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comming out as bisexual ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im 28 and in definately bisexual im quite as happy being with a guy tv/ts or a women but no i know of knows this about me, is it something i need to tell people ?

Kind of like when people refer to it as comming "out" as gay ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one "needs" to know about your sexuality. If you are thinking of dating a man or tgirl it might be a good idea to mention it to your parents,so there's no surprises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im defo bi but would never tell my family or even friends its somethink u can never unsay once said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can honestly say i dont want a relationship with anyone ever people can say never say never but after a really really bad break up i can say i wont put my self in that position again and i dont talk about what i do or with whom i do anything with any way loose lips sink ships haha xx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

No need to tell anyone really. I do however, and I came out to my family, as being bi or more so pansexual, is a huge part of who I am.

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By *ananaPieCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm bi and my friends know about it. I didn't really come out to them. It just comes up in convo. No one cares and why should they? I wouldn't shout it out to people by saying randomly I'm Bi but if I wanted to say somthing about my ex or agree with someone that a guy looks hot then it naturally comes up.

Long and short, don't hide it but do you need to "come out"? Not really no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think telling people though would allow me to be me a little more freely and easily if you get me ? as apposed to trying to hide it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im defo bi but would never tell my family or even friends its somethink u can never unsay once said"

I agree. I'd think very carefully about the kind of place you live in, (small town for example), who your friends are and if they are homophobic, things like that. If you are at all unsure don't come out. You can never go back in the closet. People don't forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never come out in the real world. Not that I'm ashamed of who or what I am. Why shout it from the roof tops? Its my business, only mine and who I play with. Oh and everyone in the swinging world. One of my children has just come out to me. But I've not told them as they are under age, so I've done this to protect them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also think its easier for women to be seen as bi as apposed to men because of the "gay" label im definately not gay but im definately not straight either X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U don't have to tell everyone u could just tell ur clossed friend and leave it at that

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