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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always kissing. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm loads of kissing! Wouldn't be the same without

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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No normal rules you meet those who want the same as you, yep it's really quite simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man won't kiss....I won't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

No normal rules you meet those who want the same as you, yep it's really quite simple "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adore kissing. Especially sexy ladies.

Mrs x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

No normal rules you meet those who want the same as you, yep it's really quite simple "

This is my opinion too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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Best bet is to avoid those ho don't kiss .

We had a couple of meets early on where there was a no kissing rule and they were crap meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people kiss, some don't. We don't always kiss on the lips, we do like to kiss though. Nothing more sensual than a kiss on the neck, the ear....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet people who don't kiss. There's people for all sorts but they could be perfect In every way but if the don't kiss it won't get past that point

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Kissing for us!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

No normal rules you meet those who want the same as you, yep it's really quite simple "

Yes, totally agree.

For us though, we would never meet with people who didn't kiss. The sex would seem very odd.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I luv kissing but have met ladies that just won't deep kiss cos they keep that for their luvers n just let u peck them r even some may not kiss at all

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I think kissing gets u going n without it sex is very cold

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

Best bet is to avoid those ho don't kiss .

We had a couple of meets early on here there was a no kissing rule and they were crap meets ."

Just our thoughts only had one meet but was so much kissing but that's what made them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was playing as a couple no kissing each others partners was one of our no nos i just feel kissing is a bit more intimate and kept that for my partner... although girl on girl was ok lol

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"I think kissing gets u going n without it sex is very cold "

We was thinking it would feel cold

The other thing we thought was if it was a no kissing rule could it be because it's more intimate and causes trust issues which would make it even more awkward

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"When i was playing as a couple no kissing each others partners was one of our no nos i just feel kissing is a bit more intimate and kept that for my partner... although girl on girl was ok lol"

Never more turned on than when wife is kissing another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without kissing it would be a bit mechanical!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately kissing

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By *untimesforusCouple
over a year ago

paignton

Kissin n nipping n nibbling hmmm a defo...cant imagine being with someone without....gets me wet thinking bout a good kissing sesh xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loveeee the kissing

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There has to be kissing

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

There's nothing 'normal ' about fab but for me it goes without saying that a 1 to 1 meet would involve kissing. If I were chatting to a couple and they said they had a no kissing rule I wouldn't want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think kissing gets u going n without it sex is very cold "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind if the guy of a couple doesn't kiss me but I need the woman to be ok kissing Mr.. I have to say I always find it funny on here so many single guys saying that kissing is essential yet in many many years of swinging I have to say that I rarely had to tell guys I didn't want to kiss.. as they didn't even try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is no rule is there?

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Its a definite yes from me. I don't close my eyes so I can see if the woman is enjoying it. The little sighs as you go down her neck with a little grip of her neck with your hand. ooooh yes yes yes. Instant erection for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is the key that ignites the ignition

without it you can't get the motor running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a definite yes from me. I don't close my eyes so I can see if the woman is enjoying it. The little sighs as you go down her neck with a little grip of her neck with your hand. ooooh yes yes yes. Instant erection for me. "

I love eye contact when kissing

the little smile they give when they open their eyes and realise your looking at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Etiquette is you ask if they kiss and make a decision based on their answer. When I was looking for couples I was often told I could kiss the woman but not the man. As I don't like kissing women I stopped looking for couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a definite yes from me. I don't close my eyes so I can see if the woman is enjoying it. The little sighs as you go down her neck with a little grip of her neck with your hand. ooooh yes yes yes. Instant erection for me. "

Having a man stand behind me,kissing my neck is so erotic

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Oh yeah. Then they try to keep their eyes open but can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Etiquette is you ask if they kiss and make a decision based on their answer. When I was looking for couples I was often told I could kiss the woman but not the man. As I don't like kissing women I stopped looking for couples. "

Never got that

I get couples who kiss and couples who don't, I don't get why one half does and the other half don't

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Etiquette is you ask if they kiss and make a decision based on their answer. When I was looking for couples I was often told I could kiss the woman but not the man. As I don't like kissing women I stopped looking for couples.

Never got that

I get couples who kiss and couples who don't, I don't get why one half does and the other half don't "

When we first started all this we were a no MF kissing couple, FF was fine.....that rule didn't last long

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Definitely kissing for us "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant do it unless I'm allowed to kiss

If you cant kiss what's the fucking point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for me....no kissing = blow up doll.....

I would imagine ahem ahem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft, erotic, deep, passionate kissing for me.

Like a lover.

I also quite like looking into someone's eyes when I/they cum.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

We started off as a no male/female kissing but that soon went out the window.

No kissing is like decaffinated coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started off as a no male/female kissing but that soon went out the window.

No kissing is like decaffinated coffee. "

I'd cause rows because I automatically go to kiss someone. I wouldn't want only sex from behind,which would be the only way kissing wouldn't happen. I don't kiss a man because I have feelings for him,it just enhances the sex.

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"Etiquette is you ask if they kiss and make a decision based on their answer. When I was looking for couples I was often told I could kiss the woman but not the man. As I don't like kissing women I stopped looking for couples. "

We're a couple and we both like kissing other women wife enjoys kissing anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone I couldn't kiss. I love kissing!

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"We started off as a no male/female kissing but that soon went out the window.

No kissing is like decaffinated coffee. "

Well I don't like coffee but I like kissing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Etiquette is you ask if they kiss and make a decision based on their answer. When I was looking for couples I was often told I could kiss the woman but not the man. As I don't like kissing women I stopped looking for couples.

We're a couple and we both like kissing other women wife enjoys kissing anyone "

Would you kiss a man?

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"We started off as a no male/female kissing but that soon went out the window.

No kissing is like decaffinated coffee.

I'd cause rows because I automatically go to kiss someone. I wouldn't want only sex from behind,which would be the only way kissing wouldn't happen. I don't kiss a man because I have feelings for him,it just enhances the sex. "

Amen to that

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"Etiquette is you ask if they kiss and make a decision based on their answer. When I was looking for couples I was often told I could kiss the woman but not the man. As I don't like kissing women I stopped looking for couples.

We're a couple and we both like kissing other women wife enjoys kissing anyone

Would you kiss a man? "

We've talked about this pretty certain i wouldn't but suppose you never know lol

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I do like kissing....and do kiss but in a club I do hold back from kissing....

For me it is more erotic kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kiss new meets but also greet old meets/ friends/ lifestyle acquaintances with a peck on the lips too when I run into them at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely love kissing

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I would feel rather objectified if I was not allowed to kiss her when meeting a couple. I'm more than just a stunt cock.

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

Haha I like that one ,stunt cock lol

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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I won't meet anyone who wants to have sex without kissing.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We live kissing if no kissing on the couples profile we will not meet them.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Kissing definitely required! I think it's something that helps you get a feel for how the rest of the session is going to go, or get the message across of how you'd like it to go!

Too many people hanging on Julia Roberts' words from 1990. It was just a movie - and you're not hookers. You're here to enjoy yourselves, not just get a job done, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people kiss, some don't. We don't always kiss on the lips, we do like to kiss though. Nothing more sensual than a kiss on the neck, the ear...."

Mmm that sent shivers down my spine. Totally in agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing. I won't meet anyone that refuses to kiss...

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

It's not the same without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct etiquette is to kiss but not to ram your tounge so far down their throats you can taste their dinner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love kissing so I do it. It makes me laugh how some people don't yet they give oral or actually have sex...

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By *nnaandchrisCouple
over a year ago

loughton

Kissing is a must for us.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes pleeeeaaaassse to kissing, I it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a definite yes from me. I don't close my eyes so I can see if the woman is enjoying it. The little sighs as you go down her neck with a little grip of her neck with your hand. ooooh yes yes yes. Instant erection for me.

Having a man stand behind me,kissing my neck is so erotic "

Oh you say that now but when I do it in the queue at tesco it's all "help!!! security!!!! Phone the police"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss me, its that simple

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By *isterAndMilfCouple
over a year ago

Anderson

My wife and I will not kiss the opposite sex partners above the neck.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We won't meet people who don't kiss. There's people for all sorts but they could be perfect In every way but if the don't kiss it won't get past that point "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely kissing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no passion, no point!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We simply couldn't imagine meeting and not kissing - without any disrespect to those who don't (it's a free world and there isn't a Rule) we imagine it would be very mechanical, not the sort of hot, passionate evening we look for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

No normal rules you meet those who want the same as you, yep it's really quite simple "

And be respectful to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say it's a good job most men in couples and single guys don't actually want to kiss as much as they say on these threads.... As it is a real chore for me.. love to see Mr kissing other women... And I adore his kisses and could spend hours doing so... But other guys... It is just such an effort and in many cases a turn off... And if I am honest I can count on one hand the amount of.guys that have tried to kiss me first x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I can understand it from newbies: when we started talking about swinging we thought kissing (on the mouth) and 'going all the way' sounded far too intimate and should just be saved for ourselves.

Very soon it was obvious that this was like having a banana split without the chocolate sauce, sprinkles or cherry on top.

Or the banana.

And let's face it, if you're just left with the ice-cream, that can be very cold. Where's the fun in that?

We both love kissing.

Mr ddc

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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kissing Definitely

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Kissing is a deal breaker for me. I've never fucked someone I haven't kissed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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hey kissing at the fuck and go emporiums is frowned upon you just don't know where they've been before

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"Correct etiquette is to kiss but not to ram your tounge so far down their throats you can taste their dinner."

We would definitely let our tummy settle first before the club so you'd need a long tongue lol

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"I can understand it from newbies: when we started talking about swinging we thought kissing (on the mouth) and 'going all the way' sounded far too intimate and should just be saved for ourselves.

Very soon it was obvious that this was like having a banana split without the chocolate sauce, sprinkles or cherry on top.

Or the banana.

And let's face it, if you're just left with the ice-cream, that can be very cold. Where's the fun in that?

We both love kissing.

Mr ddc"

Great way of putting it lol

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"All I can say it's a good job most men in couples and single guys don't actually want to kiss as much as they say on these threads.... As it is a real chore for me.. love to see Mr kissing other women... And I adore his kisses and could spend hours doing so... But other guys... It is just such an effort and in many cases a turn off... And if I am honest I can count on one hand the amount of.guys that have tried to kiss me first x "

Never heard anyone say it's a turnoff with others could never imagine that unless I didn't want to do it with that person but then I wouldn't be doing it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a definite for us, and if its deep passionate kissing, mmmmm much better.

#we have played with a couple who didn't kiss, and it was most definitely a strange, strained sort of meet, kept wanting to plant my tongue where she didn't want it. ....

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"No kissing, no passion, no point!!!"

Spot on Bear!! The Fox is with you on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

of all the couples and single men we have met only two have tried to kiss me, one single man, one woman. This is only our experience of course and our meets have always been very enjoyable with one exception.

Kissing passionately and deeply on the lips is just too intimate for us to share with other people. I'm well aware that puts us even deeper into the forum swinging pariah department.....so be it.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Definitely kissing for me, a good kiss starts the chemical reaction that creates the physical reaction

I have viewed profiles of people who look hot but when I read the profile, if its says no kissing, then I pass them by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a long lingering kiss, it's not a deal breaker if other person isn't into it, but such a turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love kissing! "
10 days to go until blast off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love kissing! 10 days to go until blast off x "
I love kissing to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love kissing! 10 days to go until blast off x "

Are you counting down for us?!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I can't get into it without kissing... No kiss no bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo kissing its erotic but defo nit if youve just swallowed a mouthfull of cum though eeek

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"... No kiss no bliss! "

Nicely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god.....impossible without sensual deep kissing....vital. cant develop the connection needed otherwise. I have been told that if the kiss is not right on the first meet then it does not happen again or go any further....luckily i passed

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By *ensualflingMan
over a year ago

SW

I think you have to read a situation! Plus if the have teeth like a Ferrari gear box then it's a little off putting!!

Everyone likes a nice little kiss though! X

Unless they have death breath!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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We both LOVE to kiss but not if they have smelly breath. Long, deep kissing turns us both on.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

We both LOVE to kiss but not if they have smelly breath. Long, deep kissing turns us both on."

Bad breath is one of the biggest turn offs when on a meet...second only to fishy fanny ...fortunately I have seldom encountered either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing its only polite

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"of all the couples and single men we have met only two have tried to kiss me, one single man, one woman. This is only our experience of course and our meets have always been very enjoyable with one exception.

Kissing passionately and deeply on the lips is just too intimate for us to share with other people. I'm well aware that puts us even deeper into the forum swinging pariah department.....so be it. "

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"I think you have to read a situation! Plus if the have teeth like a Ferrari gear box then it's a little off putting!!

Everyone likes a nice little kiss though! X

Unless they have death breath!! "

Thought a ferrari gearbox would be smooth but I'll ask the husband fiesta would be sloppy and full of gaps lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"of all the couples and single men we have met only two have tried to kiss me, one single man, one woman. This is only our experience of course and our meets have always been very enjoyable with one exception.

Kissing passionately and deeply on the lips is just too intimate for us to share with other people. I'm well aware that puts us even deeper into the forum swinging pariah department.....so be it.

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes"

They do indeed

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over a year ago


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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There is no rule other than to ask the people concerned about their preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to put time and effort into kissing, sex is cold without it, for me.

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

Each to their own but personally I love kissing

I met a woman a few times and she would do anything apart from kiss.

Different strokes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of meets now and they didn't do kissing, to be honest I felt a bit deflated!!! As newbie it's not something I thought of asking but I assume I should from now on!! Lol

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"I've had a couple of meets now and they didn't do kissing, to be honest I felt a bit deflated!!! As newbie it's not something I thought of asking but I assume I should from now on!! Lol"

Exactly why we've asked gotta have things clear before you go down the swinging route

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've had a couple of meets now and they didn't do kissing, to be honest I felt a bit deflated!!! As newbie it's not something I thought of asking but I assume I should from now on!! Lol

Exactly why we've asked gotta have things clear before you go down the swinging route "

I think the golden rule is to talk to the people you're going to meet, there really isn't a rule book. As you've seen you can't assume that everyone will have the same boundaries

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't see how people can get naked and jiggly without kissing. That's just weird!

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Kissing always!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't see how people can get naked and jiggly without kissing. That's just weird!"

Oh well that's me weird then!

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

We like to kiss, lots, all over

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We really like kissing but understand everyone has their own rules.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't see how people can get naked and jiggly without kissing. That's just weird!

Oh well that's me weird then! "

Cor! Really? Isn't it a natural reaction? I can't imagine not kissing during sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is great .It's funny when someone doest want to kiss yet expect oral sex which I think is more intimate.I wouldn't meet anyone that wouldn't kiss as it would be cold .Rather do without.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't see how people can get naked and jiggly without kissing. That's just weird!

Oh well that's me weird then!

Cor! Really? Isn't it a natural reaction? I can't imagine not kissing during sex?"

Yep! Really . It isn't a natural reaction for me but you know me Topsy I'm all about people playing how they want.

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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For me, no kissing no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm, love kissing. Had the joy of kissing someone last week where I got to start at the bottom (well, legs to be precise) and work my way up. The unspoken, yet mutual agreement, meant I didn't get very far up before all sorts of magical things happened. Eventually I got to finish the journey. It really is so much more sensual with kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be girls only kissing when we first started but now we are more relaxed we do kissing xXx

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By *esi tardkaCouple
over a year ago

acton

Kissing is a big turn on for us an integral part of our sex life .., No kiss is no meet for us ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure quite how representative these threads are? Maybe it's comparing apples and oranges? Single people meeting up and having sex, well them kissing at the same time seems fairly straightforward.

Where couples are in long term relationships and swing together, well that seems a more even split. For us kissing is more intimate than anything else. It's also what we often do outside of sex as a loving and tender thing between just us. So maybe that cross over through all aspects of our life is why kissing is our line in the sand?

As for questioning the representation of this thread and others like it, well we've played and seen others playing in clubs on many dozens of occasions and seldom seen kissing between males and females who aren't partners. Of all the times there's wasn't kissing no one seemed terribly unfulfilled. So, a favour from some of you might be to try to use language less like you think that anyone who doesn't like what you like is somehow missing the point. Belittling the preferences of others is generally frowned on around here it seems but kissing is deemed fair game.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

There is no set rule some find kissing too intimate and something they only wish to share with a loved one.

For us kissing is essential and a big part of the experience.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not sure quite how representative these threads are? Maybe it's comparing apples and oranges? Single people meeting up and having sex, well them kissing at the same time seems fairly straightforward.

Where couples are in long term relationships and swing together, well that seems a more even split. For us kissing is more intimate than anything else. It's also what we often do outside of sex as a loving and tender thing between just us. So maybe that cross over through all aspects of our life is why kissing is our line in the sand?

As for questioning the representation of this thread and others like it, well we've played and seen others playing in clubs on many dozens of occasions and seldom seen kissing between males and females who aren't partners. Of all the times there's wasn't kissing no one seemed terribly unfulfilled. So, a favour from some of you might be to try to use language less like you think that anyone who doesn't like what you like is somehow missing the point. Belittling the preferences of others is generally frowned on around here it seems but kissing is deemed fair game. "

Kissing is fair game along with not shaving your pubic hair. I agree with everything you've said

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Not sure quite how representative these threads are? Maybe it's comparing apples and oranges? Single people meeting up and having sex, well them kissing at the same time seems fairly straightforward.

Where couples are in long term relationships and swing together, well that seems a more even split. "

I do not agree, looking at this thread, that couples in a long term relationship are evenly split! Looking down the thread, there are many more couples who kiss than those who don't!

I understand your reasoning, but we just don't happen to agree. This was discussed on another site and when someone said it was too intimate, someone else asked if it was really more intimate than licking and sucking genitals and having sex!

For us, we have to kiss! Without kissing, it is like prostitution to us. As someone else said, it is the key that starts the engine. But whatever way you swing, follow your rules and enjoy!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have to kiss, long passionate breathtaking kisses to get me all hot and steamy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I understand your reasoning, but we just don't happen to agree. This was discussed on another site and when someone said it was too intimate, someone else asked if it was really more intimate than licking and sucking genitals and having sex!

For us, we have to kiss! Without kissing, it is like prostitution to us. As someone else said, it is the key that starts the engine. But whatever way you swing, follow your rules and enjoy!"

Perhaps I didn't make my pint well. I'm not disputing the balance on this thread. I'm suggesting the balance on this thread does not represent the swinging community. How can I suggest that? Well as I said previously we have lots of experience to suggest otherwise.

Why would all those people who feel as we do not speak up? Well maybe they just don't use the forum. Or, just maybe, the aggressive and judgmental nature of these threads would put many off from taking the opposing view. There are many entirely non judgemental entries of course but how many others range from querying just what sort of person does not kiss (passive aggressive you might say) up to straight out calling people weird for not kissing.

Hardly makes swinging sound like the broad church that our experience has led us to believe. That said you're comment that in your mind anyone who doesn't kiss is behaving like a prostitute has rather taken the pejorative comments to a new level.

So, as you say, each to their own. I'm just suggesting anyone wanting to know what kind of community is out their would get a false view from this thread and others like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wont kiss ? I wont meet lol

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"wont kiss ? I wont meet lol"

Thank god for that....thought I was going to have to call the whole thing off for a minute

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I understand your reasoning, but we just don't happen to agree. This was discussed on another site and when someone said it was too intimate, someone else asked if it was really more intimate than licking and sucking genitals and having sex!

For us, we have to kiss! Without kissing, it is like prostitution to us. As someone else said, it is the key that starts the engine. But whatever way you swing, follow your rules and enjoy!

Perhaps I didn't make my pint well. I'm not disputing the balance on this thread. I'm suggesting the balance on this thread does not represent the swinging community. How can I suggest that? Well as I said previously we have lots of experience to suggest otherwise.

Why would all those people who feel as we do not speak up? Well maybe they just don't use the forum. Or, just maybe, the aggressive and judgmental nature of these threads would put many off from taking the opposing view. There are many entirely non judgemental entries of course but how many others range from querying just what sort of person does not kiss (passive aggressive you might say) up to straight out calling people weird for not kissing.

Hardly makes swinging sound like the broad church that our experience has led us to believe. That said you're comment that in your mind anyone who doesn't kiss is behaving like a prostitute has rather taken the pejorative comments to a new level.

So, as you say, each to their own. I'm just suggesting anyone wanting to know what kind of community is out their would get a false view from this thread and others like it. "

Again I have to agree. I almost always post on kissing threads to say that we don't but it seems to me that it is so firmly entrenched in swinging lore that people must kiss that people feel able to imply all sorts of quite insulting things about us. I'm well used to it though and care not a jot for the opinion of people who have so little respect for mine.

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"

I understand your reasoning, but we just don't happen to agree. This was discussed on another site and when someone said it was too intimate, someone else asked if it was really more intimate than licking and sucking genitals and having sex!

For us, we have to kiss! Without kissing, it is like prostitution to us. As someone else said, it is the key that starts the engine. But whatever way you swing, follow your rules and enjoy!

Perhaps I didn't make my pint well. I'm not disputing the balance on this thread. I'm suggesting the balance on this thread does not represent the swinging community. How can I suggest that? Well as I said previously we have lots of experience to suggest otherwise.

Why would all those people who feel as we do not speak up? Well maybe they just don't use the forum. Or, just maybe, the aggressive and judgmental nature of these threads would put many off from taking the opposing view. There are many entirely non judgemental entries of course but how many others range from querying just what sort of person does not kiss (passive aggressive you might say) up to straight out calling people weird for not kissing.

Hardly makes swinging sound like the broad church that our experience has led us to believe. That said you're comment that in your mind anyone who doesn't kiss is behaving like a prostitute has rather taken the pejorative comments to a new level.

So, as you say, each to their own. I'm just suggesting anyone wanting to know what kind of community is out their would get a false view from this thread and others like it. "

Yep I am with you. Think private meets are possibly different to club meets. I don't see much kissing at clubs.

If I go to a club with my man and he wants to watch me get fucked by different men then one of the massive turn ons for us is that I only kiss him!

Kissing my lover with a strangers cock in me is sooo horny for both of us.

I would happily fuck guys in a club but no way would I kiss them!

However..totally different rules for a private meet..go with the flow..sometimes kissing is great to be shared. .sometimes kissing only your lover is a bigger turn on

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I love kissing women,nothing arouses me more, but it is something that I dont initiate as a lot of couples do want to reserve kissing for their own 'special' partners

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Kissing for us! Never understand why kissing is too intimate when you are having oral or full sex with someone else who isn't your partner!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

No normal rules you meet those who want the same as you, yep it's really quite simple "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I understand your reasoning, but we just don't happen to agree. This was discussed on another site and when someone said it was too intimate, someone else asked if it was really more intimate than licking and sucking genitals and having sex!

For us, we have to kiss! Without kissing, it is like prostitution to us. As someone else said, it is the key that starts the engine. But whatever way you swing, follow your rules and enjoy!

Perhaps I didn't make my pint well. I'm not disputing the balance on this thread. I'm suggesting the balance on this thread does not represent the swinging community. How can I suggest that? Well as I said previously we have lots of experience to suggest otherwise.

Why would all those people who feel as we do not speak up? Well maybe they just don't use the forum. Or, just maybe, the aggressive and judgmental nature of these threads would put many off from taking the opposing view. There are many entirely non judgemental entries of course but how many others range from querying just what sort of person does not kiss (passive aggressive you might say) up to straight out calling people weird for not kissing.

Hardly makes swinging sound like the broad church that our experience has led us to believe. That said you're comment that in your mind anyone who doesn't kiss is behaving like a prostitute has rather taken the pejorative comments to a new level.

So, as you say, each to their own. I'm just suggesting anyone wanting to know what kind of community is out their would get a false view from this thread and others like it. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think kissing gets u going n without it sex is very cold

We was thinking it would feel cold

The other thing we thought was if it was a no kissing rule could it be because it's more intimate and causes trust issues which would make it even more awkward "

I've heard couples say that, kissing is only for them, they want to have something special and intimate just for them but have no qualms taking all comers, using every hole while the wife is pregnant.

What could be more intimate than that?!! But hey ho...each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a good snog!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but for me kissing is a major part of a meet I wouldn't want to meet anyone who doesn't kiss. Its the start of amazing foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to kiss, long passionate breathtaking kisses to get me all hot and steamy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but for me kissing is a major part of a meet I wouldn't want to meet anyone who doesn't kiss. Its the start of amazing foreplay. "

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

kissings a must x

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Kissing always a pleasure and love it, adds to the fun. However many cpls/fems have a no kissing rule nowadays.

Like most things if its in someone's no no list then it's in the no no list

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

WOW!! When i started this topic i never realised it would get so big and would get so much emotion from people,expected a couple of comments and that's it.

It's such an interesting read seeing everyone's personally view on the matter.

Thanks so far everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kissing is the key that ignites the ignition

without it you can't get the motor running "

Agree totally! The only 'non kissing' sex I've had was with a guy in France last summer as it was his rule! He was gorgeous with a great body - but the sex just felt impersonal. It isn't something I'd do again! If I want impersonal sex I'll get my vibrator out and put the porn on!

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

A lot of people keep saying is a must What about people with bad breath ? Is it a must. Or smokers. I don't have anything against smokers. Because i don't smoke. I can't stand the revolting smell of tobacco. Don't expect me to kiss such a person. I know this may sound odd to some folks.

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By *oecurler69Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

For me it's all in her kiss! That's what ignites the passion, gets the juices flowing and warms things up building the anticipation!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"A lot of people keep saying is a must What about people with bad breath ? Is it a must. Or smokers. I don't have anything against smokers. Because i don't smoke. I can't stand the revolting smell of tobacco. Don't expect me to kiss such a person. I know this may sound odd to some folks. "

It's not odd at all,kissing a smoker is not good for me. Also annoying when they say they don't smoke!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing for us! Never understand why kissing is too intimate when you are having oral or full sex with someone else who isn't your partner!? "

You don't need to understand it though, if people like us feel it's too intimate that's all you need to know. I probably wouldn't understand the way you think about some things but I don't feel the need to question it.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Kissing for us! Never understand why kissing is too intimate when you are having oral or full sex with someone else who isn't your partner!?

You don't need to understand it though, if people like us feel it's too intimate that's all you need to know. I probably wouldn't understand the way you think about some things but I don't feel the need to question it."

you just did lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've also noticed that nobody is found impossible to understand when they save anal just for themselves. Sheesh! When we started swinging I honestly thought we'd find a group of people open to everyone's way of playing and accepting of the differences between people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing for us! Never understand why kissing is too intimate when you are having oral or full sex with someone else who isn't your partner!?

You don't need to understand it though, if people like us feel it's too intimate that's all you need to know. I probably wouldn't understand the way you think about some things but I don't feel the need to question it.

you just did lol "

Did I?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing for us! Never understand why kissing is too intimate when you are having oral or full sex with someone else who isn't your partner!?

You don't need to understand it though, if people like us feel it's too intimate that's all you need to know. I probably wouldn't understand the way you think about some things but I don't feel the need to question it.

you just did lol

Did I? "

Yes I probably did .

Oh well

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Kissing for us! Never understand why kissing is too intimate when you are having oral or full sex with someone else who isn't your partner!?

You don't need to understand it though, if people like us feel it's too intimate that's all you need to know. I probably wouldn't understand the way you think about some things but I don't feel the need to question it.

you just did lol

Did I? "

just chill out and enjoy your day don't get too deep into things people have different opinions and it's great anyway i'm off for a haircut catch you later

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing for us! Never understand why kissing is too intimate when you are having oral or full sex with someone else who isn't your partner!?

You don't need to understand it though, if people like us feel it's too intimate that's all you need to know. I probably wouldn't understand the way you think about some things but I don't feel the need to question it.

you just did lol

Did I?

just chill out and enjoy your day don't get too deep into things people have different opinions and it's great anyway i'm off for a haircut catch you later "

Well don't have your hair cut too short and make sure they trim the back up properly . Enjoy your day too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh...

Some people get so het up re kissing.

We don't kiss any people we meet (it's on our profile) - we still get meets... with singles and couples...many repeat meets too...

We have each other for the romantic and emotionally intimate side of sex.

We're not looking for a 'connection' with anyone, other than a fun, sexual one...

To those that don't 'understand' a kissing boundary - why do you need to (rhetorical question...) ?

No one has to explain their reasons to anyone else

Just meet the people that play like you do -

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"A lot of people keep saying is a must What about people with bad breath ? Is it a must. Or smokers. I don't have anything against smokers. Because i don't smoke. I can't stand the revolting smell of tobacco. Don't expect me to kiss such a person. I know this may sound odd to some folks. "

Totally agree I'm an ex smoker so smell it more lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"If a man won't kiss....I won't meet "

I've become the same. Kissing is more essential for me as I'm single, so meets give me the only opportunity for something I find essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh...

Some people get so het up re kissing.

We don't kiss any people we meet (it's on our profile) - we still get meets... with singles and couples...many repeat meets too...

We have each other for the romantic and emotionally intimate side of sex.

We're not looking for a 'connection' with anyone, other than a fun, sexual one...

To those that don't 'understand' a kissing boundary - why do you need to (rhetorical question...) ?

No one has to explain their reasons to anyone else

Just meet the people that play like you do - "

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

Looooooove kissing, it is sooooo sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I could have sex without kissing . .

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the normal rule kissing or no kissing as we really like kissing but seen a few on here saying they won't kiss

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I wouldn't meet anyone that said they don't kiss on a meet...that's where it all starts for me....

and I have been told I am very good at it so I wouldn't want anyone to miss out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing=no meet for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people keep saying is a must What about people with bad breath ? Is it a must. Or smokers. I don't have anything against smokers. Because i don't smoke. I can't stand the revolting smell of tobacco. Don't expect me to kiss such a person. I know this may sound odd to some folks. "

But in that case you wouldnt meet a smoker

If I met somebody that smelt, be it bad breath or whatever I wouldn't be playing with them in the first place to have to worry about not kissing them

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By *enaultMan
over a year ago

dartford

I suppose some couples have their own rules, but for me - I love kissing and would struggle not to kiss

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"I suppose some couples have their own rules, but for me - I love kissing and would struggle not to kiss "

Our thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would find it hard not to kiss - all part of the enjoyment, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us no kissing on a profile is a no meet each to their own but sex without kissing is not on our agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these guys saying they would struggle not to kiss... I have found that most men are quite happy to get straight to it. I would only kiss briefly and certainly not during sex unless it would cause obvious problems to turn away. But even then I will move .

With my partner... Another matter I can kiss him for hours and love it but kissing a person I have no connection with is not for Me.

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"When i was playing as a couple no kissing each others partners was one of our no nos i just feel kissing is a bit more intimate and kept that for my partner... although girl on girl was ok lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they won't kiss we don't play. It's that simple

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I wouldn't meet people who didn't kiss. I understand why couples don't but it just isn't for me not to, I love kissing!

I went in a private room at a club the other day with a single guy and he wouldn't kiss me.. It's been bugging me ever since, just made me feel a bit used tbh

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I couldn't fuck someone without kissing

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"I wouldn't meet people who didn't kiss. I understand why couples don't but it just isn't for me not to, I love kissing!

I went in a private room at a club the other day with a single guy and he wouldn't kiss me.. It's been bugging me ever since, just made me feel a bit used tbh "

One on One would feel so awkward!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do. Some don't.

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By *rmrsgy OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

Thanks for every single bit of input guys and girls learnt a lot!

Never realised it would be this passionate of a topic

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