FabSwingers.com forum: Log on with out being online

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why cant we long on with out showing were online? I have a single fem account.

I just logged on to chat to my FB, and I get bombarded with new messages from new blokes. I po lightly said to one ,I cant stop and chat and got a load of abuse back!

Admin, can we have a stealth mode please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why cant we long on with out showing were online? I have a single fem account.

I just logged on to chat to my FB, and I get bombarded with new messages from new blokes. I po lightly said to one ,I cant stop and chat and got a load of abuse back!

Admin, can we have a stealth mode please.

Why dont you whatsapp him or something ..or hide your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why cant we long on with out showing were online? I have a single fem account.

I just logged on to chat to my FB, and I get bombarded with new messages from new blokes. I po lightly said to one ,I cant stop and chat and got a load of abuse back!

Admin, can we have a stealth mode please.

you know an optional stealth mode when online would be a great idea, save a lot of angst I think!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

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"Why cant we long on with out showing were online? I have a single fem account.

I just logged on to chat to my FB, and I get bombarded with new messages from new blokes. I po lightly said to one ,I cant stop and chat and got a load of abuse back!

Admin, can we have a stealth mode please.

just ignore and do what you came on here to do. crazy idea i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Briefly hide your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want messages from single men, use the filter feature to block those you don't wish to receive messages from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just ignore them - often pop on to message just one or two people - ignore eveything else until we are ready to deal with or delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just ignore them - often pop on to message just one or two people - ignore eveything else until we are ready to deal with or delete "

It's a great filter. It shows up the impatient ones that send more messages because you hadn't read the last one.

Easiest way is to delete men off your 'looking for' list and just put them back on when you do want mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at messages when I want to. Why not just ignore them if you aren't on to answer them? If people don't like it, tough....

We also just stay signed in constantly, so there is no on and off. I realize this isn't an option for everyone, but its easy to then tell people that we aren't always on when it says we are.

-Courtney

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