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By *bacus OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on Thames

Slow progress but just had second verification

It was a few months after the actual meeting as the lady wasnt on fab for a while and moved from London to the Midlands.

How many verications are needed till people accept i'm a genuine non timewasting nice guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow progress but just had second verification

It was a few months after the actual meeting as the lady wasnt on fab for a while and moved from London to the Midlands.

How many verications are needed till people accept i'm a genuine non timewasting nice guy?"

Peoples views on this site vary. Some don't consider that the verification system works and they have good reason to. Therefore they either don't trust anyone or they are willing to consider people without verification's, which perhaps is a positive for the site as a whole.

Others will rely on it, and ordinarily I suspect one or two is sufficient. Some will not meet unless you have numerous verification's and others require recent verification's.

In short, everyone is different but I suspect with two you will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think verifications are important but only the " meeting in person " ones .

As it shows people are genuine polite and not timewaisters or even worse some kind of weirdo .

I dont think anyone should take any notice of webcam verifications . And neither should u get a green tick for it .

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By *bacus OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on Thames

Both verifications are from meeting in person. Well far more than "meeting"!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Slow progress but just had second verification

It was a few months after the actual meeting as the lady wasnt on fab for a while and moved from London to the Midlands.

How many verications are needed till people accept i'm a genuine non timewasting nice guy?"

About 13 I reckon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll always be one more than you've got lol

But in seriousness 2 veris is fine in my opinion, shows you're genuine (at least to the extent that any veris can) so I think you're fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im told ive got too many !

So u really can't please everybody

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Personally don't give a sh*t about how many verifications a guy has, as long as he comes across decent, friendly and generally not a complete idiot.

Verifications mean different things to different people, some use it as a score card, others just to say 'yep s/he is who they say they are, turned up, blah blah blah'

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By *arkestDesires666Couple
over a year ago

linconshire

same with me and my partner.. we go on cam alot and have been told we are displaying to many verifications.. erm it is our profile we can do what we want.. personally i don't think there that important.... xx

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Both verifications are from meeting in person. Well far more than "meeting"!"

well done, verified twice is a lot more than some manage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel I need to prove I am genuine, cos I know I am lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here a little while and the fact I don't have any verifications is proving to be an obstacle so maybe it is a problem maybe it's just me lol but I don't know how to come across any more genuine with out any verifications lol so what should I do?

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Been on here a little while and the fact I don't have any verifications is proving to be an obstacle so maybe it is a problem maybe it's just me lol but I don't know how to come across any more genuine with out any verifications lol so what should I do? "

there's lots of profile advice on these forums, yours doesn't say a lot. Send decent intro messages having read profiles and make sure you are what you think they are looking for.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Been on here a little while and the fact I don't have any verifications is proving to be an obstacle so maybe it is a problem maybe it's just me lol but I don't know how to come across any more genuine with out any verifications lol so what should I do? "

How about going to a club or a social, you don't have to play but I've verified guys on here that I've met a few times (not played with) just for being decently behaved in a club and not being pushy. A verification doesn't have to be a shag review.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a little while and the fact I don't have any verifications is proving to be an obstacle so maybe it is a problem maybe it's just me lol but I don't know how to come across any more genuine with out any verifications lol so what should I do? "

How about actually make an attempt at writing a profile and add some photos?

I am willing to help people out but not when they are not willing to help themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a little while and the fact I don't have any verifications is proving to be an obstacle so maybe it is a problem maybe it's just me lol but I don't know how to come across any more genuine with out any verifications lol so what should I do?

How about going to a club or a social, you don't have to play but I've verified guys on here that I've met a few times (not played with) just for being decently behaved in a club and not being pushy. A verification doesn't have to be a shag review."

Good point, the verification will demonstrate you are who you say you are and you will turn up, which is what most people want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about getting a meet and having a genuine verification !

Nevermind clubs just be decent and non pushy ...

I hear blokes moaning how hard it is to get meets which is complete bollox ..

Stop blaming the site and look within .

Ve never struggled to get meets and im a minger .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met guys with no verifications at all, I've met guys with several

A verification won't make me want to meet somebody or make me feel they are more genuine the more they have

If I like somebody I'll meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally don't give a sh*t about how many verifications a guy has, as long as he comes across decent, friendly and generally not a complete idiot.

Verifications mean different things to different people, some use it as a score card, others just to say 'yep s/he is who they say they are, turned up, blah blah blah'"

Agree with you x

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

From a 10-second look my opinion is you're genuine, job done. Now just don't send twatty first messages

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