FabSwingers.com forum: Aggressive Profile

By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

haha all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. I usually just

and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of times lol.......

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

....yes and then I exit the profile after reading it all and don't look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've toned mine down a lot , I'm still keeping a few pointers on there, but at least when I ignore someone they know why

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lots of them. If it's not fun, why do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup lots of them.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

All of the time

They are such a turn off

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Lots of them. If it's not fun, why do it? "

More and more. We looked at the pics first as usual and thought they looked nice, got 2 lines into profile and thought 'fuck that' & then blocked lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know how many profiles of women you read but some are so aggressive they may well end up on the block list. Such a turn off

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Don't know how many profiles of women you read but some are so aggressive they may well end up on the block list. Such a turn off"

Funny I saw a super aggressive one yesterday and messaged her to ask if she was alright and I got a lovely reply, strange huh x

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"
Yes we wonder how they manage to meet anyone not even people like themselves. We always think wasps and avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday

Sometimes it tempting to respond to some of the messafes we get by changing the profile, we resist......

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Mine used to be little miss ranty pants but is now little miss warm and fuzzy...it's all a lie though

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx Yes we wonder how they manage to meet anyone not even people like themselves. We always think wasps and avoid

Wasps? Is that a typo or a code? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is agressive and i do very well! But then maybe it's not this type of agressive being talked about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

Yes!!

But it doesn't affect me as I'm looking for men and they don't appear to have them....

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"My profile is agressive and i do very well! But then maybe it's not this type of agressive being talked about."

Yeah it is aggressive, but then you are in Scotland lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Yes!!

But it doesn't affect me as I'm looking for men and they don't appear to have them....

I've seen a few along with aggressive status updates, I usually block as they act as a filter for me.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Yes!!

But it doesn't affect me as I'm looking for men and they don't appear to have them....

I've seen a few along with aggressive status updates, I usually block as they act as a filter for me."

Yeah, Updates are another turn off, ours are usually factual xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Yes!!

But it doesn't affect me as I'm looking for men and they don't appear to have them....

I've seen a few along with aggressive status updates, I usually block as they act as a filter for me."

I block and move on too (her)

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Ours is deliberately picky to make sure people know what we are looking for. I don't think it is aggressive as much as pedantic. I find offensive ones more worrying that aggressive ones ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that's the problem with my one?? Message me with truth?! Please lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,all women's profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like aggressive profiles, they're funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of the aggression is born out of frustration of people not reading/ignoring the profile text but then it doesn't matter what's written if the majority of people don't read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah mine is just poo ha ha

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I think a lot of the aggression is born out of frustration of people not reading/ignoring the profile text but then it doesn't matter what's written if the majority of people don't read it!"

Yeah I guess so, must be frustrating being a single guy x

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Not a code, who doesn't avoid a wasp?

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I don't e-mail women with aggressive profiles, but that's cos most of the aggression in women's profiles is aimed at guys like me anyway.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

haha all the time "

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Not a code, who doesn't avoid a wasp? "

I don't, I'm not afraid of them, in fact I dare it to sting me lol

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

I read them and just think they might be a bit self fulfilling. Many of the respectful, normal, interesting people they would like to meet just step back and away, whilst the pests they want to avoid stroll on in.

Probably very different in reality, what do I know?

However, when you read a polite and friendly profile but that clearly gets across the person or couples wants it is very impressive. There is an art to all this, and some have it.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I read them and just think they might be a bit self fulfilling. Many of the respectful, normal, interesting people they would like to meet just step back and away, whilst the pests they want to avoid stroll on in.

Probably very different in reality, what do I know?

However, when you read a polite and friendly profile but that clearly gets across the person or couples wants it is very impressive. There is an art to all this, and some have it.

Some people think ours is too aggressive, one too many x's I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably very different in reality, what do I know?

However, when you read a polite and friendly profile but that clearly gets across the person or couples wants it is very impressive. There is an art to all this, and some have it.

Well my art works well for me so maybe not every respectful, normal, interesting guy turns away from them

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Yeah I read ours and think chill out... I think most of it came from constantly getting grief for not replying to people...

That seems to have calmed down.

Time for an update soon.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Yeah I read ours and think chill out... I think most of it came from constantly getting grief for not replying to people...

That seems to have calmed down.

Time for an update soon.

Yeah that first line is killer lol xx

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"Yeah I read ours and think chill out... I think most of it came from constantly getting grief for not replying to people...

That seems to have calmed down.

Time for an update soon.

Yeah that first line is killer lol xx"

Yeah... Chill pill duly taken... Well I think it was... It was blue...

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Yeah I read ours and think chill out... I think most of it came from constantly getting grief for not replying to people...

That seems to have calmed down.

Time for an update soon.

Yeah that first line is killer lol xx

Yeah... Chill pill duly taken... Well I think it was... It was blue...

Perhaps have a wine or with it lol xx

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Not a code, who doesn't avoid a wasp?

I don't, I'm not afraid of them, in fact I dare it to sting me lol

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Do you rub jam on your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably very different in reality, what do I know?

However, when you read a polite and friendly profile but that clearly gets across the person or couples wants it is very impressive. There is an art to all this, and some have it.

Some people think ours is too aggressive, one too many x's I think

You ramble on too much

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Probably very different in reality, what do I know?

However, when you read a polite and friendly profile but that clearly gets across the person or couples wants it is very impressive. There is an art to all this, and some have it.

Some people think ours is too aggressive, one too many x's I think

You ramble on too much "

Yeah we are thinking of trimming it down a bit xx

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

Often.

Still, I'll send her a message and hope for some angry sex

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

Probably very different in reality, what do I know?

However, when you read a polite and friendly profile but that clearly gets across the person or couples wants it is very impressive. There is an art to all this, and some have it.

Some people think ours is too aggressive, one too many x's I think

You ramble on too much "

I gave up after "Let's"

(That's a fib. I gave up after "no single guys", very straight forward

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Probably very different in reality, what do I know?

However, when you read a polite and friendly profile but that clearly gets across the person or couples wants it is very impressive. There is an art to all this, and some have it.

Some people think ours is too aggressive, one too many x's I think

You ramble on too much

I gave up after "Let's"

(That's a fib. I gave up after "no single guys", very straight forward

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Very good, someone who can actually read our profile xx

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

Yes my own! It's toned down a lot now though. Think I'm getting soft in my old age

Then again maybe not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

Yes, it was ours. We have since updated it...

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Yes, it was ours. We have since updated it..."

And has it helped?

From what I read you don't need one as your not looking to meet on here just stay in touch with friends you've met xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Yes, it was ours. We have since updated it...

And has it helped?

From what I read you don't need one as your not looking to meet on here just stay in touch with friends you've met xx"

Clearly it had cos you pretty much got the message were trying to convey.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Yes, it was ours. We have since updated it...

And has it helped?

From what I read you don't need one as your not looking to meet on here just stay in touch with friends you've met xx

Clearly it had cos you pretty much got the message were trying to convey.

An I bet people still try to message lol xx

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

That is i call Ranting profile. People with low self esteem. To be candid. I don't bother to glance talkless reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, all the time

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mine used to be quite ranty and aggressive and then it dawned on me - the people who were causing me to make my profile like it were ones who weren't bothering to read my profile in the first place, so what's the point?

So I've toned it down which has shown I was putting people off as I now get more guys contacting me. I still get guys not bothering to read it, I can't stop that, but why put off potential meets with aggressive and frustrated words just because of a few idiots who won't pay attention to what you write anyway?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

Regularly...and (although its mainly those which I look at) it tends to be women or couples who can have very aggressive profiles - puts me off straight away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time... a lot of them posting 'why wont a anyone meet me ? Threads. Just before they go UNLOS. And several borderline picky assertive/aggressive demanding female profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time... a lot of them posting 'why wont a anyone meet me ? Threads. Just before they go UNLOS. And several borderline picky assertive/aggressive demanding female profiles."

I am not aggressive, how dare you

Do you want to make something of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time... a lot of them posting 'why wont a anyone meet me ? Threads. Just before they go UNLOS. And several borderline picky assertive/aggressive demanding female profiles.

I am not aggressive, how dare you

Do you want to make something of it?

Sorry, forgot the disclaimer..

Any resemblance to real or fake profiles is entirely coincidental and not malicious or deliberate. Allegedly. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of them. If it's not fun, why do it?

More and more. We looked at the pics first as usual and thought they looked nice, got 2 lines into profile and thought 'fuck that' & then blocked lol xx"

thats how it happens with us - look good but god youd be hard work kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of them. If it's not fun, why do it?

More and more. We looked at the pics first as usual and thought they looked nice, got 2 lines into profile and thought 'fuck that' & then blocked lol xx

thats how it happens with us - look good but god youd be hard work kind of thing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from a single woman's pov I can understand why people put up aggressive looking text. After being asked for car and outdoor sex,for them to pop in as they're near,for pic swap and the million other things I don't want it's very tempting to write my not looking for or wants in huge capital letters; in the hope that at least some men will read and not message.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

Some are ridiculously aggressive and shouty. Still doesn't seem to stop these people getting plenty of meets though

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Some are ridiculously aggressive and shouty. Still doesn't seem to stop these people getting plenty of meets though

That's because there a women or a couple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones full of CAPITAL LETTERS and a long list of demands. Their a swinger not a fucking terrorist!

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx"

Definately. I got a message from a single fem , laughing at my profile saying all the guys that had verified me had small cocks and she could put me in touch with some really big cocks but it would mean she wouldn't be able to play with them again after me! Lmao. I then looked at her profile and thought. "Yep that explains it" lol

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Did she fancy you or something? Lol xx

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

Did she fancy you or something? Lol xx"

Lol. Must have done

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Anyone read a profile and think calm down? xx

lovely woman!

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