FabSwingers.com forum: How many times/ guys do you shag when you go to a club ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just out of interest, how many men / women does an average couple / guy / lady have sex with over the period they are in a swinger club? , say from 21:00 till 04:00?

I am not talking about gangbangs , but normal day where you meet a guy and have sex , then you choose another, gave sex , then another ....

I used to do it with like 4-5 different in one night but am getting to the point where once I do it 3 times , I just wanna sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who's in

None sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is guaranteed. It's a bit like on this site.

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By *he Milf ClubCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

Why sad

We don't all have to fuck to have a fun night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually none or maybe one

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

Not really.

Would you shag someone you weren't interested in/attracted to just because you were there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have always been lucky , thanks to this BBC craze going on due to free porn , otherwise I guess u would be having near misses , now and again.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

wow...... really....

whether i play or not doesn't make or break a night for me....

some of my best nights in clubs have been chatting the night away and having a brilliant night out....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Anything between zero and five.

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

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Been there many a time. Not a problem as I have chilled and socialised with my friends all night.

One club I used to go and I wasn't bothered about playing at all in this venue.

So sometimes not good for the sex, but awesome in other ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

Not really.

Would you shag someone you weren't interested in/attracted to just because you were there?

No but generally you wanna shag someone when you go to a club right ? and chances are if the club is full , you are bound to find someone you fancy . I guess women are choosy whereas men tend to just dip in wherever there is a hole regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely play at a club,,I love the social side too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

Not really.

Would you shag someone you weren't interested in/attracted to just because you were there?

Ha ha he speaks the truth about men

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

We go as a couple so always fuck. Whether anyone else is brought-in and the extra fun starts depends on who's there and what the mood is etc (as others also say). We always fuck several times at our favourite venue which we love (it's near Heathrow(!)).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes none and we just have a great night enjoying the social freedom. I do like to watch so often we just watch.

Sometimes a lot

Depends on who is in, mood, the type of party it is.

It's always fun.

V xxx

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I go to a club for a night out if I play it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

Not really.

Would you shag someone you weren't interested in/attracted to just because you were there?

Ha ha he speaks the truth about men "

Ha ha he speaks the truth about(some) men

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I'm a bit of a one trick poney most of the time these days....unless there is a good long breather in between bouts. If I'm perfectly honest I kind of like one very long fuck session which includes loads of stuff and lasts as long as we both/all want it to. I've not really been in a club situation where different people are lined up to move onto shag after shag....not sure I'd want to be (anymore) either...

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I'm a bit of a one trick poney most of the time these days....unless there is a good long breather in between bouts. If I'm perfectly honest I kind of like one very long fuck session which includes loads of stuff and lasts as long as we both/all want it to. I've not really been in a club situation where different people are lined up to move onto shag after shag....not sure I'd want to be (anymore) either..."

Oh, and I only go to clubs for prearranged meets there....so always concentrate just on one woman or couple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's nobody I fancy, none.

If there's lots of people I fancy, maybe 2 or 3 as I'm not good with time management

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

You get used to it when you look like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

Been there many a time. Not a problem as I have chilled and socialised with my friends all night.

One club I used to go and I wasn't bothered about playing at all in this venue.

So sometimes not good for the sex, but awesome in other ways

Naughty nige you my darling are a social butterfly kiss kiss

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We always go as a couple so will always fuck each other if we don't play with anyone else. If we do play with other people, it would only tend to be with them, at least for full swap anyway.

Its not like speed dating, you don't fuck, move on, fuck, move on etc.

One of our best nights was meeting a couple there, chatting for an hour or two, into the hot tub for maybe an hour of chatting, soft swapping etc. and then out of the water for full swap fun. We knew it was time to leave when the lights came on and they started to play Nelly the Elephant at about 3 am.

That was much more satisfying than had we tried to swap with 2 or 3 or more couples.

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By *oecurler69Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

You get used to it when you look like me

Pull the middle one!!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

As a not-particularly quick repeater, the question doesn't tend to.....er, arise.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Last night out, none, was just chatting in the bar all night. Still really enjoyed the evening. Most is three, and yes I did enjoy that evening a lot more, lol.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

To me, a good night. Is having a laugh. Having fun. Having a drink. And chilling in the sauna and jacuzzi. It ain't about sex. Just cos I'm in a swingers club I wouldn't just wanna go with anyone. I'd want a girl I'm really into and vice versa. I much rather have one girl who blows me away. And we have a connection. Rather than 5 average fucks. So for me usually fuck one girl to my visit to a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nome, ! I just go to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything from 0-3 ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I average 1-3 private room plays depends who I bump into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No average aa our nights are always very different sometimes we go just to relax have a few drinks be in a sexy atmosphere.

Other times we have had very dirty sessions with numerous people joining in.

We don't keep a tally chart as we have a great night whatever the outcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

wow...... really....

whether i play or not doesn't make or break a night for me....

some of my best nights in clubs have been chatting the night away and having a brilliant night out...."

And once again a perfect example of why we stopped going to clubs .

Going to a club and not playing is like going to a football match and the teams not turning up .

Yes you could have a nice chat with the fans , but given the choice you probably wouldn't bother !

Gets me every time that people would seriously go to a club and feel they've had a great night without playing .

Have to say we wouldn't just play for the sake of it , there has to be attraction , but when we stopped going it had got to the point that so many clubs were full of people just looking to socialise .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been nights where Ginger has enjoyed being a greedy girl and others were only we've played. Depends on who's there and our mood but having a shag is not top priority to having a good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-3 to full completion

Any more and I wake up in the morning feeling like i've been kicked in the goolies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

wow...... really....

whether i play or not doesn't make or break a night for me....

some of my best nights in clubs have been chatting the night away and having a brilliant night out....

And once again a perfect example of why we stopped going to clubs .

Going to a club and not playing is like going to a football match and the teams not turning up .

Yes you could have a nice chat with the fans , but given the choice you probably wouldn't bother !

Gets me every time that people would seriously go to a club and feel they've had a great night without playing .

This I can't agree with you more , why go into a swinger club to socialise ? Just go to a normal pub then , it's even cheaper there. It's like comparing Facebook and fabswingers , they serve different purposes .

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Never been to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't go to a club to socialise but if there is nobody in we are sexually attracted to we will not play, but we will happily sit and chat and have a few beers, we go with the intention of hopefully playing but that doesn't always work out,

And to answer your question we would only play once, we wouldn't think about playing then going back to the bar to find someone else to play with

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"We don't go to a club to socialise but if there is nobody in we are sexually attracted to we will not play, but we will happily sit and chat and have a few beers, we go with the intention of hopefully playing but that doesn't always work out,

And to answer your question we would only play once, we wouldn't think about playing then going back to the bar to find someone else to play with"

Bet that frustrates a few people. Hotties like you 2 should spread the love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my first club sat . I had girl on girl play for a while but didn't get fucked and still had a good night . I wont fuck for the sake of it ,there still has to be an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to play in clubs, but it's way too much hassle. When I did, I much preferred to play with the same person/people all night, rather than going from person to person.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Usually three or four guys, often in a group, and usually seven or eight fucks. We usually go to clubs on the nights that single guys are allowed in - it adds that extra spice and tends to be less cliquey.

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

On average, three times...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am so glad we are two different people....

for you it may be all about the "end result" ..... for me is it as much about the Journey!

so if you want to play with anyone with a pulse, and count notches on the old bedpost... cool

but the beauty of swinging is that we are not all the same....

so if i, by the way i go about my swinging... affect you and the way you go about yours, I have one word for you...

tough!!!!

in fact I would probably say that the ways and attitudes of guys like you, way affect the way that i may or may not be percieved, than the other way round!!!

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I've never been to a club of this kind yet, so I've no idea what could be considered the norm. In normal life (whatever that is) I don't think I've ever had sex with more than two women in the space of a whole year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This I can't agree with you more , why go into a swinger club to socialise ? Just go to a normal pub then , it's even cheaper there. It's like comparing Facebook and fabswingers , they serve different purposes ."

What would you prefer to be fucking a person or a piece of meat? Single women and couples might be more comfortable at a club if some single guys were to try socialising first instead of jumping up whenever a female gets up and leaves the bar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you got it a bit wrong , of course you wanna socialise first before the sex , right . All am saying is just going and socialising alone doesn't do it for me , that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Usually three or four guys, often in a group, and usually seven or eight fucks. We usually go to clubs on the nights that single guys are allowed in - it adds that extra spice and tends to be less cliquey."

Looking at your pictures , I bet you get followed around by wanking Zombies in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is ever garunteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing is ever garunteed "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing is ever garunteed "

Did you mean guaranteed?

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

Been there many a time. Not a problem as I have chilled and socialised with my friends all night.

One club I used to go and I wasn't bothered about playing at all in this venue.

So sometimes not good for the sex, but awesome in other ways

Naughty nige you my darling are a social butterfly kiss kiss

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I prefer to play. I mostly socialise in company of mostly new people. And very rarely play in the open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so glad we are two different people....

for you it may be all about the "end result" ..... for me is it as much about the Journey!

so if you want to play with anyone with a pulse, and count notches on the old bedpost... cool

but the beauty of swinging is that we are not all the same....

so if i, by the way i go about my swinging... affect you and the way you go about yours, I have one word for you...

tough!!!!

in fact I would probably say that the ways and attitudes of guys like you, way affect the way that i may or may not be percieved, than the other way round!!!

Why is the notches on the bed post , anything with a pulse always brought up when people talk about playing on here ?

Not only is it deeply offensive to the persons involved , it's disrespectful to suggest that those who play regularly have no standards .

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I like the social side of clubs and don't always play. Loathe the assumption as a single woman, I'm expected to put out.

You can have a drink, watch some porn/live action, chat with fellow pervs and everyone is open about their smutty hobby.

Bit like a golf club but with different types of balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who's in

None sometimes

That would be a sad night I guess , going to a club and not getting laid

sad that you think that -

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Why is the notches on the bed post , anything with a pulse always brought up when people talk about playing on here ?

Not only is it deeply offensive to the persons involved , it's disrespectful to suggest that those who play regularly have no standards .

just as you inferred in your post that it was people who has the audacity to want to socialise in club that put you off going...

socialising is for a lot of people part of the process of their swinging....

it isn't a case of socialising or playing, it is a case of socialising AND playing....but if i don't find someone I like, I'm going to socialise regardless... sorry that concept offends you so much!!!

if I play I play, If I don't, I don't..... but I don't judge a good night in a club on whether I have played or not!! playing isn't the be all and end all of my swinging....

as i said and you decided to omit.... it is as much about the journey for me.... not just the end result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is the notches on the bed post , anything with a pulse always brought up when people talk about playing on here ?

Not only is it deeply offensive to the persons involved , it's disrespectful to suggest that those who play regularly have no standards .

just as you inferred in your post that it was people who has the audacity to want to socialise in club that put you off going...

socialising is for a lot of people part of the process of their swinging....

if I play I play, If I don't, I don't..... but I don't judge a good night in a club on whether I have played or not!! playing isn't the be all and end all of my swinging....

as i said and you decided to omit.... it is as much about the journey for me.... not just the end result! "

Quite how you feel that answers the point I made is anyone's guess !

I truly don't give a rats arse about your journey , nor whether the socialising is a part of a good night for you or not .

What I take issue with is your inference towards those who play as looking for notches on a bedpost and will play with anyone with a pulse .

Did I suggest you would socialise with anyone with a pulse ?

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By *oretta DelamonteTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

lowest usually around 5-10 best ever, 27.x