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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

How long after you read a profile and look at pics does it take you to decide to message? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make an immediate decision on whether I want to message or not.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I make an immediate decision on whether I want to message or not."

So you don't think too much or reread profile? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like what I read and see I'll message straight away, no point in hanging about...

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"If I like what I read and see I'll message straight away, no point in hanging about..."

So you don't think too much about it? Xx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Once we have read the profile and looked at the photos we make an instant decision whether we would like to send a message, how long it takes to write that message is another matter.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Once we have read the profile and looked at the photos we make an instant decision whether we would like to send a message, how long it takes to write that message is another matter. "

Oh why so? Are you a long message sender? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once profile pics have been viewed and profile read in full, I'm often ready to text right away if Im attracted to the faber and think I've got a realistic chance in a reply

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How long after you read a profile and look at pics does it take you to decide to message? Xx"
about 10 seconds.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

After narrowly missing a bad dangerous meet who had verris written by himself my warning bells were ringing, I take a close look so about 3-5 mins sometimes now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually message after a couple of minutes. It doesnt hurt to say hello and what is the worst thing that can happen, they say no.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I still find it difficult to message men. Am I too old fashioned?

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Usually message after a couple of minutes. It doesnt hurt to say hello and what is the worst thing that can happen, they say no."

The worst they can say is 'er I used to be a stripper why would I want a fat thing' E was not happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still find it difficult to message men. Am I too old fashioned?"

Just say hello, they will be shocked they got a message!! By messaging someone it does not mean you will be jumping into bed with them tomorrow. Dont be shy

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER


"I still find it difficult to message men. Am I too old fashioned?"

No I don't find you old fashioned. You use the site how you feel comfortable. There must be lots of ladies like you judging my the number of views I get and no messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my luck no matter what

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I try my luck no matter what "

And how does that work out for you? Xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Just say hello, they will be shocked they got a message!! By messaging someone it does not mean you will be jumping into bed with them tomorrow. Dont be shy"

It still feels too assertive to me. I am confident in real life but not on here it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not long at all - we both know what we like and only occasionally do we hold off til we check with each other -

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Saying that, I've just Leaped before I looked lol

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Often I will make a quick decision that I want to write to a lady or couple but I might not be able to do so there and then. I might want to take time to think about my message or could have spotted the profile on my break at work, on a packed train or during a social gathering where I would feel it rude to start writing a long message.

Usually I hotlist them for later. Might end up being days or even weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message...?!

What is this strange concept ye speak of....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try my luck no matter what

And how does that work out for you? Xx"

In bed alone with a hot water bottle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't browse as much profiles anymore. I guess when I do its straight on I send a message lol.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Message...?!

What is this strange concept ye speak of.... "

Ive even messaged you before lol xx

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I dare you!!

Pick a guy and send him a message.

He'll probably think its too good to be true and therefore that you must be a bloke but you have literally nothing to lose

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I try my luck no matter what

And how does that work out for you? Xx

In bed alone with a hot water bottle."

You don't seem to be doing too badly on here xx

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I dare you!!

Pick a guy and send him a message.

He'll probably think its too good to be true and therefore that you must be a bloke but you have literally nothing to lose"

Funnily enough we've done that tonight regarding another post and he doesn't seem sure, maybe he didn't like our profile lol x

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

It depends,

It could be weeks...

if I like a profile, I usually add them to my Hotlist. re-read it a couples of times to ascertain their likes / desires and what we have in common and then pen something which explains why I want to meet them in particular.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"It depends,

It could be weeks...

if I like a profile, I usually add them to my Hotlist. re-read it a couples of times to ascertain their likes / desires and what we have in common and then pen something which explains why I want to meet them in particular.

"

That sounds like a lot of work, does it pay off? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message...?!

What is this strange concept ye speak of....

Ive even messaged you before lol xx"

I know & I think I replied!

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Message...?!

What is this strange concept ye speak of....

Ive even messaged you before lol xx

I know & I think I replied! "

We did and therefore are familiar with the concept

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Message...?!

What is this strange concept ye speak of....

Ive even messaged you before lol xx

I know & I think I replied! "

We did and therefore are familiar with the concept

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm quick. If I've taken a decision, it's only to communicate, I'm not mailing my keys, for them to pop over for guaranteed sex, whenever it's fancied.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I'm quick. If I've taken a decision, it's only to communicate, I'm not mailing my keys, for them to pop over for guaranteed sex, whenever it's fancied."

Yeah true, I keep leaping into diaster lol x

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