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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a funny and confusing problem. Last week I was going to exchange my picture with a single Indian lady on here but ended up not sending but she had sent me hers.

The issue was she is a co-worker and up until then , I totally had no clue , and talking about a double life , this is a typical example . At work she is very reserved and quite morally correct Hindu.

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before ), but the issue really wasn't anything to do with what I just rambled about , but we don't get along at all at the work place . She hates me and I don't like her , we were even moved away from doing the same project coz everyone knew our dislike of each other.

So when the picture arrived as agreed , not only was I shocked but there was no way I was going to send my picture to her as agreed , am sorry . I actually blocked her after that .I know you gonna judge me or whatever but there is no way we were ever going to have sex anyway so there was no point .

Out of interest, has anyone ever had such a scenario ? What would would you have done if it was you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".... and thought I'd try an Indian."

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we are co-workers/colleagues and a relationship has developed noentheless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, anyway. My boy and I worked in a bar together way back when, now we're where we are & happy. HOWEVER... sleeping together while we worked together did make it awkward in the work place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do you hate each other so? this could be the beautiful start of a love /hate relationship. or in your case a fuck/hate relationship

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By *i_guy4uMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before )"

This literally made me say WTF?!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"why do you hate each other so? this could be the beautiful start of a love /hate relationship. or in your case a fuck/hate relationship "

Angry fucks can be awesome

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Ok maybe wrong eroding in some places, but I would have done the same as you.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Are you a pilau biter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be interesting if she spot's this posts and realises who you are

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Are you a pilau biter?"

Groan!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"".... and thought I'd try an Indian." "

Im glad im not the only one who read that and thought WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"".... and thought I'd try an Indian." "

To be fair he made me laugh out loud after I read it.

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I had a funny and confusing problem. Last week I was going to exchange my picture with a single Indian lady on here but ended up not sending but she had sent me hers.

The issue was she is a co-worker and up until then , I totally had no clue , and talking about a double life , this is a typical example . At work she is very reserved and quite morally correct Hindu.

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before ), but the issue really wasn't anything to do with what I just rambled about , but we don't get along at all at the work place . She hates me and I don't like her , we were even moved away from doing the same project coz everyone knew our dislike of each other.

So when the picture arrived as agreed , not only was I shocked but there was no way I was going to send my picture to her as agreed , am sorry . I actually blocked her after that .I know you gonna judge me or whatever but there is no way we were ever going to have sex anyway so there was no point .

Out of interest, has anyone ever had such a scenario ? What would would you have done if it was you? "

Haha I actually like this made me laugh

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Wouldnt worry, im sure if it had been you that sent your pic to her first she would of reacted the same. Cut contact and blocked you.

Wonder what you would of thought of that.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just don't hold it against her next time you cross horns in the office!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"".... and thought I'd try an Indian." "

Well , it's true , hey ! Am sure am not alone in trying new things on here , other races included , Well there is nothing to really get surprised about , or am I missing something?

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I bet you'll look at her in a different way now you know.

Just as long as you don't use it against her then I see no problem that you blocked her. What would be the point of you both knowing you know each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be interesting if she spot's this posts and realises who you are "

I didn't think about this and am in sixes and sevens now , literally, wish I could just delete this thread

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South


"Be interesting if she spot's this posts and realises who you are

I didn't think about this and am in sixes and sevens now , literally, wish I could just delete this thread "

Doh

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South


"Be interesting if she spot's this posts and realises who you are

I didn't think about this and am in sixes and sevens now , literally, wish I could just delete this thread "

Doh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would have blocked her too. Now try concentrating at work next time you see her

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I had a funny and confusing problem. Last week I was going to exchange my picture with a single Indian lady on here but ended up not sending but she had sent me hers.

The issue was she is a co-worker and up until then , I totally had no clue , and talking about a double life , this is a typical example . At work she is very reserved and quite morally correct Hindu.

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before ), but the issue really wasn't anything to do with what I just rambled about , but we don't get along at all at the work place . She hates me and I don't like her , we were even moved away from doing the same project coz everyone knew our dislike of each other.

So when the picture arrived as agreed , not only was I shocked but there was no way I was going to send my picture to her as agreed , am sorry . I actually blocked her after that .I know you gonna judge me or whatever but there is no way we were ever going to have sex anyway so there was no point .

Out of interest, has anyone ever had such a scenario ? What would would you have done if it was you? "

You should have sent you photo as agreed instead of welching on the agreement.

You could have then explained that as you worked to gether it would not have been wise to meet.

As it is you just apear to be a photo collecting timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I fucked a girl in my office then low and behold she's now on fab with her hubble after I told her about fab hahaha go figure."
hubbie

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"Be interesting if she spot's this posts and realises who you are

I didn't think about this and am in sixes and sevens now , literally, wish I could just delete this thread "

Could be worse. You could have aired this on faceplant....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a funny and confusing problem.... should have sent you photo as agreed instead of welching on the agreement.

You could have then explained that as you worked to gether it would not have been wise to meet.

As it is you just apear to be a photo collecting timewaster"

Well , that was an option I decided not to take , but I learnt my lesson , sharing face pictures is not really a good idea , meeting for a drink of much better and moving forward , that's my new policy.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Be interesting if she spot's this posts and realises who you are

I didn't think about this and am in sixes and sevens now , literally, wish I could just delete this thread "

Bump...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its looks like Bullshit

And smells like Bullshit

It probably is Bullshit

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"why do you hate each other so? this could be the beautiful start of a love /hate relationship. or in your case a fuck/hate relationship "

You know this does happen. A tall female friend who is bi and sympathises with me being a bi guy didn't like this guy I knew until I told her he sucked my cock, then she felt different about him.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I had a funny and confusing problem. Last week I was going to exchange my picture with a single Indian lady on here but ended up not sending but she had sent me hers.

The issue was she is a co-worker and up until then , I totally had no clue , and talking about a double life , this is a typical example . At work she is very reserved and quite morally correct Hindu.

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before ), but the issue really wasn't anything to do with what I just rambled about , but we don't get along at all at the work place . She hates me and I don't like her , we were even moved away from doing the same project coz everyone knew our dislike of each other.

So when the picture arrived as agreed , not only was I shocked but there was no way I was going to send my picture to her as agreed , am sorry . I actually blocked her after that .I know you gonna judge me or whatever but there is no way we were ever going to have sex anyway so there was no point .

Out of interest, has anyone ever had such a scenario ? What would would you have done if it was you?

You should have sent you photo as agreed instead of welching on the agreement.

You could have then explained that as you worked to gether it would not have been wise to meet.

As it is you just apear to be a photo collecting timewaster"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its looks like Bullshit

And smells like Bullshit

It probably is Bullshit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sharing face pictures is not really a good idea , meeting for a drink of much better and moving forward , that's my new policy."

How will that help, then you will be face to face with her and not able to block to save your identity, pub bathroom windows are not always easy to climb out of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"".... and thought I'd try an Indian."

Im glad im not the only one who read that and thought WTF "

I'm also struggling to see what relevance her race and religion have to the OP's post.

I wonder if its connected to why they don't get on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a funny and confusing problem.... should have sent you photo as agreed instead of welching on the agreement.

You could have then explained that as you worked to gether it would not have been wise to meet.

As it is you just apear to be a photo collecting timewaster

Well , that was an option I decided not to take , but I learnt my lesson , sharing face pictures is not really a good idea , meeting for a drink of much better and moving forward , that's my new policy."

And do people honestly agree to meet not knowing what you look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be interesting if she spot's this posts and realises who you are "

Great minds think a like

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

Can you send me her name, my OH has always wanted to shag and Indian too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before )

This literally made me say WTF?! "

Me too :/ what a lucky girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before )

This literally made me say WTF?!

Me too :/ what a lucky girl"

He must do it by menu are you sure it wasn't hungry house lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before )

This literally made me say WTF?!

Me too :/ what a lucky girl"

Btw I like the red striped socks boo boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I saw a profile and thought I would try an Indian (never shaged one before )

This literally made me say WTF?!

Me too :/ what a lucky girl

Btw I like the red striped socks boo boo "
thank you lol

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