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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are they essential for initial contact?

I guess it's probably advisable if you want a reply.But I'm a *private person,so don't want to send out loads of face pics if I'm not gonna be meeting someone...

*private person=not too pretty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet anyone without seeing a face pic first

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

For me, yes, for others no, we're all different with different criteria, the best thing to do is read the profiles - that's always a good start. Even if you don;t send a pic with your initial message but most people will need to see what you look like at some point. Some people don't need to see who they're meeting, nothings ever 'standard'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do always want to see a face pic but do understand that people might not want to send them until they're sure we don't know each other in our day to day lives.

There's no way I'd turn up for a meet and hang around like a lemon not knowing who I'm looking for when I get there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no way I'd turn up for a meet and hang around like a lemon not knowing who I'm looking for when I get there."

Back to wearing a carnation instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face pic , no meet........

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

'ditto' here too

call us shallow if you want but hey - its our choice lol

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"There's no way I'd turn up for a meet and hang around like a lemon not knowing who I'm looking for when I get there."

just look out for the 3rd bench on the left wasnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never do blind dates!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have mentioned before, I seldom meet anyone without seeing the face, body and cock pics first nowadays!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant on first contact,say if someone messages you or winks you.

Do you completely dismiss them if they don't send a face pic straight away?

Obviously if you've stated on your profile or asked and they haven't delivered,then fair enough.

Nobody in their right mind would meet without a face pic before a meet,surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I would only consider sending a face pic with the first message if the person I was sending the message to had their face pic in their public gallery.

To conceal your own face pic but expect a stranger to send theirs willy-nilly simply isn't reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's always a good idea to say that face pics are available if they'd like to be seen - either in your message to them or on your profile.

I wouldnt dismiss someone if I couldnt immediately see a face pic on first contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic no meet for me too! I want to know what you look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't dismiss initial contact with no face pic, but as I think has been said before- I'd prefer one before we meet as I don't want to be standing around like a twat trying to work out who they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But having said that I've met people who look bugger all like their pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But having said that I've met people who look bugger all like their pics "

I'm guessing not in a good way either?

That's a different thread altogether...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i show my face on cam and in pictures.

and if people dont like me.

fuck em. sick of being nice and polite it gets you fuck all!

and you know im right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i show my face on cam and in pictures.

and if people dont like me.

fuck em. sick of being nice and polite it gets you fuck all!

and you know im right! "

Be who you are that's all you need to do...surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But having said that I've met people who look bugger all like their pics "

That gives me some hope

I look better in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I have mentioned before, I seldom meet anyone without seeing the face, body and cock pics first nowadays! "

Face pics , body shot are fine but c**k pic , No.

Just like I dont expect a woman to have pu**y and boob shots on their profile.

Some things are better unwrapped in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have meet people whos pics are lets say..... 5-10 years ago

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Are they essential for initial contact?

I guess it's probably advisable if you want a reply.But I'm a *private person,so don't want to send out loads of face pics if I'm not gonna be meeting someone...

*private person=not too pretty... "

Nothing is essential but its a known fact that not having them will reduce your chances by as much as 75%. Sending them by pm from private should be acceptable but everyone is different in their requirement criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't dismiss initial contact with no face pic, but as I think has been said before- I'd prefer one before we meet as I don't want to be standing around like a twat trying to work out who they are!"

Who in their right mind would meet anyone without seeing a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did not think so too.

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By *ounglad87Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It doesn't have to be in the initial contact for me, but I'd like to see what the people I intend to have fun with look like haha, just as I would expect the same of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't dismiss initial contact with no face pic, but as I think has been said before- I'd prefer one before we meet as I don't want to be standing around like a twat trying to work out who they are!

Who in their right mind would meet anyone without seeing a face pic.

"

Not me but you would be suprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to open my private pics for people to see my face if we are heading towards a meet -I don't have them on my public profile coz I am a spy and MI6 don't like it

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

My friends get to see my face otherwise it's hidden, because I'm so handsome I get a lot of stalking so I have to be careful.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Yes, no face pic, no meet. We can understand some people wanting to be discreet but if you want sex with us we want to see your faces first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essential I would say.

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By *lexavierWoman
over a year ago

north birmingham


"

Who in their right mind would meet anyone without seeing a face pic.

"

I am insane then?? certainly obviously not "in my right mind" Thanks for the insult, just because someone has different criteria to yourself hardly makes them insane surely?

I think a poster from the beginning of the thread got it right - everyone is different, if you state what you are expecting on your profile (and then STICK to it PLEASE!) then anyone contacting you, or anyone you are contacting knows what it is you want. I state quite clearly that pictures will NOT be exchanged, I have met 17 people off this site now with neither of us having seen a picture of any description, and, so far, all have gone well. However, I would never consider asking someone who clearly states that they want pictures, especially face pictures, to meet me.

If folks actually read through profiles that would help sometimes. You wouldn't believe the number of messages I have had starting "You look gorgeous in your photos...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have posted on other threads that they've met people without seeing them, not fancied them but did the deed anyway because they'd turned up.

Please God strike me with lightening before I ever get that desperate!!

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By *lexavierWoman
over a year ago

north birmingham


"People have posted on other threads that they've met people without seeing them, not fancied them but did the deed anyway because they'd turned up.

Please God strike me with lightening before I ever get that desperate!! "

Oh nooo! I always have the option to say "no thank you" for both of us - usually I find we both agree on that one, have a cuppa, a chat and say good bye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a mystery ?

Sounds like thats part of the excitement for you .

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

while a face pic is only 1 thing, it helps to see if there is a physical attraction.. but yes a mental one is also required - which would be acquired through chatting before fun - but sorry tho he may be nice and friendly if he looks like shrek he aint getting anywhere near the contents of my knickers

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By *hickdick26Man
over a year ago

Leeds

hmmm...ive to disagree with most you guys on a personal preference level. I prefer to ackowledge personailty, behaviour and indviduality first. Thats where i find true attraction. What the face/body looks like really isnt a decision maker in my opnion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats balls,you need to know what the person looks like,in face and body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helps to recognise one another if you meet, and its nice to know who you are meeting.

Some people want to see everything and know everything about you. That's their perogative. The idea of a little mystery is a no-no.

Cant't please everyone unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hmmm...ive to disagree with most you guys on a personal preference level. I prefer to ackowledge personailty, behaviour and indviduality first. Thats where i find true attraction. What the face/body looks like really isnt a decision maker in my opnion. "

Can you honestly say that you could have sex with any woman, no matter what she looked like, as long as her personality and behaviour fitted the bill.

Also, if your not interested in aesthetics or image, why bother with bodybuilding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friends get to see my face otherwise it's hidden, because I'm so handsome I get a lot of stalking so I have to be careful."

I'm pretty happy just looking at your cute arse for now, but of course, I know where you live.....

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"My friends get to see my face otherwise it's hidden, because I'm so handsome I get a lot of stalking so I have to be careful.

I'm pretty happy just looking at your cute arse for now, but of course, I know where you live..... "

Gulp!

So it's you that keeps taking my funky purple and brown Y-fronts (with yellow Y) off the line????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it's about trust, if you trust people on fab with your face picks they might trust you with theirs, plus face picks can possibly help you show people you're genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friends get to see my face otherwise it's hidden, because I'm so handsome I get a lot of stalking so I have to be careful.

I'm pretty happy just looking at your cute arse for now, but of course, I know where you live..... "

I agree, very nice arse :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose it's about trust, if you trust people on fab with your face picks they might trust you with theirs, plus face picks can possibly help you show people you're genuine."

I agree, Then again i am very trusting towards people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree.. The amount of times single guys have been in touch asking for pictures when there is no profile picture on there's.. It is all ways nice to see who you are talking to and we all ways send a face pic back if one is received. and it helps to see you are who you say you are.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Out of curtsey, we'll return our face pics if one is received at the initial contact, however, there are a lot of pretty bums on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curtsey, we'll return our face pics if one is received at the initial contact, however, there are a lot of pretty bums on this site "

We do the same,but the amount of times we have had emails when i have said no pic,no meet and they have said give me your mumber and i'll send one to you or we have even had not got one on here but got them on facebook lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"We do the same,but the amount of times we have had emails when i have said no pic,no meet and they have said give me your mumber and i'll send one to you or we have even had not got one on here but got them on facebook lol

"

Ah, the old facebook trick hey! We have a “swinger’s mobile phone” quite often people say” give us your mobile number, we'll send you one!

Wtf????????? some people are really thick, thinking we're going to give our number to someone we've not even viewed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

face pics etc are important

but im not bothered about cock pics as much unless they are hairy

i tend to go by personality and i know my type of person x

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We would see one before saying yes to a meet but I don't expect to see one in the first message. After messaging and establishing we were up for it I'd be looking for one before saying a definate yay or nay. I can understand why people don't want to send them out willy nilly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics are a must for us. If you want to meet us but can't send a face pic because " I am a professional " , we will never meet. Obviously there has to be mutual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"while a face pic is only 1 thing, it helps to see if there is a physical attraction.. but yes a mental one is also required - which would be acquired through chatting before fun - but sorry tho he may be nice and friendly if he looks like shrek he aint getting anywhere near the contents of my knickers"

Very funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would see one before saying yes to a meet but I don't expect to see one in the first message. After messaging and establishing we were up for it I'd be looking for one before saying a definate yay or nay. I can understand why people don't want to send them out willy nilly."

That's pretty much the way I see it tbh.

I'd like a bit of contact first,to see if we are mutually interested-then face pics can be exchanged,if needed...

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