include one, or you do.

Is it as simple as....wait to be asked...or is it REALLY that bad to get one in a message?

I used to have cock pics on my profile but now there all friends only or private. If a woman wants to see your cock she won't hesitate in asking. I recommend you read the profile before messaging and if it doesn't ask for one don't send one.

"

Disclaimer....

Floppy cocks don't count lol

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