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Toy Etiquette

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When meeting other naughty folks, what is the etiquette for the provision of sex toys? Is it similar to a 'bring a bottle' party? Would you be happy using a dildo/vibe/strap on etc provided by the other couple/single?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Id much prefer to bring my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use sex toys all the time.

I always use condoms and clean with a specialist cleaner.

Sadly one of my favourite toys, a vibrating, squirting strap on has never been used, for obvious reasons! Didn't think it through when I purchased that did I?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id much prefer to bring my own "

Thanks femme. But if its a double ender, strap on etc whose do you use??? Should you provide a new one straight out of the wrapping and bin it afeterwards? Should you use a condom on the toy?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Id much prefer to bring my own

Thanks femme. But if its a double ender, strap on etc whose do you use??? Should you provide a new one straight out of the wrapping and bin it afeterwards? Should you use a condom on the toy? "
i dont like many toys, im a lady who much prefers the hands on approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id much prefer to bring my own

Thanks femme. But if its a double ender, strap on etc whose do you use??? Should you provide a new one straight out of the wrapping and bin it afeterwards? Should you use a condom on the toy? "

a broomhandle and a pair of marigolds are great for improvising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if there pink ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never used toys on a meet

I actually think it could be quite fun im just not sure how you would broch the subject without sounding rude, i've always thought men could find it quite insulting for you to suggest you my need toys when playing with them so i just stay clear of the subject

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Ive never used toys on a meet

I actually think it could be quite fun im just not sure how you would broch the subject without sounding rude, i've always thought men could find it quite insulting for you to suggest you my need toys when playing with them so i just stay clear of the subject "

NN you know you're the ultimate toy anyway so none needed!

the easiest way is just to leave your collection out on the bed/cupboard or make it plane it's part of your play rules if you're so inclined...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one meet lol he bought some toys said he had a surprise for me. He had been down the fruit and veg isle and bought cucumber, carrots, corgettes ad all the others you can think off and even a flipping marrow lol think it was the funniest afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one meet lol he bought some toys said he had a surprise for me. He had been down the fruit and veg isle and bought cucumber, carrots, corgettes ad all the others you can think off and even a flipping marrow lol think it was the funniest afternoon. "

I'd have sent him to the kitchen to whip up a veg chilli while I had a wank with my rabbit

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Id much prefer to bring my own

Thanks femme. But if its a double ender, strap on etc whose do you use??? Should you provide a new one straight out of the wrapping and bin it afeterwards? Should you use a condom on the toy? "

If toys are going to be used on more than one person... yes I expect condoms to be used... and obviously removed and/or changed as required.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Ive never used toys on a meet

I actually think it could be quite fun im just not sure how you would broch the subject without sounding rude, i've always thought men could find it quite insulting for you to suggest you my need toys when playing with them so i just stay clear of the subject "

I often bring toys into a play session. Some guys are more interested than others, but none have been offended.... especially if they can watch you use one on yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many guys enjoy having the toys played on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never used toys on a meet

I actually think it could be quite fun im just not sure how you would broch the subject without sounding rude, i've always thought men could find it quite insulting for you to suggest you my need toys when playing with them so i just stay clear of the subject

I often bring toys into a play session. Some guys are more interested than others, but none have been offended.... especially if they can watch you use one on yourself."

one of my meets never saw a vibrator used on a woman so i showed him made him very hard within seconds and the sex was frantic

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead


"I wonder how many guys enjoy having the toys played on them."

A lot would run away, but fairs fair is my moto.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I wonder how many guys enjoy having the toys played on them.

A lot would run away, but fairs fair is my moto."

Oh no they don't

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead


"If toys are going to be used on more than one person... yes I expect condoms to be used... and obviously removed and/or changed as required."

The trick is to have his/hers/his/hers (permutations) available for the toys. Also with toys you can rubber them all up before play particularly if you know a big toy session is likely.

Some guys are intimidated by the ever hard toy, but as a supplement to playtime, always found them a nice extra. Not always and usually not on a first meet.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You can always buy the 'one use' type toys. You can even get them in Tesco's and Sainsburys these days!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"You can always buy the 'one use' type toys. You can even get them in Tesco's and Sainsburys these days! "

they had disposable vibrating cock rings for sale in my local poundland the other day - bargain!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many guys enjoy having the toys played on them.

A lot would run away, but fairs fair is my moto."

That's why I tie them to the bed!!

Never had any run away...seen the blood drain from a few though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many guys enjoy having the toys played on them."

?-! Possibly Maybe !-?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've got a good collection and friends usually bring their favourite ones too. One even brought a large carrier bag full!

Anything that goes in stays with that woman or a condom is used on it if it's shared - like cocks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can always buy the 'one use' type toys. You can even get them in Tesco's and Sainsburys these days!

they had disposable vibrating cock rings for sale in my local poundland the other day - bargain!!"

How much were they Tobes???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can always buy the 'one use' type toys. You can even get them in Tesco's and Sainsburys these days!

they had disposable vibrating cock rings for sale in my local poundland the other day - bargain!!"

We got a cock ring and boy does it vibrate. Tried using it masturbating and the ring was fab on my clit but when we used it for fucking, naaaaaa spoiled all the feeling.

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