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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi , is there any place we can post negative feedback for people . i have been asked to meet a couple a few times and each time they do not show with no contact by phone or message , at the meeting point there was another guy who also was supposed to meet them , not sure if it is worth the hassle of naming and shaming , or just saying ' ohhh well back to my mags and dvd's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report it to admin. You can't name and shame on here however pissed off you feel. I did name and shame on my profile but got slapped wrists so just tell admin and let them sort it out, frustrating I know, been there and it's a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have just done the other guy who turned up

Once is bad luck, twice is asking for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they did not show once with no contact and no explanation, why did you agree to meet them again and again? and to name and shame is not allowed on this site as people only have your word that they did not turn up...not a criticism, just my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

You're not allowed to name and shame as frustrating as it is

Why have you allowed them to do this to you a few times though? are you a glutton for punishment?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was hoping it was a forgetfull bit on their part , i contacted them again because their location was perfect for me to get too , also the txt we had prior had me a bit errrrrr , ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why on earth did you meet again after that ,

You should have seen what sort of people thay was letting you down other times..... some i am sure get off on that x letting people down like a power TRIP for them. Move on and learn from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"i was hoping it was a forgetfull bit on their part , i contacted them again because their location was perfect for me to get too , also the txt we had prior had me a bit errrrrr , ready"

never think with your cock,it will lead you into all sorts of trouble as you have found out

Arrange meets without the horn

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"hi , is there any place we can post negative feedback for people . i have been asked to meet a couple a few times and each time they do not show with no contact by phone or message , at the meeting point there was another guy who also was supposed to meet them , not sure if it is worth the hassle of naming and shaming , or just saying ' ohhh well back to my mags and dvd's"

They were probably hiding laughing at you for being so gullible to KEEP arranging to meet them! They were probably seeing how many times you'd fall for it! Get over it I'd say. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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They were probably hiding laughing at you for being so gullible to KEEP arranging to meet them! They were probably seeing how many times you'd fall for it! Get over it I'd say. Z"
yes you maybe right I am sure Some get turned on doing this .... make them feel lusted after egos good .So sad really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was hoping it was a forgetfull bit on their part , i contacted them again because their location was perfect for me to get too , also the txt we had prior had me a bit errrrrr , ready"

Balls full brain empty......we've all suffered from that at some point in our lives!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont even report people now as nothing happens. i had one that i had a fairly long drive and they cancelled as i was half way thier with a bogus excuse... then next day on thier profile looking for meet which definitly made what their excuse was false....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the replies guys , mmmmm ok NEXT ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should report it as im sure ive seen somewhere that Admin do act if they get a lot of reports of people who no show.

Personally though,if someone had let us down like that we wouldnt have contacted them to meet us again x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"hi , is there any place we can post negative feedback for people . i have been asked to meet a couple a few times and each time they do not show with no contact by phone or message , at the meeting point there was another guy who also was supposed to meet them , not sure if it is worth the hassle of naming and shaming , or just saying ' ohhh well back to my mags and dvd's"

You should update your status to "Sucker"... seriously how many times do you allow someone to piss you about before you take the hint? If there's any naming and shaming to be done I think you have already done it... coz shame on you mate.

btw... was it always the same 'other guy' at the meeting point?

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Perhaps it might be an idea for admin to mediate between the two...a simple message saying something on the lines of ..'''we have received a complaint from a member about an apparent no show..its there anything you would like to comment on?...please bare in mind that this along with any other no shows will be logged for future reference'

That way the time wasters will know that people are on their case..without it being to overpowering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said that you went to meet them on a few occasions. Why? If they don't show the first time, okay give them the benefit of any doubt. But after a second no show. Just forget contacting them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if there was another single guy there...was there actually ever a "couple" or just a single guy chancing his luck?

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Man puts hand in fire and gets burnt...

Man then puts hand in fire again....and again...and again

Moral here somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it down to experience ..........I've been here for over four years meets some fantastic people and some idiots - my rule is two strikes and your out ...... xx

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"if there was another single guy there...was there actually ever a "couple" or just a single guy chancing his luck?

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That puzzles me - how did you strike up this converstation with the other single guy? It's not the first thing I would ask a stranger in a bar

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Man puts hand in fire and gets burnt...

Man then puts hand in fire again....and again...and again

Moral here somewhere"

moral.... distinct lack of judgement....

I do wonder because I can count the amount of "no shows " with the fingers of one hand in the 6 ish yrs I have been swinging how on earth people go about choosing the people they contact to potentially play with.....

do no bells ring at some point or are people led by their loins....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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do no bells ring at some point or are people led by their loins...."

Rhetorical question right?!!

Why the OP would start a thread to highlight his desperation is beyond me! As for the other single guy being there how did the OP know he was waiting for the "couple"? What's the betting this single guy initiated contact and is the "couple", enjoying first hand the OP's frustration.

In three years of this lifestyle I've yet to encounter a timewaster. It's not because I'm soooooooo delectable men walk over hot coals for me...ok I am and they do...but I digress...but I'm selective about the people I choose to meet. OP, don't be so desperate next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if there was another single guy there...was there actually ever a "couple" or just a single guy chancing his luck?

That puzzles me - how did you strike up this converstation with the other single guy? It's not the first thing I would ask a stranger in a bar "
maybe they were both in the toilet....next to the rubber jonny machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all you no SHOWS X WHY LET OTHERS DOWN WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR SELF HOW IT WOULD FEEL ? WHY?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sites like this full of people with no guts x and when you meet real people its fabbbbbb x

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"sites like this full of people with no guts x and when you meet real people its fabbbbbb x"

ive only met genuine people so far.. maybe ive been lucky.. have been blocked by a few guess they dont want to meet me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you click with real sexie people is fab xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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