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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been surprised by how many people on here are within 5 miles of where I live but I feel uncomfortable about meeting up with people who might be neighbours, have children at the same school as mine or serve me in Morrison's. What does everyone else do? D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to play away from where i live!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do my grocery shopping elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your close to me, but I don't shop im morrisons so your ok. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get loads of messages from guys within a mile or two of me but I just don't feel comfortable meeting that close

I've been talking to one guy for about a year who's within a mile of me, he's still trying to convince me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't meet someone really close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone local and never have done for exactly that reason, although I have spotted a couple of people I know and quickly gone on stealth and blocked them before they found me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of guys round these parts, women I can count on one hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of guys from my town and every time I go out now I'm looking over my shoulder the whole time!!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Northants

Doesn't worry us at all. We have played with a couple on here who live on the same road, albeit about a mile away! They are on here for the same reason as us and if we happen to meet in the street? We chat like anyone else would.

Really don't see all the caution, but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look through local updates and block the men that leave to close to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we met two couples who lived within 2 miles.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

It wouldn't bother me. Just find it odd when blokes point out how close they are or name my exact town, as if that will sway my decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly avoid local! I live in a relatively small town and have little interest in bumping in to somebody id rather not.

It's a shame because there is one particularly hot chick very nearby but, I declined further contact due to the locality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all here for the same things, fab life and private life should be kept apart.

I have a friend on here that was a little surprised to see me in a club, although seeing her again has brought back the friendship, and we can also have a laugh about it when we are by ourselves.

It's not all about going public and announcing we are swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky you op, no one are near me lol.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I tend to avoid very local

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I certainly avoid local! I live in a relatively small town and have little interest in bumping in to somebody id rather not.

It's a shame because there is one particularly hot chick very nearby but, I declined further contact due to the locality!"

That seems crazy if you really like the look of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does, but my mates sister has the same name, possibly the same age! so do I take a risk or not?

Hence the reason for declining, local is potentially uncomfortable!

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham


"I've been surprised by how many people on here are within 5 miles of where I live but I feel uncomfortable about meeting up with people who might be neighbours, have children at the same school as mine or serve me in Morrison's. What does everyone else do? D"

I had meet with lady off same street now that's close

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By *allieJWoman
over a year ago

East Lancashire

I've put East Lancashire as my location, this could be 5 or 6 towns.

If I'm messaged by anyone in my actual home town then I do block.

Perhaps rude but my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't play with anyone local had an uncomfortable experience years ago when a guy started to stalk the place of work.

he didn't see the harm of just 'dropping in when passing ' Hmmmmm

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Ive only met a few times, mainly on fab guys but the most local meet I've had is from about 200 yards away! We'd chatted on and off for months, met just the once and now we'll have a pint in the local pub on a Sunday afternoon occasionally.

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to travel and explore other cities so I tend to like long distance meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not right on the doorstep, don't want any awkward moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother us. In fact it saves driving lol

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Never play local, not worth the embarrassment of accidentally running into them at the local Tesco's (insert other rubbish supermarketof your choice!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's a meet? "

Awww, are you feeling a bit 'billy no-mates'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your replies everyone. I think for now, we'll keep any meets outside our town but where do you draw the line? I work in another town and R works somewhere else. Then there are people who could be friends of our parents or other family members lol. Ok, I think I'm beginning to over think this.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've been surprised by how many people on here are within 5 miles of where I live but I feel uncomfortable about meeting up with people who might be neighbours, have children at the same school as mine or serve me in Morrison's. What does everyone else do? D"

I only meet local people. I like the fact that when the house is empty I can give them a call to "meet now".

I've bumped into playmates in Sainsbury's, sat beside them on a train and we've barely acknowledged each other as the men I meet are discrete adults.

Never had a problem.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Lucky you op, no one are near me lol."

I am!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive only met a few times, mainly on fab guys but the most local meet I've had is from about 200 yards away! We'd chatted on and off for months, met just the once and now we'll have a pint in the local pub on a Sunday afternoon occasionally. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Don't bother us. In fact it saves driving lol"

Or them arriving smelly after driving for hours...no ta!

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By *ichardBarrowMan
over a year ago

grantham


"I tend to look through local updates and block the men that leave to close to me."

Thank heavens we don't live close then

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I had a regular meet in the town in which I live for four years, didn't cause any problems because we weren't hiding from anyone.

My wife and I once had a threesome with a guy one street down from us. Sadly there was no chemistry and while we didn't want to repeat the experience he did. We were concerned at the closeness but that said he never bugged us and only turned up once on our doorstep. ....with a Christmas card

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't bother us. In fact it saves driving lol

Or them arriving smelly after driving for hours...no ta!"

Ewww, now there's a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't bother us. In fact it saves driving lol

Or them arriving smelly after driving for hours...no ta!

Ewww, now there's a thought."

See local is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's interesting, most single females in my area (London) hardly express the vibe to seek fun while in most other places it's quite the opposite. Hmmm

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