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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. " well said | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. " | |||
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"People have their reasons for being on here, not our place to judge what is going on in someone's personal life " | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. " | |||
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"This site is for everyone, don't reply to them if you don't wanna see them, simples lol." | |||
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"So I have had at least 3 men (and may I add a few woman I know are guilty of this toooooo) message me today and everyone had been married and there wife know nothing of them being on fab and meeting others for sex. This is to me cheating and not swinging. Am I the only one who sees it like this. " Only couples (attached somehow) are true swingers. You, like us cheaters, are here for sex in a swinging world. WE help make other peoples dreams/fantasies become a reality... | |||
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"Not a lot on this site is swinging and people may use the site as they wish. You can politely decline anyone who isn't what you are looking for or delete and block. " as long as people can make an informed choice about who they wish to meet then live and let live | |||
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"So I have had at least 3 men (and may I add a few woman I know are guilty of this toooooo) message me today and everyone had been married and there wife know nothing of them being on fab and meeting others for sex. This is to me cheating and not swinging. Am I the only one who sees it like this. " are tvs swingers then, two men meeting each other, albeit dressed as women, is that swinging? | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. " Is it wrong for swingers to want a site to meet other swingers? | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. " | |||
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"Not a lot on this site is swinging and people may use the site as they wish. You can politely decline anyone who isn't what you are looking for or delete and block. as long as people can make an informed choice about who they wish to meet then live and let live " very true | |||
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"I honestly don't care what other people do as long as they don't involve me. Once they post on open forums asking for opinions or justifying their actions I consider that I'm justified in putting my two pen north in but until then I'm more than happy for people to do what they want." | |||
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"I honestly don't care what other people do as long as they don't involve me. Once they post on open forums asking for opinions or justifying their actions I consider that I'm justified in putting my two pennorth in but until then I'm more than happy for people to do what they want." It's absurd to me when people talk about it publicly, then request to not be judged or expect approval of their actions as they were honest about it. | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. Is it wrong for swingers to want a site to meet other swingers? " People would have to agree on what makes someone a 'proper' swingers first. Personally I think there is plenty of room for everyone on the same site. | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. Is it wrong for swingers to want a site to meet other swingers? People would have to agree on what makes someone a 'proper' swingers first. Personally I think there is plenty of room for everyone on the same site. " I would prefer a site of like minded people. In the same way that some gay people like gay bars. | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. Is it wrong for swingers to want a site to meet other swingers? " Not at all. And this IS a site to meet other swingers. I'm not sure how the presence of other people takes away from that? | |||
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"For what it's worth, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is cheating claim it is the same thing as swinging at all. They're just using the site as a tool for their own ends, same as everyone here. There are plenty of non-cheaters who aren't swingers either. The site isn't full, there is room for everyone to just rub along and ignore those doing things they disagree with. Is it wrong for swingers to want a site to meet other swingers? Not at all. And this IS a site to meet other swingers. I'm not sure how the presence of other people takes away from that?" It adds to it for us , we like meeting TVs , single guys , single women and couples | |||
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" Not at all. And this IS a site to meet other swingers. I'm not sure how the presence of other people takes away from that?" Again I go back to the gay bar analogy, if you took 20 straight people to a gay bar, how long would you be welcome for? Also its common to find threads on here where a couple is struggling to find and extra woman for an FFM. I would say that having lots of women on here who are not looking for that makes it harder to find the ones who are. Or for couples who play separately, say the man is looking to play with a single woman, the majority of women on here aren't looking for that. Many wouldn't play with an attached man even if he had permission, so that would make it a lot harder for him to find someone who would. | |||
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" Not at all. And this IS a site to meet other swingers. I'm not sure how the presence of other people takes away from that? Again I go back to the gay bar analogy, if you took 20 straight people to a gay bar, how long would you be welcome for? Also its common to find threads on here where a couple is struggling to find and extra woman for an FFM. I would say that having lots of women on here who are not looking for that makes it harder to find the ones who are. Or for couples who play separately, say the man is looking to play with a single woman, the majority of women on here aren't looking for that. Many wouldn't play with an attached man even if he had permission, so that would make it a lot harder for him to find someone who would." Aren't filters your answer? Restrict contact to couples seeking couples only? | |||
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"Not a lot on this site is swinging and people may use the site as they wish. You can politely decline anyone who isn't what you are looking for or delete and block. as long as people can make an informed choice about who they wish to meet then live and let live " I don't think we need to inform everyone of everything. That wouldn't be no strings for me. Where being married is concerned there could be a lot of repercussions. I've had a woman ring my phone saying I'd met her husband. She described him and told me where he lived but I had no idea who he was and never heard again. A different spouse could have reacted differently. | |||
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"I honestly don't care what other people do as long as they don't involve me. Once they post on open forums asking for opinions or justifying their actions I consider that I'm justified in putting my two pennorth in but until then I'm more than happy for people to do what they want." That is fair enough but some people want to add more than their two penneth. Some can be quite nasty about it too. | |||
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"Everyone will have a reason for being here, its nobody else's business as to why. Nobody has to "swing" with anyone they don't want to." | |||
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"Not a lot on this site is swinging and people may use the site as they wish. You can politely decline anyone who isn't what you are looking for or delete and block. as long as people can make an informed choice about who they wish to meet then live and let live I don't think we need to inform everyone of everything. That wouldn't be no strings for me. Where being married is concerned there could be a lot of repercussions. I've had a woman ring my phone saying I'd met her husband. She described him and told me where he lived but I had no idea who he was and never heard again. A different spouse could have reacted differently. " Fair point. I guess I was saying that, given some/many people do not wish to meet 'cheaters' then disclosing relationship status on a profile or very early message allows them to make that informed choice about whether to proceed or not | |||
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"Not a lot on this site is swinging and people may use the site as they wish. You can politely decline anyone who isn't what you are looking for or delete and block. as long as people can make an informed choice about who they wish to meet then live and let live I don't think we need to inform everyone of everything. That wouldn't be no strings for me. Where being married is concerned there could be a lot of repercussions. I've had a woman ring my phone saying I'd met her husband. She described him and told me where he lived but I had no idea who he was and never heard again. A different spouse could have reacted differently. Fair point. I guess I was saying that, given some/many people do not wish to meet 'cheaters' then disclosing relationship status on a profile or very early message allows them to make that informed choice about whether to proceed or not " That just brings honesty/liars as the issue and won't really change much Fact is the OP said about a number of people said they are and has made out that's a bad thing the alternative would be they didn't and that's better somehow? | |||
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" Not at all. And this IS a site to meet other swingers. I'm not sure how the presence of other people takes away from that? Again I go back to the gay bar analogy, if you took 20 straight people to a gay bar, how long would you be welcome for? Also its common to find threads on here where a couple is struggling to find and extra woman for an FFM. I would say that having lots of women on here who are not looking for that makes it harder to find the ones who are. Or for couples who play separately, say the man is looking to play with a single woman, the majority of women on here aren't looking for that. Many wouldn't play with an attached man even if he had permission, so that would make it a lot harder for him to find someone who would." Fair enough. But I still don't think the existence of non-swingers on the site makes "real" swingers less welcome. If all the people who didn't fit your criteria disappeared, there wouldn't be any more people who did, there would just be a lower total. | |||
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"Not a lot on this site is swinging and people may use the site as they wish. You can politely decline anyone who isn't what you are looking for or delete and block. as long as people can make an informed choice about who they wish to meet then live and let live I don't think we need to inform everyone of everything. That wouldn't be no strings for me. Where being married is concerned there could be a lot of repercussions. I've had a woman ring my phone saying I'd met her husband. She described him and told me where he lived but I had no idea who he was and never heard again. A different spouse could have reacted differently. Fair point. I guess I was saying that, given some/many people do not wish to meet 'cheaters' then disclosing relationship status on a profile or very early message allows them to make that informed choice about whether to proceed or not " Yeah, it's important to me. I don't wait to be informed and just have it on my profile, i'm know some think it's ok to not tell me though, and theoretically i suppose it is ok because i was unaware, but i'd appreciate for them to respect what i want and not have me be a part of something i don't want to be a part of, for my own peace of mind. | |||
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