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How you feel before the meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I wondered how people feel when they first meet someone (a stranger) for the first time to have sexual fun? What do you feel like sacred, nervous, have butterflies or very confident lol?

I never met anyone off here yet but the thought of it make me nervous that you will be having the most intimate sex with someone you dont really know....it seems scary but also exciting and the thrill of it..

Just curious about how people feel before they meet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optimistic usually.

I hope they won't be selfish and we'll fancy each other. I'm preferring regular meets at the minute then i know what i'm getting is gonna be good.

Not really feeling 'it' for a lot of guys lately and they're putting me off sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the first meet, I don't meet someone for any sexual intimacy as I have to feel attracted to someone, therefore I meet in a mutual place first to see if there is then plan from there on.

The first time I was a little nervous, now it's a bit more of Fed up feeling and optimistic, due to past experiences and people not looking like their photos. Which is what puts me off meeting people this way and rather stick to a club, that way it gets done easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually had our first meet with another couple this past weekend...we were both very nervous but also excited. The anticipation was nearly overwhelming. We had made contact with the couple thru another site so we had lots of pics of them and they of us but other than a few text messages and emails that was our only contact. We met them at their house and we couldn't have asked for a better introduction to the lifestyle, they quickly made us feel at ease and though still nervous the predominant emotion throughout the nite was definitely excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nervous sick butterflies the lot and that was just meeting for a coffee lol now 4meets with the same guy is just filled with lust haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nervous and excited but I lose the nervousness as soon as my clothes are off and the excitement can stay for a long time.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Hopeful.......that it will last longer than 5 minutes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hopeful.......that it will last longer than 5 minutes "
I can strip slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous ,excited ,butterflies for days even if its someone I've met before I get the same feelings although not quite as bad....and if its someone Ive met a few times then the feelings of lust take over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take time to get to know someone before we meet. I wouldn't meet anyone if I felt uncomfortable or unsure. I get excited about seeing him in the flesh. I don't get nervous about meeting,I get nervous about finding my way to where I'm going.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Nervous and excited all rolled into one think it's part of the buzz to be honest

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By *airy_HettyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Excited but nervous

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nervous and excited and the day that stops it will mean I've become complacent and I will stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nervous and excited and the day that stops it will mean I've become complacent and I will stop"

This

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

First meet is always a social meet .

Nervous ...then as I always turn up early so the woman I'm meeting doesn't have to walk into a pub alone and wait for me I start to worry abit about whether they will turn up .

When I get the message saying their out side the pub relief as I go outside to escort them in .

All normal emotions to have in any type of date situation the method of finding someone to meet ma be different but the emotion stay the sane .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I become expectant of a new discovery and a new learning opportunity so a tad excited and usually confident. Mwah x

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I get nervous before meets. Had two meets planned last weekend one cancelled then a no show. All that nervous energy for no reason.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Nervous, very nervous. We used to do social only meet before progressing, now we meet socially in public (hotel bar ideally) and if we click we progress same day. Had 2 incredible meets recently where things have clicked and the physical side was really enhanced, the nerves dissipated and everyone relaxed into it, really nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get excited about meets, even after seeing them 15 times

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlwnbcxBuzI

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I still get excited about meets, even after seeing them 15 times "
this is very true tho!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nervous is an under statement, even if we have met before. Worried I won't be able to please. Red

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

You don't really get any of those feelings in clubs as you don't go with that expectation. Which is quite a good thing!

On the odd meets we have done in private, been nervous but mainly excited.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous excitement. In a good way. It's part of what I enjoy, I'd miss it if I didn't feel that.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"You don't really get any of those feelings in clubs as you don't go with that expectation. Which is quite a good thing!

On the odd meets we have done in private, been nervous but mainly excited.

D"

we get even more nervous going to clubs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I feel so nervous, jittery & excited all in one go. Had 2 really good meets in a pub recently, plenty of chemistry, cudnt wait to undress each other! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous anticipation, it's lovely knowing that not long after meeting, your going to be fucking. Very liberating!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Excited usually. I meet for a social first so there's nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet.....butterflies, excited, nervous

Meets after that excited

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

Always nervous at first. But once you start chatting the nervousness tends to disappear. Until it comes down to asking 'your place or mine' when you leave the bar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had 1 meet so far I was very nervous but found chatting helped and I soon felt at ease

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Nervous and excited and the day that stops it will mean I've become complacent and I will stop"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous as hell, sometimes it is visable as in a slight shake to the hands. That sometimes is a bonus later on in the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel nauseous then aghast followed by joyous then deceived, finally I feel awashed with my own magnificence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scared almost witless but riding the buzz and the anticipation

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By *nnovator75Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

It made my heart race, we were both nervous but we ended up having a great evening.

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands

Ready for a great evening and wondering how many won't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nervous excitement. In a good way. It's part of what I enjoy, I'd miss it if I didn't feel that."

....and if it got to a time when I didn't felt that anymore, I'd walk away from them / this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only met couples in pubs so far for social meets. It's strange how different people look with the clothes on and I'm Worried I won't recognise them. Since we have never gone with Any expectations then we have not felt those nerves yet. However OH does say as we pull into the car park that the nerves are kicking in but I don't think that lasts long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous as fuck ahahah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once meeting for a social I was so nervous I needed chocolate to calm my stomach!

Now I'm calmer, but I'm a grinning loon for days before and after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once meeting for a social I was so nervous I needed chocolate to calm my stomach!

Now I'm calmer, but I'm a grinning loon for days before and after "

Any excuse to eat chocolate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nervous excitement. In a good way. It's part of what I enjoy, I'd miss it if I didn't feel that.

....and if it got to a time when I didn't felt that anymore, I'd walk away from them / this."

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once meeting for a social I was so nervous I needed chocolate to calm my stomach!

Now I'm calmer, but I'm a grinning loon for days before and after

Any excuse to eat chocolate...."

Excuse?

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over a year ago

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By *l4shareMan
over a year ago

Peterborough area

Mixture of nervousness and amusement that I'm about to fuck someone else's wife/gf and they're ok about it.

How good is that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Super nervous, really really bad when getting ready but completely at ease at the club. I feel excited the days before the meet. We have only had about two hotel meets so the last one I was so nervous I felt sick. Don't really know what I'm nervous about because it's not there when having sex at all.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of like a nervous excitement, I love go over in my head what I'm going to be doing and saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel a mixture of apprehensive and excited. But if I feel I've got to know the guy pretty well online then why waste the first meeting on just being social!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Excited

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