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Impromptu or planned?

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

What kind of meet do you like best...impromptu/spur of the moment or planned?

I reckon that about half my meets so far have been planned a bit in advance, whilst the other half have been impromptu/last minute arrangements like last night's.

I love the anticipation and build up which comes with waiting for the day/evening to finally arrive when a meet has be arranged some time in advance, however, there is also a massive thrill attached to suddenly taking myself off to a meet which only an hour or so before wasn't even on the cards....Last night I thought my Friday night would be devoid of filthy fun..up till about 6pm that was, then, how things changed

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Planned chaos pls

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

I prefer last minute meets

The mood is always hornier I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of meet do you like best...impromptu/spur of the moment or planned?

I reckon that about half my meets so far have been planned a bit in advance, whilst the other half have been impromptu/last minute arrangements like last night's.

I love the anticipation and build up which comes with waiting for the day/evening to finally arrive when a meet has be arranged some time in advance, however, there is also a massive thrill attached to suddenly taking myself off to a meet which only an hour or so before wasn't even on the cards....Last night I thought my Friday night would be devoid of filthy fun..up till about 6pm that was, then, how things changed "

Do you do a thread every time you get a meet?

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"What kind of meet do you like best...impromptu/spur of the moment or planned?

I reckon that about half my meets so far have been planned a bit in advance, whilst the other half have been impromptu/last minute arrangements like last night's.

I love the anticipation and build up which comes with waiting for the day/evening to finally arrive when a meet has be arranged some time in advance, however, there is also a massive thrill attached to suddenly taking myself off to a meet which only an hour or so before wasn't even on the cards....Last night I thought my Friday night would be devoid of filthy fun..up till about 6pm that was, then, how things changed

Do you do a thread every time you get a meet?"

Not quite every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the anticipation and the build up. A couple of phone calls and a fair bit of messaging to build the tension.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Have to be planned, I couldn't do spontanious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned. Unless in a Club environment we like to know who we are meeting.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We don't prearrange meets. We only play in clubs and enjoy the spontaneity of going out for an evening of no strings see with no idea of of who it will be with. Just 'our thing", I guess. It also means that there is never any embarrassment of meeting someone we don't find attractive, and we never have issues with time wasters.

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By *ick71Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Impromptu meets are always so horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of meet do you like best...impromptu/spur of the moment or planned?

I reckon that about half my meets so far have been planned a bit in advance, whilst the other half have been impromptu/last minute arrangements like last night's.

I love the anticipation and build up which comes with waiting for the day/evening to finally arrive when a meet has be arranged some time in advance, however, there is also a massive thrill attached to suddenly taking myself off to a meet which only an hour or so before wasn't even on the cards....Last night I thought my Friday night would be devoid of filthy fun..up till about 6pm that was, then, how things changed

Do you do a thread every time you get a meet?

Not quite every time "

Keep it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous. I hate people trying to 'book' me for meets, although i can understand that some people enjoy planning their life.

I have planned meets before and i just start dreading them the closer they get, it's like i have to be horny at that time and i usually end up not being, despite being horny all the time usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spur of the moment everytime it cuts 99% of timewasters out and we don't have time for boring socials

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"What kind of meet do you like best...impromptu/spur of the moment or planned?

I reckon that about half my meets so far have been planned a bit in advance, whilst the other half have been impromptu/last minute arrangements like last night's.

I love the anticipation and build up which comes with waiting for the day/evening to finally arrive when a meet has be arranged some time in advance, however, there is also a massive thrill attached to suddenly taking myself off to a meet which only an hour or so before wasn't even on the cards....Last night I thought my Friday night would be devoid of filthy fun..up till about 6pm that was, then, how things changed

Do you do a thread every time you get a meet?

Not quite every time

Keep it up. "

I do my best to....works best like that

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Both,but spontaneous meets are real fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer last minute things to be honest x

Don't like to much build up...as I find it tars the meet a bit

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Up until today we have only played at the club so always spur of the moment with whoever is there. A couple of delivery guys had a surprise today though but once again it was right place right time.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I love the anticipation and build up which comes with waiting for the day/evening to finally arrive when a meet has be arranged some time in advance, however, there is also a massive thrill attached to suddenly taking myself off to a meet which only an hour or so before wasn't even on the cards"

I feel this way too

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

Spur of the moment always best in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always spontaneous or at short notice for me - the thrill of it suddenly being possible and then just letting it happen...

I hate making plans for several days ahead - and certainly not weeks ahead - I have no idea if I'll be in the mood then... Besides, it just becomes little more than a chore on the calendar to fulfill... no thrill at all!

Having said that - messaging me with "Fancy a fuck?" etc is just not the way to hit my spontaneity button...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planned chaos pls"

This

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Spontaneous... would love to get a call from a friend saying be at mine in half hour wearing nothing but a coat

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Most of my meets have been planned. But I wouldn't say no to spontaneous meets

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Prefer a planned meet getting the build up of nerves and adrenaline. Would love a spontaneous meet but never had the chance as no one's accepted my offers or asked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine have been spur of the moment!

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