FabSwingers.com forum: Sex Clubs/Parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys, never been to any sort of sex club, swingers party or anything.

What are they really like, and where do I start??

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What do you imagine they might be like?

Serious question. It's easier make small corrections, then give you a mass of info that might not cover what you need/want to know.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would describe a swingers club as like any other pub/club on first glance (at least those we've been to) but with optional (possible) extras and usually higher charges

Give one a go and find out.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"I would describe a swingers club as like any other pub/club on first glance (at least those we've been to) but with optional (possible) extras and usually higher charges

Give one a go and find out."

Exactly as it says above. Treat a party or club as a social night out with the chance of some extra fun.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found going to the clubs got us invited to parties.

It's a simple formula OP find a decent club from research and go along and enjoy. Doors may then open to other things.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

It's pretty much as the others say. You'll get a great welcome from the staff, who'll explain things and likely show you around - it stops you stumbling around, feeling a bit lost.

Depending on the venue, you'll be able to have coffee/refreshments and potentially some alcohol. You could find yourself at the bar area, rubbing shoulders with others and you'll probably find people really friendly. You can chat small talk, maybe a little about being new, whatever.

If you venture further afield: and again this'll depend on the venue and layout, then you'll find a range of play environments and possibly people in different states of undress. Just keep yourself getting acquainted with the place and people/

I generally go to chill out, maybe meet some new people, use some facilities: maybe hot tubs or whatever's going.

Any contacts you make are great, and any fun you have is just a bonus. Plan on just going for an hour or so first time: it'll likely be longer, but I don't think hanging around a place potentially being viewed as desperate is good for you. Your first time can be exciting - you'll never have another one, so it's an eye opener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't expect it to be wall to wall free sex. You still have to put the effort in. We see a lot of newbies who think that they will just be walking into an orgy like you see on Porn sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard men at a party ask how they can get some action. Ehm... Talk to us? We are not inflatable dolls or robots!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the tips! Don't worry, I wasn't expecting to walk in to a place and have people falling over themselves to have sex with me!

It's sounds really exciting. Best do my research and find a good London based club to start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it clubbing for adults dive in and give it a go plus depends on what you are looking for x

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