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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi to all the genuine (playing by the rules ) swingers out there .....just a little warning to some off you to let you be aware that there are some bad men out there....3 weeks ago we arranged a meet with a local guy after messaging for days and phone convos the meet was arranged he was given our home address and we awaited his arrival ...he let us down 30 mins before he was due to arrive ...so as a time waster he was blocked and deleted end of story ..........OH NO !!! last night nearing midnight we were awoken to our door being knocked by guess who ....NO not santa ......it was the time wasting fool who had let us down he had the cheek to turn up without any contact expecting a meet ....this is total disrespect for others and the scene ...anyone else encountered this ??

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that is shocking of him to do that.

so sorry to read this.

good luck for the future, many great people on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey...I hope your hubby got the shot gun out. Cheeky bleeder.

Not nice at all, I have kids so I'd be mortified if someone turned up at my door uninvited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky and extremely rude!

Did he come expecting fun or to ask why he'd been blocked/reported?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised your hubby didnt lamp him one. I would have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats disgusting and worrying at same time...what a cheeky twat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the replies no J didnt get to go to the door as he thought it was our neighbour knocking that time at night having one off her many crisis lol....i was shocked and told him he had the wrong address was shocked to be honest that something this much fun could turn dangerous but its ok i got the baseball bat and the rough end of a pineapple if the f****r comes back ....we have messaged him asking for an explanation of his actions but as of yet he has not replied ....slowly losing my faith on single guy meets now which is wrong as i do enjoy the genuine ppl we have met xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why we never meet single guys at home, you never know, we are careful with others also and dont often give out our address until we have met them, saftey first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you,re mixing a time waster up with a twat! time wasters don't cancel meets, and they tend never to turn up, never mind unannounced

Yep twat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should hit him with the pineapple and but the bb bat elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for the replies no J didnt get to go to the door as he thought it was our neighbour knocking that time at night having one off her many crisis lol....i was shocked and told him he had the wrong address was shocked to be honest that something this much fun could turn dangerous but its ok i got the baseball bat and the rough end of a pineapple if the f****r comes back ....we have messaged him asking for an explanation of his actions but as of yet he has not replied ....slowly losing my faith on single guy meets now which is wrong as i do enjoy the genuine ppl we have met xx"

Most single guys wouldnt dream of doing that but must admit, its bound to make you think twice. I have heard of similar cases, mainly from single ladies being pestered.

In future, I would only concentrate on guys who have a few verifications. The guy in question might have had a few, I dont know, and I realise its still no guarantee.

Good luck anyway. Have fun

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I had an older lady I used to text a lot and we were moving toward a meet. When I didn't text her for a couple of days once she went bonkers at me.

She apologised a few days later but I just thought 'no thanks, I don't need a stalker' and stopped texting her back.

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By *enderbycoupleCouple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish

heard about this sort of thing happening a lot and for that reason we do not accomodate and never will.hope you sent the fool packing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a plonker and one who need to be taught a lesson ..time waster and unannounced meets do not go down well

I imagine he wont explain his moptives to you

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Its always been one of my concerns as i play at home.

Todate though thank goodness its never happened to me.

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For this reason we always try and arrange to meet in a neutral venue first. We cannot believe anyone would do something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh for the good old days when you'd have had a piss pot under your bed eh?

XXXX

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't give anyone my house number before hand. They have to call me when they are on my street or when I am at least sure they are on their way and nearly here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single guys and 95% of the meets are in my home. I've NEVER had a single man overstep his boundaries and turn up at my house unannounced, and most of them are local to me. One of my playmates we used to bump into each other in Sainsbury's, we were both on our own and just barely acknowledged each other. We didn't stop in the middle of the frozen section for a chin wag - and we've been playing together for three years...boundaries!!!

This is not the first tale I've read about men turning up unannounced, someone posted this week about taking a taxi to a meets house and he turned up at hers as he knew the taxi owner and he gave him her address!!!

This was a totally unacceeptable thing for this man to do, but please don't tar all single men with the same brush.

In three years I've not encountered a timewaster as I always meet socially first to gauge the type of person they are. I've been able to spot a few unsavourary characters that way for sure!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Was he pissed? I can't believe anyone would be so outrageous to act like that without being tanked up. I reckon a seeing to with the baseball bat would have been the best outcome really.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We don't ever give out our home address to any one - we always meet in a pub round the corner and they only get invited back if we're totally happy, can't imagine giving a random bloke who I had never met my address. Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks all for your replies xx

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