FabSwingers.com forum: Would you do a threesome with your best friend?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If your best friend asked you to have a threesome with him and his partner would you do it? Or have you ever had a threesome with your best friend? If so, did it change anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your best friend asked you to have a threesome with him and his partner would you do it? Or have you ever had a threesome with your best friend? If so, did it change anything?"
Yes and now I don't have a best friend, we both felt awkward and stopped speaking, nice at time but not worth loosing a life long friend

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

opposite here, have had threesomes on many occasion with best m8 and partner and it has probably brought us closer, dont work for everyone but was fine for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your best friend asked you to have a threesome with him and his partner would you do it? Or have you ever had a threesome with your best friend? If so, did it change anything?Yes and now I don't have a best friend, we both felt awkward and stopped speaking, nice at time but not worth loosing a life long friend "

That's what is worrying me.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

noooo.... as my as i love my best mate... that is one thing that I really don't fancy ever envisioning... lol and yes he knows I swing!!! lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what is worrying me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

No I would'nt even consider going there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, It was a friend who got us into swinging by introducing us to threesomes. Now 12yrs later he is our best friend and still have the occasional threesome with him. Never been an issue and still as much fun now as they were back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a few 3sums with my best friend and his wife, and everything is fine between us all, fun is fun, we're all adults and can separate the fun from normality...go for it would be my advie

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By *wingercumnudistMan
over a year ago

Hemsworth

Yes I have had a threesome with a best friend, it was great we are still best friends and we had the threesome on 3 occasions.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

No, primarily because all my friends are trees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, primarily because all my friends are trees.

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are any of them swingers?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

many times - my best friend is male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many times - my best friend is male"
maybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?"

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationship

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

havent done but soooo would if said best friends were rhianna and cherly cole lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ended up in the exact same situation, we had been friends for 18 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ended up in the exact same situation, we had been friends for 18 years"
had been friends as in not anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationship"
sure he realises that friends like you are hard to find...im still looking

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope... never. One of my best friends asked me and I said no. She then went on to do it with another friend and it went tits up on a grand scale.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationshipsure he realises that friends like you are hard to find...im still looking"

oh he knows he's lucky, I remind him often enough, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mart here, I have done on several occasions, my circle of friends have always been quite open and accomodating and i was single for a long time, got used as "stand in cock" quite often by males and females in our group as they knew that i wouldn't complicate things or braodcast anything that my partners wanted kept quiet (some of the boys in our group played with me just to try it out i suspect)

Having said that as time has gone on and relationships have changed amongst my friends, only one couple will still play and those with different partners no longer join in, thats actually one of the reasons we joined up on here, to make new friends who are up for a bit of naughty fun.

Not to replace my old friends, just to try and have the same sort of fun times where its ok if things get a bit rude towards the end of a party or get together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your best friend asked you to have a threesome with him and his partner would you do it? Or have you ever had a threesome with your best friend? If so, did it change anything?"

oh yes, it changed my mind about what you can do with a firepersons hose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER AGAIN . did it and because we where good mates , she kept popping round to mine , mate was ok , but she became obsessed with me taking her again , they ended up splitting up ,still my mate ,but never again , FRANKIE XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah - my first experience was with my (then) partner and very very good female friend we ad been friends with for years, through thick and thin. Funnily enough it was hers and my wifes instigation (ooooh thankyou god!) and was bloody ace. But since then we've split up, although we are all still very good friends. It only affected our relationship when our mutual friend found new long-term partner. I suppose it depends on the type of friendship you enjoy, obviously the more lais back the better

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Same here. Didn't go all weird suddenly over night, but over the course of a few weeks we stopped talking. Caught up to her fairly recently and when questioned about (it subtly, obviously) she said it was because it was very awkward. We talk, but never the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationshipsure he realises that friends like you are hard to find...im still looking

oh he knows he's lucky, I remind him often enough, lol"
if i knew him id remind him too just so he`s not unlucky enough to become your ex best friend as lots of best friends end up falling out with each other and having a new best friend lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationshipsure he realises that friends like you are hard to find...im still looking

oh he knows he's lucky, I remind him often enough, lolif i knew him id remind him too just so he`s not unlucky enough to become your ex best friend as lots of best friends end up falling out with each other and having a new best friend lol"

He's been my best friend for 36 years and we've never had a major falling out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it ruined a'long' friendship-so nope, we'd advise against it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationshipsure he realises that friends like you are hard to find...im still looking

He's been my best friend for 36 years and we've never had a major falling out"
are you both ok with each other having ur own friends also?

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By *ocketManUKMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

My introduction to swinging came courtesy of my late wife inviting her best friend to share our bed when she stayed over one night. We remained very good friends for years and played together regularly but eventually lost touch when the friend moved away due to her job and she settled down with someone new.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationshipsure he realises that friends like you are hard to find...im still looking

He's been my best friend for 36 years and we've never had a major falling outare you both ok with each other having ur own friends also?"

yeah, we both have our own lives to get on with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many times - my best friend is malemaybe you should consider him as a future boyfriend or dya both prefer to be just best friends?

prefer to be best mates, all the fun of the shagging without the hassles of a relationshipsure he realises that friends like you are hard to find...im still looking

He's been my best friend for 36 years and we've never had a major falling outare you both ok with each other having ur own friends also?

yeah, we both have our own lives to get on with"
well it sounds like the perfect r/ship and long may it continue

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

My best friend is my ex... we split because we drifted apart sexually not because we hate each other. So, no, I don't think it would be wise to have a threesome with her and her new partner.

edited because my typing sucks at this time of night!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

R has a good female friend who complained how much she was missing sex after she broke up with her man. R invited her friend to join us for a 3some or come with us to Chams- bad idea! She was shocked at the idea of swinging, hadn't realised we did it, said to R "how could you do such a thing especially with your husband looking?" and was stunned when R said we both enjoyed watching the other one having fun. We're still friends but wouldn't try to involve non-swinging friends again; learn a lesson there - no matter how sexy you think people are, some are not ready for swinging.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"No, primarily because all my friends are trees.

you need to branch out a bit further afield!

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

If it's your best friends, it might go well, but then it might go completely disastrously. Ask yourself if you could live with the knowledge you had contributed to a split-up, or without your best friend being your best friend afterwards. If you think "Sod it, worth a try", I'd venture that you aren't a very good friend to have anyway.

Better to let others try it, get settled with it and the possible associated headfucks, and maybe then join them if appropriate.

My friends know what I get up to, if any of them asked about getting involved, I'd point them in the right direction and stand well clear. I have made some great friends through swinging though, true friends, and can interact with them on a normal level without any hint of how we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your best friend asked you to have a threesome with him and his partner would you do it? Or have you ever had a threesome with your best friend? If so, did it change anything?"

My first ever threesome with another woman was with someone that had been my best friend for years.. It eventually killed the friendship..

So no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 couple + 1 stranger = OK

1 couple + 1 friend / close work collegue etc etc = Highly likely Potential future disaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fem friend I knew for over 30 yrs ,

a great friendship , used to stay over in her flat , seperate rooms ,have a laugh ,nites out ect,

then one nite asked me to have fun with her,

after she wld not speak to me , ) she was very chatholic and had felt guilty , but never spoke to me properly again ,

she had allways wanted to find out what was like to be with a woman,

and I felt more used than if it had been a man ,

as she had been a best friend,she came on to me!!

only spoke briefly at a funeral 2 yrs after ,

but never since then ,

sooooooo wld never ever do it again with a friend , who was just curious ,

thats why I joined fab , to find women who really wanted fun without feeling torn up and guilty about it.

Thankfully I found that , wheeeeeee, xxx

That's what is worrying me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first bi encounter with a best friend culminating in a 3some when her hubby came home from work in the morning. It was planned and didn't feel in the least bit awkward. They then introduced me to Chams

Also had a 3some with another 'vanilla' friend of mine. I don't have a problem with it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate and his wife were swingers and introduced me to swinging by having a couple of threesomes with me and invited me to a party, they have now split up

and it is very awkward

so on one hand I enjoyed the threesome but on the other I regret it because of the awkward situation that it has become

so i agree with the stranger OK,

friend potential disaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would never have sex with anyone out side of swinging, i do not feel i need to bring my friends into my sex life, i have had a few meets that have gone wrong and we have never met or spoken again and thats fine when its sonmeone i have met off here, i personally value my 'real friends' to much to risk loosing their friendship over a romp, you could have a 3sum with these friends and everythings great after but it could also go the other way, what if after you regreat it or they regret it to be its just not worth the risk

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

I got into the whole thing,many years ago because both kev and I fancied his best friend.I was 19,and it was incredible!I basically ended up with 2 lovers for the next 3 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend is Bi fem know her 10 years and live close ... we have 3s now and again.. fff or mff its good fun too x

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

We both fancy one of our closest friends (fem) and in a flirty way it's obvious she isn't totally disinterested in either of us... but would we progress that to a 3 some? No... we have had the chance to nudge it that way, but we decided she's too good a mate to risk losing should the thing go tits-up afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have threesomes with my best friends. My best friends are identical twins and maybe my guy would like the idea of that. But I dont see anything sexual in my friends and neither do they see that in me. I have been friends with them since our first day at school and I wouldnt jeopardise that important friendship but an hour of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mart here, I have done on several occasions, my circle of friends have always been quite open and accomodating and i was single for a long time, got used as "stand in cock" quite often by males and females in our group as they knew that i wouldn't complicate things or braodcast anything that my partners wanted kept quiet (some of the boys in our group played with me just to try it out i suspect)

Not to replace my old friends, just to try and have the same sort of fun times where its ok if things get a bit rude towards the end of a party or get together."

EXACTLY the same here.....good friend we play with a lot but looking to widen circle...can be a nightmare when their relationships get strained or split tho! x

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