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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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and that is why we joined lovely fab swingers.

However, that really doesn’t mean we will just do anyone because we are on lovely fabs!!

I am sure that men get this too (always PC me lol), but it is becoming increasingly obvious that there are aheeeem quite a few guys on here that really do believe 2 things are true of women on here:

1) She is a female on a singers site

2) That means no matter how old I am, where abouts in the country I live, what I look like, what the quality of the first message I send her is like, she will be very grateful I got in touch and will drop everything to fuck me!!!

Deep breaths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That just about sums up 90% of the men on here... The other 10% get their just rewards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And because there are so many men compared to ladies, a lot of ladies get away with putting no effort into their profile or meets!

But whilst the ratio is as it is they will get away with it.

If either men or ladies went to a club and tried the same they would be 'billy no mates'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And because there are so many men compared to ladies, a lot of ladies get away with putting no effort into their profile or meets!

But whilst the ratio is as it is they will get away with it.

If either men or ladies went to a club and tried the same they would be 'billy no mates'."
this is also very true...God its a fickle world we live in xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And because there are so many men compared to ladies, a lot of ladies get away with putting no effort into their profile or meets!

But whilst the ratio is as it is they will get away with it.

If either men or ladies went to a club and tried the same they would be 'billy no mates'."

Hmmm wonders if you have read my profile? I put lots of effort into my meets as well, when I choose to meet that is. Isnt it about just meeting people we click with, or fancy etc. Surely it should never be about just fucking anyone because of some kind of unwritten rule that we should just because we are swingers? I really do wonder if some of the men on here actually even like women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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and that is why we joined lovely fab swingers.

However, that really doesn’t mean we will just do anyone because we are on lovely fabs!!

I am sure that men get this too (always PC me lol), but it is becoming increasingly obvious that there are aheeeem quite a few guys on here that really do believe 2 things are true of women on here:

1) She is a female on a singers site

Deep breaths.

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I liked scenario 1 what do you like to sing and do you do it in bed ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" . . .

and that is why we joined lovely fab swingers.

However, that really doesn’t mean we will just do anyone because we are on lovely fabs!!

I am sure that men get this too (always PC me lol), but it is becoming increasingly obvious that there are aheeeem quite a few guys on here that really do believe 2 things are true of women on here:

1) She is a female on a singers site

Deep breaths.

I liked scenario 1 what do you like to sing and do you do it in bed ? Xx

Pmsl, whoospy, got to love a spelling mistake

Errrrrrm singing 'because Im happy, clap along if you feel that happiness is the truth'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That just about sums up 90% of the men on here... The other 10% get their just rewards"

For a moment there I thought your comment read "The other 10% are just retards" ?

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And because there are so many men compared to ladies, a lot of ladies get away with putting no effort into their profile or meets!

But whilst the ratio is as it is they will get away with it.

If either men or ladies went to a club and tried the same they would be 'billy no mates'.

I think the comment was a generalisation and not aimed at you specifically. The learned tent was merely saying that due to ratio of men to women on here, that some women make no or very little effort with their profiles as they know they will be inundated with offers regardless.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And because there are so many men compared to ladies, a lot of ladies get away with putting no effort into their profile or meets!

But whilst the ratio is as it is they will get away with it.

If either men or ladies went to a club and tried the same they would be 'billy no mates'.

As you have said, you put effort in.

But because the ratio of men to ladies is so unbalanced, many dont.

Typical (of both sexes) no pic just 'looking for nsa meets'.

We all want dif things from here.

I was on with my wife for ten years. Had loads of fun and put a lot of effort into our profile. Including poems jokes etc. Updated sometimes daily.

No negatives on it.

My wife has decided to stop swinging for now and is happy for me to be here,(but tbh i am here only half heartedly).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gent not tent.. Bloody autocorrect

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

" I really do wonder if some of the men on here actually even like women.

Have you seen the way some women/men behave on here and they wonder why things happen ?

It is truly staggering at times and I do wonder how they cope with everyday life.

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

It's true women and couples are in higher demand so surely it makes sense that if men want to meet they have to make a good impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just think perhaps I live in a bubble, my own world where people are nice and polite. We are all here for different things and just need to find others who share or are looking for similar. I dont see the need for some of the abuse and hate that sometimes seems to filter through. Such anger on a site that is about lots of fun stuff.

Dont get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's true women and couples are in higher demand so surely it makes sense that if men want to meet they have to make a good impression "

But that should not be a valid reason for ladies or couples to not make an effort!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I just think perhaps I live in a bubble, my own world where people are nice and polite. We are all here for different things and just need to find others who share or are looking for similar. I dont see the need for some of the abuse and hate that sometimes seems to filter through. Such anger on a site that is about lots of fun stuff.

Dont get it

take control and do the searching for people who seem to match with what you are looking for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" . . .

and that is why we joined lovely fab swingers.

However, that really doesn’t mean we will just do anyone because we are on lovely fabs!!

I am sure that men get this too (always PC me lol), but it is becoming increasingly obvious that there are aheeeem quite a few guys on here that really do believe 2 things are true of women on here:

1) She is a female on a singers site

Deep breaths.

I liked scenario 1 what do you like to sing and do you do it in bed ? Xx

Pmsl, whoospy, got to love a spelling mistake

Errrrrrm singing 'because Im happy, clap along if you feel that happiness is the truth'"
I am clapping along to like a virgin kissed for the very first time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's true women and couples are in higher demand so surely it makes sense that if men want to meet they have to make a good impression "
This is true but it still does not mean that couples or fems can make no effort

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

I agree. But it's just that much harder for single guys. I would hate to think how hard it would be to get a meet without my lovely wife Lisa

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

I think you have to put it down to frustration,wrong as it is .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First impressions are always key I find. I try and write a few polite lines and invite a look at my profile... Which is more than one paragraph!

Also no cock pics unless requested.

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