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"I spend ages typing what I believe is a thoughtful genuine honest message, Obviously to someone I would really love to meet up with, Only to find they don't even bother to respond "no thanks" "piss off" "not my type", No they message nothing back, Meanwhile i'm thinking are they gonna respond, oh i really hope they will, I'll give them a couple of days maybe they're busy, Then I see the message deleted and I think oh bollocks not another one. This is how hard it is to be a single man on this site, Sometimes you just can deal with the knock backs " As stated in rules, regulations and FAQs it is not regarded or intended as bad manners not to get a reply. No reply=no interest. Your best bet is to delete your sent messages to eliminate your stress and bother. | |||
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"Seriously I'm worth a reply arent I?? " That's an attitude that may not help. | |||
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"Seriously I'm worth a reply arent I?? That's an attitude that may not help." Are you saying petulance and entitlement don;t appeal to you? | |||
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"I am in poole dorset!! is that reason why they dont reply??" I went there as a teen, it's one big caravan park full of single mum's, I wouldn't bother with Fab as you haven't got the idea of it and focus on the night life in your area instead xx | |||
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"Seriously I'm worth a reply arent I?? That's an attitude that may not help. Are you saying petulance and entitlement don;t appeal to you?" It may to some, not to me. | |||
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"Seriously I'm worth a reply arent I?? That's an attitude that may not help. Are you saying petulance and entitlement don;t appeal to you?" Funnily enough it doesn't appeal to me either! | |||
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"I spend ages typing what I believe is a thoughtful genuine honest message, Obviously to someone I would really love to meet up with, Only to find they don't even bother to respond "no thanks" "piss off" "not my type", No they message nothing back, Meanwhile i'm thinking are they gonna respond, oh i really hope they will, I'll give them a couple of days maybe they're busy, Then I see the message deleted and I think oh bollocks not another one. This is how hard it is to be a single man on this site, Sometimes you just can deal with the knock backs " Why don't you just chat to the women or couples that approach you instead of sending messages? | |||
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"I hate that, it isnt hard to say your not for me..." Yeah but what is hard is being told to fuck off umpteen times because some guys cant take rejection | |||
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"I spend ages typing what I believe is a thoughtful genuine honest message, Obviously to someone I would really love to meet up with, Only to find they don't even bother to respond "no thanks" "piss off" "not my type", No they message nothing back, Meanwhile i'm thinking are they gonna respond, oh i really hope they will, I'll give them a couple of days maybe they're busy, Then I see the message deleted and I think oh bollocks not another one. This is how hard it is to be a single man on this site, Sometimes you just can deal with the knock backs Why don't you just chat to the women or couples that approach you instead of sending messages? " Obviously I can't answer for the OP, but trust me, not all of us guys on here are lucky enough to have women and couples contacting us first! So the options are either no messaging at all, or trying to be proactive with them! | |||
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"I spend ages typing what I believe is a thoughtful genuine honest message, Obviously to someone I would really love to meet up with, Only to find they don't even bother to respond "no thanks" "piss off" "not my type", No they message nothing back, Meanwhile i'm thinking are they gonna respond, oh i really hope they will, I'll give them a couple of days maybe they're busy, Then I see the message deleted and I think oh bollocks not another one. This is how hard it is to be a single man on this site, Sometimes you just can deal with the knock backs " I reply to messages I receive, even though they dont send me a face pic, which is requested in my profile even though I state im not going to do that. I have deleted though without reply because of this, its not difficult to send a face pic | |||
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"The problem I find is you send a message then see statuses saying too many messages do I'm deleting them so you never know if someone is interested or not, I understand women must get plenty of messages, I don't mind getting a rejection reply as I think it's manners but it's each to their own" There are filters women can use,or they can block everyone and do the messaging. | |||
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"This was meant to be a tongue in cheek post lol!! I know it's a matter for a few and yes it does peeve me a bit, But I was trying to make fun of the situation!! I suppose where I think I'm funny in my head I'm definitely not in a forum post. Don't worry i'll work on my humour and I'll come back with something far greater, You never know it might make you smile " ooooh now i get it, you were joking. You get loads of replies and will be busy every weekend from now til xmas. Have fun x | |||
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"Do you reply to junk mail with a no thanks, not interested? Nope, you just throw it away. Messages on here from strangers can be no different to the junk mail that comes through your letterbox" I hadn't thought of it that way. Will bear that in mind now | |||
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"Boo hoo, no one is obliged to message bk no matter how well thought out your message is" | |||
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"This was meant to be a tongue in cheek post lol!! I know it's a matter for a few and yes it does peeve me a bit, But I was trying to make fun of the situation!! I suppose where I think I'm funny in my head I'm definitely not in a forum post. Don't worry i'll work on my humour and I'll come back with something far greater, You never know it might make you smile " Nice back tracking | |||
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"Yes you should see my looked at me list!! Hey Mr popular here, Only problem is they all wanna kill me probably! But hey I try and be funny and it all blows up in my face, No wonder no one wants to reply to me lol!!" Only cock pics? Just a suggestion, maybe add some other types of pic too? | |||
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"Look at your profile through the eyes of a single female or a couple. What do you bring to the table. You have four cock shots as your only photos. Your profile is nothing substantive other than a somewhat porn inspired fantasy and a pretty poor attitude. Now this may be entirely wrong but it is how it comes across. Have a look at other single guys profiles. Look for the ones with verifications as they have obviously be successful and take inspiration from it. " I would agree with the above, apart from the verification part Don't copy my profile | |||
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"Well that is me I am a cock try not to be prejudice!! Us cock's struggle to fit into society at the best of times. " Like they said, check out some other profiles, might be helpful. Men are successful on here, just need to try and get it right. Reading womens profiles is a good start | |||
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"This was meant to be a tongue in cheek post lol!! I know it's a matter for a few and yes it does peeve me a bit, But I was trying to make fun of the situation!! I suppose where I think I'm funny in my head I'm definitely not in a forum post. Don't worry i'll work on my humour and I'll come back with something far greater, You never know it might make you smile Nice back tracking " Exactly that! | |||
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"It's deemed to be ok to ignore anyone you're not interested in. I try to answer everyone who makes an effort to message me. It doesn't take long to say no thank you. It's sad really that people think you're the bad guy for wanting a reply. We seem to have lost our manners in our quest for sex. " Good for you, however, some of us have a life and write profiles with enough information for people to exclude themselves. If I ask for single, sub, local, tall white men, I don't think it rude not to respond to a married, Dom, short black midget from Timbuktu no matter if he's written me a soliloquy! | |||
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"You may feel your messages are well thought out, but you are messaging those people, so think of it like junk mail as they have not asked you specifically to message them, therefore if you have and they aren't interested then your message goes in the bin, just like every piece of junk mail that gets posted through your front door does. Junk mail can come personalised with your name on too but I bet you don't reply to it " hehe hey I've got some nails if you want to nail his coffin lid down and bury him | |||
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"I hate that, it isnt hard to say your not for me..." It is 30+ times a day (if you're a woman). | |||
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"Do you reply to junk mail with a no thanks, not interested? Nope, you just throw it away. Messages on here from strangers can be no different to the junk mail that comes through your letterbox" Velma and Shaggy- that is an absolutely perfect way to explain this issue. Spot on and well done! | |||
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"If you are fit then a Hi will do! Oh and a face pic" Jesus you don't want much do ya! Lol | |||
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"I spend ages typing what I believe is a thoughtful genuine honest message, Obviously to someone I would really love to meet up with, Only to find they don't even bother to respond "no thanks" "piss off" "not my type", No they message nothing back, Meanwhile i'm thinking are they gonna respond, oh i really hope they will, I'll give them a couple of days maybe they're busy, Then I see the message deleted and I think oh bollocks not another one. This is how hard it is to be a single man on this site, Sometimes you just can deal with the knock backs " I've just put a lot of effort into my profile and pics. My messages are short and to the point. | |||
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"Do you reply to junk mail with a no thanks, not interested? Nope, you just throw it away. Messages on here from strangers can be no different to the junk mail that comes through your letterbox" Never thought of it like that | |||
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