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"www.nhs.uk/conditions/Gonorrhoea/Pages/Introduction.aspx Gonorrhoea is a sexually transmitted infection (STI) caused by bacteria called Neisseria gonorrhoeae or gonococcus. It used to be known as 'the clap'. The bacteria are mainly found in discharge from the penis and in vaginal fluid. Gonorrhoea is easily passed between people through: unprotected vaginal, oral or anal sex sharing vibrators or other sex toys that haven't been washed or covered with a new condom each time they're used The bacteria can infect the cervix (entrance to the womb), the urethra (tube through which urine passes out of the body), the rectum, and less commonly the throat or eyes. The infection can also be passed from a pregnant woman to her baby. If you're pregnant and may have gonorrhoea, it's important to get tested and treated before your baby is born. Without treatment, gonorrhoea can cause permanent blindness in a newborn baby. Gonorrhoea isn't spread by kissing, hugging, sharing baths or towels, swimming pools, toilet seats, or sharing cups, plates and cutlery, because the bacteria can't survive outside the human body for long. Signs and symptoms Typical symptoms of gonorrhoea include a thick green or yellow discharge from the vagina or penis, pain when urinating and (in women) bleeding between periods. However, around 1 in 10 infected men and almost half of infected women don't experience any symptoms." Which is part of the reason I am anti swinging during pregnancy. It just isn't worth the risk in my opinion but up to others how they live their lives. | |||
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"tell me more of how the bacteria knows it on a dildo and not a towel again? " It doesn't the advice is really that items such as towels have a chance to dry out between use and there is less chance of spreading such STIs that way than with something that is inserted in one person then possibly inserted in another whilst still having fluid on it. The bacteria does not survive long when allowed to dry up | |||
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"tell me more of how the bacteria knows it on a dildo and not a towel again? It doesn't the advice is really that items such as towels have a chance to dry out between use and there is less chance of spreading such STIs that way than with something that is inserted in one person then possibly inserted in another whilst still having fluid on it. The bacteria does not survive long when allowed to dry up" its there in black and white. fanny batter will dry quicker on a dildo than a towel. whats the difference between a toilet seat and a dildo. bad science | |||
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"tell me more of how the bacteria knows it on a dildo and not a towel again? It doesn't the advice is really that items such as towels have a chance to dry out between use and there is less chance of spreading such STIs that way than with something that is inserted in one person then possibly inserted in another whilst still having fluid on it. The bacteria does not survive long when allowed to dry up its there in black and white. fanny batter will dry quicker on a dildo than a towel. whats the difference between a toilet seat and a dildo. bad science" I'm guessing as the toilet seat & towel doesn't get inserted into the body then that's why not. Maybe the friction from dildos are more likely to put the virus into the bloodstream? But yeah it does kind of not make sense when you first think about it. | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too??" For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney | |||
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"tell me more of how the bacteria knows it on a dildo and not a towel again? It doesn't the advice is really that items such as towels have a chance to dry out between use and there is less chance of spreading such STIs that way than with something that is inserted in one person then possibly inserted in another whilst still having fluid on it. The bacteria does not survive long when allowed to dry up its there in black and white. fanny batter will dry quicker on a dildo than a towel. whats the difference between a toilet seat and a dildo. bad science" Fanny batter? I must be getting old | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too??" Rubber gloves for fingering i reckon, but no i've not used them (did use them to go up someones bum once). I have tried condoms for oral and the teat just chokes me, it's not like the nice gag you get from choking on a cock it feels like you might suck it in and it get stuck in your throat and the you choke to death. | |||
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"tell me more of how the bacteria knows it on a dildo and not a towel again? It doesn't the advice is really that items such as towels have a chance to dry out between use and there is less chance of spreading such STIs that way than with something that is inserted in one person then possibly inserted in another whilst still having fluid on it. The bacteria does not survive long when allowed to dry up its there in black and white. fanny batter will dry quicker on a dildo than a towel. whats the difference between a toilet seat and a dildo. bad science Fanny batter? I must be getting old " I believe thats the scientific term? comes from the latin fanious baterious. probably. | |||
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"tell me more of how the bacteria knows it on a dildo and not a towel again? It doesn't the advice is really that items such as towels have a chance to dry out between use and there is less chance of spreading such STIs that way than with something that is inserted in one person then possibly inserted in another whilst still having fluid on it. The bacteria does not survive long when allowed to dry up its there in black and white. fanny batter will dry quicker on a dildo than a towel. whats the difference between a toilet seat and a dildo. bad science Fanny batter? I must be getting old I believe thats the scientific term? comes from the latin fanious baterious. probably. " It's like smeg Swedish for fridge. | |||
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"You don't stick a towel up your fanny for starters. Who shares sex toy's? If it's green run. Being serious tho in general most swingers we have come across (excuse the pun) tend to be more fussy in terms of choosing sexual partners than say your average guy or girl out on the piss on a weekend end bladdered and wake up with Mr or miss sorry what's your name again? We should all be careful and we are being proactive in sexual health. But I guess it only takes one liar. Regular personal checks are all we can do to makesure we are clean. " | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too??" I gave oral with a condom to a guy once and my lips really swelled up like balloons. It was so embarrassing. They were latex free too! | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too?? For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney" So how does a guy give safe oral to a woman? | |||
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"Plastic bags are 5p now too." I suppose you can pick up a few from the loose fruit and veg section at the supermarket. | |||
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"Plastic bags are 5p now too." Where do bags for life come into it? | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too?? For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney So how does a guy give safe oral to a woman? " I wouldn't know, I don't like receiving oral. I just like giving it. And full disclosure, I have reevaluated....so I don't really give safe oral anymore, either. But I would if the guy asked. -Courtney | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too?? For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney So how does a guy give safe oral to a woman? I wouldn't know, I don't like receiving oral. I just like giving it. And full disclosure, I have reevaluated....so I don't really give safe oral anymore, either. But I would if the guy asked. -Courtney" To be honest as much as I like giving oral I wouldn't feel comfortable licking pussy from here. They can have the hand, toys, and cock instead if I did decide to meet someone | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too?? For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney So how does a guy give safe oral to a woman? " With a dental dam. That's what the sexual health clinic nurse told me to use when she knew I was bisexual. Either one of those or cling film! I can just imagine pulling a roll of cling film out of my bag, on a meet. Mrs | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too?? For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney So how does a guy give safe oral to a woman? With a dental dam. That's what the sexual health clinic nurse told me to use when she knew I was bisexual. Either one of those or cling film! I can just imagine pulling a roll of cling film out of my bag, on a meet. Mrs " Just take a dog and a jar of peanut butter! That's safe! | |||
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"Plastic bags are 5p now too. Where do bags for life come into it?" The hessian ones might be a bit rough on the tongue/vajasaurus rex. | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too?? For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney So how does a guy give safe oral to a woman? I wouldn't know, I don't like receiving oral. I just like giving it. And full disclosure, I have reevaluated....so I don't really give safe oral anymore, either. But I would if the guy asked. -Courtney To be honest as much as I like giving oral I wouldn't feel comfortable licking pussy from here. They can have the hand, toys, and cock instead if I did decide to meet someone " Haha, how to win friends and influence poeple.....TINA, form here please.... | |||
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"So who else in Leeds is moving up their next clinic appointment? I have a feeling the spots will be filling up -Courtney" You've got SPOTS! | |||
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"So who else in Leeds is moving up their next clinic appointment? I have a feeling the spots will be filling up -Courtney You've got SPOTS! " Haha. Apparently it did start in Leeds....just saying. | |||
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"So who else in Leeds is moving up their next clinic appointment? I have a feeling the spots will be filling up -Courtney You've got SPOTS! Haha. Apparently it did start in Leeds....just saying. " Filled spots does not sound good. | |||
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"So who else in Leeds is moving up their next clinic appointment? I have a feeling the spots will be filling up -Courtney You've got SPOTS! Haha. Apparently it did start in Leeds....just saying. Filled spots does not sound good. " If they are filled spots in a sexual health clinic...filled appointments, I mean....then it sounds great to me. | |||
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"Plastic bags are 5p now too. Where do bags for life come into it? The hessian ones might be a bit rough on the tongue/vajasaurus rex." Woven for your pleasure | |||
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"Typical mainstream media scaremongering. In 2014 one man contracted gonnhorrea in his throat. He told all his swinging partners. A large group of swingers who all knew each other turned up at Bristol central health clinic to be tested. Everyone was completely clean, however the situation was leaked by the clinic to the local press who reported an STI outbreak amongst Bristol swingers. And then The Sun carried the same story." What difference does it make if the story is true or not? STI's exist. Not all show symptoms. If people are so stupid to think they are 100% safe and will never get anything... good for them. | |||
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"Typical mainstream media scaremongering. In 2014 one man contracted gonnhorrea in his throat. He told all his swinging partners. A large group of swingers who all knew each other turned up at Bristol central health clinic to be tested. Everyone was completely clean, however the situation was leaked by the clinic to the local press who reported an STI outbreak amongst Bristol swingers. And then The Sun carried the same story. What difference does it make if the story is true or not? STI's exist. Not all show symptoms. If people are so stupid to think they are 100% safe and will never get anything... good for them. " you chick, cannot handle the truth. | |||
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"Typical mainstream media scaremongering. In 2014 one man contracted gonnhorrea in his throat. He told all his swinging partners. A large group of swingers who all knew each other turned up at Bristol central health clinic to be tested. Everyone was completely clean, however the situation was leaked by the clinic to the local press who reported an STI outbreak amongst Bristol swingers. And then The Sun carried the same story. What difference does it make if the story is true or not? STI's exist. Not all show symptoms. If people are so stupid to think they are 100% safe and will never get anything... good for them. you chick, cannot handle the truth. " What do you mean? | |||
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"In the interests of safe sex, has anyone tried giving/receiving oral with a condom or fem thingy? I can't imagine that working very well? And I assume to finger a woman, would be using a condom too?? For the first 6 months on here I only gave oral with a condom on. The guys still came. The world didn't end. I have since reevaluated, but it isn't that hard to find people who perform and receive oral with a condom -Courtney So how does a guy give safe oral to a woman? " He gets his mate to do it just like the aristocracy have always done ] | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking!" That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking! That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner " We need razor wire at Watford. ] | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking! That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner " I would have said Basingstoke.. | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking! That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner I would have said Basingstoke.. " I don't know where that is | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking! That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner I would have said Basingstoke.. I don't know where that is " You don't get out much do you (Googled Basingstoke) | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking!" Nothing to do with me. | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking! That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner I would have said Basingstoke.. I don't know where that is You don't get out much do you (Googled Basingstoke)" Seriously as little as possible! It's dangerous out there! Although i am cycling around the New forest tomorrow... ( that's even more southerer than me! | |||
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"Plastic bags are 5p now too. Where do bags for life come into it?" They're the ones unlucky guys marry? | |||
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"Plastic bags are 5p now too. Where do bags for life come into it? They're the ones unlucky guys marry?" | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking! That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner We need razor wire at Watford. ]" weeks worth of penicillin there'd be liveaid 3 it this was daan saaaarth | |||
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"So who else in Leeds is moving up their next clinic appointment? I have a feeling the spots will be filling up -Courtney" Since the outbreak started in Leeds in MARCH most swingers who have regular appointments at GUM clinics will have had around four or five appointments. The outbreak is old news | |||
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"So who else in Leeds is moving up their next clinic appointment? I have a feeling the spots will be filling up -Courtney Since the outbreak started in Leeds in MARCH most swingers who have regular appointments at GUM clinics will have had around four or five appointments. The outbreak is old news" | |||
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"This is a current news item on the BBC. It states that the infection is highly drug resistant and is spread by unprotected vaginal, oral and anal sex. Twelve cases have been confirmed in Leeds and a further four have been reported in Macclesfield, Oldham and Scunthorpe. However, there are likely to be more undiagnosed cases. Will it change your swinging activities? " Id love to have a swinging activities first | |||
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"This is a current news item on the BBC. It states that the infection is highly drug resistant and is spread by unprotected vaginal, oral and anal sex. Twelve cases have been confirmed in Leeds and a further four have been reported in Macclesfield, Oldham and Scunthorpe. However, there are likely to be more undiagnosed cases. Will it change your swinging activities? " well best be watching who you sleep with......no wonder why so many people prefer safe sex better that then the alternative.. | |||
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"if I am to get gonorrhea, I want the super one. fuck the one the riff raffs get." I now have images of some sort of superhero character with a capital G emblazoned across a muscly chest | |||
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"if I am to get gonorrhea, I want the super one. fuck the one the riff raffs get. I now have images of some sort of superhero character with a capital G emblazoned across a muscly chest " | |||
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"So who else in Leeds is moving up their next clinic appointment? I have a feeling the spots will be filling up -Courtney Since the outbreak started in Leeds in MARCH most swingers who have regular appointments at GUM clinics will have had around four or five appointments. The outbreak is old news " Fair point. I wasn't looking at the dates... | |||
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"This is a current news item on the BBC. It states that the infection is highly drug resistant and is spread by unprotected vaginal, oral and anal sex. Twelve cases have been confirmed in Leeds and a further four have been reported in Macclesfield, Oldham and Scunthorpe. However, there are likely to be more undiagnosed cases. Will it change your swinging activities? well best be watching who you sleep with......no wonder why so many people prefer safe sex better that then the alternative.. " That is another benefit of regular check ups at a GUM clinic they can keep you informed of the current situation rather than you having to wait 5 or 6 months to find out one needs to be extra careful. If you rely on the TV and newspapers you could have been putting yourself in potential danger for months by being ignorant of the facts. | |||
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"This is a current news item on the BBC. It states that the infection is highly drug resistant and is spread by unprotected vaginal, oral and anal sex. Twelve cases have been confirmed in Leeds and a further four have been reported in Macclesfield, Oldham and Scunthorpe. However, there are likely to be more undiagnosed cases. Will it change your swinging activities? well best be watching who you sleep with......no wonder why so many people prefer safe sex better that then the alternative.. That is another benefit of regular check ups at a GUM clinic they can keep you informed of the current situation rather than you having to wait 5 or 6 months to find out one needs to be extra careful. If you rely on the TV and newspapers you could have been putting yourself in potential danger for months by being ignorant of the facts." I get regular check ups at my local gum clinic. To be fair they never mentioned to me anything about a drug resistant super strain gonorrhea being out there. First I heard about it was in the media this week. | |||
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"Northerners! For pity's sake! Stop fucking! That's anyone north of Watford in case you're not sure if you're a northerner I would have said Basingstoke.. " Says someone from porton down, the place where they experimented on people for the "common cold" aka chemical warfare. Are you sure that you aren't part of a secret experiment? | |||
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