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By *reyya OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

More than ever, more profiles are specifying particular age limits. This may be detrimental to the site users. It is a given that a lot of people do not respond to messages but this fact coupled with the fact that more and more people are making themselves uncontactable could drive users off this site.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"More than ever, more profiles are specifying particular age limits. This may be detrimental to the site users. It is a given that a lot of people do not respond to messages but this fact coupled with the fact that more and more people are making themselves uncontactable could drive users off this site. "

I take it you would rather waste your time contacting folk who don't want to meet you then?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"More than ever, more profiles are specifying particular age limits. This may be detrimental to the site users. It is a given that a lot of people do not respond to messages but this fact coupled with the fact that more and more people are making themselves uncontactable could drive users off this site. "

There is nothing wrong with having an age preference, whether it's flexible or is set in stone.

We are excluded from lots of profiles because of age, height, being smokers, size but that's life! Hasn't driven us from the site, not will it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another person complaining about being excluded by preferences.

Tell me OP, why would we want to meet someone we have no interest in meeting because they're too old or young for us?

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Damn - I thought this was going to be a mature BDSM thread.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"More than ever, more profiles are specifying particular age limits. This may be detrimental to the site users. It is a given that a lot of people do not respond to messages but this fact coupled with the fact that more and more people are making themselves uncontactable could drive users off this site. "
what rubbish! It's worked this way for many people it's called preferences. Concentrate on the ones you can contact

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By *reyya OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Damn - I thought this was going to be a mature BDSM thread. "

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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Try being an ageing, short, balding bloke, if it wasn't for the wife being a stunner I'd get no action! Unfortunately nothing can be done about personal preferences, just enjoy what you can

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Just click the option that says "I match their age requirments too" and you will never see anyone in searches that isnt looking for someone your age. That way would will never have to worry avout it

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By *reyya OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Did I say I was complaining? I have no problems in meeting people on this site. I am making an observation, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People leave anyway. You can't force users to behave in a way they don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, it drives people off the site because they can't handle others preferences. So what? I'll lose precisely zero sleep over that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Damn - I thought this was going to be a mature BDSM thread. "

mind you if i could restrain my age I would.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"More than ever, more profiles are specifying particular age limits. This may be detrimental to the site users. It is a given that a lot of people do not respond to messages but this fact coupled with the fact that more and more people are making themselves uncontactable could drive users off this site. "

Why on earth would it be detrimental to be uncontactable by people you've no interest in?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Damn - I thought this was going to be a mature BDSM thread. "

Me too, looking for a tip around stiff joints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn - I thought this was going to be a mature BDSM thread. "

I was going to ask if they'd broken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness, I don't think this is anything new. There have always been age limits, for many different reasons.

For every 1000 that doesn't want to meet someone of your age, there may be one that does!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"More than ever, more profiles are specifying particular age limits. This may be detrimental to the site users. It is a given that a lot of people do not respond to messages but this fact coupled with the fact that more and more people are making themselves uncontactable could drive users off this site. "

I think the fact is more likely to be that fewer people are leaving the default 18-99 age preference on their profiles and sensibly specifying a more accurate indicator of it which is all to the good.

It is far more irritating to be told of a particular age preference when it is not indicated in the profile.

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