FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Negative messages

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others? "

I've just had two there myself... Bloody keyboard warrior trolls

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why get upset by it. If it's random then ignore and block. It's easy. I wouldn't waste my energy being upset by a stranger.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why get upset by it. If it's random then ignore and block. It's easy. I wouldn't waste my energy being upset by a stranger."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I usually do...just wondered if they feel big by being a bully...or quote from a friend "have small willies" so they have the need to make themselves feel better hahaha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No idea you'd have to ask them?

And they don't upset or bother me I block delete and leave them to continue because no the sad sacks they are

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take any notice of them babe he prob just jel coz he carnt have you xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If I get any I usually reply politely... I love feeding trolls.... keeps me amused for hours!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't take any notice of them babe he prob just jel coz he carnt have you xx"

Cheers hun...Ive blocked him cos now all I can think of is 'saddo' for wasting his time. Hes not the only one....there are a few of them out there

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others? "

The fact that we're human. Likewise i don't understand why people post these messages on forums. You should know by now the human mind varies in some people...normally we move on and ignore it or block them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I get any I usually reply politely... I love feeding trolls.... keeps me amused for hours!

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will always be haters! Block delete and enjoy the lovely people

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ignore, block, report.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know to ignore block n report. Im just wondering wot kicks they get??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I know to ignore block n report. Im just wondering wot kicks they get?? "
dunno. brain dysfunction?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know to ignore block n report. Im just wondering wot kicks they get?? dunno. brain dysfunction? "

Dont they need a brain to be dysfunctional? Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I get any I usually reply politely... I love feeding trolls.... keeps me amused for hours!

"

me too, and it always backfires for them!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sad people usually driven by insecurity. Ignore, block and report I guess wouldn't let it get to you, if it has

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others? "

Their in pain they have a life so shit that they lash out trying to make themselves feel good at the expense of others .

Don't believe me then answer this when would any one in a good mood having fun living a great life behave like that .

The answer never

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hater gotta hate! But seriously just sad little people with nothing better to do! Being nice cost nowt and make for a happier with place I say

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...awwww...i want some..!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them as well.

Never had this myself but i can understand why it pisses you off.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I've only ever had one Nasty message. I replied to him very politely - asking him if I'd done something to hurt or upset him which he felt justified his unpleasantness - and he apologised within seconds! I like to think that I made him realise there's a human being with feelings attached to each profile! Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Why get upset by it. If it's random then ignore and block. It's easy. I wouldn't waste my energy being upset by a stranger."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm used to them

Men up here have a sense of humour bypass!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others? "

I usually get nasty messages once in a while when i'm in the chatrooms, I just laugh it off and move on and if they continue then just slap em up till they piss off.... simples

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others?

Their in pain they have a life so shit that they lash out trying to make themselves feel good at the expense of others .

Don't believe me then answer this when would any one in a good mood having fun living a great life behave like that .

The answer never "

Good point well made!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one the other day although thankfully its rare. Apparently being a fat oompah loompah I can't spout off with all my demands as I'm above my station looking like I do

Sad losers with no self confidence who feel the need to belittle others to make themselves feel better. Internet is full of them, I just have a good giggle at their pathetic immaturity!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others?

Their in pain they have a life so shit that they lash out trying to make themselves feel good at the expense of others .

Don't believe me then answer this when would any one in a good mood having fun living a great life behave like that .

The answer never

Good point well made!"

Why thank you one does try to always make sense

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I had a lovely one yesterday nicely insulting. His profile even boasted how he liked to message people just to wind them up. I asked him if it was a new fetishism or boredom. Reported and admin blocked him. The woman who verified him them messaged me to say I should if taken it as the joke it was intended. Pmsfl!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I know to ignore block n report. Im just wondering wot kicks they get?? "

Knowing it's bugged you enough that you wonder about it?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a lovely one yesterday nicely insulting. His profile even boasted how he liked to message people just to wind them up. I asked him if it was a new fetishism or boredom. Reported and admin blocked him. The woman who verified him them messaged me to say I should if taken it as the joke it was intended. Pmsfl!"

The woman was probably him! Sounds like he really needs to get a life!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I would toy with them, not by being nasty back, if anything be nice but play them at their own game.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I had a lovely one yesterday nicely insulting. His profile even boasted how he liked to message people just to wind them up. I asked him if it was a new fetishism or boredom. Reported and admin blocked him. The woman who verified him them messaged me to say I should if taken it as the joke it was intended. Pmsfl!

The woman was probably him! Sounds like he really needs to get a life!"

I thought that at first but u got a friend to look at her profile and it said she'd been on here over a year. What astonished me was he'd last 2 months and reckoned no one else had taken offence to his messages. Righto. I just congratulated him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would toy with them, not by being nasty back, if anything be nice but play them at their own game."

That's exactly what I do, its bloody hilarious at times. I'm overly nice and polite to them. The guy who said I couldn't demand stuff looking like an oompah loompah I said why not, I can do what I like as long as its not against site rules. He then said of course it was ok to be rude and obnoxious to which I replied thank fuck for that, I don't think I could have slept tonight worrying if you hadn't given me your approval. You sir are an absolute gent, you'll do well on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obbie BelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston, Lancaster, Blackpool

Peach sorry this is off topic.

But does regard messages.

I was pleased to make your acquaintance last night.

But can't message you for the information you proffered. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I would toy with them, not by being nasty back, if anything be nice but play them at their own game.

That's exactly what I do, its bloody hilarious at times. I'm overly nice and polite to them. The guy who said I couldn't demand stuff looking like an oompah loompah I said why not, I can do what I like as long as its not against site rules. He then said of course it was ok to be rude and obnoxious to which I replied thank fuck for that, I don't think I could have slept tonight worrying if you hadn't given me your approval. You sir are an absolute gent, you'll do well on here "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arks_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Warwick


"Why do people u never talked to before feel the need to message u with a nasty message? What kicks do they get by upsetting others? "

May be elements of how they look at women in general. And maybe some hint of racism.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peach sorry this is off topic.

But does regard messages.

I was pleased to make your acquaintance last night.

But can't message you for the information you proffered. X"

Lovely to meet you too love! Just pm'd you!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top