FabSwingers.com forum: Lack of Photo

By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Is it just me or do other single ladies get this?

Swop ten to 15 mails all going well and then they are suddenly not prepared to send a facial photo.

Yes i do refer to a single guy dare i say it.

Are you left wondering what they really look like mmmmmmm

Mecedesx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not just single ladies who get this.

weve had it a few times.

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Well this guy thought i was going to meet him for coffee without seeing a facial photo!

I asked him if he bought a car without seeing it

You can only assume that they are timewasters such a pity as it spoils the site.

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mercedes E240 auto . the smoothest ride on the planet .

Face pics , mine usaully go out with my first message. Would that be the reason for the low reply rate, I wonder .

You have me thinking , maybe I should change my approach lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with you and at a loss as to the point of it,but it happens.Usually preceded by half a dozen mails why theres a delay...

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Mercedes E240 auto . the smoothest ride on the planet .

Face pics , mine usaully go out with my first message. Would that be the reason for the low reply rate, I wonder .

You have me thinking , maybe I should change my approach lol

No dont change your approach please

Shows you are genuine and serious.

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wonder what they look like at all, I just show them a pic of me & say look at what you coulda won....then delete their mail without a backward glance.

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I don't wonder what they look like at all, I just show them a pic of me & say look at what you coulda won....then delete their mail without a backward glance."

I was so tempted to send him a pic of me reclining on the bed and say look what you missed

Mercedes x

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

PS I have just sent him a link to this post.

Mercedesx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or do other single ladies get this?

Swop ten to 15 mails all going well and then they are suddenly not prepared to send a facial photo.

Yes i do refer to a single guy dare i say it.

Are you left wondering what they really look like mmmmmmm

Mecedesx"

Personally I don't have time to engage in email tennis, so 15 messages wouldn't occur in the first place, let alone 15 without seeing who I'm talking too!

Don't hang about me - exchange a couple of messages, photo, phone call, meet for a drink, knock boot - next!!

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Nice one

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face pic within the first few mails then no play, its not just single males, weve had it alot with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS I have just sent him a link to this post.

Mercedesx"

Why? He'll probably laugh at that & think he's god's gift cos you were bothered enough about him to bring it up in the forums

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Hoped he may not waste other peoples time like it!

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's only wasting your time if you spend time on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS I have just sent him a link to this post.

Mercedesx

Why? He'll probably laugh at that & think he's god's gift cos you were bothered enough about him to bring it up in the forums

My thoughts exactly...pointless!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mercedes E240 auto . the smoothest ride on the planet .

Face pics , mine usaully go out with my first message. Would that be the reason for the low reply rate, I wonder .

You have me thinking , maybe I should change my approach lol

No dont change your approach please

Shows you are genuine and serious.

Mercedes x"

At least it would keep them interested for a bit longer lol

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Mercedes E240 auto . the smoothest ride on the planet .

Face pics , mine usaully go out with my first message. Would that be the reason for the low reply rate, I wonder .

You have me thinking , maybe I should change my approach lol

No dont change your approach please

Shows you are genuine and serious.

Mercedes x

At least it would keep them interested for a bit longer lol

We all seek something different

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't wonder what they look like at all, I just show them a pic of me & say look at what you coulda won....then delete their mail without a backward glance.

I was so tempted to send him a pic of me reclining on the bed and say look what you missed

Mercedes x"

you can send photo here so we can see what he missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drive an SLK so hope I'm allowed to join in this thread!

It's happened to me too although I always want to see a face pic very early on otherwise I'm not interested as there has got to be some attraction for me. I'd say the guy is married and doesn't want the risk of his face pic being in the oublic domain.

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I don't wonder what they look like at all, I just show them a pic of me & say look at what you coulda won....then delete their mail without a backward glance.

I was so tempted to send him a pic of me reclining on the bed and say look what you missed

Mercedes x

you can send photo here so we can see what he missed

Now you know what he missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was an unwritten rule to send a face pic with the first mail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic no message if they refuse to send one means they are hiding something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally wait for a few email exchanges, I don't like to mentally scar them straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was an unwritten rule to send a face pic with the first mail?

Does that mean if I mail you I get to see what you look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get it aswell dont worry move on girl.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mercedes E240 auto . the smoothest ride on the planet .

Face pics , mine usaully go out with my first message. Would that be the reason for the low reply rate, I wonder .

You have me thinking , maybe I should change my approach lol

No dont change your approach please

Shows you are genuine and serious.

Mercedes x

At least it would keep them interested for a bit longer lol

We all seek something different

Mercedes x"

Good , then I must be in the right place

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Mercedes E240 auto . the smoothest ride on the planet .

Face pics , mine usaully go out with my first message. Would that be the reason for the low reply rate, I wonder .

You have me thinking , maybe I should change my approach lol

No dont change your approach please

Shows you are genuine and serious.

Mercedes x

At least it would keep them interested for a bit longer lol

We all seek something different

Mercedes x

Good , then I must be in the right place

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i do the same always send face pic in the first cpl of messages why chat for hours only for them to say no thanks

not what there looking for

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By *ercedes62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Thanks all for your comments.

Mercedes x

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