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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

So been spaking to and met this couple since we've been on fab and now Unfriended.

I'm not going to ask them why as we don't like to harass people.

Have you done the same & Why? Xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I only friend guys who I have arranged meets or potential meets with. if the meets don't happen, or if they go quiet, I unfriend them.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I only friend guys who I have arranged meets or potential meets with. if the meets don't happen, or if they go quiet, I unfriend them."

We've already meet and had a full swap, both party's have changed shifts so been difficult to meet again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could be just to busy as well.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I only friend guys who I have arranged meets or potential meets with. if the meets don't happen, or if they go quiet, I unfriend them.

We've already meet and had a full swap, both party's have changed shifts so been difficult to meet again xx "

I have unfriended people I don't intend to meet again.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I unfriend people who don't talk or even worse only talk when they have no one better to talk to life's to short for the rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, it's their prerogative and I know it can be confusing at times (and all the thoughts of 'what the hell did I do wrong?')

Sometimes people have a clear out / tidy up - I've been defriended a few times and I've also defriended one couple - try not to worry about it and move on

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we had a friends clearout recently, and having accepted some requests early on now realise we are never going to meet some of them hence the clearout. One other on there who we may meet but has recently resorted to one liner messages so he might be next to go (harsh but true )

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I unfriend people who don't talk or even worse only talk when they have no one better to talk to life's to short for the rubbish "

Yeah, strange huh, I message almost ever week, oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have unfriended people who we found after meeting didn't suit us or they have changed what they are looking for.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"We have unfriended people who we found after meeting didn't suit us or they have changed what they are looking for. "

We met last year and have been mates since or so I thought x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clear my friends list sometimes.

It's not as if it makes me that much of a difference on here if you're friends or not.

I mean, you can still message each other

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I clear my friends list sometimes.

It's not as if it makes me that much of a difference on here if you're friends or not.

I mean, you can still message each other "

It makes a difference, if we wanted to chat every now and then, I'd put you in the hot list x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Are you hoping they read this and message you.

When was the last time you messaged them, did they answer?

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Are you hoping they read this and message you.

When was the last time you messaged them, did they answer?

"

No I'm not, I know they don't do forums. Yes and replied x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I unfriend people all the time

I really don't see the point in having people on your friends list it acheives nothing bar looking as private pics

So once people have seen my private pics I unfriend them as there's really no need after they have seen my pics to be on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I clear my friends list sometimes.

It's not as if it makes me that much of a difference on here if you're friends or not.

I mean, you can still message each other "
unless it gets to the point you have to block them as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I clear my friends list sometimes.

It's not as if it makes me that much of a difference on here if you're friends or not.

I mean, you can still message each other

It makes a difference, if we wanted to chat every now and then, I'd put you in the hot list x"

So put them in your hotlist then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I unfriend those who I didn't enjoy meeting and if they stop messaging after the meet too.

Some friends though just aren't worth any effort at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been spaking to and met this couple since we've been on fab and now Unfriended.

I'm not going to ask them why as we don't like to harass people.

Have you done the same & Why? Xx"
I never ask anyone to be a friend all my friends friended me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been spaking to and met this couple since we've been on fab and now Unfriended.

I'm not going to ask them why as we don't like to harass people.

Have you done the same & Why? XxI never ask anyone to be a friend all my friends friended me "

Well I'm not asking so there

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I only friend guys who I have arranged meets or potential meets with. if the meets don't happen, or if they go quiet, I unfriend them."

I do this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a cpl but unfriended them once it became apparent that there was no interest there...don't see the big deal in it

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

I guess I'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have unfriended people who we found after meeting didn't suit us or they have changed what they are looking for.

We met last year and have been mates since or so I thought x"

Maybe they have accidentally blocked you and unblocked you.. that unfriends you. And easily done on a mobile

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"We have unfriended people who we found after meeting didn't suit us or they have changed what they are looking for.

We met last year and have been mates since or so I thought x

Maybe they have accidentally blocked you and unblocked you.. that unfriends you. And easily done on a mobile

"

Nice try, but she doesn't use mobile lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how easy it is done on the main site. But it was just a suggestion as we have done it a few times.

To be honest If someone unfriended us I would most likely not notice

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I don't know how easy it is done on the main site. But it was just a suggestion as we have done it a few times.

To be honest If someone unfriended us I would most likely not notice "

Well we only have a few and I liked this one xx

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