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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So being a single male the first message most likely has to come from me, I get that but what do you out for the subject and the message.

I've been polite, introduced myself, said what I oike...

I've made a compliment on how they look...

I've tried most things but yet it just gets read or deleted haha

Any suggestions thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have haha I've been on here for a while I don't mind waiting but people don't give you the chance haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need patience "

A great man once said that! (Lots)

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"You need patience

A great man once said that! (Lots) "

They'll look at your pic before even bothering to read your message....get rid of the cock pic for fuck sake!! ...when will some guys learn...or am I wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need patience

A great man once said that! (Lots) "

I know but I beat him to it for once!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need patience

A great man once said that! (Lots)

They'll look at your pic before even bothering to read your message....get rid of the cock pic for fuck sake!! ...when will some guys learn...or am I wrong?? "

Advice taken thanks

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"You need patience

A great man once said that! (Lots)

They'll look at your pic before even bothering to read your message....get rid of the cock pic for fuck sake!! ...when will some guys learn...or am I wrong??

Advice taken thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So being a single male the first message most likely has to come from me, I get that but what do you out for the subject and the message.

I've been polite, introduced myself, said what I oike...

I've made a compliment on how they look...

I've tried most things but yet it just gets read or deleted haha

Any suggestions thanks "
have you tried flowers and chocolates they love that

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"So being a single male the first message most likely has to come from me, I get that but what do you out for the subject and the message.

I've been polite, introduced myself, said what I oike...

I've made a compliment on how they look...

I've tried most things but yet it just gets read or deleted haha

Any suggestions thanks have you tried flowers and chocolates they love that "

Ssssh...stop giving the tricks of the trade away...they'll all cotton on to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So being a single male the first message most likely has to come from me, I get that but what do you out for the subject and the message.

I've been polite, introduced myself, said what I oike...

I've made a compliment on how they look...

I've tried most things but yet it just gets read or deleted haha

Any suggestions thanks "

First suggestion, lower your expectations of a response.

I have relatively good number of responses, but if you're not what they're looking for, they won't respond.

Put yourself in their shoes, they can have 100+ messages unread when they log in. If they politely respond to each one, they'll never have any fun themselves.

Just say hi, attach pics, and then a short couple of lines saying why you think you would be suited for them. Show you have read their profile too.

They also see many, many cock pics, so try not to only have that to attach.

Hope that helps

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Refrain from one liners saying... Mmm how big they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, if they have 'read' your message and not replied or deleted it, even though you think you're a good match - they may still be interested and have put you on their hotlist. Provided you meet their criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make it eaay for them tell me the song and band in my lyrics and you always get a response lol

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Am a woman within your age range (over 18 and under 99) but I wouldn't read your first message as your pictures of cock, cock and cock have no appeal to me.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"I have haha I've been on here for a while I don't mind waiting but people don't give you the chance haha"

8 weeks isn't long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So being a single male the first message most likely has to come from me, I get that but what do you out for the subject and the message.

I've been polite, introduced myself, said what I oike...

I've made a compliment on how they look...

I've tried most things but yet it just gets read or deleted haha

Any suggestions thanks have you tried flowers and chocolates they love that "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great man aren't we all

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"A great man aren't we all "

Let's give the poor guy a break..lol...he did take on board what I suggested early on in the thread.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

My advice to you would be, once you find that magic combination of words. Keep it to yourself, I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty obvious but read their profile if you aren't already. Use what is written in there in your message and your response rate will go up as you will know it isn't just a copy pasted spam message

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