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"I forgot I'm orally bi..."

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By *ibertines OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cupar

Sheesh...its amazing what some straight guys will do to get laid. After sending a message back pointing out that their profile says straight....they all suddenly want to suck my nob.

Sure - some are just shy/ dont wanna put people off. You'd think if that was the case they would mention it in the first message. Nuts.

And why would I want a shit blow from a straight guy that is about to puke on my toy soldier in barely concealed disgust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agreed!!!! it is just a quest to get into the girls knickers!!! u wud be suprised how far the s8t guy will actually go!! we get this all the time as we will only meet bi guys but if they dont say s8t away or have it on the profile were not falling for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it dont wash with us either - all that crap " i dont put bi because it puts straight couples off"........dont they realise it puts bi couples off when they put 'straight' ?

Oh and the ones looking for "straight" guys - just be carefull .... more often than not, the guy is BI and you dont know it !!

Just be honest and you get the sex you dream about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day we are all out for fun bi str8 who cares as long as every one has fun at the end of day

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Ok, seeing as previous posts have followed a "Couples vs single blokes" (bi / straight / confused dot com / whatever) I thought I'd offer an alternative view.

As a straight bloke, some people have NO idea how many "supposedly" straight male halves of couples end up (like the title) revealing being bi when you do meet.

Examples I have encountered in some 3some situations:

1) "Sorry - I got carried away"

2) "Oh, I though you wouldn't mind if I just rubbed up behind you"

3) "Are you discreetly bi?"

4) "Are you sure you couldn't play bi?"

5) "Its ok, you don't have to do anything - relax and imagine its her as I suck you"

6) "I thought if I put bi on my profile you wouldn't wanna meet us"

7) "Sorry - we want a guy that can cuckold my husband, including shoving the cock down my husband's throat" (this I got from an Irish couple last night claiming to want me to meet the wife)

8) "Hope you don't mind me joining the wife to share the cock - I'm just impressed"

9) "I've always fantasised what it would be like"

10) "But ho do you know if you've never tried" (my personal favourite!)

All the above from/about supposedly straight male halves of couples! I'm surprised the lengths some couples will go to deceive and lie just to meet. I believe the expression is "Go figure!"

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"at the end of the day we are all out for fun bi str8 who cares as long as every one has fun at the end of day "

The problem is whilst having that fun, has everyone's limits and boundaries been clarified and respected?

If for example we met, and I decided (hypothetically) to poo on you (assuming it was my thing and not yours) and you didn't like it, and my response was "its just a bit of fun", I imagine you wouldn't like it

For the record, I wouldn't poo on you. I save that for the loo. ... and I'll leave the toilet seat down also.

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Do you poo with the toilet seat up?...:D...huhu...but gotta agree...boundaries set beforehand should be agreed and if you want to cross boundaries at least ask beforehand...I guess some people want more than what they can't have...knowing some people won't meet them as they are bi or straight...they tend to appear flexible...though it's not like it's comfort others...

But surely it's disheartening for bi couples looking for bi guys only to get a bi-acting straight or vice versa...esp if you only realised once your back at home...and surely would have to kick the person out...:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's a difficult balance, sometimes there's more you'd like to do but you're scared if you mention it you might put someone off. I mean for example some people might say try anything once - broad minded etc, but when you look at their profile tick list you don't see many boxes checked. Someone commented to me on my profile that you're not going to get someone overtly looking for what you're after and might be put off, but that doesn't mean they wouldn't do it. So guess people have to tone it down a bit. More specifically on the orally bi thing - I know I'd always do more whilst in the throws of sex than if I sat back and thought about it in the cold light of day. And for me it's not a guys twiddly bits that put me off being bi, its just the manly body doesn't do anything for me - when I see a georgeous TV/TS on the telly I always comment..well you would give it a go wouldn't you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ... and I'll leave the toilet seat down also."

before or after pooing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

boundaries have to be set and all must stick it them.

what i was saying is we are who we are if your bi say your bi if your not bi then no one shud try make u change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blinking heck, don't people talk before meeting as to what they would like to happen and what's off limits?

If you find things they want to do and you don't tell them or say will leave it thanks.

Saves a lot of time, trust me

Wonder what the avarage IQ of peopl eon such sites? I have talked to a few adn would say -avearage

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"boundaries have to be set and all must stick it them.

what i was saying is we are who we are if your bi say your bi if your not bi then no one shud try make u change. "

Exactly! When chatting to people and its clear we're talking about meeting up, I like to ask "do's and don'ts". Last thing you wanna do is find out (other than topic of conversation) is they like to have a "sniff" or no problem letting the kids wander through the front room whilst you're busy. Damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think theres a hell of a lot more bi guys on the site than will admit to it, most will put straight because they dont want couples with straight guys to get all homophobic on them and be scared to meet incase he grabs his dick in the throws of passion lol where as i suppose they expect other bi guys to be a little more understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i put im st8 even tho im a fully bi guy when i do meet some cuppels the guy s more than will to suck cock or play with me when inside his mrs its easyer to play st8 than bi but im greedy lol

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