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Percentage of real to fake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just trying to gauge what ppl think really!

I wouldn't say I'm drop dead gorgeous, but I would say I'm worthy of more than I get on here!

100% of my contact emails are deleted, surely I'm not THAT BAD, I see guys with loads of meets under their belts that are normal like me!

This begs the question, 'how many ppl on here are here to meet, or just here for the confidence boost/help a failing sex life'?

I know I'm in the 'single male'(leper) section, but I didn't expect to be ignored so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude... your profile says you only joined 1 week ago! Give it a chance...some people wait months on end..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude... your profile says you only joined 1 week ago! Give it a chance...some people wait months on end.."

I agree,did you join thinking every email you sent the women would drop their knickers? Or that you would have at least a meet everynight of the week?

It takes time to get a meet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was a member a while back, just returned after I became single again!

Surely if you were here months then you would have messaged all the members and found out that nobody wants to meet, how thick skinned does one have to be?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not at all, just wondered why there seems to be a wide use of the delete button by so many women!

The odds are that at least one would return mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read some of the many "help with my profile threads" you might find that your profile goes against most of the advise on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont score with that cock buddy what chance have we all got Lol.

seriiusly buddy its a percentage game, someout there wants ya.

Keep it up so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you looked at the other blokes profiles, the ones with meets, did they have something on their profile about what they wanted, what they were looking for? Did they have pictures other than of their knobs? Did they give the impression they were chilled and relaxed and didn't give the impression they were God's gift and the slappers, erm I mean the women on here were damned lucky they were on site instead of deleting their messages.

Well?

Just a thought like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you’ve been here a week, you have now made your first post in the forums. Was it to introduce yourself? Hell no, it was to whinge why you’re not getting people rushing to meet you, and to question if anyone every meets, if you genuinely believe having 5 pictures of your cock and sending out messages is going to have everyone falling at your feet then there’s not much advice anyone can give you that may be of help to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the fact that you appear to be decapitated offputting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, just wondered why there seems to be a wide use of the delete button by so many women!

The odds are that at least one would return mail."

Its called choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Questions to the OP....

When you was a member a while back, were you on as a single or as a couple?

How long were you on for in that period and did you have any meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the downsides of the internet. Couples and single women are inundated with messages. I met a girl in summer, we went on Fab chat. She had over 200 unread messages - not enough hours in the day.

I started in the lifestyle back in the days of Desire magazine. Took 6 weeks to get a response, but they came. Its so easy to message and delete today.

Clubs and socials are probably a good alternative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the 5 cock shots are putting people off?

We all know what one looks like x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few replies on here have answered my second question, thanks!

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

and you think 5 pics of yr cock on yr profile is enough too woo the ladies?

have fun

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"Maybe the 5 cock shots are putting people off?

We all know what one looks like x"

oops sorry - didnt see you had already stated the bleeding obvious lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and you think 5 pics of yr cock on yr profile is enough too woo the ladies?

have fun "

Hey he might have 5 cocks and be really talented! Lucky bugger! Saves on a woman of having 5 men round for a gang bang

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

I replied to each and every one of the 400+ messages that I received in my first week on the site - and blocked 3 of them.

To be honest those profiles that just had cock shots on, got really boring to _iew. Those profiles that made the individual sounds like an interesting person got my vote, those that said 'here I am, come and get it' - well I passed up on those.

I would rather be treated as a sexy female than 'your female, you've got a pulse ....... next'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True, but, when I was last on I resisted putting one up, anytime I did get a message the first that was asked was 'how big is your cock'!

I suppose it's subjective really, I didn't want attacking, but I suppose flaming someone seems to be some peoples main desire in life!

I did meet last time and I was on as a single guy, this was over a year ago!

As for what's on my profile, I have written other things and find it difficult to convey how I see myself in a way that meets expectations, your either cheesy, boring, full of yourself, again, it's subjective!

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

yet you expect instant acceptance from any fem you message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect to meet nobody and be happy if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put it in perspective for you. We are a couple that pretty much only meets single guys. (Albeit a few at a time)

Yet we constantly get guys that after we reply never get back to us, or worse they do not turn up. We get more wasted time meets than anything else.

Yes okay what we want isnt for everyone, but that is made clear long before they get there.

So it is not just a single guy thing. and when we are looking for women only thats even harder.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to gauge what ppl think really!

I wouldn't say I'm drop dead gorgeous, but I would say I'm worthy of more than I get on here!

100% of my contact emails are deleted, surely I'm not THAT BAD, I see guys with loads of meets under their belts that are normal like me!

This begs the question, 'how many ppl on here are here to meet, or just here for the confidence boost/help a failing sex life'?

I know I'm in the 'single male'(leper) section, but I didn't expect to be ignored so much!"

Your profile is just the same as 100's of others and there are lots more interesting with better pictures so what do you expect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I now have 2 , I can't and won't post my face pic on here as I have my own business and don't want to tempt the chance of customers seeing it on here!

I will have to try using my imagination and cone up with some arty attempts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, I now have 2 , I can't and won't post my face pic on here as I have my own business and don't want to tempt the chance of customers seeing it on here!

I will have to try using my imagination and cone up with some arty attempts!

"

Take it you wont even have a face pic in private?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

went to answer this... but thought better of it.

good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, I expect manners!

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By *indaddCouple
over a year ago

lichfield

if i get cock pics sent i just delete, id rarther hv a funny message with a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fuck ya....or I would've done until I saw that you have no head....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In response to the OP. I do always try to reply even if its a polite, No thank you.

However, sometimes it is obvious that someone has not even read our profile. Like when we get guys asking if I want to try black cock.. as it states I am not interested in that. Or couples asking to meet when we do not meet couples. Those I tend to just delete without reply.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I expect manners!"

If you expect manners you really need to show them too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do actually, one face and the pic in my profile with my face uncovered!

Do not assume when you know nothing about me thankyou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile header says' Ha ha whatever?

Your status update says' What do you have to do to arouse some interest on here?

Your profile states' I don't know what to write on here now!

Along with' If you like my cock, then let me know

Coupled with 5 photos all showing said cock

And not a single interest selected

Surely you yourself can see whats holding you back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do actually, one face and the pic in my profile with my face uncovered!

Do not assume when you know nothing about me thankyou!"

I just wondered as you said you wont have face pics on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So writing a nice well thought out message isn't well mannered, I always reply with a face pic and never copy paste, how is that not well mannered?

I don't know where in this post I have expressed bad manners, maybe a little ignorance to how the swinging world works, but not bad mannered!

Maybe wrote bad mannered a few too many times there!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If you have looked at a load of other blokes profiles, and you see their meets listed...

...Doesn't that answer your question?

I've no idea why your current approach isn't working, especially as it is presumably the same approach that DID work for you on your previous profile...by the way, awful luck that none of your previous co-players are on the site any more..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't having a go...but suggesting people not responding to you because have messaged them are somehow doing something 'wrong' is...a little.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Your profile header says' Ha ha whatever?

Your status update says' What do you have to do to arouse some interest on here?

Your profile states' I don't know what to write on here now!

Along with' If you like my cock, then let me know

Coupled with 5 photos all showing said cock

And not a single interest selected

"

Does this match your previous profile, or did you actually put 3 seconds effort into that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see that, I read a post on here about what people didn't like seeing in profiles and it left me thinking 'god knows'.

My original question hasn't ever been answered yet!

I have had mail btw, all of them from nice people, I only wanted to gauge what people thought, I gave the example of me so ppl knew I was coming from!

I guess there are strong feelings on here that I've woken up, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems to me you think your a bit of a gods gift type of guy,maybe be wrong but thats how i read it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP raises the point 100% of his messages were being deleted without reply…and there have been many suggestions posted on this thread as to why this maybe occurring….. However, without seeing an example of the messages which the OP uses …perhaps part of the root of his problems may infact be down to the content or wording these messages….. It might be an interesting addition to the thread if the Op were to post an example of the type of message he sends to potential partners….. then perhaps forum members could perhaps offer further helpful suggestion based on a critique of the Op’s messaging techniques …..

Well its just a suggestion…. OMG…..stop staring at me like that

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

OK to answer your original question how about 89.2% real to 10.8% fake! Is that about the figures you were thinking?

It isn't a question that anyone can really answer and being honest I am not too sure if, by the way you are answering some people's own opinions on this thread, that you would actually take any notice of what percentages they come up with anyway!

Why you are not getting replies to your mail can only ever be answered by the people who have decided (for their own reasons) not to reply to you.

Anyone answering here will only ever give you why they wouldn't answer, so catch22 situation I'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for answering the question I asked!

Master and Katie, thankyou for your contribution, you didn't jump on me like most of the others!

I don't think I'm gods gift at all, I regard myself as being a nice looking guy, do other ppl hate themselves?

I asked a question with an example, I didn't ask for a personal dressing down from the 'swinging professionals'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh blimey folk need to lighten up a bit!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

About 60% ish

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

Obviously there is no such thing as an ideal profile, and why some seem attractive can be intangible, but,I don't know if others agree, OP's profile has the whiff of negativity and mild despair about it, never an attractive selling point.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I'd fuck ya....or I would've done until I saw that you have no head.... "

pmsl

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"The OP raises the point 100% of his messages were being deleted without reply…and there have been many suggestions posted on this thread as to why this maybe occurring….. However, without seeing an example of the messages which the OP uses …perhaps part of the root of his problems may infact be down to the content or wording these messages….. It might be an interesting addition to the thread if the Op were to post an example of the type of message he sends to potential partners….. then perhaps forum members could perhaps offer further helpful suggestion based on a critique of the Op’s messaging techniques …..

Well its just a suggestion…. OMG…..stop staring at me like that

"

Where the hell have you been missy?

I've been worried sick!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd fuck ya....or I would've done until I saw that you have no head....

pmsl "

The headless horseman had no problems I'm told!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(quote)Where the hell have you been missy?

I've been worried sick!

Oi,,,Oi,,, Munkyboi,,,,"Ho-ho-ho"…. Ahem (forgive my seasonal lol )…strooooof,,,,, Munky o'l fella!!!! dinna go worry’in aboot me man!….,,,, I’ve just been chasing wild geese,,, as ya do this time of year!, that all……. and ffs it’s not as easy as you’d imagine…….gawd damn,, Slippery lil suckers….. Ho-ho-ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for answering the question I asked!

Master and Katie, thankyou for your contribution, you didn't jump on me like most of the others!

I don't think I'm gods gift at all, I regard myself as being a nice looking guy, do other ppl hate themselves?

I asked a question with an example, I didn't ask for a personal dressing down from the 'swinging professionals'."

Its an open forum. If you put things up then expect good and not so good response. If your not able to take some negativity then its simple, don't post topics in the first place as petulance is an unimpressive trait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha, yeh I know, im a big boy I can take it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha, yeh I know, im a big boy I can take it!"

You say that but some of your comments above say differently. Frustration at lack of a reply on here affects many not just you and just because someone doesn't reply doesn't make them fake just selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for answering the question I asked!

Master and Katie, thankyou for your contribution, you didn't jump on me like most of the others!

I don't think I'm gods gift at all, I regard myself as being a nice looking guy, do other ppl hate themselves?

I asked a question with an example, I didn't ask for a personal dressing down from the 'swinging professionals'.

Its an open forum. If you put things up then expect good and not so good response. If your not able to take some negativity then its simple, don't post topics in the first place as petulance is an unimpressive trait."

Swinging Professionals -

*hides behind desk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, just wondered why there seems to be a wide use of the delete button by so many women!

The odds are that at least one would return mail."

Because my dear you are not what they are looking for and instead of taking it to heart move on,I get over 300 messages a day,I delete most of them as I don't have time to answer every single one,maybe rude I know.

As someone said you have been here a week,give it bloody time,some people have been on here over a year with out a meet so count yourself lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the 5 cock shots are putting people off?

We all know what one looks like x"

Seen one cock seen them all!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all, just wondered why there seems to be a wide use of the delete button by so many women!

The odds are that at least one would return mail.

Because my dear you are not what they are looking for and instead of taking it to heart move on,I get over 300 messages a day,I delete most of them as I don't have time to answer every single one,maybe rude I know.

As someone said you have been here a week,give it bloody time,some people have been on here over a year with out a meet so count yourself lucky"

This people is how to respond, no nastiness, straight to the point, thanks!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I get over 300 messages a day"

where do you find the time to post?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe the 5 cock shots are putting people off?

We all know what one looks like x

Seen one cock seen them all!!"

Even king dongs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the 5 cock shots are putting people off?

We all know what one looks like x

Seen one cock seen them all!!

Even king dongs?"

Never seen his but if you have a picture message it me lol.

No theres no need for nastiness,just put a few more "normal" pics up and you will do just fine.

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get over 300 messages a day

where do you find the time to post? "

Most of them are "fancy a fuck?" so they get deleted,actually they all are,I keep the funny ones to giggle over at a later date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe the 5 cock shots are putting people off?

We all know what one looks like x

Seen one cock seen them all!!

Even king dongs?

Never seen his but if you have a picture message it me lol.

No theres no need for nastiness,just put a few more "normal" pics up and you will do just fine.

xxxx"

Normal as in clothed or ones without a cock on show but naked still?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clothed ones and maybe a bum pic,I like a nice bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a cpl that invite single guys, if we recieve mails without a face pic we immediately block and delete without reply and also the ones she has no interest in we dont see the point in mailing back to recieve a possible nasty one back if the person in questionn cannot take rejection.believe it or not it is heard of on here lol....as our profile clearly states pic required as there has to be an attraction .but to state that cpls are here just looking for praise is utter garbage......we could state that single guys think that all women on here are desperate sex they cant get at home and here for something only they can provide and will shag anything that move.....HELLOOOOOOOOO its down to personal choice doesnt mean u wont be someone else cup of tea.just not ours...get over it and move on or try another site.....there all as bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't say all cpls, but I bet some are, are all men on here married, no, not all women are sex hungry, I wanted to gauge what others thought thats all!

The bum pic is the hardest to take on your own and make it a good one, but I will try!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Fancy a shag?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Nope... ahhh well, can't say I didn't offer.... bloody timewasters!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Fancy a shag?"

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

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By *in and TonicCouple
over a year ago

Knaresborough

We are a couple who mostly invite guys. It does not mean we dont have great sex ourselves, it's just what we enjoy. warwicks1 hit the nail on the head. If you've got a one line profile, and not bothered to send a face pic with your message we just delete.. Very few profile or messages catch our eye, but when we have met the we have had a fantastic nught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )"

No it isn't!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

No it isn't! "

Ahhhh it's close enough... as the actress said to the bishop.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

No it isn't! "

I rounded it down to the nearest tenth of a percent as the forum might crash if tried to type it out in full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very wise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

No it isn't! "

So what is?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

[Removed by poster at 10/12/10 17:18:41]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33.3333333

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

No it isn't!

So what is?"

33.333...recurring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 10/12/10 17:18:41]"

You would appear to be wrong...again.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

No it isn't! "

*Damn - The site thought my answer was a Phone Number pmsl - So re-done it *

100/3 = 33.33333 (and loads more 3's) I could go on with more decimal points but it widely taken that 33.3 is a third of 100!

So maths fans yer safe to take it as correct!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"[Removed by poster at 10/12/10 17:18:41]

You would appear to be wrong...again. "

No as my next post explains I am not wrong just the site didn't like me posting too many 3's

And what do you mean again????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

No it isn't!

*Damn - The site thought my answer was a Phone Number pmsl - So re-done it *

100/3 = 33.33333 (and loads more 3's) I could go on with more decimal points but it widely taken that 33.3 is a third of 100!

So maths fans yer safe to take it as correct! "

Not 'loads' more...an infinite number more!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Fancy a shag?

Yes please!

By the way has anyone guessed the right percentage yet? I've changed mine to 33.3% (that's a third maths fans )

No it isn't!

*Damn - The site thought my answer was a Phone Number pmsl - So re-done it *

100/3 = 33.33333 (and loads more 3's) I could go on with more decimal points but it widely taken that 33.3 is a third of 100!

So maths fans yer safe to take it as correct!

Not 'loads' more...an infinite number more!"

Oh dear Bertie

I will leave you to your little game of guess the number of 3's in a third of 100!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you _b430...you are very sweet

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i would say 67%real.30% fake.and the other 7% are not all that good at percentages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only answer for myself and your profile would put me off, not because you're not a sexy young fit guy, but because you have put, not wanting to choose this as a lifestyle, just miss sex ......

It insults me to think that guys think they can come onto a swinging site and post messages and the women on here will just fall at their feet (or their cock) and have sex with them. We are not here as a public service. Swinging is not "shag anything cos we are dirty sluts", it is a lifestyle which is much much more than sex. If you want one off sexual encounters go out on the pull to clubs, you will get more success

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!"

Oh dear! When we used to meet single guys, we too would have avoided your profile for the same reason as Iconic. Not because our life is "that empty" because it certainly isn't... I also have my own business and what with our kids and Grandchildren plus holidays, oh and work..

The reason was not that you don't want it as a lifestyle, but that you just want to come on here because you "miss sex"! Nothing about knowing people just a shag and gone!

You will no doubt find some on here who are looking for that, but as they will have a queue, you may indeed have better luck at a pub/club on a Saturday night!

No doubt we will also be on your list of the sort of couple you wouldn't meet along with any who have posted what you didn't want to hear, but that is OK cos we don't meet singles anymore after being let down so often..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!"

My life isnt empty at all, and swinging is not my life - its a naughty extra. I wasnt being offensive at all and missing sex is not wrong at all. That wasnt what I was getting at. But swinging is a community, too many guys, younger, married, whatever, just treat it as a place that they can come and get no string attached sex and assume that every woman on here will give them that. That is why there are so many threads started with guys really shocked that they havent had any replies to their messages. They assume that all us ladies are gagging for it 24/7. That is not the case.

Swinging is so much more than sex, it gives you the opportunity to express yourself, to live out fantasy in a safe controlled way, to meet a wide variety of people, to talk about sexuality in an uninhibited way, to attend socials and get to know people, to wear sexy clothes and feel a million dollars, so I would want to meet others who understand it in the way I do, and not just the ones that think its a quick and easy way to get sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!

My life isnt empty at all, and swinging is not my life - its a naughty extra. I wasnt being offensive at all and missing sex is not wrong at all. That wasnt what I was getting at. But swinging is a community, too many guys, younger, married, whatever, just treat it as a place that they can come and get no string attached sex and assume that every woman on here will give them that. That is why there are so many threads started with guys really shocked that they havent had any replies to their messages. They assume that all us ladies are gagging for it 24/7. That is not the case.

Swinging is so much more than sex, it gives you the opportunity to express yourself, to live out fantasy in a safe controlled way, to meet a wide variety of people, to talk about sexuality in an uninhibited way, to attend socials and get to know people, to wear sexy clothes and feel a million dollars, so I would want to meet others who understand it in the way I do, and not just the ones that think its a quick and easy way to get sex. "

A round of applause Iconic I could'nt agree more well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fascinating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!

My life isnt empty at all, and swinging is not my life - its a naughty extra. I wasnt being offensive at all and missing sex is not wrong at all. That wasnt what I was getting at. But swinging is a community, too many guys, younger, married, whatever, just treat it as a place that they can come and get no string attached sex and assume that every woman on here will give them that. That is why there are so many threads started with guys really shocked that they havent had any replies to their messages. They assume that all us ladies are gagging for it 24/7. That is not the case.

Swinging is so much more than sex, it gives you the opportunity to express yourself, to live out fantasy in a safe controlled way, to meet a wide variety of people, to talk about sexuality in an uninhibited way, to attend socials and get to know people, to wear sexy clothes and feel a million dollars, so I would want to meet others who understand it in the way I do, and not just the ones that think its a quick and easy way to get sex.

A round of applause Iconic I could'nt agree more well said."

Standing ovation from me: very well said!

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!

My life isnt empty at all, and swinging is not my life - its a naughty extra. I wasnt being offensive at all and missing sex is not wrong at all. That wasnt what I was getting at. But swinging is a community, too many guys, younger, married, whatever, just treat it as a place that they can come and get no string attached sex and assume that every woman on here will give them that. That is why there are so many threads started with guys really shocked that they havent had any replies to their messages. They assume that all us ladies are gagging for it 24/7. That is not the case.

Swinging is so much more than sex, it gives you the opportunity to express yourself, to live out fantasy in a safe controlled way, to meet a wide variety of people, to talk about sexuality in an uninhibited way, to attend socials and get to know people, to wear sexy clothes and feel a million dollars, so I would want to meet others who understand it in the way I do, and not just the ones that think its a quick and easy way to get sex. "

and from me...2nd time today someone has posted exactly what I wanted to say...lol keep it up I am having to type a lot less...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with ironic1

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!"

this is what I mean when I say that for a lot of people here there is a difference between what is a swinging site and a sex site.... for me they are not the same thing....

there is a sense of Community here whether that be those in the chatroom, those in the forums, those that go to clubs and those who go to socials... people here do like the converse and it is not all about sex

as people have said.. this has never tended to be "insta-shag" there are other site which are like meat markets and i think that is a difference between the guys who make it here... and the guys who do....

I am not the best looking of guys, but I like to think that I "get" what the site is about and that is the thing that gets me meets and make friends and have a laugh... it is as much an "attitude" thing as it is a looks thing...

if that is your attitude to people who actually took the time to contribute to the thread... then I am not surprised that you are stuggling...

sorry, but telling it like it looks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with Iconic and Fabio x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree with Iconic and Fabio x"

ditto.....if you want insta-shag then I suggest you join a site like Tagged lol loads of horny men and women on there and they ain't fussy either :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well said ironic1.

There seems to be a lot of assuming going on in this world it seems.

Men assume women to be sex hungry, women assuming men are sad pervs, timewasters, married and cpls assuming what they want to assume.

Not all though, just quite a few!

I have been swinging on and off for 10 years, started as a cpl with an old gf, we started on swing2us and had a few meets, when we split up I continued!

When we were on swing2us we made it our lifestyle, maybe because we were young we quickly grew tired of the constant crap we received from older cpls, ones who thought of themselves as the voice of swinging, this is still true today!

I didn't ask for the way I've been spoken to by quite a few people on here, constructive advice is a hell of a lot different to negative abuse! A few people have worded their advice in a way that made me think, yes, I can see what your saying. A fair few have just flown in and been downright nasty, which in my opinion, devalues what they've said!

I'm not a jumped up big headed arrogant person who expects women to fall at my feet and stick her legs in the air, i'm just not very good at describing myself in written word!

Most things that have been written at me have been from an assumption, I never said I wanted easy sex, I never said I was a sex god , its so easy to read what other people have written and assume that thats what the person must be like!

Sorry for the wall of text, I just wanted to express my disappointment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP no one has aboused you on this thread.

All ive seen is people people giving you advice and say why they think your emails are being deleted.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

well I'd like to add my disappointment as well... but to you yorkscock

actually yorks to be honest... I don't think people have been nasty to you in the thread at all...

they talked to you about cock pics (and the multitude of them)

they talked to you about the lack of a face pic....

they talked to you about the amount of mail they get...

they mentioned about what you wrote in your profile....

You "COULD" have taken it in with the spirit it was given, I mean people didn't have to take the time to respond to you at all....

and your response to this.... to pull out the "victim, oh woe is me" card, actually that is that I am most disappointed about this...

this is the reason I don't give out advice anymore.... its not worth the hassle you get if it is not taken in

Ironic made the point about it being a big communtity, if you don't want to be part of that then that is your decision, however with that decision there is a consequence to that, which happens to be that a lot of people will agree with what they said....

I tell you what I think... Ironic made about as much sense in a post that I have seen in a long time....

it went in one ear... it went out the other, and none of it stuck.... sorry... that is what it looks like

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Sorry iconic if your lifes that empty that this becomes your life. I have a life that takes precedent to this, children tends to sort that one out, I'm not gonna apologise for missing sex, i do! You seem like the cpl i would avoid anyway so good luck I'm sure you have enough replies to not worry about me!

My life isnt empty at all, and swinging is not my life - its a naughty extra. I wasnt being offensive at all and missing sex is not wrong at all. That wasnt what I was getting at. But swinging is a community, too many guys, younger, married, whatever, just treat it as a place that they can come and get no string attached sex and assume that every woman on here will give them that. That is why there are so many threads started with guys really shocked that they havent had any replies to their messages. They assume that all us ladies are gagging for it 24/7. That is not the case.

Swinging is so much more than sex, it gives you the opportunity to express yourself, to live out fantasy in a safe controlled way, to meet a wide variety of people, to talk about sexuality in an uninhibited way, to attend socials and get to know people, to wear sexy clothes and feel a million dollars, so I would want to meet others who understand it in the way I do, and not just the ones that think its a quick and easy way to get sex.

A round of applause Iconic I could'nt agree more well said.

Standing ovation from me: very well said! "

Bullseye.... Yahztse.... Bingo!!!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Or.... to put it another way...

You cant educate pork!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, ill return to my rock!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or.... to put it another way...

You cant educate pork!!! "

Ha ha ha, constructive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or.... to put it another way...

You cant educate pork!!!

Ha ha ha, constructive!"

I agree porkie,what will they say next?

That your too damn gorgeous for this site???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or.... to put it another way...

You cant educate pork!!!

Ha ha ha, constructive!

I agree porkie,what will they say next?

That your too damn gorgeous for this site???"

Ha ha, maybe!

Fabio, I did listen and I do take advice

I'm not gonna sit here and have ppl call me pork though! That is rude!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Or.... to put it another way...

You cant educate pork!!!

Ha ha ha, constructive!

I agree porkie,what will they say next?

That your too damn gorgeous for this site???

Ha ha, maybe!

Fabio, I did listen and I do take advice

I'm not gonna sit here and have ppl call me pork though! That is rude!

"

Wow, who knew.... such a thin skin!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

I'm not gonna sit here and have ppl call me pork though! That is rude!

"

Whereas saying others have "a sad empty life" is the height of manners.

For a 10 year veteran, you're hiding it well...

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near you?

Give it time, I've been lucky and had a few meets in the past, but nothing recently. I'm beginning to wonder if honesty IS the best policy, as soon as I answer someones querys honestly the long drawn out messages dry up or they block me! But I'd rather be turned down on here than when you've traveled for a meet and then they decide they don't like the look of you.

Put the cock pics away and attatch a nude but tasteful bodypic to your messages. If they like what they see, your in with a chance, or if your built like me start praying! lol You can't win sometimes!

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