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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, this is my first proper solo thing as a single women (pub doesn't count) going to a wedding reception later and I need some tips about flirting etc.

I'm so not confident about things like this it's silly, I view men from afar but never have the guts to say or do anything, maybe I'm old fashioned and expect the man to do all the work!!

Just any advice you lovely lot can give me would be lovely, signs to look out for, small talk etc, I'm not on a mission for sex but it's like a personal challenge I'm setting myself to try and be more confident with the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flash yer tits at him and he's yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flash yer tits at him and he's yours."

There will be cleavage on show !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flash yer tits at him and he's yours."

Only the left one though

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Talk to them about usual things and maybe lick your lips or bite your lips or flick your hair

These are classic signs that a girl maybe intreasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot your target, go and slip your knickers into his jacket pocket with along with a room number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot your target, go and slip your knickers into his jacket pocket with along with a room number."

You have just created my new fantasy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spot your target, go and slip your knickers into his jacket pocket with along with a room number.

You have just created my new fantasy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot your target, go and slip your knickers into his jacket pocket with along with a room number.

You have just created my new fantasy "

We've done it together as a role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot your target, go and slip your knickers into his jacket pocket with along with a room number.

You have just created my new fantasy

We've done it together as a role play "

It is seriously hot !!! Ino wonder why you have done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot your target, go and slip your knickers into his jacket pocket with along with a room number.

You have just created my new fantasy

We've done it together as a role play

It is seriously hot !!! Ino wonder why you have done it "

But in the "real" world I doubt very much that would work.

Eye contact and a simple smile is all you need OP x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Men aren't an alien species, chat away about the weather, what you did on holiday, ask where they went on theirs, music, books, sport the list is endless. Good luck and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'm all ready and raring to go!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An occasional touch of their arm is good.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Its about time we got onto cake.

Send me a bit of wedding cake.

And Id like it quite soon thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of guys are completely oblivious to flirting so make sure it is obvious. Play with the guy's collar, put a hand on his arm, lead the conversation down a slightly sexier route without it being smut. Oh, and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot your target, go and slip your knickers into his jacket pocket with along with a room number.

You have just created my new fantasy "

mine too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men aren't an alien species, chat away about the weather, what you did on holiday, ask where they went on theirs, music, books, sport the list is endless. Good luck and enjoy."

I would not associate this with flirting.

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Tell him you can suck a golf ball thru a garden hose

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Hello Ali

One of the most attractive things that anyone can do is have fun, enjoy them self smile. Chat, dance and laugh with everyone there. Pretty soon you will have people round you and it's a positive cycle.

Have a great time and you will have a great time.

X Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flash yer tits at him and he's yours.

There will be cleavage on show !"

Bit late to this thread. I'd say thats a damn good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An occasional touch of their arm is good."
hehe Penelope their arm was that spell checker

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Hello Ali

One of the most attractive things that anyone can do is have fun, enjoy them self smile. Chat, dance and laugh with everyone there. Pretty soon you will have people round you and it's a positive cycle.

Have a great time and you will have a great time.

X Paul"

Dont agree. Most of the blokes I know have married miserable bitches. So if weddind bells are your aim just act sour and keep complaining.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Ok, this is my first proper solo thing as a single women (pub doesn't count) going to a wedding reception later and I need some tips about flirting etc.

I'm so not confident about things like this it's silly, I view men from afar but never have the guts to say or do anything, maybe I'm old fashioned and expect the man to do all the work!!

Just any advice you lovely lot can give me would be lovely, signs to look out for, small talk etc, I'm not on a mission for sex but it's like a personal challenge I'm setting myself to try and be more confident with the opposite sex "

Well looking at your pictures with your looks and body you will have plenty of male admirers x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

As a fellow geek my geekdar is pretty accurate, I'm able to find the geek in any room lol!

That helps me to get the conversation going from polite chitchat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well there were a few fit blokes there and I did get the confidence to chat and flirt, with the help of my friend and my best friend jack Daniels, so night went well!

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