FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swing...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so how common is it? Can you really do soft with no full on or does the mood just overwhelm lol x

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"so how common is it? Can you really do soft with no full on or does the mood just overwhelm lol x"

My partner prefers to play soft swing only, and in most cases prefers to be a voyeur, it works for us and me because he's happy for me to play anyway I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked pretty well for us so far.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

What does soft swing mean?

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"What does soft swing mean?"

When you go to the swings in a park next take a pillow with you to sit on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some fantastic times soft swinging.

certainly didn't feel as if we were missing out and there were orgasms galore.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never done soft swing but certainly would do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turns me on just as much as full on. I really enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does soft swing mean?"

For most, us included.

No penetrative sex.

Jools has no worries finding willing partners

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"What does soft swing mean?

For most, us included.

No penetrative sex.

Jools has no worries finding willing partners

Same here

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"What does soft swing mean?

When you go to the swings in a park next take a pillow with you to sit on

Thanks. If you go to my park at night you come home with a sore arse.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We started swinging three years ago - for the first year we were soft swingers and had a great time. There was no problem in finding partners in the clubs - both couples and single guys and girls were more than happy to join us. The first "hard" swing wasn't terribly successful, but after that we have thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. Correspondingly we would have no problems soft swinging again if that is what our playmates prefered - we wouldn't feel cheated in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out as soft swing only.

As our confidence gained we took it to full swing.

Very often we still soft swing but just see how the mood takes us at the time.

But plenty of fun can be had with just soft swing only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really enjoy penatrive sex that much so prefer soft swing, its quite hard to find single guys into this

I think it'd easier as a couple as you have your partner for the full sex but meeting for one on one sex most guys want a shag too

I have found a few though

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I don't really enjoy penatrive sex that much so prefer soft swing, its quite hard to find single guys into this

I think it'd easier as a couple as you have your partner for the full sex but meeting for one on one sex most guys want a shag too

I have found a few though "

Most guys seem to be really happy to cum over my body without penetrative sex - is that soft or hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like soft swing it is very hot and horny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I don't like the limitations of soft swing. And I get really furious when ppl only disclose their "soft swingers only" status half way through play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always happy to soft swing to just watch a cum.Lucky I am sponsored by kleenex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like playing after mood and find that loads of times we have so much fun doing all kinds of things, the "full swap" simply doesn't come up. It's not really a limitation, but it needs to feel right and not just "right, you'll have my partner and I take yours..."

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

"Not for me. I don't like the limitations of soft swing. And I get really furious when ppl only disclose their "soft swingers only" status half way through play. "

Our thoughts exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me. I don't like the limitations of soft swing. And I get really furious when ppl only disclose their "soft swingers only" status half way through play.

Our thoughts exactly! "

What limitations?

For me soft swing is everything but full on fucking, everything else is on offer, unless I've got what soft swing is wrong

There are loads to do sexually fucking is just one thing

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Not for me. I don't like the limitations of soft swing. And I get really furious when ppl only disclose their "soft swingers only" status half way through play. "

this

tell me what your boundaries are, before getting me to a room so i have the choice...please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were only sof swing , we have plenty of fun and others we play with seem to enjoy themselves too soft is very erotic and penetration is only one of many ways to enjoy sex,

plenty of foreplay

touching licking and teasing others is great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only soft play, we make this very clear before meeting or playing at clubs.

We've had tons of fun and only had one or 2 couples passing us by because we only soft play x

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

As a couple we both said full-swap will affect our relationship, so really happy with soft swinging, and not intending to go further.

So if anyone in the Manchester Area fancies meeting... get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our humble opinion, it's one of those things where there is no right or wrong, there are people who are happy with soft swap only, people happy with full swap only and those (like us) who do whatever feels comfortable at the time..

One of the best memories we have doesn't even really count as soft swing...it's of a fairly long and very horny kiss goodnight knowing there was more to come.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We love forplay so it works well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see so many couples affirm soft swing. It's where we're at right now.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We enjoy full swap, but have had some meets where we just soft swapped too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This subject has become more complicated for us than we thought.

At first we were soft swing only so that felt quite clear. We probably would flag it quite early with people to avoid confusion. It seems a bit harsh though for anyone to complain that such a declaration came too late. Wouldn't all parties be responsible for a lack of communication?

That kind of brings me on to the subtlety. When people (especially couples) specifiy that they are only after full swap it raises an interesting debate about what that means. For us it raises the concern that there's a pressure to commit to something from the start. We've played with couples and enjoyed the preamble but not wanted to continue onto full swap. Isn't that a normal reaction? Sometimes the attraction or interest wanes. Sometimes people just aren't your thing or don't really do what you like. In those instances I'm not sure how it really helps establishing that full swap is an option as it doesn't change the fact that only soft swing is the final result. Surely no one sees it through to full swap just because they said they will on their profile?

For us it's a requirement that just seems to apply an unwelcome pressure whereas taking any encounter only as far as is pleasurable seems a nicer prospect. Is that just too woolly an answer?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Not for me. I don't like the limitations of soft swing. And I get really furious when ppl only disclose their "soft swingers only" status half way through play. "

Or those who come out with - we only play fem/fem while he watches.....I'm not very bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be flexible and go with whatever we are comfortable with

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Sounds fair to us BoneyMUK

We only soft swap, we make it clear in our profile, and in discussion. We doubt they stance will change. We simply enjoy the appeal of same room frolics

Just because someone states full swap on a profile shouldn't mean they have to swap on the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does soft swing mean?

For most, us included.

No penetrative sex.

Jools has no worries finding willing partners

Same here"

No problem here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does soft swing mean?"
you only push the swing softly

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

We are more than happy with soft swing.

Considering we've been playing for 10+ years, its not a stepping stone.

We just find it nicer and more to our style/preference vs just having a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any softies in the York area?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Soft swing is good.. even ised to do soft with an ex girlfriend.. only cuz i knew she was cheating... we only lasted 2 weeks lol

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By *eescpl69Couple
over a year ago

cleveland

we have enjoyed ourselves a few times with soft but find it hard to get people local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are planning our first full swing meet.

Slightly worried it's going to change thing's.

Wonder how others felt first time Mrs got fucked?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"We are planning our first full swing meet.

Slightly worried it's going to change thing's.

Wonder how others felt first time Mrs got fucked?

Any doubts at all then don't do it would be our advice. We were both ready to try the first time but it wasn't a great experience for either of us. It did confirm that there was no jealousy for either of us, though. We always share the experience - if one of us doesn't enjoy it, neither of us does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does soft swing mean?

When you go to the swings in a park next take a pillow with you to sit on

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hey I nearly said that almost exactly word for word yesterday but lost my signal xx

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I think we are more swayers than swingers...suits us just fine

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Hebden Bridge

I love soft swing with lots of kissing and maybe watching. Not as much pressure as a meet where you're expected to perform like a god. Yorkshire if anyone wants to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% adore it and love to tease and give my turbo tongue a chance to get up to speed

if only more woman wanted to be spoilt

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I've had a few soft swing meets and I have enjoyed them as much as many of my full swing meets.

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By *ainesy13Man
over a year ago

market drayton

"I don't really enjoy penatrive sex that much so prefer soft swing, its quite hard to find single guys into this

I think it'd easier as a couple as you have your partner for the full sex but meeting for one on one sex most guys want a shag too

I have found a few though "

I love soft swing and also prefer giving than receiving. I see alot of profiles that are too demanding of cock size and hard shagging but that's not for me

think that makes me unusual x

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