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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As it says in the title really.. I've never cum from a woman giving me a blowjob, it's not that I don't like having them because they turn me on so much.. Could it be the case no one has pushed the right buttons as they say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As it says in the title really.. I've never cum from a woman giving me a blowjob, it's not that I don't like having them because they turn me on so much.. Could it be the case no one has pushed the right buttons as they say? "
I havnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to cum from being sucked too, but like you say, its nothing to do with not enjoying. C really loves sucking me and especially making me cum, she has to work damn hard to get a mouthful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno, someone who has cum in my mouth says the same thing...

It can be hard to relax and cum in someones mouth though, i think it's because all the focus is on you and you're lying back just enjoying it but it also leaves you vulnerable and open. Like with sex it's easier coz you're both pleasing each other.

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock


"Dunno, someone who has cum in my mouth says the same thing...

It can be hard to relax and cum in someones mouth though, i think it's because all the focus is on you and you're lying back just enjoying it but it also leaves you vulnerable and open. Like with sex it's easier coz you're both pleasing each other."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither have I.it was only through a similar thread on here that I realised its not uncommon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As it says in the title really.. I've never cum from a woman giving me a blowjob, it's not that I don't like having them because they turn me on so much.. Could it be the case no one has pushed the right buttons as they say? "

I could never cum from oral, I enjoyed it but felt a bit awkward with someone down between my legs, I worried it'd smell or I just looked disgusting from that angle lol. But this year for the first time I came from oral, it was one of the horniest sessions ever and with someone I had feelings for so thought it had something to do with that. However, since then I have cum through oral with every guy since (not had feelings for any of them). I think going to clubs gave me confidence and now when a guy is down there I am no longer worrying, I just thoroughly enjoy.

So an option could be it's you that's not allowing it to happen without realising it?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Your time wouldn't be wasted on me ladies, never had a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno, someone who has cum in my mouth says the same thing...

It can be hard to relax and cum in someones mouth though, i think it's because all the focus is on you and you're lying back just enjoying it but it also leaves you vulnerable and open. Like with sex it's easier coz you're both pleasing each other."
I don't feel vulnerable in that situation ,frustrated maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, there could be something in the 'holding something back' idea, but I also think its just harder to use your mouth to create the rubbing sensation of my foreskin over my helmet that I need to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno, someone who has cum in my mouth says the same thing...

It can be hard to relax and cum in someones mouth though, i think it's because all the focus is on you and you're lying back just enjoying it but it also leaves you vulnerable and open. Like with sex it's easier coz you're both pleasing each other.

I don't feel vulnerable in that situation ,frustrated maybe "

Trying too hard to cum might put you off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loads of Input here guys thanks

It's almost become a fantasy of mine finding a woman that would want me to cum for her via blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of Input here guys thanks

It's almost become a fantasy of mine finding a woman that would want me to cum for her via blowjob "

I kind of got the impression most girls really want to make a guy cum when they suck them...

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By *ikebradford1974Man
over a year ago

bingley

I've always assumed that my penis isn't very sensitive

I meet one lady in ISIS who had me very close though, and would have probably had me cum had she not stopped

Generally to cum i have to concentrate and that doesn't happen whilst having a BJ

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I never used to....but learned to just simply relax and go with the flow, so to speak, and now can.

I think it can almost be a pressure thing, which makes it more difficult..

If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't, as long as everyone is having a good time, doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect a guy to cum from a bj, if anything I would expect him, or me to finish him off by hand so he can cum over my mouth. Think my ex husband came once from a bj solely but can't remember another time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want someone to suck me until I cum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never did until I met Mrs M. She can make me cum everytime. Only one other person has came close to making me cum via a bj and next time she's getting it

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Does this ever work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does this ever work?"

It's not a scheme to get my cock sucked it's something I do have trouble with.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a few of these threads, if some poor women wants to try for over an hour then end up at the Doctors with a knackered jaw, be my guest, but I'm not into S&M.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one problem I don't have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of Input here guys thanks

It's almost become a fantasy of mine finding a woman that would want me to cum for her via blowjob

I kind of got the impression most girls really want to make a guy cum when they suck them..."

I don't do it to make a man cum. It's foreplay,I don't want to end it before it's begun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this ever work?

It's not a scheme to get my cock sucked it's something I do have trouble with.. X"

It's not a problem and you don't have anything wrong with you. It may happen one day and you could be disappointed

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By *xystu1975Man
over a year ago

Clitheroe

I can never cum from reviving oral whilst led on my back, yet can cum if I alter position....like on my knees and leaning backwards. Try different positions for different sensations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the skill of the person giving the blowjob.

Jason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely come whilst having a nosh. But on the odd occasions I do........holy fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering, is " Never come from a BJ", the sequel to " Never been kissed"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the skill of the person giving the blowjob.

Jason "

Pressure on the women, you're in trouble now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the skill of the person giving the blowjob.

Jason

Pressure on the women, you're in trouble now. "

No no, just sharing my opinion/experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the skill of the person giving the blowjob.

Jason

Pressure on the women, you're in trouble now.

No no, just sharing my opinion/experience. "

There's no mercy on here, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem with some guys are once they have got it into their head they can't cum from a blow job they never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As it says in the title really.. I've never cum from a woman giving me a blowjob, it's not that I don't like having them because they turn me on so much.. Could it be the case no one has pushed the right buttons as they say? "

from "a women' :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem with some guys are once they have got it into their head they can't cum from a blow job they never will"

I think the mind is the route of a lot of problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As it says in the title really.. I've never cum from a woman giving me a blowjob, it's not that I don't like having them because they turn me on so much.. Could it be the case no one has pushed the right buttons as they say?

from "a women' :-/"

ohhh well spotted so has the OP cum from a guy giving him a bj?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem with some guys are once they have got it into their head they can't cum from a blow job they never will

I think the mind is the route of a lot of problems."

That's ROOT, I'm doing it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely come whilst having a nosh. But on the odd occasions I do........holy fuck!"

So what's the difference between when you can't and the odd occasion you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it feel any different if you cum from a blow job, I mean so long as you cum does it make a difference how and where or is it just the idea of cumming in a mouth that appeals to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem with some guys are once they have got it into their head they can't cum from a blow job they never will

I think the mind is the route of a lot of problems."

This indeed.Relax,empty your mind,and enjoy.I used to have a bit of trouble as i'm a pleaser,so to lay back and have all the focus on my pleasure was very difficult for me.

I think both sexes can feel pressure when someone is down on them.I used to worry about how long it might take me to cum which invariably makes it take longer.

If you've never cum from oral before,then you need to find an understanding partner who you're comfortable with and relax...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely come whilst having a nosh. But on the odd occasions I do........holy fuck!

So what's the difference between when you can't and the odd occasion you do? "

Time. Takes me ages to come from a blow job, and technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heya

My OH hasn't been able to cum from a bj/hj/sex from another person.. except me it may be your used to doing something when your doing it yourself.. for him it was porn.. slowly going to ease him off it but he's was the happiest guy ever when he came in my mouth but give the other person direction.. everyone likes orders/advice aha but takes time trust and practice.. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the same. If this was me being "broken" in some way, I've now been "mended". Thank you RW

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I find that if she plays with my bum hole at the same time I cum whilst she's blowing. No bum play no cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding the right person to break me on your suggesting then? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your trying with the wrong gender ??

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By *eeplover32Man
over a year ago

Newhaven

Personally i try not to cum, so as to prolong foreplay, teasing is so much more fun and makes for bigger stronger orgasms when it when it happens

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