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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that what alot of people here are after. Some would go miles for a night of sex with out even getting to know a person. If thay had to pay cost them loads. Weird how some can make you feel like a peace of meat. Sex with out passion, lust, is so boring to me like going to the loo. We like too get to know people is that so rear? or are most just looking for cheap sex. Thats why??.Afraid of intimacy and getting close so after anonymous sex. JO XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its another reason lots of us single guys get a bad rep because some men are just interested in one thing and only think with there nobs.

i always like to get to know someone it makes the sex so much better and fun.

a womans g spot is in her brain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its another reason lots of us single guys get a bad rep because some men are just interested in one thing and only think with there nobs.

i always like to get to know someone it makes the sex so much better and fun.

a womans g spot is in her brain lol

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You just have to find it among the thoughts of shopping,handbags and shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh thought this thread was somthing to do with the credit crunch lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh thought this thread was somthing to do with the credit crunch lol"
wow you could be on to somthing there ,, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest i prefure sex with strangers, i cant have sex with people i class as friends, if i meet someone off the net and play with them but then get to know them well as a friend i can no longer have sex with them and also the other way round, if i have gotten to know someone via socials etc and gotten frendly with them i cant have sex with them, nothing to do with the person i just value freindship more than sex and theres so many times swinging goes wrong, swinging isnt always as simple as meet someone build up a friendship and have a long happy sex life with them, jealousy and love offen creeps in, have had it a few times when meeting people regular we classed as friends, one couple we met decided we was going to only meet them excusivly and fell out with us because we said no, and we met another couples where she left her husband because she fell for my husband big time and truely though he would leave me and move in with her, to me theres the social side of swinging and the sex side of swinging and id sooner keep the people on both sides separate, and thats not because im after cheep sex its just how i feel it works better for me

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By *peedypeteMan
over a year ago

derby

I love meeting new folks, couples and single women. When I first started swingign I used to chat and exchange mesages and sometimes speak on phone before making the meet. If u ened up ahving sex with someoen on a meet, thats the cicing on the cake, but it usually follows at laesr a drink if not a meal and if a hoitel is frequired I usually pay for that too.

BUT, I have been messed around so uch mainly bycouples, booking rooms and failing to show up, switching off their mobiles so u can't check if they are delayed etc.

I have been looking for another swing partner, but seems the single women now don't want what I offer any more. I teat all women I meet with respect but neevr seem to get it in return anymore. How times have chanegd in the swinging world.

So any women who want to be treated as a woman get in touch.

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Well we've not personally seen those sort of extremes from meeting some swingers regularly, but we would say once we become friends with them, yes we tend to have sex with them less than when we were just plain swinging.

Sex with strangers we only just met an hour ago, we find very raunchy and exciting even if it ends up as a one night stand.

The best compromise for us are the couples we class as 'friends' and catch up with every so often, it keeps things fresh and fun.

We wouldn't say the sex is less passionate because they are almost complete strangers, but often more so.

Passion to us seems to depend on various other factors, mainly :

'do your playmates like to snog your face off and do lot's of feely/touchy/kissy stuff?' yes = lot's of passion, even if you are doing separate room

'do your playmates like to get into intense same room 4sum fun, especially when both girls fancy the pants of each other as well' yes = lot's of passion

Regards swinging being cheap, money wise - undoubtably. Compared to going out for a meal/drinks on the town it's dead cheap.

Meeting a couple off her costs little more than the petrol.

Even going to a club, you pay your admission and mostly take your own booze - including taxi's both ways and taking a couple bottles with us, a Saturday night out at our local swingers club is about £40 for the two of us

Ou vanilla employee (who knows we swing regularly) thinks 'Not only is it a cheap night out, you are guaranteed to get laid as well'.

Unbeatable value we would say.

These vanilla's up town on a Saturday night binge drinking, don't really know what they are missing do they lol

xxxxx

ju & rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello folks,

I’m new to the site.

Interesting thread, for me it’s how I feel at the time. A quickie can be fun with the cut to the chase and no time wasted. But at times the conversation over a meal and glass of good wine can be enticing. As with sex with friends, some you can do it with knowing there’s no tie and others you just can’t for a plethora of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with naughtynymphos and _ichnjudy, once I become friends with those anonymous sex partners they are not so easy to play with and it tails off, or as you say make friends with someone beforehand I just can't have sex with them, it's very difficult to get the 'know them enough to want to play or know them too much to not want to play' balance just right!

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By *he OFFICERMan
over a year ago

bristol

HI JO ,AS A SINGLE GUY AND QUITE NEW TO ALL THIS, I DO FIND IT VERY EROTIC, EXCITING, FULL OF ANTICIPATION AND THE UNEXPECTED,I HAVE NEVER MET ANYONE FROM A WEBSITE OF ANY KIND, BUT THANKS TO A TWIST OF FATE I WENT TO A CLUB IN BRISTOL AND GO REGULARLY NOW, I LOVE IT THERE BUT I DO FIND IT HARD TO BE FORWARD LIKE MOST OF THE GUYS AND TEND TO HOLD BACK, WHICH USUALLY RESULTS IN ME BEING LEFT OUT MOST OF THE TIME, I DONT MIND I DO HAVE A LITTLE FUN NOW AND THEN BUT STILL FEEL AS IF I AM INTRUDING SOMEWHAT, I KNOW THATS NOT THE CASE AS THE LADIES WOULDN'T ALLOW IT IF THEY DIDN'T WANT US TO BE THERE.I DONT THINK MOST GUYS THINK OF IT AS CHEAP SEX, I CERTAINLY DONT BECAUSE AS A TAXI DRIVER HAVING A FRIDAY NIGHT OFF WORK, ENTRY FEE, AND TAXIS ETC IT COSTS ME APPROX £150 TO GO TO THE OFFICE. I JUST LOVE AND ENJOY THE ATMOSPHERE, THE EXCITEMENT, AND TALKING TO AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE.BUT YOU MUST BE RIGHT THOUGH THERE ARE PROBABLY GUYS OUT THERE WHO DO THINK OF IT AS CHEAP SEX ! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i have had sex with strangers some have been erotic and never seen them again lol. its just some have made me feel like meat ,, I would like friends i can call on when horny ,, lol or come for a dirty weekend on my boat.lol I can see why some would not like too get close too play mates mm as its a risk but to me life a risk and we never know whats around the corner of life. We are just out too have fun really lots of it. xx kisses jo

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

for us as a couple with another couple there has to be a spark, but th real thrill is about watching each other, thats were our main thrill comes from, then getting home and "dining out" on what happened so to speak, we also would be uncomftable swinging with people we know as friends

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

It would be nice to get to know your multiple sex partners closer....but I would feel it's better to keep a distance relationship with people I have met for swinging...to reduce possibility of friends crossing over...:D...but there's also thrill of anonymous sex...I would prefer to not know my sex partners name...:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheap sex, is the real reason most are here. After all you can buy people for sex and Hundreds if not thousands of pounds.

Many don't want to pay for sex, I don't as such. People don't want to accommodate, but happy to go to theirs, all with min outlay...

I have done it as a couple, single and as a bi chap. Most don't want to spend money on it, a club is slightly different. Look at how many no shows seem to pop up in the threads. Who will book a £50 room and risk a no show...

I know a nice place and they only charge £11 and it good, better if you have aranged to meet, lol

So guess it is cheap sex, not free mind you, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess people will feel like meat if it a quick fumble and a wham bang thank you...Ferry sex, RORO, role on, Roll off.

It the quality of the play that counts...How well you all play, are all smiling are all nicely sore, lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I have to agree with naughtynymphos and _ichnjudy, once I become friends with those anonymous sex partners they are not so easy to play with and it tails off, or as you say make friends with someone beforehand I just can't have sex with them, it's very difficult to get the 'know them enough to want to play or know them too much to not want to play' balance just right! "

Couldn't have put it better myself so I am using your words lainey

It is the same for us ,we don't want friends to have sex with, just strangers for NSA sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheap sex, is the real reason most are here. After all you can buy people for sex and Hundreds if not thousands of pounds.

Many don't want to pay for sex, I don't as such. People don't want to accommodate, but happy to go to theirs, all with min outlay...

I have done it as a couple, single and as a bi chap. Most don't want to spend money on it, a club is slightly different. Look at how many no shows seem to pop up in the threads. Who will book a £50 room and risk a no show...

I know a nice place and they only charge £11 and it good, better if you have aranged to meet, lol

So guess it is cheap sex, not free mind you, lol"
I know this single man who do pay woman for sex cost 100s and not for hours. Loads here get sex for free and should think them selfs very lucky , lol We think ourselfs lucky if i meet nice single or couple and sex Fab x and free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been looking for another swing partner, but seems the single women now don't want what I offer any more. I teat all women I meet with respect but neevr seem to get it in return anymore. How times have chanegd in the swinging world.

So any women who want to be treated as a woman get in touch.

"

I quite agree. The old adage 'What Women Want' often applies on this site.

Always you see on this site 'No One Liners' but you send a nice polite introductory message.. AND NO REPLY.

I was brought up to be an honest, decent man and to treat a woman with respect, but when you try that it turns out that they would prefer the 'bad boys' and would rather be dragged upstairs by the hair than be with a man who is attentive and makes sure the female is satisfied as well as 'cum n go'.

Its often said that a good personality, sense of humour and confidence is the sexiest thing about a man but they never chat to you to find out!!

I joined this site for cheap sex, it is a swingers site after all. I understand that people have the right to be fussy and choose who they want to sleep with but why cant they be more precise with what they want.

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